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This really took me aback. She believes the whole death panel myth which is her reasoning. Not only that, she hates Obama so much that she refuses to acknowledge that Obamacare can help people. It was quite stunning to read.
She calls herself a Christian, prays for Obamacare to die, and his blinded by hate.
This is what I posted on FB and she knows it was directed at her...
Ooh, death panels. That's how evil Obamacare is. Of course the repubs want to scare the crap out of people by saying that in order to save a buck that old people are going to be either euthanized or denied life-saving care. Of course, it's not true, but some won't believe anything else even if they read it. Some even think it's their Christian duty to pray that people won't get the benefit of Obamacare which means having affordable health coverage so they can go to a doctor. I don't get that at all. Why pray for people to do without or lose their insurance? Death panels. In their eyes that's what it is. Let's examine exactly what Obamacare says. For the benefit of time and my laziness I copied and pasted this from about.com
The clause in Section 1233 of the bill actually requires the Medicare program to reimburse doctors if a Medicare beneficiary asks them for consultation on advanced care, end-of-life planning considerations like how to make a living will, assign people to make health care decisions for them (durable power of attorney), and hospice care (which is actually already covered under Medicare).
The "every five years" part of the death panel rumor stems from the fact that Section 1233 of the bill requires Medicare to pay for the advanced care planning services only once every five years. Once again, the consultation would be provided and paid for by Medicare only if requested by the beneficiary.
Describing the "death panels" claims as being "rife with gross-and even cruel-distortions," the American Association of Retired People (AARP) has supported the Advanced Care Planning Consultation requirement, stating that it "would not only help people make the best decisions for themselves [on end-of-life care], but also better ensure that their wishes are followed."
I took the time to actually read the thing. Some would rather let politically motivated talking heads tell them what their opinions should be. Some have allowed their hatred of Obama to blind them to the point of only thinking the worst and there is no changing their minds. That is sad. I'm not expecting this to change anyone's mind. I do however think it speaks to the mindset of some who pray that Obamacare dies uncaring of how losing that law affects millions of Americans. They, in fact, should be praying for improvements in the law such as a public option, expanding the exchanges, and offering Medicare and Medicaid to more people. This helps our citizens and that's something everyone should want. That is all.
Anyway, that's what I said. I doubt she'll respond to it. She was angry enough that she deleted our entire conversation.
Scurrilous
(38,687 posts)SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)cynatnite
(31,011 posts)The Second Stone
(2,900 posts)Let it go. Your sister is an idiot.
brewens
(13,574 posts)brother-in-law is a moderate Republican. My brother is a Democrat and a Catholic deacon. We don't talk about religion much either. He gave me a tour of his church once. I questioned if it was even safe for me to pass through the door? He said, "we'll just throw some holy water on you, if you don't burst into flames, we're good!"
When our mother passed away, unlike some families, we had to fight over getting each other to take stuff. Eventually, we got it all divied up fairly.
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)but she's been posting this tripe and I finally said something.
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)was probably a little bit out of anger - but I would bet money that it was mostly out of shame. Which means you are getting through at least a little.
I know that probably doesn't help but I do understand sisters who have a screw loose or a thick skull. (Especially if they are older, like mine.) I just avoid politics altogether with her. It hurts too much.
Triana
(22,666 posts)raging moderate
(4,297 posts)You know, there is that new anti-Obamacare ad. This young woman goes into a clinic and tells them she has Obamacare coverage. After she is in her little gown on the examining table, the doctor says something like, "Good luck with that!" and leaves. Then this creepy Uncle Sam effigy pops up between her legs with a sinister long tool and says, "Let's have a look!"
I think the creepy Uncle Sam effigy should morph into a mylar balloon, gradually swell, and then pop! And reveal somebody like Cruz, or Cuccinelli, or Corker inside the disguise! The closing message would be something like, "Propaganda against the Affordable Care Act is full of hot air!"
Kath1
(4,309 posts)My sister was pretty much the same - staunch Catholic, Republican, voted for Bush and McCain, posted all kinds of RW nonsense on FB all the time. Then she shocked me about a month before the Presidential election by asking me if I could get her an "OBAMA 2012" bumper sticker. I gladly obliged (I had a few for friends) and gave her one of those and a "Women For Obama 2012" sticker, as well. We put them on her car right in my driveway. Laughingly commented that her husband would be pissed. Told me I had finally (FINALLY!) gotten through to her. Told me she had tuned out Fox News and RW radio for a while and tuned in to what I recommended - Amy Goodman, NPR, Stephanie Miller, Rachel Maddow, etc. She said Limbaugh's a-hole trashing of Sandra Fluke was the last straw for her. She told me that voting for Obama was a joyful and liberating experience for her.
Little sis has a whole new attitude and glow these days! Seems much happier, looks and dresses cooler and loves talking left politics. Even posts pro-Obamacare and pro-choice on FB. I always told her she was too nice and too smart to support Republicans.
Good luck with your sister. Family is more important than politics but don't give up on her. Keep speaking the truth and, just maybe, she'll have a similar conversion.
PEACE
Veilex
(1,555 posts)"she hates". No who follows Christianity's tenets would hate, because its antithetical to the teachings of Christ. God is Love... Not God loves money. Just a slight difference there. Oh and lets not forget, the teachings of Christ said we are suppose to be Christ-like... maybe I just missed that part where it says "Holy art though who is selfish and hordeth his money".
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)Elwood P Dowd
(11,443 posts)because they can't get health insurance under the present system. Millions of uninsured will now get it. Something like 40,000 Americans die every year because they can't afford insurance or because they had pre-existing conditions and were denied coverage by insurance companies that are raking in billions of dollars a year in profits. Obamacare will dramatically reduce that number because we will no longer have 50 million Americans without any form of health care insurance.
Ask her whose side Jesus would take. Would he side with the sick and poor who are uninsured and desperately need the health care coverage, or would he side with the billionaires who own the health insurance companies and the millionaires like Rush Limbaugh who are pumping her full of shit?
Skittles
(153,150 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)I feel very sorry for them over their extremely narrow POV.
Mr.Bill
(24,282 posts)has existed since 1989. It was signed into law be George H. W. Bush. The affordable care act merely provides compensation for doctors and other certified health care professionals (or their facilities that employed them) for the time they spend doing it. Before she retired, my wife, an RN was one of those certified health care professionals that performed this service at a hospital on an almost daily basis for years. The ironic thing is that over 90% of the people who fill them out want to die peacefully by having the "plug pulled".
Sarah Palin, in one of the great political deceptions of our time, made millions of uninformed people think that people like my wife would be deciding who lives and dies through a "death panel". It's disturbing to think that this many people are this incredibly gullible and stupid.
Edit: I should note to the OP that I did not intend to insult your family member. I was speaking in general terms, please don't take my comments personally.
Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)This "death panel" crapola was just a little too much for some of the right-wing nut jobs. As the saying goes, even buzzards gag sometimes.
The footnotes don't survive the DU markup, but there are half a dozen of them, citing MSM sources for each assertion.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)isn't real.
Silver linings and all that.
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)They push horror stories coming out of Britain showing what the future would hold in America.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1367781/Cancer-operations-denied-thousands-elderly-patients-ageism.html
nyquil_man
(1,443 posts)OmahaBlueDog
(10,000 posts)Seriously... trust an HMO? Tell your sister how that works; a doctor is paid based on keeping your health care expenditures under the plan as low as possible. Example: Herniated disc? Why pay for expensive surgery when we can keep feeding you oxycodone?
HMOs are the original death panels. Your sister needs to pray for an end to capitated health care.
9 times out of 10, I'll trust the feds over a corporation.
Mr.Bill
(24,282 posts)have existed for years. They are at the insurance companies. Their days are numbered, thanks to the Affordable Care Act.
DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)...it never seems to improve either. All these so-called Christians who don't know nor understand what their religion stands for. At this stage it can only be viewed as willful ignorance. No one can be that stupid by mistake.
First off, she's not allowed to judge others. She should know this. This is a CENTRAL THEME OF CHRISTIANITY. Forgiveness, right? You remember the guy who died for everyone's sins? Yeah that guy. Since that happened, everybody's now golden. So no one gets to point fingers since we're all damaged goods that have been redeemed. Just remind her that she will be judged the same as she judges others (Matthew 7).
And you can also remind her of Matthew 25, in particular verses 34-46. That's the ones where Jesus says he's going to send all those who failed to feed the hungry, to give drink for those who thirst, to clothe the naked, to take in the stranger, and visit the sick and imprisoned -- to get out of his sight and on into perdition with all the other old goats. Its right there in black and white.
- Being a PK has its advantages. I've always use religion's words to chastise up-righteous, wicked, and sick people. I've found that it usually shuts them up every time....
K&R
Stuart G
(38,419 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)becomes more like him every day.
She's not stupid, but she's always been of that weird mindset that Rs have that makes them think poor people are getting over on everyone and rich people are superior. Luckily she lives hundreds of miles away. I hope she has a happy life, but I honestly don't care if I ever see her again.
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)I keep think to myself, "Come on, they can't be serious. They got to be putting me on." But they are not. They are actually serious and that is just plain nuts.
Hulk
(6,699 posts)It's a shame. They are all, three sisters and the brother, high school graduates, with pretty low reasoning skills. They are all in their mid to late 70's now. And they are all worried about their "nest eggs" being shared with anyone else. Of course, they ALL have enough of a nest egg to live another 150 years of retirement quite comfortably; but that's beside the point.
I think it boils down to: Do you watch fox-nonsense and take it seriously? Then, if the answer is yes, you are scared to death of the Affordable Care Act. Pretty simple.
Deep13
(39,154 posts)MFM008
(19,805 posts)how do these people loose their minds? We think we know them.
Now my sister was an ardent democrat but this boyfriend she has is a doomsdayer type and she is slipping some...."oh maybe hes right"........no, no hes not right hes a nutjob.
She doesnt come around as much any more. I swear I should just beat the shit out of her like i did when she was a kid. I was 8 years older see....big sister.
I just dont get it.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)Your sister has been fed a steady diet of this insane RW propaganda. My sister has joined her. It is heartbreaking.
B Calm
(28,762 posts)Stuart G
(38,419 posts)prefunk
(157 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,079 posts)Right down to deleting conversations that don't go his way. I just don't bother engaging him any longer. It's a waste of time and effort.
Downtown Hound
(12,618 posts)by arguing over Obamacare on facebook. Her aunt was much like your sister, believing all the propaganda and lies, so full of irrational hate. She got so angry that she actually had a heart attack while sitting behind the computer screen.
She survived, but now my friend feels guilty about it, like she caused it to happen. She didn't though. The Republicans and the hate they espouse did.
Too bad Obamacare hadn't been implemented at the time. Her aunt might have found out that she would have saved a lot of money.