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xchrom

(108,903 posts)
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:08 PM Sep 2013

i find my self oddly unaffected -- detached -- from news about these massacres any more.

there was a time i was horrified and angered --

but before new town -- i noticed it had become back ground noise for modern american life.

another day -- another massacre.

my loathing for 2a fundies simply knows no bounds.

as far as i'm concerned -- you fucked this country good.

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i find my self oddly unaffected -- detached -- from news about these massacres any more. (Original Post) xchrom Sep 2013 OP
Rec. I am convinced that if New Town was not able to bring change Not Me Sep 2013 #1
Newtown, CT... not New Town DontTreadOnMe Sep 2013 #5
what depresses me the most about them isn't the killing el_bryanto Sep 2013 #2
People want explanations - fast leftstreet Sep 2013 #10
That happens so often anymore, with every topic that arises in the news. . . Journeyman Sep 2013 #11
+ a gazillion. nt Mojorabbit Sep 2013 #44
I don't know. Sandy Hook just devastated me like no other news story has ever done. Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2013 #3
I find that true for myself as well. At the time, grandson Nay was 6 years old, in kindergarten, and Nay Sep 2013 #48
Everytime I see the parents, it just kills me. Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2013 #70
Yeah, Newtown just ripped my heart out of my chest and stomped on it. Still feels that way. Warren DeMontague Sep 2013 #52
and that's tragic, and that's exactly where these fucking gun nut idiots want us to be gopiscrap Sep 2013 #4
Yes. It's taken a part of my humanity. Nt xchrom Sep 2013 #6
You're not the only one gopiscrap Sep 2013 #7
I agree. NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #8
yes you put it better than I did...thank you! gopiscrap Sep 2013 #9
Fuck your interpretation of the 2nd amendment HERVEPA Sep 2013 #12
The second amendment has made us a nation of animals. Folk Darwinisism at it's worst coldmountain Sep 2013 #38
Excellent example of the quality of the "collective right" argument. Lizzie Poppet Sep 2013 #58
Gosh, if your logic didn't sway me, your amazing personal magnetism sure would! hatrack Sep 2013 #66
Thank you for your kindeness. HERVEPA Sep 2013 #67
Wow, the tree you picked couldn't be more wrong . . hatrack Sep 2013 #68
Thank you for giving me permission to do so. HERVEPA Sep 2013 #69
I think "gun nuts" includes the kind of person who would post a "what's your favorite gun" thread Electric Monk Sep 2013 #18
Different meanings to different people, it would seem. NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #20
My guess is he's talking about this EarlG Sep 2013 #32
Ah, thank you. NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #39
No. What it was was you being more upset at discussions of gun control than of the massacre CreekDog Sep 2013 #51
Hell, this afternoon we have people casually bring up conversations like this: Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2013 #34
You forget your own gun threads? RetroLounge Sep 2013 #36
I thought only Wayne LaPewPew could use Call Me Wesley Sep 2013 #40
Ugh Let's not get sickening. n/t Mushroom Sep 2013 #45
Screw your turning the 2nd amendment into a fetish. Katashi_itto Sep 2013 #59
Strange reply. NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #63
Obviously we won't be taking any steps to prevent such things. Jester Messiah Sep 2013 #13
We need COMPREHENSIVE MENTAL HEALTH CARE Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2013 #14
+1000 LuvNewcastle Sep 2013 #28
+1000 (nt) NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #47
Yet another thing we can blame on Ronnie Reagan. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2013 #56
And for that reason alone I consider him to be one of the worst presidents... AngryOldDem Sep 2013 #61
We can't even get comprehensive health care in this country. AngryOldDem Sep 2013 #60
I lost all faith we would do anything about gun control after Newtown. If 6 and 7 yr old children liberal_at_heart Sep 2013 #15
You just wait, someday someone will shoot a member of Congress, then... Mr.Bill Sep 2013 #46
I just keep thinking: it's all gonna collapse, sooner than later ... Myrina Sep 2013 #16
I feel that way all the time. n/t LuvNewcastle Sep 2013 #29
Newtown, Aurora, Iraq, Syria, the list of the daily tragedies is endless. panader0 Sep 2013 #17
There's a clinical term for it. Jackpine Radical Sep 2013 #19
That's too bad. HappyMe Sep 2013 #21
but that is not what the NRA wants, xchrom!! Skittles Sep 2013 #22
Right? xchrom Sep 2013 #25
I just woke up - saw the headline, have not read it yet Skittles Sep 2013 #26
We feel powerless because profit trumps human life BainsBane Sep 2013 #23
The UT Tower Shooting FarCenter Sep 2013 #24
The tower has been closed off ever since BainsBane Sep 2013 #27
Senseless thousands of gun deaths a year is a price big brother willingly pays to appease indepat Sep 2013 #30
The 2nd Amendment is more important than life. Iggo Sep 2013 #33
Me, too. The gun nuts have got the country they want - guns are used to settle kestrel91316 Sep 2013 #31
Very good Thisisverystrange Sep 2013 #35
welcome to DU! gopiscrap Sep 2013 #41
This is very strange. uppityperson Sep 2013 #49
Same with me. We have no cause to be shocked by this. We expect LeftinOH Sep 2013 #37
'We have no cause to be shocked by this.' nt xchrom Sep 2013 #43
I have begun to take these things very calmly. What I feel is more like a heavy heart getting jwirr Sep 2013 #42
Sad kentuck Sep 2013 #50
Not me. I can literally feel my blood pressure rising ecstatic Sep 2013 #53
K&R! Woke up to this news and my first thought was "not again!" Rhiannon12866 Sep 2013 #54
Too many people are more concerned with their right avebury Sep 2013 #55
I'm not that blasé, but I sure as hell wish the news shows would stop the damned wall-to-wall... Silent3 Sep 2013 #57
Watch the foreign news channels instead. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2013 #65
I know what you mean. AngryOldDem Sep 2013 #62
I am not jaded by it. tblue Sep 2013 #64

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
2. what depresses me the most about them isn't the killing
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:12 PM
Sep 2013

That's bad but I am desensitized to it I guess. What bugs me is how quickly everybody is an expert in what happened and what it means for us as a nation well before anybody knows anything. Something tragic just happened, how can you know immediately how to interpret it? I can't. I don't think you can either; so why not take some time, find out exactly what happened and then decide what it means.

Bryant

leftstreet

(36,106 posts)
10. People want explanations - fast
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:29 PM
Sep 2013

People want to believe they're in control of their lives and 'that couldn't happen to me,' so they look for reasons right now

If none are forthcoming, they'll invent, project, theorize until they're comfortable again

Journeyman

(15,031 posts)
11. That happens so often anymore, with every topic that arises in the news. . .
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:37 PM
Sep 2013

Everyone is immediately an expert on (the topic du jour -- and often topic of the hour, or even minute).

How much more refreshing, the words a friend told me years ago in response to something in the news:

"Well, there's something I've never thought of before. I'll have to give that a lot of consideration before I can form an opinion, and even then I may never come to a conclusion."

It made me realize I don't have to have an opinion on everything, and especially that I don't need to formulate an immediate opinion. It was rather freeing, in a sense. Now I find myself more often following your advice, waiting for the facts to develop and reading what others say before I make up my mind.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,173 posts)
3. I don't know. Sandy Hook just devastated me like no other news story has ever done.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:13 PM
Sep 2013

Perhaps though in part because I have two young children. I didn't have that type of mindset during past gun massacres.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
48. I find that true for myself as well. At the time, grandson Nay was 6 years old, in kindergarten, and
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 06:14 PM
Sep 2013

I truly felt destroyed emotionally. i couldn't seem to stop thinking about those poor children, and how much we would have suffered had our little guy died in such a horrible way. And how much I really hated that bastard who murdered them and his stupid damned mother who had guns around her defective son.

I am sorry that so many innocent workers died today, but Sandy Hook was orders of magnitude worse, if only in my mind.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,173 posts)
70. Everytime I see the parents, it just kills me.
Wed Sep 18, 2013, 10:01 AM
Sep 2013

I just can't stop thinking that in some truly fucked-up parallel universe, that could be me.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
52. Yeah, Newtown just ripped my heart out of my chest and stomped on it. Still feels that way.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 10:05 PM
Sep 2013

Maybe that means desensitization to anything that comes after, I don't know. But that was about the most horrible of horrible things.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
8. I agree.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:27 PM
Sep 2013

If by "gun nuts" (a term so overused it's practically meaningless) or "gun nut idiots" you mean people so filled with hate that they would kill not just one but dozens of strangers, and would use a bomb as soon as they'd use a gun.

Then we agree.

If on the other hand you mean people who support the second amendment and, like President Obama, believe that it is an individual right.

Then we disagree.

 

coldmountain

(802 posts)
38. The second amendment has made us a nation of animals. Folk Darwinisism at it's worst
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:32 PM
Sep 2013

I doubt the founding fathers would have allowed this form of terrorism

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
58. Excellent example of the quality of the "collective right" argument.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 02:09 AM
Sep 2013

And more succinct than most, so thanks for that.

hatrack

(59,583 posts)
66. Gosh, if your logic didn't sway me, your amazing personal magnetism sure would!
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 05:13 PM
Sep 2013

Have a nice day.

hatrack

(59,583 posts)
68. Wow, the tree you picked couldn't be more wrong . .
Wed Sep 18, 2013, 09:08 AM
Sep 2013

But continue to bark up it if doing so makes you feel better . . .

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
18. I think "gun nuts" includes the kind of person who would post a "what's your favorite gun" thread
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:44 PM
Sep 2013

while the latest mass shooting is still fresh in everyone's minds.

Yes, I remember.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
20. Different meanings to different people, it would seem.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:46 PM
Sep 2013

Do you have a link to this poll?

Since you brought it up, I'd like to see it.

...

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
39. Ah, thank you.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:36 PM
Sep 2013

I hope you remember that was a regrettably inept attempt to express disagreement with you all on the matter of gun discussions in the GD forum.

The topic of sensible gun legislation, as you know, is a very heated one with more heat than light.

I'm on the record as being in support of more uniform laws and have said more than once that we should expand California's strict laws to the other 49 states.

Though I disagree with some current legislation that I don't think will help: reclassifying all semi-automatic rifles with removable clips as "assault weapons".

Such moves only serve to make gun laws LESS consistent from coast to coast, IMO.

Cheers.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
51. No. What it was was you being more upset at discussions of gun control than of the massacre
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 09:14 PM
Sep 2013

So much so that you posted your gun humping OP less than 48 hours after Sandy Hook.

Because you think of yourself only.

Call Me Wesley

(38,187 posts)
40. I thought only Wayne LaPewPew could use
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:37 PM
Sep 2013

a tragedy to enforce the second amendment with a straight face. Seems I was a tad wrong.

 

Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
59. Screw your turning the 2nd amendment into a fetish.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 03:33 AM
Sep 2013

But I have no problem with you having as many guns as you like, provided we put a $5, bullet tax on each bullet.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
63. Strange reply.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 10:13 AM
Sep 2013
If by "gun nuts" (a term so overused it's practically meaningless) or "gun nut idiots" you mean people so filled with hate that they would kill not just one but dozens of strangers, and would use a bomb as soon as they'd use a gun.

Then we agree.

If on the other hand you mean people who support the second amendment and, like President Obama, believe that it is an individual right.

Then we disagree.


Katashi_itto
59. Screw your turning the 2nd amendment into a fetish.

But I have no problem with you having as many guns as you like, provided we put a $5, bullet tax on each bullet.


So, I agree with President Obama. Exactly what did I say that prompted that reply?



 

Jester Messiah

(4,711 posts)
13. Obviously we won't be taking any steps to prevent such things.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:42 PM
Sep 2013

At least, not as a country. All you can do is take steps to protect yourself and those you love. The 2A became a self-fulfilling prophecy. By guaranteeing the right of crazies and idiots to have unfettered access to weapons, they've created a compelling case for everyone to arm up.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
14. We need COMPREHENSIVE MENTAL HEALTH CARE
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:43 PM
Sep 2013


Our society is run by insane people for insane objectives. ... I think we're being run by maniacs for maniacal ends and I think I'm liable to be put away as insane for expressing that. That's what's insane about it. --John Lennon


Insanity - a perfectly rational adjustment to an insane world. -- R. D. Laing


The easiest thing a person can do is criticize another human being. --Lynn M. Little

LuvNewcastle

(16,844 posts)
28. +1000
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:04 PM
Sep 2013

We need it bad. We've got a whole lot of very sick people and we don't currently have a systematic way to treat them until they do something heinous. We have very poor planning skills in this country. We move from one disaster to the next, picking up the pieces. Then we talk about what we could have done, but the same thing happens over and over again. Is it possible for America to learn from its history, or are we doomed to this nightmare cycle? This is the reason why so many of us have become numb to these disasters.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
56. Yet another thing we can blame on Ronnie Reagan.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 12:34 AM
Sep 2013

Closed the mental hospitals, was gonna mainstream people into group homes and functioning in society, right?? Didn't work out that way. Now they're trying to bring back the poorhouses--debtors' prison. And the greed decade of the 80s and the competitive nature of society got worse and worse. Fewer jobs with more people chasing them.

It's not what you know, it's who you know. Crony capitalism. Qualifications and education mean nothing.

You know the drill, especially if you are old enough to be a baby boomer.

I don't let mass shootings affect me anymore either. Compassion fatigue when there are too many good causes and not enough money directed at them, and we need a new outlook, a paradigm shift (read The Structure of Scientific Revolutions by Thomas Kuhn, 1964).


AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
61. And for that reason alone I consider him to be one of the worst presidents...
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 06:08 AM
Sep 2013

...if not one of the worst human beings, of all time. I've seen first hand the results of his "mainstreaming" programs. People who cannot take care of themselves having to fend for themselves. People who have no place to go to once they leave the care facility. People who can't keep up with their medications, for a variety of reasons. People who have no skills to cope with the world. There is a direct reason why most of today's homeless population has some degree of mental illness -- some very severe.

Fuck Reagan.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
60. We can't even get comprehensive health care in this country.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 06:03 AM
Sep 2013

Let alone mental health care, which has always taken a back seat in society anyway.

I totally agree with your post. But sadly I think it will never happen.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
15. I lost all faith we would do anything about gun control after Newtown. If 6 and 7 yr old children
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:44 PM
Sep 2013

can't motivate us to do something, nothing will.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
16. I just keep thinking: it's all gonna collapse, sooner than later ...
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:44 PM
Sep 2013

.... and part of me really wants it to happen, like in the next couple years, so the sane ones among us can pick up the pieces and start civilization over again.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
17. Newtown, Aurora, Iraq, Syria, the list of the daily tragedies is endless.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:44 PM
Sep 2013

It is not hard to become numb and "detached" from the daily onslaught of horrific news.
Yet I believe that mankind will someday emerge from this. All things are bound for fruition.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
21. That's too bad.
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:49 PM
Sep 2013

What it should do is galvanize people to demand changes. This whole issue seems to have been dumped by the wayside.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
26. I just woke up - saw the headline, have not read it yet
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:55 PM
Sep 2013

isn't it essentially the same story over and over? F***ing depressing.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
23. We feel powerless because profit trumps human life
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:50 PM
Sep 2013

What we can do is oust he assholes that vote against gun control. The vast majority are Republicans, but a few are Democrats. Look at who voted down the background check legislation earlier this year. They need to go.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
24. The UT Tower Shooting
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:51 PM
Sep 2013
On August 1, 1966, Charles Whitman climbed to the top of the University of Texas Tower with three rifles, two pistols, and a sawed-off shotgun. The 25-year-old architectural engineering major and ex-Marine—who had previously complained of searing headaches and depression—had already murdered his mother, Margaret, and his wife, Kathy, earlier that morning. He fired his first shots just before noon, aiming with chilling precision at pedestrians below. “The crime scene spanned the length of five city blocks . . . and covered the nerve center of what was then a relatively small, quiet college town,” noted executive editor Pamela Colloff in her 2006 oral history of the shootings. “Hundreds of students, professors, tourists, and store clerks witnessed the 96-minute killing spree as they crouched behind trees, hid under desks, took cover in stairwells, or, if they had been hit, played dead.”

At the time, there was no precedent for such a tragedy. Whitman “introduced the nation to the idea of mass murder in a public space,” wrote Colloff. By the time he was gunned down by an Austin police officer early that afternoon, he had shot 43 people, thirteen of whom died.

The shootings garnered international attention. “The cover of Life the next week made a big impression on all of us,” UT alumnus Shelton Williams told Texas Monthly in 2006. “The photo, which was taken from the victim’s point of view, was of the Tower, as seen through a window with two gaping bullet holes in it. From that vantage point it looked menacing, even evil—not the triumphant symbol of football victories we were used to.”

At year’s end, the Associated Press and United Press International ranked the shootings as the second most important story of 1966, behind only the war in Vietnam. The massacre would spur the creation of SWAT teams across the country. Because such tactical teams did not exist at the time of Whitman’s crime, many students had risked their own lives to fire back at the unseen sniper, or to help wounded strangers to safety.


http://www.texasmonthly.com/topics/ut-tower-shooting

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
27. The tower has been closed off ever since
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 03:55 PM
Sep 2013

The problem, they evidently think, is not guns but clock towers.



I walked by there, from Garrison hall passing by the tower on the way to the Student Union and Guadalupe, every day for years.

indepat

(20,899 posts)
30. Senseless thousands of gun deaths a year is a price big brother willingly pays to appease
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:07 PM
Sep 2013

the NRA/other 2nd Amendment extremists while shamelessly eviscerating several other constitutional right in the name of keeping us safe from foreign terraists. Dichotomously oxymoronic?

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
31. Me, too. The gun nuts have got the country they want - guns are used to settle
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:10 PM
Sep 2013

far too many disputes.

LeftinOH

(5,354 posts)
37. Same with me. We have no cause to be shocked by this. We expect
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:28 PM
Sep 2013

that multiple-victim shooting rampages occur with regularity, and that it's just a part of our culture. We hate it, but we don't hate it enough ...apparently.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
42. I have begun to take these things very calmly. What I feel is more like a heavy heart getting
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 04:40 PM
Sep 2013

heavier.

ecstatic

(32,681 posts)
53. Not me. I can literally feel my blood pressure rising
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 10:18 PM
Sep 2013

with each new incident. If we don't do something about the NRA and repugs, this nation is doomed. Slightly off topic, but this is why I get so mad about all the democratic infighting while the people who are truly destroying the country get a free pass.

Rhiannon12866

(205,161 posts)
54. K&R! Woke up to this news and my first thought was "not again!"
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 10:25 PM
Sep 2013

I think David Letterman needs to bring back his "Stooge of the Night," various RW congress members who oppose gun control even though the vast majority of their constituents are overwhelmingly in favor of it.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
55. Too many people are more concerned with their right
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 10:29 PM
Sep 2013

to own an unlimited amount of guns with massive fire power then they are concerned about their fellow human beings. So much for being a Christian nation that values life. I have stopped paying attention to all those gun massacre stories. I no longer to invest energy in that which I cannot change.

Silent3

(15,200 posts)
57. I'm not that blasé, but I sure as hell wish the news shows would stop the damned wall-to-wall...
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 01:00 AM
Sep 2013

...coverage that glorifies these acts, which I think not only makes them more tempting to commit, but overestimates their importance compared to many other things that are always going on in the world. Things that claim far more lives. Issues that have, are, or will effect the well-being of many more people.

Typically this wall-to-wall coverage is thin on information, thick with useless speculation that often turns out to be wrong later (but fills people's heads with misinformation that they never hear corrected), and chock full of pointlessly, endlessly looping footage.

I keep hoping that some major US news show somewhere with have the guts to give an event like this no more than five minutes at the top of their show, save any "breaking news" updates until some truly new and conclusive information comes in, and then move on to other important stories.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
65. Watch the foreign news channels instead.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 05:08 PM
Sep 2013

I watch the Chinese channel (CCTV) and the Russian channel (RT). They cover the rest of the world as well as the U.S. RT runs unflattering stories on things like the prison-industrial complex that you would not see on American networks.

We are supposed to have Al Jazeera on DISH but they probably refuse to carry it here in Dumbfukkistan where they get sexually excited over the semi-auto weapons they have to use to plug Bambi.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
62. I know what you mean.
Tue Sep 17, 2013, 06:14 AM
Sep 2013

And if we ever reach the "SSDD" attitude, then God help us all.

But yes, you do become somewhat numb to it after awhile. Hell, when a school shooting just gets a passing mention on the news anymore, as most do, unless it's totally catastrophic, you know we're on the slippery slope.

I was hoping that the legacy of Sandy Hook would be a serious and renewed effort to control guns and gun violence in this country. Joke's on me, apparently.

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