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riqster

(13,986 posts)
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 08:56 AM Oct 2013

John Arthur, Warrior, has passed away.

http://bluntandcranky.wordpress.com/2013/10/22/8127/
"A very brave man has died. John Arthur, who with his husband forced the Teapublican government of Ohio to recognize their same-sex marriage, has passed away. He will be listed as Mr. Obergefell’s husband on the death certificate, and the two will be buried side by side.

You know, just like every other married couple. Because he was a warrior. Because he had to be a warrior.

RIP John Arthur. If there is any justice in this universe, your memory will be honored for many years to come."

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John Arthur, Warrior, has passed away. (Original Post) riqster Oct 2013 OP
RIP - nt Ohio Joe Oct 2013 #1
Rest in peace. HappyMe Oct 2013 #2
To continue the trend of telling folks what words are "wrong" to use... Decaffeinated Oct 2013 #3
There are wars that are not fought with weapons. riqster Oct 2013 #4
A simply vile thing to put in a memorial thread Ohio Joe Oct 2013 #5
Wow, you don't know much about the gay rights movement or being gay do you? justiceischeap Oct 2013 #6
Interesting... Decaffeinated Oct 2013 #7
 

Decaffeinated

(556 posts)
3. To continue the trend of telling folks what words are "wrong" to use...
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 09:05 AM
Oct 2013

Calling someone a warrior who has never gone to war is just wrong. Same thing when football players talk about going into "battle"

No you're not... No you didn't... No one was trying to kill you... You didn't have to try to take someone's life... It just ain't so...

In no way does it demean whatever he accomplished in his life but that term just doesn't apply.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
4. There are wars that are not fought with weapons.
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 09:16 AM
Oct 2013

People battle addictions; they fight for equality;my mother was in a war against lung cancer for quite some years. And so on. But don't take my word for it, check the dictionary:

http://m.dictionary.com/definition/warrior?linkid=ibc5yn&srcpage=home&site=dictwap

warrior[ wawr-ee-er, wawr-yer, wor-ee-er, wor-yer ]
noun
1. a person engaged or experienced in warfare; soldier.
2. a person who shows or has shown great vigor, courage, or aggressiveness, as in politics or athletics.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
6. Wow, you don't know much about the gay rights movement or being gay do you?
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 02:08 PM
Oct 2013

There aren't many statistics on the exact numbers but in 2011 30 people were killed for being LGBTQ. I suspect there are more that aren't reported in that manner.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/02/anti-gay-hate-crimes-murders-national-coalition-of-anti-violence-programs_n_1564885.html

Gay people get the shit beat out of us all the time for just being gay. It's still legal in most states to openly discriminate against us, fire us from our jobs, deny us housing...

No, we're not fighting a war at all.

There are many levels to war and killing someone or being killed doesn't always mean a war isn't being fought.

 

Decaffeinated

(556 posts)
7. Interesting...
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 09:56 PM
Oct 2013

I still disagree but obviously no one is gong to force you one way or another.

On an unrelated note, 28 folks died from lightning strikes last years as well. http://www.lightningsafety.noaa.gov/fatalities12.htm

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