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20 Reasons A Cat Is The Best Investment You'll Ever Make (Original Post) Are_grits_groceries Sep 2013 OP
Second picture is really touching. Thanks for sharing. :) nt Romulox Sep 2013 #1
damn straight! dionysus Sep 2013 #2
There's no better friend than a cat who loves you. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2013 #3
my 92 year old aunt loves cats so much... grasswire Sep 2013 #4
unfortunately we had two male cats. Both were neutered but they were constantly spraying. liberal_at_heart Sep 2013 #5
Male cats are nasty! We have a female and she is a lovable B Calm Sep 2013 #7
Absolute bullshit. I have two neutered males for almost 20 years now. They are dolls. nt Romulox Sep 2013 #9
Ours too. nt onehandle Sep 2013 #12
I have 3 & not 1 of them has ever "gone" in the house, nor scratched furniture. Perfect cats. Booster Sep 2013 #21
Zoey and Basil are so awesome. lark Sep 2013 #84
I guess your male cats are perfect. B Calm Sep 2013 #22
Mine was, too. GoCubsGo Sep 2013 #49
Lots of reasons. Atman Sep 2013 #52
this is common when you add a new cat. they are very territorial and need their own bettyellen Sep 2013 #70
My Grande just put you on The List NuclearDem Sep 2013 #11
We have 2 males and they're sweeties. It's a matter of personality. Like humans. Shrike47 Sep 2013 #13
I have one male cat and he's one nasty boy. He'll spray the whole B Calm Sep 2013 #15
Is he neutered? Brigid Sep 2013 #16
YES B Calm Sep 2013 #17
It's not necessarily a thing exclusive to male cats. NuclearDem Sep 2013 #25
Maybe you need more than one litterbox. My sister had 3 LibGranny Sep 2013 #83
I've had many male kitties over the years and they didn't spray and weren't "nasty." Arugula Latte Sep 2013 #18
The adult male cat we have showed up at our door one day hungry. I fed it B Calm Sep 2013 #20
I have 3 male cats, all neutered. One is a long-time sprayer Voice for Peace Sep 2013 #32
I have a sprayer too arikara Sep 2013 #44
Thanks, I'll try that LiberalEsto Sep 2013 #46
I use an all natural enzyme spray Voice for Peace Sep 2013 #60
I tried enzyme sprays too arikara Sep 2013 #65
I meant to say thanks earlier for the recipe.. oversight. Voice for Peace Sep 2013 #71
I've been using an enzyme spray for the cleanup.. excellent. Voice for Peace Sep 2013 #61
If this recipe works, you should go into business. n/t truedelphi Sep 2013 #63
My male cat is very loving. A big sap. WCLinolVir Sep 2013 #26
Males are not nasty! City Lights Sep 2013 #30
I have two (brothers) leftynyc Sep 2013 #33
My Male cat is very nasty. He likes spraying on the girl next door. BlueJazz Sep 2013 #67
Damn, what do you have a LION? LOL B Calm Sep 2013 #68
My female cat tears heads off of squirrels. MissB Sep 2013 #74
That's why I like female cats, they are better hunters. Better mousers too!! B Calm Sep 2013 #77
This is one reason I only have female animals rl6214 Sep 2013 #8
I have always liked female pets better than males. The best hunting dogs B Calm Sep 2013 #23
Seems like males who are neutered later in life retain those bad habits. trotsky Sep 2013 #31
We have two 10-year-old neutered female sister cats. One pees all over the place. LiberalEsto Sep 2013 #42
See my post above for a recipe arikara Sep 2013 #45
Our male cat.... curlyred Sep 2013 #75
I am a dog person but rl6214 Sep 2013 #6
I am also a dog person and am not really a cat fancier, RebelOne Sep 2013 #64
Are there hypoallergenic varieties? JHB Sep 2013 #10
Some are less allergenic than others TuxedoKat Sep 2013 #50
That's a heroic white cat risking its' life to save that person's arm from falling off Uncle Joe Sep 2013 #14
Cats are simply the best things on the planet. Arugula Latte Sep 2013 #19
Also, it doesn't surprise me that Stephen Colbert loves kitties. Arugula Latte Sep 2013 #24
Female cat mockmonkey Sep 2013 #27
I have no doubt once my daughter gets her own place she will have cats again. She loves their liberal_at_heart Sep 2013 #28
I went from 13 cats to 8 mockmonkey Sep 2013 #47
Meanwhile, my kitten is auditioning for a slasher film Prism Sep 2013 #29
. . . Le Taz Hot Sep 2013 #79
my cat, ella fitzgerald, takes care of me and I marvel everyday that she knows my every move xiamiam Sep 2013 #34
Get them fixed and de-clawed or JEB Sep 2013 #35
I took some veterinary assisting classes and after I learned what de-clawing is I vowed I would liberal_at_heart Sep 2013 #37
Agreed -- declawing is cruel. Atman Sep 2013 #53
Declawing is cruel but, JEB Sep 2013 #56
A declawed cat should never be outside. Atman Sep 2013 #57
My point is a cat with claws should never be outside. JEB Sep 2013 #59
Then you want a dead cat. Warpy Sep 2013 #80
"The best thing you can do for cats is to spay or neuter and keep indoors." JEB Sep 2013 #82
Our best mouser has no front claws. curlyred Sep 2013 #76
Picture #10 ChazInAz Sep 2013 #36
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2013 #85
I am more of a dog person. iandhr Sep 2013 #38
the humane society should keep kittens + baby puppies at nursing homes to get handled. pansypoo53219 Sep 2013 #39
They should...you hear of adoption agencies looking for volunteers to help socialize joeybee12 Sep 2013 #41
Only 20? joeybee12 Sep 2013 #40
Awesome! Thanks for posting. dballance Sep 2013 #43
Yup-yup! benld74 Sep 2013 #48
I miss being owned by a cat tabbycat31 Sep 2013 #51
I have two babies and they are the best thing that has ever happened to me... Liberal_Stalwart71 Sep 2013 #54
K&R Kitties are the best! MotherPetrie Sep 2013 #55
Cats sit on your lap and purr. SheilaT Sep 2013 #58
Sweet! shenmue Sep 2013 #62
Dude, I can't help but giggle everytime I see Hutzpa Sep 2013 #66
Yes, but after a while, Heywood J Sep 2013 #69
I rarely miss a chance to post in a Kitty thread samplegirl Sep 2013 #72
awwww so cute Liberal_in_LA Sep 2013 #73
My therapist has whiskers Prophet 451 Sep 2013 #78
LOL “I have lived with several Zen masters -- all of them cats.” - Eckhart Tolle grahamhgreen Sep 2013 #81

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
4. my 92 year old aunt loves cats so much...
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:24 PM
Sep 2013

...that she won't eat catfish. This is the serious truth.

She had a brown tabby that she had to give up because he was a puker (some cats are) and she was at risk of slipping/falling. Broke her heart.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
5. unfortunately we had two male cats. Both were neutered but they were constantly spraying.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:24 PM
Sep 2013

They ruined carpet in every rental house or apartment we were in. Both are gone now. I do miss them but do not miss the destroyed carpets.

lark

(23,065 posts)
84. Zoey and Basil are so awesome.
Thu Sep 12, 2013, 12:23 PM
Sep 2013

We call them Love Cats because they love each other, most people, and our 2 large dogs as well. It's really cute, they are all such good buddies. The male cat has never once sprayed in the house, maybe because we had him spayed early? Cats did scratch the furniture and climb the drapes when they were kittens, but the children strongly encouraged them in this, so I blame them, not the cats. Now that they are all adults, no problems at all.

GoCubsGo

(32,075 posts)
49. Mine was, too.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:40 PM
Sep 2013

He was as sweet as both of the females I have had. I miss him badly. The two boys I cat-sit are dolls, as well. My experience is that cats are "nasty" because they are either treated nasty, or were not socialized early enough (e.g., feral cats).

Atman

(31,464 posts)
52. Lots of reasons.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:53 PM
Sep 2013

We have one male and two females from the same litter of feral cats. We rescued them when they were only 3 weeks old -- they'd show up at our kitchen door every morning and sleep along the threshold for warmth. We "domesticated" them, and the male was wonderful...up until our son came home from college with his own little female kitty. As soon as she got here, one of the females turned into an outdoor cat again, and the male started marking his territory in the house. They were certainly never abused, and they had plenty of early socialization. The male just wants to be the boss. Our son's cat is tiny...three or four years old, still like a kitten. Super playful, hides behind things and jumps out at you, very friendly. And though she's 1/3 the size of the male, she beats him up all the time. It kinda sucks, because he was fine before she showed up.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
70. this is common when you add a new cat. they are very territorial and need their own
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 07:10 PM
Sep 2013

spaces and need you to help enforce their little pecking order. New kitties spark jealousy very frequently. They also need a scheduled playtime to run the energy out of them, or they will expend it fighting each other. The show My Cat from Hell has some amazing tips on getting the wild ones to chill out. The play sessions have completely ended my cats' fights.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
15. I have one male cat and he's one nasty boy. He'll spray the whole
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:37 PM
Sep 2013

damn house if I let him inside. He'll be gone for a couple days, then show up hungry, and have battle scars all over him. Right now he has a big gash on his neck from a cat fight.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
25. It's not necessarily a thing exclusive to male cats.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:00 PM
Sep 2013

My boy cat is good about using the litterbox while the three female cats tend to spray and poop all over the rest of the house.

It's a territorial behavior. If they feel threatened or sense an intruder to their territory, they'll mark it defensively. That seems to be the case with my cats.

LibGranny

(711 posts)
83. Maybe you need more than one litterbox. My sister had 3
Thu Sep 12, 2013, 12:16 PM
Sep 2013

indoor cats and also had 3 litter boxes - they used one exclusively for #2 and the other two boxes were for #1. The eldest cat trained the others as they came in to the household. Worked well for years. Cats are clean and want their "bathrooms" to be clean as well.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
18. I've had many male kitties over the years and they didn't spray and weren't "nasty."
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:48 PM
Sep 2013

They were awesome, lovable members of the family.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
20. The adult male cat we have showed up at our door one day hungry. I fed it
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:52 PM
Sep 2013

and it stayed. It was an adult cat when I had him neutered, and I think he just won't let go of his nasty habits.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
32. I have 3 male cats, all neutered. One is a long-time sprayer
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:45 PM
Sep 2013

and I think it's because his owner was always away,
so he became the property supervisor inside and
out. Keeping the territory marked is part of his work.
"Brother J"

We moved into a small house on his main property
so BroJ made sure our house smelled the way
it should. When he moved in with me, I already
had two very nice neutered male cats, neither were
sprayers.

After a few months, one of my boys figured out
how to do the spray thing. Now there are two.

I don't know how to stop it. FELIWAY helps a bit
as deterrent. Catching them in the act seems
to help for a while. I'm concerned people will
suspect me of meth manufacture. Sometimes
the whole property smells like cat piss.

arikara

(5,562 posts)
44. I have a sprayer too
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:30 PM
Sep 2013

although not as bad as he used to be. He thinks he has to defend the house from any random cat that passes by a window. For awhile the odor got so bad that I was actually getting depressed then I found this recipe.

1 c hydrogen peroxide
1 tsp baking soda
1 drop of dish soap.

Mix gently and use in a spray bottle. Douse the pissy area good and let it dry. It will probably smell worse until its dry so don't be alarmed. If it still smells then spray it again. I've never had to treat an area more than that, it always works, and it hasn't wrecked anything.

Good luck

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
60. I use an all natural enzyme spray
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 03:30 PM
Sep 2013

that completely eliminates the odors.. but doesn't stop the spraying.

Feliway and similar products are good for deterrent.

It's not super cheap but worth it for me.

arikara

(5,562 posts)
65. I tried enzyme sprays too
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 05:55 PM
Sep 2013

Some just left the smell of perfumed cat piss, others just didn't do the trick. I think the peroxide works by breaking down the protein, maybe the baking soda takes care of the enzyme. At any rate I also use it for many other cleaning jobs such as the bathroom because its so cheap, effective
and nontoxic.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
71. I meant to say thanks earlier for the recipe.. oversight.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 07:23 PM
Sep 2013

I'm always looking for nontoxic ways to clean stuff.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
61. I've been using an enzyme spray for the cleanup.. excellent.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 03:32 PM
Sep 2013

but for two years I have been trying to convince these two
male cats that they are friends and don't need to have
indoor pissing contests. Maybe one day they'll get it.

Kitty # 3 so far oblivious.. fingers crossed.

WCLinolVir

(951 posts)
26. My male cat is very loving. A big sap.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:20 PM
Sep 2013

I call him and he runs like Lassie. He lets us know how important we are to him. I do admit that some of the other cats don't like him.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
8. This is one reason I only have female animals
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:29 PM
Sep 2013

Two German Shepherds and one rescued feral kitty, and they all get along great.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
23. I have always liked female pets better than males. The best hunting dogs
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:55 PM
Sep 2013

I ever had were females. Female cats are better mousers too!

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
31. Seems like males who are neutered later in life retain those bad habits.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:40 PM
Sep 2013

We've never had any issues with our male cats, but they all have gotten neutered very young.

 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
42. We have two 10-year-old neutered female sister cats. One pees all over the place.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:26 PM
Sep 2013

She has destroyed the downstairs carpet as well as every small rug and bath mat she can get her ass onto. I've caught her peeing into a box of books. This has been going on for 3 or 4 years, possibly related to our getting a small friendly non-aggressive dog. However the dog and this cat will lick yogurt from a dish together with no conflicts, and sleep touching one another.

Yesterday I discovered that the cat had peed into my good Easy Spirit shoes, which go for $70 or more at department stores and $30 at Ross, and are the only shoes I can walk in anymore now that I'm in my 60s. $30 is stll a LOT of money to me. The pee also soaked into the wood floor under the shoes. I've been soaking the shoes in Advanced Nature's Miracle but they still reek and I have very little hope they can be salvaged.

I've had her thoroughly checked by the vet - blood tests, urine tests, etc. Nothing wrong. Hundreds of $$$ spent.

I didn't ask for these cats - my daughter rescued them from a shelter in 2003, when she was in college in another state, because she felt sorry for them. She then dumped them on me because she's very allergic to cats. (I've owned numerous cats in the past with no problems)

I am so sick of this cat's peeing that I wish I could get rid of her, if I could find anyone who wanted a 10-year-old cat with a bad peeing issue, who would take both her and her sister. I don't think I can face another 5 or more years of this.

curlyred

(1,879 posts)
75. Our male cat....
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 11:20 PM
Sep 2013

Is a found cat. Sixteen years ago he showed up at my mom's house. She couldn't have a cat but he stuck around until my daughter, then ten, showed up at my mom's. That cat took an instant liking to her and we wound up with another cat. Always thought he was a she. Many vet visits later found out otherwise. Had to apologize for that pink collar the poor fellow had to wear all that time.

No nasty habits there. I do think it has something to do with their age when fixed.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
64. I am also a dog person and am not really a cat fancier,
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 04:30 PM
Sep 2013

but I probably would have saved a lot of money for an pest exterminator if I had a cat during a rat invasion last year.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
50. Some are less allergenic than others
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:42 PM
Sep 2013

I have a Siberian (light-colored female) for that reason. Supposedly light-colored females produce the least amount of the protein in their saliva that causes cat allergies.


http://www.petfinder.com/cats/living-with-your-cat/cats-for-allergy-sufferers/


http://www.pawnation.com/2013/06/05/10-hypoallergenic-cat-breeds/9

Uncle Joe

(58,300 posts)
14. That's a heroic white cat risking its' life to save that person's arm from falling off
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:36 PM
Sep 2013

the window ledge.



Thanks for the thread, grits.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
24. Also, it doesn't surprise me that Stephen Colbert loves kitties.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 12:56 PM
Sep 2013

Men who love cats are the best -- (in general) smarter, funnier, kinder, and more secure with themselves than the average bear, err, man.

mockmonkey

(2,805 posts)
27. Female cat
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:22 PM
Sep 2013

My name is Candy

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I've destroyed two toasters, 5 pillows, one 20 inch LG monitor and a 19 inch Sony HDTV by peeing on them.

Here's what I did to the liner under the box spring.

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How else am I supposed see out?

I intentionally mess with the boy cats so that when they go after me I can scream like a Banshee.

Try to get rid of me and you'll be "Doomed"

"DOOMED"

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I keep the economy going and I haven't a care in the world.

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I don't have issues, the guy I own has BIG issues.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
28. I have no doubt once my daughter gets her own place she will have cats again. She loves their
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:25 PM
Sep 2013

spunky attitude. I like cats but I do think I'm done owning any.

mockmonkey

(2,805 posts)
47. I went from 13 cats to 8
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:35 PM
Sep 2013

My Ex took 5 of them. I have no idea what they are up to. If Candy wasn't so cute I don't know if I could put up with her behavior.

I now have an even boy/girl ratio. The boys are much more social but I do like the girls more.

I went without cats for over 20 years now I swarmed by them

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
29. Meanwhile, my kitten is auditioning for a slasher film
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:27 PM
Sep 2013

Demon kitty found a gap in the headboard and enjoys murderous swiping, especially as we sleep.

She also threw my iPhone in the toilet yesterday.

Because she could.

xiamiam

(4,906 posts)
34. my cat, ella fitzgerald, takes care of me and I marvel everyday that she knows my every move
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:54 PM
Sep 2013

she is about 4 pounds of might and wonder..been with me 15 years and I love her with all my heart. She is smart and purrfect. .and always has been. It is amazing that she loves me so unconditionally and protectively.
thanks for posting.. you touched a soft spot

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
37. I took some veterinary assisting classes and after I learned what de-clawing is I vowed I would
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:01 PM
Sep 2013

never do that to a cat. It's like us chopping off the tip of our fingers. Makes me nauseous just thinking about it.

 

JEB

(4,748 posts)
56. Declawing is cruel but,
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 03:08 PM
Sep 2013

so is sitting under the birdfeeder killing native songbirds for sport.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
57. A declawed cat should never be outside.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 03:20 PM
Sep 2013

They cannot defend themselves. Their primary defense mechanisms are their claws, both for slashing and scurrying up trees out of harms way.

 

JEB

(4,748 posts)
59. My point is a cat with claws should never be outside.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 03:28 PM
Sep 2013

Cats are natural bird killers and can wreak havoc on local bird populations. Give the vast number of cats .... They do make fine pets, but should be confined indoors for their own protection and the protection of native birds.

Warpy

(111,174 posts)
80. Then you want a dead cat.
Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:06 AM
Sep 2013

Most vets won't declaw a cat. There are now alternatives like Soft Paws. However, a cat without its claws is defenseless.

I understand sentimentality over songbirds. I keep my own furry friends indoors. However, sending a small animal outdoors utterly defenseless is cruel beyond belief and something only a monster would want to do to a companion animal.

The best thing you can do for cats is to spay or neuter and keep indoors.

 

JEB

(4,748 posts)
82. "The best thing you can do for cats is to spay or neuter and keep indoors."
Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:57 AM
Sep 2013

That is exactly the point I was trying to make.

curlyred

(1,879 posts)
76. Our best mouser has no front claws.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 11:22 PM
Sep 2013

Two cats with full sets, and the old guy with no front claws is the one that catches mice. Go figure.

ChazInAz

(2,559 posts)
36. Picture #10
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 01:57 PM
Sep 2013

Yeah!
I've always had cats. In my next life, I want to come back as one of my own cats.
Right now, I have two. Natsha Krospina I, Empress Of All The Cats, is an enormous (15 lbs), cobby Munchkin. Under her long black hair, she's built like a bulldog. Solid muscle and a a bulldog's stubborn attitude.
Hastur The Unspeakable is her exact opposite in every way. He's a neutered Savannah cat, who considers every living thing to be his best buddy, and will demonstrate that opinion at every opportunity. This annoys Natasha. Despite being male and part wildcat, Hastur is the happiest and most loving cat I've ever lived with. His amiable presence helped fill the gaping hole in my life when my wife passed away.

Response to ChazInAz (Reply #36)

pansypoo53219

(20,955 posts)
39. the humane society should keep kittens + baby puppies at nursing homes to get handled.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:06 PM
Sep 2013

i was at a nursing home + a nurse had brought in a 8 week or so kitten. needed to know the sex, i guess i am good at that. my cosmo had a GIRL collar at the pound. REALLY???? but i would carry it to perked up residents. when my grandma held my mom's new kitten when she had parkison's. THERAPY!

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
41. They should...you hear of adoption agencies looking for volunteers to help socialize
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:08 PM
Sep 2013

kittens...they should just bring them over to nursing homes for a few days...all the kittens really need is some touching and hands, and they'll get it that way quick enough.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
43. Awesome! Thanks for posting.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:26 PM
Sep 2013

I don't think I can express how happy it makes me when one of my cats caresses my face with their paws. It's such a show of love!

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
51. I miss being owned by a cat
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 02:48 PM
Sep 2013

I was owned by one from 1989-2011 when Tabby passed away and I haven't had a cat since.

I have a serious case of kitten fever right now and am seriously contemplating one, but I have to settle in my new city first.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
58. Cats sit on your lap and purr.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 03:26 PM
Sep 2013

Nothing a dog does is as sweet.

I've told my sons that if I get to the point where I need to be in a nursing home, make sure I'm in one that has resident cats.

samplegirl

(11,465 posts)
72. I rarely miss a chance to post in a Kitty thread
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 09:40 PM
Sep 2013

Meet the King of my castle.......Silas....a.k.a. Sugarbear!
The more I know people the more I love my cat that's for sure!!!! He's a mellow lap loving bundle of love. 13 years old.
Love him 24/7

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