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cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:25 PM Mar 2013

I find it very interesting that people with first world problems

would deign to lecture DU and the world about a woman who, by stripping to the waist and challenging the religious extremists who run her entire fucking world, and will probably kill her for it...(Not unlike the attempt on that little girl who got shot in the head for pushing the idea that girls should be able to GO TO FUCKING SCHOOL)..

I find it interesting that there are people here who would compare HER to what a stripper does.


I find it interesting that, like the Monk who set himself on fire for his belief against the war in Vietnam, that this woman might have done just the same thing...and NONE of the 'champions of feminism' get how much those two human beings are alike.

I find it interesting that there are self proclaimed champions of feminism who's big fucking deal here is to post a couple of shots of naked people in San Fran and DARE to equate one with the other.

First world problems: There are boobie stories and then there's REALLY confronting a patriarchy who will decapitate your ass for stripping to the waist.

Or bury you to the shoulders and then have people throw rocks at your head until you are mush from the clavicles, up.

At this point my contempt and cynicism knows no bounds.

Lost a couple of people I have previously admired today.

As usual, YMMV



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I find it very interesting that people with first world problems (Original Post) cliffordu Mar 2013 OP
I wish I could recommend this more than once nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #1
Thanks, kiddo - cliffordu Mar 2013 #5
I got your number two, Nadin. NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #123
Thanks, my friend. cliffordu Mar 2013 #212
+1000 Cleita Mar 2013 #2
Thanks - cliffordu Mar 2013 #6
All those women, who have been participating in the Arab spring demonstrations Cleita Mar 2013 #41
Me too. My god. Me too. cliffordu Mar 2013 #58
People on Facebook can sign this petition... Kurovski Mar 2013 #176
Just did it. THANKS FOR THE LINK. cliffordu Mar 2013 #211
Excellent post Richardo Mar 2013 #3
Thanks. cliffordu Mar 2013 #116
Been away all day and haven't seen em, but I can believe there might be a few Benton D Struckcheon Mar 2013 #4
I 've done some stupid stuff that could be misinterpreted as courage cliffordu Mar 2013 #7
Rec. To some, 'real' courage is running to the internet... Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #8
And they will NEVER do anything other than 'educate' cliffordu Mar 2013 #20
Very true and well said Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #27
Yep. cliffordu Mar 2013 #112
Perfect imagery. You said it. That's how it feels. loudsue Mar 2013 #275
ms. tyler is going to be murdered? HiPointDem Mar 2013 #252
You'll no doubt find this difficult to believe, but you don't understand. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2013 #9
I've been reading all goddamned day. cliffordu Mar 2013 #14
Horseshit. I just looked, and I still don't see any posts like you're claiming. opiate69 Mar 2013 #16
lol. Your sig says it all. cliffordu Mar 2013 #34
heh.. opiate69 Mar 2013 #38
The thread I read only got *3* posts in before someone cast aspersions on Amina. Richardo Mar 2013 #23
Can you pint to that reply please? idwiyo Mar 2013 #26
I'm not sure what thread you were reading LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #134
as opposed to the well-informed OP, who claims tunisia is a country ruled by fundamentalists HiPointDem Mar 2013 #254
There's this from Femen... Kurovski Mar 2013 #177
I completely agree. cali Mar 2013 #10
Cali, you are one of my favorite humans here. cliffordu Mar 2013 #11
oh dear. what am I doing wrong? cali Mar 2013 #18
Well....Now you're part of the clown car.... cliffordu Mar 2013 #21
Not in my book. davidthegnome Mar 2013 #65
LOL Kurovski Mar 2013 #179
Personally, I love cantankerous Cali. nt Bonobo Mar 2013 #232
Unfortunately, I think people have a tendency to view the world through the prism created hughee99 Mar 2013 #12
Hear hear UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #13
You spoke what many of us thought Curmudgeoness Mar 2013 #15
Thank you for this! Common sense and a little empathy come in handy, occasionally. nt. polly7 Mar 2013 #17
K&R I stayed away from "feminist" threads until today. Until I saw these hypocrites belittle and idwiyo Mar 2013 #19
Some folks are not truly interested in talking about sexism The Straight Story Mar 2013 #22
What you said. Word. cliffordu Mar 2013 #24
Some are more interested in their righteous outrage than working out our rhett o rick Mar 2013 #31
May I make a suggestion here? zeemike Mar 2013 #85
I couldn't agree more. Thanks for this. cliffordu Mar 2013 #99
I think you are right about that. liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #164
You nailed it here. alp227 Mar 2013 #108
Very well said. I don't need the drama so I leave them to do their thing Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #160
I myself stay out of many of the sexism threads. liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #163
What the hell happened? WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #25
GD hosts allowed a vacant 'whining about DU' meta-forum call-out to linger all day cthulu2016 Mar 2013 #29
Link? WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #37
Below idwiyo Mar 2013 #42
Thanks WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #45
Cheers! idwiyo Mar 2013 #47
I'm wrong... fadedrose Mar 2013 #257
i'll try cthulu2016 Mar 2013 #51
Post removed Post removed Mar 2013 #247
I have to agree with you on this one. /nt Marr Mar 2013 #28
K&R. It's just modern day puritanism LittleBlue Mar 2013 #30
I get sick of people claiming nudity cheapens your cause no matter what it is.... Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2013 #32
What you said. cliffordu Mar 2013 #92
I remember a lot of shit on DU around the Iraq War Protests, about haircuts and not wearing tiedye. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #317
Then there were the "You just want to relive the 60's" crap.... Spitfire of ATJ Apr 2013 #320
They have certainly shown that they've missed the point. Warpy Mar 2013 #33
Thanks for posting. nm rhett o rick Mar 2013 #35
I'm not putting down the woman, putting down the reactions from people who's only reaction was bettyellen Mar 2013 #36
Links? idwiyo Mar 2013 #46
I'm sure those will be forthcoming as soon as someone actually does what she described... n/t Gore1FL Mar 2013 #147
I'll be waiting a long, long time then... Not surprised of course, because I knew thee wouldn't be idwiyo Mar 2013 #233
So what? (cont) Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #167
many guys here, who do nothing but argue with feminist all day are putting this woman on a pedestal bettyellen Mar 2013 #171
If so, at least they are carrying and praising rather than condemning Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #174
I think you missed her point, but in any case, I think the word you want is "caring", not "carrying" whathehell Mar 2013 #277
... Summer Hathaway Mar 2013 #214
Thank you. whathehell Mar 2013 #265
it's so very faux, it's hilarious bettyellen Mar 2013 #286
This was nothing to do with Amina. dawg Mar 2013 #39
For me, Amina is what it was ALL about. polly7 Mar 2013 #40
Because I believe it, that's why. dawg Mar 2013 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2013 #48
While I agree some we're upset with the language of in the title of the thread maddezmom Mar 2013 #44
And that's a valid point for discussion. dawg Mar 2013 #50
The posting of the images? That didn't happen until 190+ posts into the thread.. opiate69 Mar 2013 #53
Yes, but I think that's what put it over the top. dawg Mar 2013 #54
Not following how it shows disregard for them... opiate69 Mar 2013 #59
Because I don't think they bared their breasts for the purpose of ... dawg Mar 2013 #64
The only women here who were offended over pictures polly7 Mar 2013 #75
There is a lot of history on DU between some of the feminists and some of the men ... dawg Mar 2013 #82
I disagree. polly7 Mar 2013 #86
We all have our different takes and viewpoints on things. That's what makes life interesting. dawg Mar 2013 #90
That's the kind of society we all want. polly7 Mar 2013 #93
Yes, but can we talk about male privilege at all without being accused of demonizing men? antigone382 Mar 2013 #122
Thank you for such a well-thought out post and all of the great points. polly7 Mar 2013 #181
yes- they criticized the necessity for that tactic, not her. OP is BULLSHIT. bettyellen Mar 2013 #149
Message auto-removed MoclipsHumptulips Mar 2013 #250
You are exactly right in one regard: cliffordu Mar 2013 #49
The young woman is very brave. But some first world feminists are just tired .. dawg Mar 2013 #52
HER struggle and statement didn't start the shitstorm cliffordu Mar 2013 #56
thanks for being honest, this OP is quite the pile of bullshit bettyellen Mar 2013 #113
Defensive, much? cliffordu Mar 2013 #125
it was men who came out 6-7 posts in with "I likee" and "Ohh, two points" making fun of her body. bettyellen Mar 2013 #148
None of the men in MY life did that. cliffordu Mar 2013 #168
Ha ha "all you can do is complain about a couple of boneheads on DU" is YOUR OP, is it not? bettyellen Mar 2013 #172
It's nice to see that someone is paying attention. redqueen Mar 2013 #299
Damn Clifford... 99Forever Mar 2013 #55
I wish it could save her. cliffordu Mar 2013 #57
I hear you there. 99Forever Mar 2013 #61
how about those who decided making Titty Jokes or talkng about how they like them JI7 Mar 2013 #60
I condemn them equally. cliffordu Mar 2013 #62
Where are these posts? Because, again, I just looked and saw nothing.. opiate69 Mar 2013 #63
In the original OP - which escapes me right now, cliffordu Mar 2013 #67
in this OP? opiate69 Mar 2013 #72
Maybe. I lost track after the third (or fourth) OP about this and the resultant cliffordu Mar 2013 #76
Ahh.. ok.. I don't remember seeing the other threads.. maybe JI7 will answer me? opiate69 Mar 2013 #78
.... JI7 Mar 2013 #111
OMG!! THE HORROR!!! opiate69 Mar 2013 #118
a woman is risking her LIFE ,i'm responding to the OP JI7 Mar 2013 #119
And then you went on to falsely claim that the original OP was rife with "titty jokes" etc. opiate69 Mar 2013 #120
no, i posted the wrong link, i had to edit to post the one with that picture JI7 Mar 2013 #124
Please... UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #128
i don't see how it is ok either way JI7 Mar 2013 #133
So you agree that you lied about his post? UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #136
i didn't lie about anything , i guess it's as the OP says about first world problems JI7 Mar 2013 #137
Just keep twisting the truth into a pretzel. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #139
your the one who said the intent is to ridicule women JI7 Mar 2013 #142
A woman is risking her life and we get: LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #152
those people roundly deserve condemnation La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #69
What's Wrong with what a Stripper Does ? maybe that's the only way she is able to make money JI7 Mar 2013 #66
Um....No. Mebbe you should search my posts for my cliffordu Mar 2013 #73
so why the outrage over the thought she might be compared to a stripper ? JI7 Mar 2013 #77
Because of ALL the things this woman did, she didn't 'strip' cliffordu Mar 2013 #84
why can't you comprehend it ? JI7 Mar 2013 #88
Hm.... cliffordu Mar 2013 #91
i said this somewhere else but her message is in keeping with her choice of messaging La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #68
Agreed. n/t tammywammy Mar 2013 #70
^^^^^^^^~THIS~^^^^^^^^^ cliffordu Mar 2013 #74
+1000 Richardo Mar 2013 #79
but teh pronification! JVS Mar 2013 #80
... Summer Hathaway Mar 2013 #215
Try telling that to seabeyond. 2ndAmForComputers Mar 2013 #297
Powerful. RevStPatrick Mar 2013 #71
Feminists have fought among themselves treestar Mar 2013 #81
What you said. cliffordu Mar 2013 #83
Liberals fight among themselves. Conservatives fight among themselves. DUers fight among themselves whathehell Mar 2013 #278
You can say that again! treestar Mar 2013 #290
Took me some time to catch up to speed since I wasn't online all day riderinthestorm Mar 2013 #87
Thanks for clarifying it. Thanks for getting it. cliffordu Mar 2013 #89
Perfect post. I agree completely. Number23 Mar 2013 #106
IT makes ME believe it might be done deliberately..... cliffordu Mar 2013 #114
It IS deliberate. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #135
I finally found what you are referencing and all I can say is Autumn Mar 2013 #94
Thank you. cliffordu Mar 2013 #96
This message was self-deleted by its author Autumn Mar 2013 #98
Also Malala Yousafzai LittleBlue Mar 2013 #107
This message was self-deleted by its author Autumn Mar 2013 #109
lol. tunisia has topless beaches, 50+ years of secular government, & more women in its congress HiPointDem Mar 2013 #255
Oh good grief, I just read the article and didn't look for more info Autumn Mar 2013 #280
This is now on the front page as one of the top five greatest threads. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #95
Holy shit. cliffordu Mar 2013 #97
Outstanding Yavin4 Mar 2013 #100
Thank you. cliffordu Mar 2013 #101
Many DU Posters Completely Missed The Point of Her Photo Yavin4 Mar 2013 #105
you mean the ones who posted pics of rounded mountains and other breast like formations? bettyellen Mar 2013 #115
Yes, exactly. Them, too. cliffordu Mar 2013 #117
The Knee Jerks Both Ways When It Reacts n/t Yavin4 Mar 2013 #121
As you well know, they were ridiculing HoF, UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #132
Bingo LittleBlue Mar 2013 #138
I'd say they can both be problems. antigone382 Mar 2013 #144
yep, "small-minded fucks who deserve their share of condemnation" for trivializing her actions. bettyellen Mar 2013 #146
In the same way that stage 4 brain cancer LittleBlue Mar 2013 #151
in the way 4 stage brain cancer equals annoyance at a thread? bettyellen Mar 2013 #156
In the way that death threats LittleBlue Mar 2013 #157
Message auto-removed MoclipsHumptulips Mar 2013 #248
no, they were ridiculing all women by responding to an activist with leers bettyellen Mar 2013 #150
HoF represents all women? UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #153
posting stupid shit like leering at this activist makes DU suck for all women bettyellen Mar 2013 #155
HoF doesn't pick fights? UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #158
"she did it first!, Waaaaaah" pretending you give a shit about a protester in Tunisia bettyellen Mar 2013 #287
Not true, Betty Yellin'. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #289
ha ha. I like that. even though I never yell, and avoid yellers like the plague. bettyellen Mar 2013 #294
Well said tavalon Mar 2013 #102
Thank you, Tavalon- cliffordu Mar 2013 #103
Okay, it was at 49 recs and then I rec'd and it jumped to 89 in the 20 mins it took me to read Number23 Mar 2013 #104
Thanks. cliffordu Mar 2013 #110
Amina is a great artist whose courage is as amazing as her message is righteous. Bluenorthwest Mar 2013 #126
I just hope she lives. cliffordu Mar 2013 #130
The usual outrage brigade was active today? Apophis Mar 2013 #127
Over the top. Epic, really. cliffordu Mar 2013 #131
I didn't mean you. Apophis Mar 2013 #141
I got that - cliffordu Mar 2013 #192
The usual suspects - I try to keep myself under their radar NBachers Mar 2013 #140
Yep LittleBlue Mar 2013 #145
Rec. Thank you. n/t LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #129
I had to look up what you were talking about . . . MrModerate Mar 2013 #143
Wow. Well said! liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #154
Kick and Rec! n/t zappaman Mar 2013 #159
K&R: excellent post. Brave woman. caseymoz Mar 2013 #161
Me too. Her bravery leaves me cliffordu Mar 2013 #166
"none of them"---that is a roody Mar 2013 #162
In what regard?? cliffordu Mar 2013 #165
"NONE of the champions of feminism get..." roody Mar 2013 #288
Perfect! Phlem Mar 2013 #169
Thanks cliffordu Mar 2013 #170
Cliffordu is back grantcart Mar 2013 #173
K&R Kurovski Mar 2013 #175
Perfectly said, thank you! sabrina 1 Mar 2013 #178
I hope she can get out of the country to England or France. cliffordu Mar 2013 #207
You're being extremely judgemental against people you've never met. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #180
Are people actually stoned here for baring their breasts? polly7 Mar 2013 #182
None of that has anything to do with the arguements being made. nt ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #184
Then what's the problem you have with the thread? nt. polly7 Mar 2013 #185
I stated my problems with the thread with my first reply. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #186
Bogus posits, both. cliffordu Mar 2013 #187
If I'm wrong, then explain why. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #189
Ah, well .... I guess I still don't get the problem, the OP seemed pretty accurate, imo. polly7 Mar 2013 #188
Then you don't understand the arguments being made. nt ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #190
Yeah I just said that. But I don't care much if you don't. nt. polly7 Mar 2013 #191
Ah, sorry, I misunderstood your post. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #193
She was angry at the 'pornification for the menz' in the thread about polly7 Mar 2013 #197
Actually, it has EVERYTHING to do with the arguments being made. cliffordu Mar 2013 #195
Seabeyond's OP was about posting political-based nude pics on DU. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #196
I dunno which post you are referring to. cliffordu Mar 2013 #198
I was talking about the San Francisco OP you mentioned in your OP. nt ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #199
Ah, yes, you mean the photos and the OP cliffordu Mar 2013 #203
Except for your interpration of seabeyond's post, I agree with your post. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #303
Nope.. it was in retaliation for the failed alert on this post: opiate69 Mar 2013 #200
I did not know about the alert, but I did know her OP was based off of the nude pics posted on DU. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #201
Disagree... opiate69 Mar 2013 #204
Yep. Exactly. cliffordu Mar 2013 #206
I think you purposefully cut off the first part of that quote to make it fit your claim better. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #300
I never claimed it wasn't about DU.. the fact remains, that she tried to conflate the differing opiate69 Mar 2013 #301
If there was only one context, then I would agree with you. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #309
The original context is still what's important though.. I mean.. opiate69 Mar 2013 #310
Posting any nude pics on DU is risky as far as the jury and the tos is concerned. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #311
Those are art. political art. Kurovski Mar 2013 #213
they're not stoned in tunisia, either or any of that other crap. maybe you should read up about HiPointDem Mar 2013 #258
I'm talking about women all over NA, the ME and parts of the world who polly7 Mar 2013 #279
yeah, sure, polly HiPointDem Mar 2013 #281
As long as 'I'm' sure, that's all that matters. Now carry on with your poutrage. nt. polly7 Mar 2013 #282
Did one of the fundie honchos call for her death by stoning or not? cliffordu Mar 2013 #296
Does he have any power to enforce his opinion? No more than fred phelps does. BTW, did you HiPointDem Mar 2013 #313
This message was self-deleted by its author Kurovski Mar 2013 #234
On DU, Kurovski Mar 2013 #183
No shit. Kinda epic for a post - META DU world.... cliffordu Mar 2013 #194
yup, its rather ironic that a small sub-group, one that likes to lecture other duers often, quinnox Mar 2013 #202
That's right. cliffordu Mar 2013 #205
wait, weren't you upset about criticism of the Vatican/Pope ? JI7 Mar 2013 #208
it's rather ironic that the brave fighters against patriarchy think tunisia forbids education to HiPointDem Mar 2013 #273
K&R Bobbie Jo Mar 2013 #209
Thanks. cliffordu Mar 2013 #210
When you have something to say Summer Hathaway Mar 2013 #216
Thank you, Summer. cliffordu Mar 2013 #217
Oh, the delicious irony to be savoured Summer Hathaway Mar 2013 #223
Yeppers.... cliffordu Mar 2013 #224
Sharia Law? Trascoli Mar 2013 #218
Yep. Pretty much. cliffordu Mar 2013 #219
how common a last name is 'tyler' in tunisia? and why were most of amina's naked messages HiPointDem Mar 2013 #220
tunisia doesn't have sharia law. but maybe this controversy offers red meat to those interests. HiPointDem Mar 2013 #221
Thanks for this! It clarifies some of my own cliffordu Mar 2013 #222
and again, i ask: what's the terrible danger you claim she's facing and how common a last name HiPointDem Mar 2013 #225
You could be right in your implication.... cliffordu Mar 2013 #226
you claimed religious fundamentalists "run her entire world". They clearly don't. I have friends HiPointDem Mar 2013 #227
This is fine with me. cliffordu Mar 2013 #228
i was wondering about this because i have met some women from some of these countries JI7 Mar 2013 #235
prior to the 2011 'revolution' female headcovering was officially discouraged. the government HiPointDem Mar 2013 #236
Tunisian Opposition Leader: Islamists Fail at Consensus UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #240
And all that discussion has to do with post-2011 developments. Tunisia had its 'color revolution' HiPointDem Mar 2013 #241
Be that as it may, she's not quite as safe as you were claiming. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #243
Ms. Tyler is perfectly safe. HiPointDem Mar 2013 #244
Even from your article it doesn't sound like she's "perfectly safe". UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #249
well, you let me know when the "islamic fundamentalists who rule her world" kill her. i won't hold HiPointDem Mar 2013 #251
Do you not believe that there are Islamic fundamentalists who would kill her? DisgustipatedinCA Mar 2013 #298
There are probably christian fundies who would kill people here in the US. But they're not HiPointDem Mar 2013 #314
No, I'm not sick enough to bet on whether she lives or dies DisgustipatedinCA Mar 2013 #315
what woman is, anywhere? n/t Whisp Mar 2013 #292
My mother here in this house, right now. She's safe. Kurovski Mar 2013 #307
Posting it here too. In reference to your new OP idwiyo Mar 2013 #259
i don't need your 'background', nor your straw men, thanks anyway. HiPointDem Mar 2013 #260
Meaning of your reply: I made a lot of wild speculations, how dare you to question me! idwiyo Mar 2013 #261
lol. i made no wild speculations whatsoever. in contrast to the OPs picture of women in tunisia HiPointDem Mar 2013 #262
You will not reply to me because you made a lot of unsupported claims. No other reason. idwiyo Mar 2013 #263
I *did* reply to you. I will not continue to engage you because your discussion style is not HiPointDem Mar 2013 #266
You made another accusation without any evidence to support it. How am I dishonest? idwiyo Mar 2013 #283
Some people wake up in the morning, and the only thing on their to-do list is "Lecture DU" Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #229
maybe people who claim tunisian women are in danger of being stoned need to be lectured, HiPointDem Mar 2013 #237
The folks threatened by the thought that someone, somewhere, might see a nekkid boob and enjoy it Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #239
yeah, i mean, of all the issues, people who are offended by public nudity is clearly one of the HiPointDem Mar 2013 #242
given by the amount of hand-wringing it gets on DU, yeah, apparently nudity is a big problem. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #267
their handwringing has its mirror in you. HiPointDem Mar 2013 #271
So? Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #272
'handwringing' doesn't make something an important issue. HiPointDem Mar 2013 #274
The First Amendment has always been and will always be a front burner issue for me. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #305
Message auto-removed MoclipsHumptulips Mar 2013 #246
You came back just to tell me that? Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #268
Is your issue with the stoned part and not the threats on her life? Number23 Mar 2013 #306
Thank you. a la izquierda Mar 2013 #230
Rec. nt Bonobo Mar 2013 #231
No one is really criticizing the Tunisian woman. I'm not, anyways. Evoman Mar 2013 #238
I hope you're not including me in that blanket statement. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #245
Message auto-removed MoclipsHumptulips Mar 2013 #253
I SAW IT! I SAW IT! NOOOOO! MY EYES! I SAW IT! Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #270
Wow, another man who is paying attention. Thank you. redqueen Apr 2013 #322
Thank you for putting into words... Cali_Democrat Mar 2013 #256
I find it interesting that men who have no idea of what it is to be female in ANY world whathehell Mar 2013 #264
Well good for you. cliffordu Mar 2013 #284
Yes, and "good for you" my First World man, on being so cluelessly arrogant whathehell Apr 2013 #325
Thank you for your instructive and educational cliffordu Apr 2013 #326
Please...Had it not been for your pomposity & utter tone-deafness, I could never have done it! whathehell Apr 2013 #332
the only reson they are propping this up as a martyr is to flog others here.... bettyellen Mar 2013 #293
First World White Men tell women "Don't complain"...Yes, the arrogance is hilarious whathehell Apr 2013 #323
many, if not most of us are not lecturing, but simply stating our opinions quinnox Apr 2013 #321
Maybe, but the OP wouldn't be one of those...His post is almost comically pompous, not to mention whathehell Apr 2013 #324
I'm repulsed by the fake display of concern for this protester.... bettyellen Apr 2013 #329
Yes..It's "what happens when you marry a heap of ignorance on feminist issues with a grand whathehell Apr 2013 #330
did I bump my head? sendero Mar 2013 #269
Every so often, Turbineguy Mar 2013 #276
The reason why she did this was to generate outrage and discussion. Buzz Clik Mar 2013 #285
Enthusiastic K&R Raine1967 Mar 2013 #291
Thank you, Raine. cliffordu Mar 2013 #295
The women of FEMEN are courageous! nt TheBlackAdder Mar 2013 #302
No, they are just naked. kwassa Mar 2013 #308
naked and courageous are not mutually exclusive. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #316
Here's a thread that was posted in an adult manner, without offensive titles. CrispyQ Mar 2013 #304
amen arely staircase Mar 2013 #312
I admire bravery and women who are badass enough DevonRex Apr 2013 #318
Having a bit of difficulty at what you're getting at with the last line. cliffordu Apr 2013 #319
I am agreeing with you. DevonRex Apr 2013 #327
Ah, gotcha, thanks cliffordu Apr 2013 #328
Nicely done. Puglover Apr 2013 #331

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
6. Thanks -
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:46 PM
Mar 2013

I am afraid they will kill Amina. She has broken a taboo that few in THIS world understand.

More than just taking off your shirt.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
41. All those women, who have been participating in the Arab spring demonstrations
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:20 PM
Mar 2013

across North Africa are extremely brave. They know they are 59% vulnerable to be killed, but she is 99%. I wish there was some way to get her to safety.

Benton D Struckcheon

(2,347 posts)
4. Been away all day and haven't seen em, but I can believe there might be a few
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:38 PM
Mar 2013

Like the other one said, I'd rec it more than once if I could. I heard this story on the news this morning and I know she must be part of that group started by that Russian woman (don't remember the name right now) and thought to myself, Oh Lawd, this one is not going to live through it.
I hope she does, but let me say that her courage is beyond amazing. Some of us understand what that took.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
7. I 've done some stupid stuff that could be misinterpreted as courage
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:48 PM
Mar 2013

But I don't possess her ~real~ courage.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
8. Rec. To some, 'real' courage is running to the internet...
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:51 PM
Mar 2013

To complain about overheard dongle jokes. Like the Taliban or Teahadist, they know what's best for everyone and they aren not afraid to say so. Just not to your face.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
20. And they will NEVER do anything other than 'educate'
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:05 PM
Mar 2013

Amina is going to be murdered pretty soon for what she has done.

Here, it gets reduced to strippers and boobies and the rest of the lurid garbage that passes for the struggle against the patriarchy.

Amina IS the struggle against the patriarchy and even the feminists here reduce her to her aureoles.

We should ALL be ashamed.

Amina has more raw guts than anyone I have ever met in person.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
27. Very true and well said
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:12 PM
Mar 2013

One thing I have generally found to be true is that the things people complain the loudest about in others, the crusades they champion, are all too often a reflection rather than a window. Here we have Amina -- a proud and powerful woman -- a freaking HERO. She doesn't hate herself or her womanhood. She is standing up to the most sinister and evil force on the planet and sticking it in their face. And some here, who should be cheering her on, are clutching their burkas and wagging their fingers.

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
275. Perfect imagery. You said it. That's how it feels.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 08:01 AM
Mar 2013

It's been pretty pathetic listening to that crap.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
252. ms. tyler is going to be murdered?
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:27 AM
Mar 2013

no, actually, the leader of tunisia's secular opposition was murdered, after the US-supported 2011 'color revolution' which opened the door to fundamentalism and neoliberalism.

and *this* is a brave woman: because she's nobody and isn't invited on TV shows, and doesn't make the western papers, unlike Ms. Tyler.



A woman chants slogans and holds pictures of assassinated leftist politician Chokri Belaid during a demonstration against the Islamist Ennahda movement in Tunis February 23, 2013. REUTERS/Zoubeir Souissi

But don't expect the brave boob-defenders here to mention any of this:

The party of assassinated Tunisian politician Chokri Belaid will ask the U.N. Human Rights Council to investigate his killing because it lacks confidence in the judiciary's handling of the case, its leaders said on Monday.

The secular opposition leader's assassination on February 6 provoked the biggest street protests in Tunisia since the overthrow of strongman Zine al-Abidine Ben Ali two years ago.

"We agreed ... to go to the Human Rights Council in Geneva to request an investigation into the killing of Belaid because we have doubts in the Tunisian judiciary," Zied Lakhdar a leader in the Democratic Patriots Party, told Reuters.

"We believe that the investigation was not serious and there is a lot of ambiguity and doubts," he added.

Tunisian authorities say they have arrested four hardline Salafi Islamists in connection with the killing, but that the gunman who fired the fatal bullets is still on the run.

Tunisia's moderate Islamist ruling party Ennahda has denied accusations by some of its opponents, including Belaid's brother, that it was involved in the assassination.

http://www.newsdaily.com/stories/bre92a0nr-us-tunisia-assassination-un/


fucking psyops.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
9. You'll no doubt find this difficult to believe, but you don't understand.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:51 PM
Mar 2013

When that thread was first posted today, I don't think we were ten responses in before we saw the first "oh boy! titties!" comment. THAT'S your fucking first world problem - right there, bucko. Deride the feminists all you want, we know it when we see it.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
134. I'm not sure what thread you were reading
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:40 PM
Mar 2013

In the thread the rest of us were reading, two of the first ten responses were other women blasting away at what Amina was doing, without apparently having even read the article. THAT'S your first world problem, right there.

they strip down using nudity to get attention and PERFORM for the men and their crude, degrading jokes and giggles flashing their camera and that is as far as it gets.

these women are used for a tool, just as womens sexuality is held up as a tool for men in all things.

these women do damage to womens movement in many ways. and the men recognize this, hence continual OPs on it to put du women in their place.


Do you think that describes what this activist did? Do you think that's a fair description of the climate in Tunisia- men wanting women to strip down and perform? Do you feel that the Islamic men in her country have giggled and made jokes, but that's as far as it got?

If your answer to any of those questions was Yes, then no, you don't have the first clue when you see it.
 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
254. as opposed to the well-informed OP, who claims tunisia is a country ruled by fundamentalists
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:03 AM
Mar 2013

who stone women?

heal thyself, ignorant physician.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
177. There's this from Femen...
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:32 AM
Mar 2013

"...Femen’s work, like the best art, is entirely dependent on your response. If you care to react abusively or pig-headedly to what amounts to several pairs of naked breasts being used for the most noble of goals – the emancipation of women – then go ahead. All you’re doing is proving Femen’s point, over and over again."

http://www.newstatesman.com/lifestyle/society/2013/03/if-women-have-get-their-tits-out-make-point-so-be-it

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
18. oh dear. what am I doing wrong?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:02 PM
Mar 2013

Just kidding, but I'm aware that I'm one of the least popular people here.

thanks for posting the op.

davidthegnome

(2,983 posts)
65. Not in my book.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:50 PM
Mar 2013

I've never seen you as one of the least popular. One of the most intelligent, maybe, one of the most human, definitely. My post count isn't terribly high compared to some others - considering how long I've been here, I prefer to read more than I post. I am definitely a fan of your posts though. I suspect that if we took an honest poll, you'd be one of the most loved people here - there's a lot of us that read more than we post.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
12. Unfortunately, I think people have a tendency to view the world through the prism created
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:54 PM
Mar 2013

by their own issues, and look at current events as a way to introduce their issues into the discussion. Sometimes the issues closely relate to the discussion, sometimes they're only tangential, and sometimes you get the old "why are we (talking about/spending money on/concerned with) "x" when we should be doing that with "y", which is just a slightly less crass way of shitting on someone else's thread.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
15. You spoke what many of us thought
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 06:57 PM
Mar 2013

and you spoke it well. I have no experience that I can equate to what she has done. I am humbled.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
19. K&R I stayed away from "feminist" threads until today. Until I saw these hypocrites belittle and
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:04 PM
Mar 2013

attack this brave and wonderful lady and FEMEM because it doesn't meet with their approval. Hypocrites are pissed off because they can't CONTROL what other people do. Hence multiple posts, hissy fits, beating on the chests, you damn name it. Am disgusted.



The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
22. Some folks are not truly interested in talking about sexism
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:07 PM
Mar 2013

but want to spend their time kicking the asses of their allies and finding any way possible to tell others that they are sexist and don't understand.

Story after story can be posted here about sexism but a small vocal few will only jump in when they feel like they were offended or might be offended to tell those same people who are bringing things to light that they are the problem. They don't kick threads in GD about sexism unless they want to join a thread to bash fellow posters.

Those few hurt the very cause they claim to care so much about. Progressive folks here who have their back on the issues are run down time and time again and are made out to be the enemy.

It becomes a joke, which leads to snark, and people not caring to join in on real discussions because they are not pure enough.

We have some fine folks here fighting against sexism, racism, homophobia, rw nut jobs in general - but to some we are all just the enemy who are ignorant and need schooled and bashed.

And folks like me become jaded dicks (oh shit - I said dicks, which refers to men, which means something - just not sure what yet. I am sure someone will be along soon to tell me that my use of that word makes me something. Thank god I didn't say dongle, that would expose me as a woman hater that wants all women to get me beers and stay in the kitchen) after awhile. And those who care the most about feminism and equal rights sit quietly by out of fear of being bullied by said few posters over and over and over again.







zeemike

(18,998 posts)
85. May I make a suggestion here?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:18 PM
Mar 2013

That we stop "fighting against sexism, racism, homophobia, rw nut jobs in general" and start fighting FOR equal rights.

MLK did not fight against racism, he fought FOR equal rights...never did he try to tell people to not call him a nigger...
It was the whole meaning behind "keep your eyes on the prize"

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
163. I myself stay out of many of the sexism threads.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 11:09 PM
Mar 2013

It is an important issue, but always leads to the same insults. It seems pointless.

 

WilliamPitt

(58,179 posts)
25. What the hell happened?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:10 PM
Mar 2013

I've been watching the subtext all day, but totally missed where all this started. Help?

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
29. GD hosts allowed a vacant 'whining about DU' meta-forum call-out to linger all day
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:12 PM
Mar 2013

The rest is history

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
51. i'll try
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:28 PM
Mar 2013

This:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041

(The controversial headline is from the article, not something the OP made up)

Prompted this pure meta "Oh noes, my alert failed" (reading between the lines) call-out:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2583294

Had that attention-seeking post been locked the thing might have been contained in the discussion of the original post where people could talk to each other, instead of about each other.

C'est la vie.

Response to WilliamPitt (Reply #25)

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
30. K&R. It's just modern day puritanism
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:12 PM
Mar 2013

Old prudish ideas dressed up in concern for women, IMHO. You can tell by how angry they get when they can't control other women.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
32. I get sick of people claiming nudity cheapens your cause no matter what it is....
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:14 PM
Mar 2013

But then, I'm sick of the media acting like a cause is only considered valid if it has a telegenic spokesMAN in a tailored business suit sitting at what amounts to a conference table giving snappy sound bytes.

BTW: The more expensive the suit, the more valid the cause.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
317. I remember a lot of shit on DU around the Iraq War Protests, about haircuts and not wearing tiedye.
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 11:37 PM
Mar 2013

As if somehow not wearing tie-dyes and everyone having short hair would have made the media not ignore those massive protests the way they did.

What it really was about, was about people who had an aesthetic or cultural objection to long hair and tie dyes, using 'respectability' as an excuse to hippie-punch.

Similarly, what this is really about, is people who get mad any time an attractive person takes off their clothes in such a way that other people may get -oh no!- turned on.

Really it's about puritanical prudish finger-wagging. Same shit as always.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
320. Then there were the "You just want to relive the 60's" crap....
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 03:00 AM
Apr 2013

What was really pathetic was the Right Wingers claiming they were going to make like they were anti-war to "get some of that hippie chick" and then another one saying they shouldn't because "hippies don't believe in soap".

They claimed the same thing about Occupy to the point where Bloomberg claimed his crack down wasn't a free speech issue, it was a public health issue.

THEY are the ones wanting to relive the 60's because that's the same crap they said back then.

It wasn't true then either. The classic stereotype of the "dirty hippie" was pushed on clean cut suburban kids so they wouldn't join the movement.

An appropriate OP at this point would be to ask DU members how many know their local dry cleaner.

Warpy

(111,230 posts)
33. They have certainly shown that they've missed the point.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:15 PM
Mar 2013

The activists' bodies are their own. They don't belong to their fathers any more than they belong to Imams or religious police in Islamic countries.

Or to the pursed lips crowd in the First World.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
36. I'm not putting down the woman, putting down the reactions from people who's only reaction was
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:17 PM
Mar 2013

to snicker "wow, I like tits" or make tit jokes, and there were 5-6 of those.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
233. I'll be waiting a long, long time then... Not surprised of course, because I knew thee wouldn't be
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:34 AM
Mar 2013

any

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
167. So what? (cont)
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 11:28 PM
Mar 2013

This entire thing, from the heroic stand by these woman to the forum exposion here, is all about sexual freedom and individual empowerment. It is about telling anyone and everyone that an individuals sexuality -- from showing one's body to appreciating breasts -- is no one else's business.


 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
171. many guys here, who do nothing but argue with feminist all day are putting this woman on a pedestal
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 11:47 PM
Mar 2013

and no one really got her message or talked about it.
One seriously thought she wanted to walk around naked and that it oh so important (WTF???) - that was after a tit joke.
She's fighting misogynist repression in all forms - not just freedom to sexually express herself. People who make random tit jokes about her body in political forums are not her supporters. She'd spit on them.
I love how all these guys are carrying her around on their shoulders and half have no idea why she did it.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
174. If so, at least they are carrying and praising rather than condemning
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:08 AM
Mar 2013

And that, my friend, is an important distinction.

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
277. I think you missed her point, but in any case, I think the word you want is "caring", not "carrying"
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 08:41 AM
Mar 2013

and that, my friend, is the truly "important distinction".

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
214. ...
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 02:58 AM
Mar 2013
"I love how all these guys are carrying her around on their shoulders and half have no idea why she did it."

How do you know what 'all these guys', as you call them, think? How are you the judge of what they know or don't know about her motives for doing what she did?

"no one really got her message or talked about it." MANY people 'got' her message, and discussed it - or attempted to, despite that discussion being continually interrupted by so-called 'feminists' who, as always, just HAD to stir the usual shit by taking umbrage at everything any male had to say.

"Many guys here, who do nothing but argue with feminist all day are putting this woman on a pedestal."

First of all, I heartily disagree with your characterization of the men who weighed-in on the topic being people who do nothing but argue with feminists. It is a self-serving statement that has absolutely no basis in fact.

Secondly, perhaps the reason she is so admired by "all these guys" is because she has literally put her life on the line in order to not only express her own sense of freedom, sexual and otherwise, but to focus the eyes of the world on the plight of women like her the world over, instead of spending her time on a message board describing the sheer agony of being belittled and demeaned by a men who open doors for women.



 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
286. it's so very faux, it's hilarious
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 10:44 AM
Mar 2013

it's obvious they want to use one feminist to bash others they do not like here. Pretending anyone has been vilifying her is what is beyond the pale. It didn't happen. Pathetic flame bait.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
39. This was nothing to do with Amina.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:18 PM
Mar 2013

This was about some of my fellow DU'ers being offended by the wording of the article about women getting their "tits" out.

I can understand why they found that offensive.

But instead of having a rational debate, other DU'ers posted a wall of topless images "supporting" Amina and other attractive young female protesters.

I found that offensive. I took it as rubbing it in the faces of some of my friends and I did not like it one little bit.

So then we got a wall of wieners in retaliation.

Both posts should have been hidden. This isn't the place for this, although I guess that is ultimately up to Skinner.

I think we should treat each other with more kindness. We are sisters and brothers, and we are all deserving of respect.

This was not about Amina, or criticizing her, at all.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
40. For me, Amina is what it was ALL about.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:20 PM
Mar 2013

You don't know what anyone else is thinking, so I'm not sure why you'd even state that.

Response to dawg (Reply #43)

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
44. While I agree some we're upset with the language of in the title of the thread
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:22 PM
Mar 2013

There were more than a few posts saying her tactics of posting herself topless were bad for her cause, etc.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
50. And that's a valid point for discussion.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:27 PM
Mar 2013

As I said earlier, as someone totally alien to her culture, I don't think I have any basis for an opinion about that. Others, I guess, think they do. And that's fine. We're on this board to discuss.

But that isn't why people go so angry. They got angry over the wording of the title, and then the posting of the images.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
53. The posting of the images? That didn't happen until 190+ posts into the thread..
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:32 PM
Mar 2013

plenty of outrage was flying around long before those pictures got posted.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
54. Yes, but I think that's what put it over the top.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:35 PM
Mar 2013

In my opinion (and of course no one can ever truly know someone else's motives) it was a very rude "IN YOUR FACE" gesture that showed total disregard for both our fellow DU'ers and the brave women who are risking their lives with these protests.

Again, I cannot know what's in another person's heart. But that's the way it came off to lots of us.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
59. Not following how it shows disregard for them...
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:42 PM
Mar 2013

I would think those women would want those pictures seen by as many people as possible, so I can't see how posting them here is a bad thing...

dawg

(10,622 posts)
64. Because I don't think they bared their breasts for the purpose of ...
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:50 PM
Mar 2013

putting loudmouth American feminists in their place. Posting those images was guaranteed to push the buttons of a significant number of DU feminists. I can't say for sure that was why they were posted. But it was bound to make some feel that women were being objectified and gawked at, not for their bravery, but for their physical attributes.

In their culture, what they did was incredibly daring.

In our culture, we see images of naked breasts all the time. Why did we need to see these?

polly7

(20,582 posts)
75. The only women here who were offended over pictures
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:57 PM
Mar 2013

of brave women using their bodies (a right fought for and won long ago, btw) in any way they please, but in particular, to bring attention to a cause they could be in extreme danger for doing so ........ are those women who CHOSE to be offended. They don't speak for a majority of us, and I appreciate being able to see these examples of bravery of women around the world. All the posts saying they were 'pornifying' themselves and only posted here to 'titillate the menz and demean the women on du' were shallow, self-centered and embarrassing. imho.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
82. There is a lot of history on DU between some of the feminists and some of the men ...
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:11 PM
Mar 2013

I think there was some subtext to the posting of the pictures that, maybe, you don't think was intended.

But I do think it was intended.

I think those pictures were posted with the intent to offend the "Sisters of Perpetual Outrage".

And if that was the case, it dishonored both the brave young women who posed for the photos, and some of my DU friends.

If I'm wrong about the motivation behind the posting of the pictures, I do, sincerely apologize. And I'm not being snarky about that either, I really am sorry if I mistook the intentions of the men posting the pictures.

But either way, people were offended, and I think that is sad.



polly7

(20,582 posts)
86. I disagree.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:19 PM
Mar 2013

I'm well aware of the history. I've been called a 'DU rape-enabler' and told I support sexism (a survivor myself of brutal assault) so many times for not being sufficiently outraged over things like this, so it's not just the men here who are painted as something they're not, whether it's purposeful or not. I think the men in question who posted in support here were completely genuine. It wasn't them who dishonored the brave women in the photos, if you'll really read through the threads, I think it's quite obvious.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
90. We all have our different takes and viewpoints on things. That's what makes life interesting.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:29 PM
Mar 2013

I'm sorry you had those unkind things said about you. People get worked-up, and they end up saying and doing things that are unkind. And that always gets in the way of whatever point it was that they were attempting to make in the first place. It doesn't necessarily make them wrong, it just renders them ineffective at getting their message across.

I hope you're right, and nothing but the best of intentions were involved in the posting of the photos. But I think it's also fair to say that those who were outraged probably had the best of intentions, too. They want a society where women are not constantly viewed through the prism of their sexual attractiveness.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
93. That's the kind of society we all want.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:35 PM
Mar 2013

The trouble is, unless you demonize someone else here doing so - in particular, half the population, you're not doing it right, according to some. I believe in equal opportunity and empowerment for every human being on earth. I also think that feminism can advance it's cause without always including the demonization of men in every single instance, even when they are only involved in reporting something about it as in this case. We women can rise up on our own merits, we don't need to appear as victims every time one of us decides to use our own body in any way we choose. I don't get the mentality of that, and I'm glad not to.

antigone382

(3,682 posts)
122. Yes, but can we talk about male privilege at all without being accused of demonizing men?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:22 PM
Mar 2013

( On Edit Note: the question above does not assume that you think any particular way about these issues. Your post was just a starting point for me to express my own long-winded thoughts.)

The two are not synonymous, but they are often treated as such. It is not demonizing to assert the obvious fact that if one group is oppressed, another group must be privileged over them. it is not demonizing to describe the ways that gender norms, as practiced by both men and women perpetuate a system that ultimately oppresses women (and oppresses many men, too). It is not demonizing to ask both men and women to think deeply about the ways that they think about gender, sexuality, responsibility, choice, and even their own identities in a critical way. I have seen gender oppression portrayed more or less as a zero-sum game by anti-feminist or MRA men on this board. I think that is a sad way to view the situation. There is good evidence that a lot of the disproportionate sufferings of men (such as reduced life expectancy, increased rates of incarceration, and increased risk of being injured in a violent attack) are a result of patriarchal gender norms that create imbalances and disparities for everyone. Both men and women really can win, but we do both have to think about our thoughts, behaviors, and actions for that to work.

Unfortunately sexism is pervasive enough that I don't expect it to be absent from our reactions to even the most noble display of a female body, as that presented by Amina. This does not mean that I disagree with her tactic; I admire her bravery and support her wholeheartedly. However, I am aware that there will be responses to her act that will seek to exploit those images for ultimately sexist ends; and there were certainly contributions to the various threads today that had much more to do with goading *American* feminists (and, I do think, with titillating a more or less anti-feminist audience) than they did with supporting a *Tunisian* feminist. Amina's images of herself are very powerful and beautiful. However, I have no doubt that there will be--and probably already have been--presentations of those images within the American internet community that will be intended for sexual objectification.

That isn't really Amina's problem; she is fighting patriarchy as she faces it in the manner that she deems most effective. To the extent her images are exploited for other ends than those that she intends, condemnation rests solely with those who exploit her. However, it is a problem for American feminists; and if I may offer a defense of those whose reactions may have been disrespectful or inconsiderate of what Amina is fighting for, the fact is that feminists are human beings, as vulnerable to ethnocentrism and a lack of awareness of their first world privilege as any other group.

Moreover, when it comes to the issue of body image and sexuality, it is enormously difficult--and admittedly somewhat subjective--to disentangle that which is truly empowering from that which only feigns empowerment with the actual goal of objectification. Even offering this as a subject of discussion or critical thought makes one vulnerable to charges of extremism, censorship, and prudishness--no matter how carefully or explicitly one makes the case that you are not advocating any of the over-the-top things you are accused of. It is easy to understand why emotions run high. I will hold out hope that those feminists who reacted to Amina's actions in a judgmental or inappropriate way will recognize where their perspectives might be limited by privilege, just as I hold out hope for some men who feel threatened or demonized by the discussion of privilege itself.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
181. Thank you for such a well-thought out post and all of the great points.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:46 AM
Mar 2013

Very interesting!

I agree it's all very complicated, but some seem to want to change what Amina and Femen are doing in other situations dangerous to themselves into something completely shameful, and that is wrong and taking women backward decades. I found nothing about any of this meant to 'titillate' anyone. LadyHawkAZ posted just a few of the links that were demeaning towards the bravery of what this young woman is doing. It seems to me, far more posters here showed admiration, concern and fear for her than those who tried to derail it in yet another attempt to play victim on an internet forum. Sorry if that's harsh ...... but it's inevitable anymore in any thread where strong women are asserting rights long fought for that aren't considered noble or even helpful, by a specific few.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2587253

LadyHawkAZ (3,632 posts)
152. A woman is risking her life and we get:

Last edited Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:32 PM USA/ET - Edit history (1)

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post3
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post9
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post25
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post30
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post42
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post166
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post263
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post214
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022583041#post225

a combination of OMG BOOBZ R BAD HOW DARE SHE PANDER TO TEH MENZ and OMG YOU USED THE WRONG WORD IN THE TITLE I DON'T CARE IF THE AUTHOR DID TOO!

That is not, BTW, all the posts on those two subjects. Just a sample.

Response to bettyellen (Reply #149)

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
49. You are exactly right in one regard:
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:24 PM
Mar 2013

That this stopped being about Amina and started being about boobies and the lectures of first world feminists who, along with the boobie fans lost the FACT that this young woman is risking her life to make a statement by writing challenges to HER patriarchy on her naked torso.

I hang my head in shame for how shallow DU has been over this.

She has, I believe, killed herself for the struggle of women oppressed by Islam..

They will film it to show other women in her country what happens when you challenge the religion/patriarchy.

dawg

(10,622 posts)
52. The young woman is very brave. But some first world feminists are just tired ..
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:31 PM
Mar 2013

of the "boobie" fans. And I know some of us guys are tired when it seems like everything we do is an objectification of women.

But it is very, very wrong to think that it was Amina and her brave protest that caused this shitstorm today. It was the reaction to the word "tits" and the attempt by others to put the offended ones back "in their place".

At least that's how I viewed the situation. I know that's how some of the offended parties viewed it as well.

Maybe things were more innocent than the way I took them. But when I accidentally offend someone ... I tend to apologize. Not double down.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
56. HER struggle and statement didn't start the shitstorm
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:36 PM
Mar 2013

People took umbrage at the word 'tits' from the article and ran right over the top of her struggle.

First world reaction to an act that will probably get her mutilated to death in her world.

Them Imams don't play. And SHE knows it, even if the people here outraged by the word 'tits' don't.

Disgusting.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
113. thanks for being honest, this OP is quite the pile of bullshit
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:08 PM
Mar 2013

not one person ran her down for doing it. we were talking about usage of tits and the the "i like tits" reaction-
and the very sad notion that a woman feels she HAS to do this to get any attention.
all of which the OP keeps pretending never happened.
first world my ass. where does the OP think he's posting from, a gutter in Calcutta? by his own socio economic calculations, white men shouldn't be complaining about anything here.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
125. Defensive, much?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:27 PM
Mar 2013

Mebbe you should go READ what was written.

I did and it made me sick to my stomach.

Yep. First world problems is perfect.

Funny how what she wrote on her torso will get her killed, which was the real point of her stripping to the waist, and all of that was completely ignored by the clown cars on both sides of the photos.


It wasn't men who compared her to a stripper.

It was the First World Feminists.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
148. it was men who came out 6-7 posts in with "I likee" and "Ohh, two points" making fun of her body.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:18 PM
Mar 2013

As if her sacrifice was about their enjoyment. So cut the bullshit, we are both in the first world here. And you whining about other threads here is the embodiment of a first world problem.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
168. None of the men in MY life did that.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 11:39 PM
Mar 2013

And NONE of my friends here at DU did that either.

Your bellyaching is so much Mas e Mas......

Get off the cross. We're going to need the wood to build her funeral pyre.

She took on an entire culture of repression by writing scathing insults to that patriarchy on her torso with a fucking felt tip pen and you miss that in order to complain about what spoiled men in this culture type on the internet.


HER Religionist Patriarchy is going to slaughter that girl,

And all you can do is complain about a couple of boneheads on DU for being idiotic dickheads.

Thanks for the help. We need you in the struggle. Sister.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
172. Ha ha "all you can do is complain about a couple of boneheads on DU" is YOUR OP, is it not?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 11:49 PM
Mar 2013

So, get off the cross Cliff, YOU started an whole OP about your first world problem. LOL.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
299. It's nice to see that someone is paying attention.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:05 PM
Mar 2013

Thank you.

So many people rec'd this pile of crap. So many people jumping on board...

What does that say?

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
61. I hear you there.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:47 PM
Mar 2013

How the element you refer to in your OP fail to understand that, even now after having been told, repeatedly, doesn't surprise me, but it does sadden me. Admitting mistakes and making amends doesn't seem to be in their wheelhouse.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
60. how about those who decided making Titty Jokes or talkng about how they like them
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:44 PM
Mar 2013

when this woman is risking her LIFE.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
62. I condemn them equally.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:48 PM
Mar 2013

Her bravery should be hallowed ground. Not fodder for 8th grade discourse.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
67. In the original OP - which escapes me right now,
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:53 PM
Mar 2013

there were a couple of posts that discussed her breasts as 'nice'

But I cannot find them right now.

What she scribbled on her torso is the REAL story. And that is what got lost in all the brouhaha over her nipples.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
72. in this OP?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:56 PM
Mar 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2583041

Because if so, then I daresay your memory may be off... no sign of "nice titties" or whatever else JI7 is alleging far as I can see there.. now, seabeyond did say that this was "at least the 4th" post about this, so maybe there was something in one of the other threads?
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
118. OMG!! THE HORROR!!!
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:14 PM
Mar 2013

Post # 223?? So, all that ridiculous wringing of hands prior to Warrens post was the work of psychics?? They saw into the future, saw that Warren was going to make a post ridiculing their standard-issue overreaction, and pre-emptivelty got outraged?
Please.. Far be it for me to speak for Warren, or anybody else really, but a few of us have been around the block enough times here during DU's semi-annual gender wars to know that certain SJWs have absolutely zero interest in actually discussing issues, but would rather lecture and "educate" all of us hapless rubes, and as a result, whenever certain names or certain subjects come up, humor is really the only reasonable response.

Edit: BTW.. I don;t see anything in Warren's post "Making a titty joke" (your words), or "saying he liked them."

JI7

(89,244 posts)
119. a woman is risking her LIFE ,i'm responding to the OP
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:18 PM
Mar 2013

the op seemed outraged and went on about first world problems because of some comparison to strippers when a woman is risking HER LIFE.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
120. And then you went on to falsely claim that the original OP was rife with "titty jokes" etc.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:19 PM
Mar 2013
 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
128. Please...
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:29 PM
Mar 2013

When you know you've lost badly, just make shit up, eh? It's an HoF tradition. You know very well he's ridiculing HoF, not the woman the OP is about.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
137. i didn't lie about anything , i guess it's as the OP says about first world problems
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:45 PM
Mar 2013

posting pics like that and wanting to ridicule women in a thread about a woman risking HER LIFE.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
66. What's Wrong with what a Stripper Does ? maybe that's the only way she is able to make money
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:52 PM
Mar 2013

to support herself and get away from some abusive situation .

or maybe she just enjoys getting naked.

do you think strippers are something lower than other things ?

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
73. Um....No. Mebbe you should search my posts for my
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:57 PM
Mar 2013

backstory.

I don't think strippers or sex workers are less than anyone else.

Trust me.

What THIS woman is doing is something entirely different.

By writing what she did on her torso, she might have signed her own death warrant.

A detail lost in the earlier hysteria.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
84. Because of ALL the things this woman did, she didn't 'strip'
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:18 PM
Mar 2013

the WOMEN who compared her with a stripper were making the pejorative. Not me.


Again. Read my history here.

Here's an analogy:

There are preachers that praise God and raise the roof every Sunday.

There's the Buddhist priest that set himself on fire for what he believed

She just set herself on fire.

I cannot comprehend her courage.

Stripping has NOTHING to do with it.

Except in the posts that I referred.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
88. why can't you comprehend it ?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:28 PM
Mar 2013

girls risk their lives by going to school in some parts of the world.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
68. i said this somewhere else but her message is in keeping with her choice of messaging
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:54 PM
Mar 2013

she is talking about owning her body, so its not like its irrelevantly exposing her body.

So i really dont understand the objections to it. She's using her body to tell her story and risking her life to do it.

What could be more feminist or more brave?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
81. Feminists have fought among themselves
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:09 PM
Mar 2013

I read Angela Davis - some book of hers where they met with Egyptian feminists and found they had little in common and disagreed wildly. But from here we can admit their fight is far worse (in those countries with strict Islamic laws). So we can't really judge their acts in protest as not being what we would do here - we don't have to go the extreme in Western culture. We already have a lot of which some women can only aspire to.

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
278. Liberals fight among themselves. Conservatives fight among themselves. DUers fight among themselves
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 08:47 AM
Mar 2013

Not much new there.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
87. Took me some time to catch up to speed since I wasn't online all day
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:26 PM
Mar 2013

but let me add my K&R here on this post.

Sigh.

I actually, usually, agree with the usual crowd of feminist posters about most of the women's issues but the misunderstanding of Amina's action by this group is missing the boat.

The Islamists want women shrouded. Disappeared. Voiceless.

Amina's position is exactly opposite - powerful and so, so very dangerous. This is not about sex - this is about exposing the very skin and tissue that's been vilified by the Islamists while adding a potent message about self-ownership.

Thanks cliffordu.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
89. Thanks for clarifying it. Thanks for getting it.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:29 PM
Mar 2013

What she wrote on her torso is what they will kill her for.

What her torso represents is a threat, what she wrote is the challenge.

And the fucking scumsucking Imams don't forgive THAT challenge.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
106. Perfect post. I agree completely.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:51 PM
Mar 2013
This is not about sex - this is about exposing the very skin and tissue that's been vilified by the Islamists while adding a potent message about self-ownership.

Astounding that this appears to be so overlooked. It almost makes me wonder if this is not being done deliberately.
 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
135. It IS deliberate.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:42 PM
Mar 2013

One of them posted this cartoon last year:



What does that tell you about their reaction to this?

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
96. Thank you.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:39 PM
Mar 2013

Pray for Amina, I am afraid they will make an example of her.

And it will be as ugly as anything we've ever seen.

Response to cliffordu (Reply #96)

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
107. Also Malala Yousafzai
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:51 PM
Mar 2013

There are some very strong personalities in the Muslim world, but we don't hear about them until someone tries to kill them.

Response to LittleBlue (Reply #107)

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
255. lol. tunisia has topless beaches, 50+ years of secular government, & more women in its congress
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:06 AM
Mar 2013

than the US.

my heart is breaking for the breathtaking ignorance of the OP, & the 164 posters who recced his description of tunisia as a place where women have stones thrown at them until their brains are mush by the 'fundamentalists who rule their world'.

at this point *my* "contempt and cynicism knows no bounds," too.

you'd think the ideologues would at least trouble themselves to read a wikipedia entry or something.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
101. Thank you.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:45 PM
Mar 2013

I wish we could collectively save her.

Fuck. Her uncles are bound by blood to kill her for this.

Yavin4

(35,432 posts)
105. Many DU Posters Completely Missed The Point of Her Photo
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:50 PM
Mar 2013

and overly reacted to her nudity. This kind of knee jerk reaction is indicative of a non-thinking person.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
115. you mean the ones who posted pics of rounded mountains and other breast like formations?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:09 PM
Mar 2013

Yep, not thinking when they joke about the sacrifice this woman is making.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
138. Bingo
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:46 PM
Mar 2013

The men who leer, provoke overreaction, or otherwise are honestly aroused by the nude female form are not the problem.

The problem are the imams and other men who are threatening to behead and/or stone her for showing her body.

Priorities.

antigone382

(3,682 posts)
144. I'd say they can both be problems.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:04 PM
Mar 2013

Amina's tactic is to fight the violent oppression of the imams. Those who use that choice and the images she has produced for their own gratification (whether that be sexual gratification or trollery) are small-minded fucks who deserve their share of condemnation. I support Amina's use of her own body to take a stand against those who would seek to control and hide it. I also support those American feminists who call out attempts to trivialize her actions. I can't speak for Amina, but if I were in her position I would appreciate other women standing up to assert that my politicalimages are not intended for someone else's pleasure.

This is not to say that some feminists' reactions may not have been inappropriate or privileged. It is to say that calling out the people whose primary interest in the story was giggling at breasts, or giggling at feminists themselves, is a noble goal.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
146. yep, "small-minded fucks who deserve their share of condemnation" for trivializing her actions.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:15 PM
Mar 2013

thank you stating it so succinctly.
as if most of these guys ever lauded a feminist before in their lives. LOL, so transparent.

and yes, it's a first world problem- but so is the OP's for fucks sake. Or is whining about other threads is noble now? .

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
151. In the same way that stage 4 brain cancer
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:28 PM
Mar 2013

and headaches are both problems. Or perhaps attacking a women's rights activist as stripping, saying that she "performs for men."

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
156. in the way 4 stage brain cancer equals annoyance at a thread?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:38 PM
Mar 2013

this thread is the ultimate expression of a first world problem, LOL.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
157. In the way that death threats
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:41 PM
Mar 2013

in a society that largely wants to see her stoned, are serious as cancer.

I thought that was obvious.

Response to LittleBlue (Reply #138)

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
150. no, they were ridiculing all women by responding to an activist with leers
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:26 PM
Mar 2013

are they so stupid they think all women here are part of some HOF club they can just shit on? Seems so.

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
153. HoF represents all women?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:32 PM
Mar 2013

Seems to me HoF has gotten quite a bit of flack from women today. But don't let me stop you from spinning this.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
155. posting stupid shit like leering at this activist makes DU suck for all women
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:36 PM
Mar 2013

it's a PUBLIC message board, you want to pick fights with individuals here, PM them. otherwise you're talking to all of us.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
287. "she did it first!, Waaaaaah" pretending you give a shit about a protester in Tunisia
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 11:02 AM
Mar 2013

just to take swipes at other feminists is twisted. not fooling anyone.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
104. Okay, it was at 49 recs and then I rec'd and it jumped to 89 in the 20 mins it took me to read
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:48 PM
Mar 2013

all of the back story on this. You've obviously struck a nerve.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
126. Amina is a great artist whose courage is as amazing as her message is righteous.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:28 PM
Mar 2013

That's all I have to say.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
131. Over the top. Epic, really.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:32 PM
Mar 2013

Sorry I don't have the original three or four OP's bookmarked for ya - they are upthread somewhere.

 

MrModerate

(9,753 posts)
143. I had to look up what you were talking about . . .
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:03 PM
Mar 2013

And from a quick glance it does seem as if Amina has done something brave and reckless.

How about a link to the threads you're complaining about, though?

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
154. Wow. Well said!
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:35 PM
Mar 2013


I normally hate that phrase first world problems but you have a point this time. We don't have a gun pointed at us while fighting for our rights. It takes real courage to do what this young woman did.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
175. K&R
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:20 AM
Mar 2013

Took me a while to find this OP, but I'm glad I did.

There is One person on ignore from today's bizarre and revealing events, maybe three more to go.

And: Amen

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
178. Perfectly said, thank you!
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:32 AM
Mar 2013

I hope she is safe, it was an incredibly courageous thing to do!! Feminists should be applauding her. And I believe that genuine Feminists around the world most likely are.

Excellent OP, glad someone said it, I am sick to death of the wagging fingers over trivia compared to what women face in real life every day.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
207. I hope she can get out of the country to England or France.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:54 AM
Mar 2013

I have a bad feeling about what those fuckers will do to her if she doesn't get out.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
180. You're being extremely judgemental against people you've never met.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:39 AM
Mar 2013

First world problems? How do you know what sort of problems our fellow DUers deal with? Loss of loved ones, health issues, etc. You don't know.

I find it interesting that there are self proclaimed champions of feminism who's big fucking deal here is to post a couple of shots of naked people in San Fran and DARE to equate one with the other.


The situations were not compared, the photos were compared. You are inventing a false argument and then patting yourself on the back for destroying your own argument.

You just don't understand what is happening around you.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
182. Are people actually stoned here for baring their breasts?
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:55 AM
Mar 2013

Their faces? Being raped, beaten as policy, mutilations, married off as child brides, honor killings, having to walk miles and miles each day just for water for the family and beaten if enough doesn't make it home? These women also lose loved ones - to wars, abysmal health services, extreme poverty, food shortage, etc., etc. We DO know this, and nothing we complain about here even nears their struggles, so when we hear of one or two who haven't been murdered yet for doing what Amina is, it's only natural to feel admiration and concern, maybe push our own troubles to the back burner for an hour or two and feel a bit of outrage against those who minimize these brave acts as something as shallow as 'pornification for the menz' and how 'they're harming the cause'. Is it so wrong to see the differences?

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
186. I stated my problems with the thread with my first reply.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:02 AM
Mar 2013

1) Judging people without knowing them.
2) Straw person fallacy.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
193. Ah, sorry, I misunderstood your post.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:17 AM
Mar 2013

I'm drunk and on painkillers.

The OP seabeyond made with the naked men was about posting political-based naked pics on DU, and not the protest in Tunisia.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
197. She was angry at the 'pornification for the menz' in the thread about
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:22 AM
Mar 2013

Amina and Tunisia and thought her naked men thread would be payback. But who really knows, she posted and ran. Regardless, it was pointless and petty, imo.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
196. Seabeyond's OP was about posting political-based nude pics on DU.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:21 AM
Mar 2013

She was not, in anyway, comparing the two situations.

Sorry you missed the alert.


Which alert?

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
203. Ah, yes, you mean the photos and the OP
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:36 AM
Mar 2013

about how getting naked trivializes your cause.

The photos of the sausagefest in the Castro.

Well, in San Francisco, - the first world - It really DOES.

Unless the local Imam can have you stoned to death.

In the castro? Not so much.

The only way those dudes will get stoned to death is if they smoke too much weed.

With Amina, all she has to do at this point is get caught walking down the street.

Her uncles and brothers are bound by blood oath to kill her. The Imam has already called for her death.

The fact that your little friend didn't want to recognize the difference says all it needs to say.

Feminism indeed.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
303. Except for your interpration of seabeyond's post, I agree with your post.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:15 PM
Mar 2013

She was not comparing the situations. Her San Francisco post was not about the protests, it was about DU. Her SF OP was questioning whether or not we should be posting nude pics of people.

This was her full comment:

jury, we allow posts of naked women and a thread of naked women and girls.... this is what du seems to think it wants to be. all for these men. rah. lets support. show our enthusiasm.


Look at the nouns in the first sentence: Jury, posts, women, thread, girls, and DU. The fact that she was talking about DU is obvious. I have read many of your posts, and I know you're intelligent, so I don't know why you aren't see this.
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
200. Nope.. it was in retaliation for the failed alert on this post:
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:24 AM
Mar 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2584256

jury, we allow posts of naked women and a thread of naked women and girls.... this is what du seems to think it wants to be. all for these men. rah. lets support. show our enthusiasm.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022584574

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
201. I did not know about the alert, but I did know her OP was based off of the nude pics posted on DU.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:28 AM
Mar 2013

Seabeyond's OP is being misrepresented in this thread. She is not comparing the two protests.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
204. Disagree...
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:38 AM
Mar 2013

by posting the San Francisco pics in direct response to the Middle East pics, she most definitely is equating them by stating "this is what du seems to think it wants to be." Purposefully conflating the disparate scenarios behind the pictures.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
300. I think you purposefully cut off the first part of that quote to make it fit your claim better.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:57 PM
Mar 2013
jury, we allow posts of naked women and a thread of naked women and girls.... this is what du seems to think it wants to be. all for these men. rah. lets support. show our enthusiasm.


She is equating nude pics on DU, not the situations. Her OP was about DU, not Tunisia.
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
301. I never claimed it wasn't about DU.. the fact remains, that she tried to conflate the differing
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:00 PM
Mar 2013

contexts. Therein lies the issue.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
309. If there was only one context, then I would agree with you.
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 12:36 AM
Mar 2013

However, there are several contexts. The context seabeyond was using involved posting pictures on DU.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
310. The original context is still what's important though.. I mean..
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 12:45 AM
Mar 2013

Pictures in Playgirl are vastly different than the Tunisia pictures, right? If she had posted Playgirl pictures instead of the pictures from the Castro rally in trying to make some point about DU, it would be roundly condemned as inappropriate, no?

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
311. Posting any nude pics on DU is risky as far as the jury and the tos is concerned.
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 02:59 AM
Mar 2013

If seabeyond posted Playboy pics, then she would run the risk of being banned. The pics had to have some political content.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
213. Those are art. political art.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 02:49 AM
Mar 2013

whoever alerted has a filthy, twisted mind. Just repulsive.

And as both an artist and a filthy person, I fucking oughtta know.

Those photos are positively beautiful.

Too many grampas and grandmas worry about men whacking it.

They do it to anything, for godsake.

And I daresay women do as well. No, I know they do.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
258. they're not stoned in tunisia, either or any of that other crap. maybe you should read up about
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:26 AM
Mar 2013

tunisia before you spout off.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
279. I'm talking about women all over NA, the ME and parts of the world who
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 08:48 AM
Mar 2013

face problems we can't even imagine. Not just Amina. I thought perhaps the mention of wars and all of those other things would probably indicate that. Sorry you were confused. Now go spout off to someone else.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
313. Does he have any power to enforce his opinion? No more than fred phelps does. BTW, did you
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:03 AM
Mar 2013

know abortion became legal in Tunisia in 1965?

Response to ZombieHorde (Reply #180)

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
183. On DU,
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 12:58 AM
Mar 2013

a few people went down for the third time in "The Second Wave" here today.

The times are changing.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
202. yup, its rather ironic that a small sub-group, one that likes to lecture other duers often,
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:30 AM
Mar 2013

is on the same side of the "patriarchy" on this issue, the one that they are always railing about. At least, it seems that way from reading their responses in threads about these brave women protesting in that repressive fundamentalist male dominated culture.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
208. wait, weren't you upset about criticism of the Vatican/Pope ?
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 02:03 AM
Mar 2013

those people actually push for laws that take away women's rights.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
273. it's rather ironic that the brave fighters against patriarchy think tunisia forbids education to
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 07:29 AM
Mar 2013

women and is a theocracy that stones women to mush.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
216. When you have something to say
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:10 AM
Mar 2013

you say it as eloquently, as intelligently, as in-your-face-no-BS-tolerated-here as is humanly possible.



Well done, sir - extremely well done.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
223. Oh, the delicious irony to be savoured
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:29 AM
Mar 2013

when that particular poster lectures others on posting total BS in hopes of getting a pat on the back, and saying that and even when it is spelled out for you on the thread by others, you stick fingers in the ears and start singing.

No matter how many times it's been spelled out for her by others that she doesn't speak for all women, no less all feminists, she continues to stick her fingers in her own ears and sings that same ol' song - over, and over, and over.

It's downright O Henry-esque.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
220. how common a last name is 'tyler' in tunisia? and why were most of amina's naked messages
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:17 AM
Mar 2013

written in english?

who is the target?

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
221. tunisia doesn't have sharia law. but maybe this controversy offers red meat to those interests.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:21 AM
Mar 2013
“There was some dispute about enshrining sharia,” he said, “that’s why we had to push away the controversy and we settled for what was said in the 1959 constitution about Tunisia as an Arab country.”

While Islam has always been the main religion in Tunisia, politics have long been secular.

Ghannouchi said the status quo for dealing with Islam and the constitution is the path for Tunisia and hopes to have an election over the constitution by June of 2013.

http://amanpour.blogs.cnn.com/2012/11/29/how-tunisia-dealt-with-the-islamic-question/



The constitution declares Islam as the official state religion and requires the President to be Muslim. Aside from the president, Tunisians enjoy a significant degree of religious freedom, a right enshrined and protected in its constitution, which guarantees the freedom to practice one's religion.[105]

The country has a secular culture that encourages acceptance of other religions and religious freedom. With regards to the freedom of Muslims, the Tunisian government has restricted the wearing of Islamic head scarves (hijab) in government offices and it discourages women from wearing them on public streets and public gatherings. The government believes the hijab is a "garment of foreign origin having a partisan connotation". There were reports that the Tunisian police harassed men with "Islamic" appearance (such as those with beards), detained them, and sometimes compelled men to shave their beards off.[107] In 2006, the former Tunisian president declared that he would "fight" the hijab, which he refers to as "ethnic clothing".[108]

Individual Tunisians are tolerant of religious freedom and generally do not inquire about a person's personal beliefs.[105]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tunisia



here she is on a national tv show that looks just like an american one, wearing jeans & a t-shirt and bra-less; notice the absence of head coverings in the tv audience.

what is the danger you claim awaits her?

#t=224s

psyops.
 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
225. and again, i ask: what's the terrible danger you claim she's facing and how common a last name
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:41 AM
Mar 2013

do you think 'tyler' is in tunisia?

things are not always what they seem.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
226. You could be right in your implication....
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:47 AM
Mar 2013

I know what happened to my friends ex wife and daughter in Tunisia because the daughter has tattoos and was seen as a prostitute....Three years ago - they had to be rescued by Marines from the Embassy. (Long story)

Amina could be a fraud, or married to a westerner and trolling the locals.

Or she could be the real deal.

We will see.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
227. you claimed religious fundamentalists "run her entire world". They clearly don't. I have friends
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 03:52 AM
Mar 2013

who lived in tunisia for years and I don't believe your story about your friends having to be rescued by marines.

Nothing personal, I just don't.

While family life can be quite traditional, and social rituals are deeply rooted in Arabic culture, Tunisia is one of the most Westernized Arab countries... Tunisian culture is an interesting and charming example of Arab Islamic culture blended with Mediterranean, European and Western influences. It is the result of 3,000 years as a melting pot of Mediterranean cultures combined with a genuine openness to and acceptance of others...

Daily life and fashion mirror that of Europe but family life is more conservative with patriarchal dominant families. Tunisia is one of most Westernized Arab countries. Education, tourism and the media have been strong factors in this, along with the modernist inclination of Tunisia’s leaders. The degree of Western liberality, of course, varies from urban to rural sectors and from one region to another: Tunisia is a land of diversity.

http://www.afsusa.org/host-family/our-students/countries/tunisia/

JI7

(89,244 posts)
235. i was wondering about this because i have met some women from some of these countries
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:48 AM
Mar 2013

and the pics i saw they were wearing what many women wear in clubs in america , europe and other similar places. Lebanon and Egypt are a couple places that come to mind.

there is a big difference between places like tunisia, egypt, lebanon, jordan etc and Saudi Arabia .

i also know people who visited some of these places and the girls wear things like shorts, sleeveless tops etc . i know these are mostly tourist type areas . and if they go into some other areas the would be started at . but that's still different from an outright ban like saudi arabia.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
236. prior to the 2011 'revolution' female headcovering was officially discouraged. the government
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:50 AM
Mar 2013

considered it an import.

now it's not discouraged.

funny.

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
240. Tunisian Opposition Leader: Islamists Fail at Consensus
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:02 AM
Mar 2013

-snip-

He said Islamist governments cannot govern within a coalition. He cited Iran as an example where around the 1979 revolution, Islamist parties started out in coalition with others, but then purged the opposition until it became an Islamic state.

"We have a political party that wants to govern by itself," he said of Ennahda.

In the past, Essebsi said he considered Ennahda a moderate, centrist party. "I was wrong," he said. "It is really different from what I thought." Now he views it as an Islamist party that cannot cooperate with others and cannot accept different opinions.

With the coalition parties having "diametrically opposed" orientations, Essebsi said the constituent assembly has become stagnant while also overstepping its one-year term, as was originally set. It's failed to complete its tasks for the transition period, including finalizing the new constitution and holding elections, he said. Because the elected officials have "ignored deadlines," he suggested that the assembly be dissolved.

Instead of working toward democratic change, he said, the government became sidetracked by debates such as whether to implement Sharia as the basis for the constitution as well as whether to redefine the status of women compared with men as being "complementary" as opposed to equal. Essebsi thanked Ennahda leaders for ultimately not going through with those initiatives, but said with these distractions, the country hasn't been able to "make a single step forward."

More: http://www.al-monitor.com/pulse/originals/2013/03/beji-caid-essebsi-tunisian-islamists-fail-at-consensus.html

Power games of Islamists reflect internal politics

It was always clear that, given a free, democratic vote, post-revolutionary countries such as Egypt and Tunisia would return parliaments with high percentages of Islamist members. The Muslim Brotherhood in Egypt and the Ennahda (Renaissance) party in Tunisia both have deep roots, strong organisation and hard-won credibility for being corruption-free, distributing social welfare and remaining steadfast in opposition to dictators who repressed them.

But it wasn't always clear that, once in government, political Islam in these countries could be so monopolist and exclusionary. While at one point, Islamist movements in Egypt and Tunisia may have seemed leagues apart in style, the similarities are now growing, in government.

-snip-

In Tunisia, disillusion with the Ennahda-led coalition exploded onto the streets after the tragic killing of opposition figure Chokri Belaid, in early February. That exposed the terrible, escalating political violence in Tunisia that has fermented over the past year - a recent Human Rights Watch report chronicles a litany of "religiously motivated" attacks on intellectuals, artists and political figures.

Ennahda has been accused of doing nothing to stem this violence, for fear of losing political ground to the ultraconservative Salafists thought to be behind such attacks.

More: http://www.thenational.ae/thenationalconversation/comment/power-games-of-islamists-reflect-internal-politics

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
241. And all that discussion has to do with post-2011 developments. Tunisia had its 'color revolution'
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:05 AM
Mar 2013

in 2011 -- supported by the US.

and the result, as in every other case so far, has been an increase in power to fundies in what were once more secular states.

funny, that.

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
243. Be that as it may, she's not quite as safe as you were claiming.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:10 AM
Mar 2013

In fact she's in great danger and is no doubt a target of fundamentalists in Tunisia.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
244. Ms. Tyler is perfectly safe.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:12 AM
Mar 2013

A Tunisian member of radical feminist group Femen, who disappeared after receiving death threats for posing topless online, is home with her family.

Lawyer and women's right activist Bouchra Bel Haj Hmida delivered the news that the 19-year-old activist, known only as Amina, is safe.

Hmida also denied rumours that Amina was taken by her parents to a psychiatric hospital in Tunis after posting the picture of herself.

http://www.ibtimes.co.uk/articles/450104/20130325/amina-femen-topless-tunisia-home.htm


A woman who did something similarly in your face in the US and got the same publicity would probably get death threats too. and in fact, have.

to my knowledge, none have died, and neither will this woman, who is internationally connected, has been on television, and has a western last name which suggests she has a foreign relative (husband, father, grandfather, etc.)

The portrayal of Tunisia as fundamentalist and the number of people who swallowed it speak volumes about ignorance, tunnel vision, and self-referentialism.

first world concerns = ironic.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
251. well, you let me know when the "islamic fundamentalists who rule her world" kill her. i won't hold
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:25 AM
Mar 2013

my breath.

there are more women in congress in tunisia than in the US.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
298. Do you not believe that there are Islamic fundamentalists who would kill her?
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 11:49 AM
Mar 2013

It's actually true, no matter how many friends you have in Tunisia.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
314. There are probably christian fundies who would kill people here in the US. But they're not
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:09 AM
Mar 2013

sanctioned by the state, and neither are any of the fundies calling for this woman's head in Tunisia.

So if they want to kill her, they'll have to do it on their own.

And I'll bet you $100 in internet money it won't happen. You know why? Because the actors screaming about this stuff are interested in building a constituency. Killing people would not further that cause; it would hinder it.

You know why? Because Tunisia is not a fundamentalist country: it's a significantly westernized country with educated women who've had access to abortion since 1965.

Want to take that bet?

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
315. No, I'm not sick enough to bet on whether she lives or dies
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 11:33 AM
Mar 2013

That's your own personal demon.

And yes, of course there are Christians who would kill if they could. What do they have to do with this thread?

Are you of the belief that it somehow hurts less if a nongovernmental entity kills her? I contend it still would be a very bad thing.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
307. My mother here in this house, right now. She's safe.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 10:02 PM
Mar 2013

No one called for her destruction by an entire religion, so no one will confront her for that when she leaves the house. But perhaps we'll suffer the equality of a plane crashing into the house?

Amina can't say the same about her overall safety right now.

Some DUers are seethingly outraged that folks aren't as convinced of the imminent danger from threats to the activist/businesswoman Adria Richards as they are to the activist/artist Amina Tyler.



idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
259. Posting it here too. In reference to your new OP
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:42 AM
Mar 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022588121

In the interest of transparency here is some background info for this OP:

It starts here:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2588023

You make this staement:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022585969#post221

221. tunisia doesn't have sharia law. but maybe this controversy offers red meat to those interests.


Care to clarify your speculation that FEMEN has something to do with someone's plot to overthrow Government of Tunisia? Damn, that would be the coolest CT I have heard so far, but do provide some info to boost your claim.

Than you start making statements like this:

HiPointDem (14,319 posts)
225. and again, i ask: what's the terrible danger you claim she's facing and how common a last name

do you think 'tyler' is in tunisia?

things are not always what they seem.


The danger is outlined here:
http://stream.aljazeera.com/story/201303252145-0022635

And here, following the link from AlJaseera to source:
http://www.assabahnews.tn/details.php?ID_art=19910&ID_rub=1

I assume you have information that says no statement by cleric was ever made or/and that it does not put Amina's life in danger. Please, do post it here.

As to you claim about Amina's last name. Did you make your deduction based on original spelling of her name or is it based on English version of it? Please, do clarify that.

Your last statement is this one:

HiPointDem (14,319 posts)
244. Ms. Tyler is perfectly safe.

Last edited Sat Mar 30, 2013, 09:23 AM USA/ET - Edit history (2)

A Tunisian member of radical feminist group Femen, who disappeared after receiving death threats for posing topless online, is home with her family.

Lawyer and women's right activist Bouchra Bel Haj Hmida delivered the news that the 19-year-old activist, known only as Amina, is safe.

Hmida also denied rumours that Amina was taken by her parents to a psychiatric hospital in Tunis after posting the picture of herself.

http://www.ibtimes.co.uk/articles/450104/20130325/amina-femen-topless-tunisia-home.htm


A woman who did something similarly in your face in the US and got the same publicity would probably get death threats too. and in fact, have.

to my knowledge, none have died, and neither will this woman, who is internationally connected, has been on television, and has a western last name which suggests she has a foreign relative (husband, father, grandfather, etc.)

The portrayal of Tunisia as fundamentalist and the number of people who swallowed it speak volumes about ignorance, tunnel vision, and self-referentialism.

first world concerns = ironic.


You seems to jump to conclusion that because someone who claimed to be a lawyer representing the woman in question said she is safe everything is fine and everyone is silly to even suggest otherwise.

I would prefer to have a statement made by Amina herself. At the very least. Would you happens to have a link to some info that confirms she is safe?

And again, your deduction that this woman has a some foreign background based on what exactly?

For everyone else:

Here is a link again to the article in Al Jaseera that at least has some links to sources and statements made by various people involved in this story:


http://stream.aljazeera.com/story/201303252145-0022635


 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
260. i don't need your 'background', nor your straw men, thanks anyway.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:45 AM
Mar 2013

funny you don't need any citations or proof of the threats, or the OPs claims that this woman will be killed, stoned, girls not being able to go to school, blah blah blah -- but you want citations for anything that challenges that picture.


Amina, the Tunisian activist who gained notoriety after uploading topless photos of herself to Facebook, is safe at home with her family, according to her lawyer Bouchra Bel Haj Hmida.

She is not missing and “has never been in a psychiatric facility,” Bel Haj Hmida told Tunisia Live, contradicting reports that surfaced last week and have been widely circulated on the internet.

Bel Haj Hmida, who is also a well-known Tunisian women’s rights activist, told Tunisia Live that Amina is going back to school and said that she needs to be left in peace. She declined to provide further details of Amina’s situation due to lawyer-client confidentiality requirements.

No legal charges have been filed against Amina, continued Ben Haj Hmida, adding she could be handed a maximum six-month sentence if convicted of public indecency. The Tunisian penal code’s provisions on such offenses are very subjective, she said.

http://www.tunisia-live.net/2013/03/25/amina-safe-at-home-says-lawyer/


BTW, her lawyer is a TUNISIAN WOMAN.
 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
262. lol. i made no wild speculations whatsoever. in contrast to the OPs picture of women in tunisia
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:58 AM
Mar 2013

being stoned and denied education.

I know your posting style and won't be replying to you again.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
266. I *did* reply to you. I will not continue to engage you because your discussion style is not
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 07:15 AM
Mar 2013

honest.

Just to clarify.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
283. You made another accusation without any evidence to support it. How am I dishonest?
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 09:48 AM
Mar 2013

I replied to your post that says:

HiPointDem (14,346 posts)
262. lol. i made no wild speculations whatsoever. in contrast to the OPs picture of women in tunisia

being stoned and denied education.

I know your posting style and won't be replying to you again.


You did say here that you will not reply to me. You DID reply to me LATER and in another OP, true. I have not answered that one yet.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
229. Some people wake up in the morning, and the only thing on their to-do list is "Lecture DU"
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:11 AM
Mar 2013

Each Day.

Every Day.

Groundhog Day.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
237. maybe people who claim tunisian women are in danger of being stoned need to be lectured,
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:51 AM
Mar 2013

because they're clearly ignorant.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
239. The folks threatened by the thought that someone, somewhere, might see a nekkid boob and enjoy it
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:57 AM
Mar 2013

the people who are in a state of constant, perpetual, neverending slow-mo shitfit over any and all images of consenting adult nudity, fucking or sex...

well, I'm not gonna bother to try to lecture back at them, but I sure as shit am not going to take their self-important gibberish seriously.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
242. yeah, i mean, of all the issues, people who are offended by public nudity is clearly one of the
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:07 AM
Mar 2013

most pressing.

speaking of 1st world concerns...

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
305. The First Amendment has always been and will always be a front burner issue for me.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:03 PM
Mar 2013

If people don't like it, too bad.

Response to Warren DeMontague (Reply #239)

Number23

(24,544 posts)
306. Is your issue with the stoned part and not the threats on her life?
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:50 PM
Mar 2013

You keep quibbling that people are saying that she may be "stoned" and that may or may not be true. (Stoning does seem to take place more in places like Afghanistan and Pakistan)

But your insistence on focusing on the "stoning" bit seems a deliberate attempt to ignore or minimize the "death" bit which is a very real threat for this woman. Everyone seems to understand that but you. And it does appear that stoning may be a real concern for this young woman if some Tunisian officials have their way.

"Amina's protest outraged more conservative pockets of Tunisian society. Tunisian newspaper Assabah News quoted Almi Adel, who heads the Commission for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice, as saying that Amina should die for taking the photos."

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/amina-tyler-supporters-set-topless-jihad-day-april-4-article-1.1301311#ixzz2P3u2rf4l


Tunisian newspaper AssabahNews quoted Salafi preacher Adel Almi, who heads the Commission for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice, saying: 'According to God's law, she deserves 80 to 100 lashes, but what she committed is worth much more than that.

'She deserves to be stoned to death and she must be quarantined because what she did is an epidemic.'

'She is like someone suffering from a serious and contagious illness and she must be secluded and treated,' he added.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2300008/Naked-female-activists-topless-revolution-Tunisia-preacher-demands-nude-protester-19-stoned-death-epidemic.html#ixzz2P3uhMWre


Sooo... what were you saying about people that are "clearly ignorant?"

Evoman

(8,040 posts)
238. No one is really criticizing the Tunisian woman. I'm not, anyways.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 04:54 AM
Mar 2013

What bothers me is that women....any women...have to use nudity to attract attention to their causes. And it's all because it titillates jerks who otherwise wouldn't give a shit about their stories. How many times to feminist issues get dismissed by a certain type of person on DU? All of a sudden, add some breast and suddenly we are all sterling feminists who care about the issues of patriarchy. Give me a break.

Again, I think this woman is extremely brave. And I don't think her protest is without good cause. But I can't help wondering why we western men don't pay attention to any of this stuff without a woman having to bear her body. It doesn't fit right with me.

Response to Evoman (Reply #238)

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
322. Wow, another man who is paying attention. Thank you.
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 06:49 AM
Apr 2013

I think many do pay attention, even wihout a topless 19-year-old. But with topless pics (of young, fit women, of course) there is so much more attention all of a sudden. It does speak volumes.

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
264. I find it interesting that men who have no idea of what it is to be female in ANY world
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 07:11 AM
Mar 2013

seek to lecture women on this board about those aspects of our feminism of which they disapprove.



whathehell

(29,055 posts)
325. Yes, and "good for you" my First World man, on being so cluelessly arrogant
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 07:21 AM
Apr 2013

as to lecture First World Women on our "complaints".

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
332. Please...Had it not been for your pomposity & utter tone-deafness, I could never have done it!
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 10:51 AM
Apr 2013

I believe it in giving credit where credit is due.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
293. the only reson they are propping this up as a martyr is to flog others here....
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 11:28 AM
Mar 2013

that a white american man is telling american women they have "first world problems" and should shut up, is hilarious. what in the world is the OP, if not a SJW with "white women's problems".
at first, I thought it was a parody, but sadly no.

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
323. First World White Men tell women "Don't complain"...Yes, the arrogance is hilarious
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 07:06 AM
Apr 2013

if for nothing beyond its complete lack of self-awareness.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
321. many, if not most of us are not lecturing, but simply stating our opinions
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 05:32 AM
Apr 2013

I don't think it is out of the ordinary for men to have opinions regarding women, and vice versa. It is quite common. Heck, certain feminism sub-groups on DU seem to have all sorts of opinions about how men should act and behave about their masculinity, and they talk about it all the time.

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
324. Maybe, but the OP wouldn't be one of those...His post is almost comically pompous, not to mention
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 07:15 AM
Apr 2013

arrogant.

"First World White Man scolds First World White Women for "complaining".

The irony is rich.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
329. I'm repulsed by the fake display of concern for this protester....
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 07:12 PM
Apr 2013

Did you see some people here thought she was protesting that she should be able to walk around topless? LOL.
And she was putting her life in grave danger - not so, but whatever dudes- just so that someday her daughters could walk around topless!

Wow, all these people were worshipping her bravery and had no idea if she was in any danger or what she was protesting. Instead they took wild guesses and failed big time. That shows exactly how much respect they actually had for her.

That's what happens when you marry a heap of ignorance on feminist issues with a grand dollop of wishful thinking.

whathehell

(29,055 posts)
330. Yes..It's "what happens when you marry a heap of ignorance on feminist issues with a grand
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 08:11 AM
Apr 2013

dollop of wishful thinking"

Spot on again, my friend.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
285. The reason why she did this was to generate outrage and discussion.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 10:27 AM
Mar 2013

She did that.

Mission accomplished.

I find it difficult to believe that someone who has posted nearly 30,000 times at DU would be shocked by the reaction from some DUers. Victorian attitudes and sexism exist at DU. You know that.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
291. Enthusiastic K&R
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 11:21 AM
Mar 2013

Thank you for writing this, Cliffordu.

I just spent the better part of the morning reading a few things here in GD and I am left wondering these very same things.

There has been a lot of false equivalency, red herring and to be honest -- attempts to shame some members when it runs counter to a few. It's one of those things that makes DU kinda suck. Antagonism in general sucks.

It is almost impossible to have a real and honest dialogue about some of the very real issues you have touched upon. I really wish we could have an honest dialogue.

You sir, do not make DU suck.

CrispyQ

(36,446 posts)
304. Here's a thread that was posted in an adult manner, without offensive titles.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 01:22 PM
Mar 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022588765

Thank you Cali!

Of course it won't get the number of views & hits because it doesn't have the word tits in it.

I can't pass judgement on those women, however, offensive words have no place in a discussion about women fighting for their rights. Amina’s message is that women are more than just objects for men - our bodies are our own, our minds are our own. But that DUer chose an account of the story that had an inflammatory title, which was in total contradiction to her message!

Words have power & when we relegate women to tits & ass in language, we are relegated to that in reality.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
318. I admire bravery and women who are badass enough
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 12:28 AM
Apr 2013

to take a stand, take care of themselves in a fight, make a point and risk their lives doing it. There is nothing about sex in the statement she is making. She's saying her body is hers. Even if she is naked she is not just a man's plaything. She is a person in control of all of herself. Her body and her mind. And she will fuck you up if you forget it.

That's the rhetorical you, not you, dear Cliff.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
319. Having a bit of difficulty at what you're getting at with the last line.
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 02:26 AM
Apr 2013

All I have is admiration for this woman's bravery.

Far as I'M concerned, her nudity has NOTHING to do with it.

What she wrote on her torso DOES.

She pulled a Solomon Rushdie while living in a predominantly Islamic country.

And what many of the self appointed defenders of feminism DID, was

compare her to a stripper. Right here on DU.

There are three or four OP's linked upstream here that illustrate that fact.

And THAT is what I was talking about.

I'll come back in the am and re-read what you have written.

I am very tired and may be misunderstanding what you are saying.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
327. I am agreeing with you.
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 11:39 AM
Apr 2013

She has put herself in the gravest of danger. It sent chills up my spine. Her body is not the source of anyone's honor. She wrote that on back. It is the most powerful message she could possibly send to a society that would stone her to death for all sorts of "sins" regarding showing her body or someone raping her, etc.

In my first post I should have said that a woman doesn't belong to her father or brother and she isn't just her husband's property, to make it third world appropriate.

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