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Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 12:13 PM Aug 2013

Jail Becomes Home for Husband Stuck With Lifetime Alimony

By Sophia Pearson - Aug 26, 2013

Ari Schochet has grown so accustomed to being sent to jail for missing alimony payments that he goes into a routine.

Before his family-court hearing, Schochet, 41, sticks on a nicotine patch to cope with jailhouse smoking bans, sends an “Ari Off the Grid” e-mail to friends and family, and scrawls key phone numbers in permanent ink on his forearm.

The former Citadel Investment Group Inc. portfolio manager, who once earned $1 million a year, has been jailed for missing court-ordered payments at least eight times in the past two years as he coped with the end of his 17-year marriage.

The reason he ran afoul of the law was simple. He was out of work for most of that time, a victim of a weak economy, and he ran through his savings trying to pay his wife alimony and child support that totaled almost $100,000 a year.

“It’s a circle of hell there’s just no way out of,” Schochet said. “I paid it as long as I could.”

Schochet and ex-spouses in similar changed circumstances say New Jersey’s law unfairly imposes lifetime alimony on them. If they fail to make payments, like the $78,000 a year Schochet owes his ex-wife in alimony, they can be jailed for contempt of court regardless of whether they have a job or resources.

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http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2013-08-26/jail-becomes-home-for-husband-stuck-with-lifetime-alimony.html

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Jail Becomes Home for Husband Stuck With Lifetime Alimony (Original Post) Purveyor Aug 2013 OP
“It’s a circle of hell there’s just no way out ...” Bullshit, he can go back to court. Scuba Aug 2013 #1
Exactly. Gormy Cuss Aug 2013 #4
Poor bastard. I wonder how many modifications he's applied for? NightWatcher Aug 2013 #2
Hard to feel sorry for a $1M/year portfolio manager. No pity for the wife, either. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #3
That's his side treestar Aug 2013 #5
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
3. Hard to feel sorry for a $1M/year portfolio manager. No pity for the wife, either.
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 12:20 PM
Aug 2013

$78,000 for doing what, exactly?

This couple clearly were living out some kind of lifestyle that very few of us could ever reach.

I have no pity.

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