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FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:42 AM Nov 2013

Blaming a 13yr old holding a toy is like blaming the Rape Victim for wearing a dress

Its the delusional SOB jumping to conclusions in his head who is at fault

What we do know is witnesses claim the officers only shouted drop the weapon once from inside their car. The officers failed to identify their selves as law enforcement as prescribe by Supreme Court Decisions governing lawful use of deadly force. The victim was given No Time to drop the toy. Andy Lopez was breaking no laws.

So when some one perceives in their own mind they have a Adult Gang Banger out on a mission with a REAL Weapon before they even approach the scene - THEY and they alone have acted/assumed improperly and are 100% at fault

just the same as if they see a woman wearing a dress and perceive "She Wants it" and Rape her

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Blaming a 13yr old holding a toy is like blaming the Rape Victim for wearing a dress (Original Post) FreakinDJ Nov 2013 OP
no it's not but thanks for playing the 'really bad analogies' game leftyohiolib Nov 2013 #1
Thanks for the lame Murder Apology FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #3
It's not justifying murder, it's pointing out a bad analogy. Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2013 #11
It was the perception in the shooters mind that caused this FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #14
The police are becoming militarized. Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2013 #16
What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? Orrex Nov 2013 #19
OP isn't here... Lancero Nov 2013 #22
The "Pointing" thingy is in dispute - or do apologist not recognise multiple witnesses FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #24
I can't speak for the apologists, and you didn't answer my question. Orrex Nov 2013 #39
Bullet Trajectory proves he never "Pointed" the toy FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #41
That wasn't the question Orrex Nov 2013 #55
Doesn't apply to this case FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #56
As everyone in the thread has already observed, your analogy is bullshit Orrex Nov 2013 #60
Every citizen has the Right to Defend themselves FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #61
You still haven't answered the question that I asked. Why not? Orrex Nov 2013 #62
His hand wasn't on the trigger - it doesn't apply FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #65
I want you to answer the question that I asked Orrex Nov 2013 #67
I've answered the question repeatedly - you don't like the answer FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #74
In which post did you answer it? Orrex Nov 2013 #75
Every Citizen has the Right to Defend Theirself FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #78
Amazingly, you still haven't answered my question. Orrex Nov 2013 #86
Amazing you still lack the ability to comprehend FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #89
I am more than happy to draw attention to your bullshit analogy. Orrex Nov 2013 #92
Almost verbatim from SCOTUS decision FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #93
You STILL aren't answering the question that I asked Orrex Nov 2013 #94
the analogy goes beyond bullshit and is offensive. i agree. to use rape in this manner is more seabeyond Nov 2013 #63
How many times have we read about this? Orrex Nov 2013 #68
point seabeyond Nov 2013 #71
the difference between LEO/militarist kneejerks and 2nd Amendment buffs reddread Nov 2013 #70
I don't know what you're talking about... NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #2
about as offensive as murdering a 13yr old boy blaming a toy FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #5
Like I said...I have no idea what you're talking about. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #7
This FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #9
look here Duckhunter935 Nov 2013 #18
Yes, that definitely looks real. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #20
Which is why Gelhaus thinks he can "Get Away with Murder" FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #35
The "gun" on the right looks as if it has a truncated barrel... Eleanors38 Nov 2013 #50
we could have used a cop like this guy tapermaker Nov 2013 #85
why would a kid holding a toy gun left is right Nov 2013 #4
Especially when they DON'T idfentiy their self as Law Enforcement FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #6
no, it's not although I appreciate the point you're trying to make cali Nov 2013 #8
Some dresses look so sexy and inviting FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #10
Oh, come on. Nine Nov 2013 #12
I think at this point Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2013 #17
cops are afraid of being shot which makes some of them trigger happy cali Nov 2013 #13
My point is - his mind was made up BEFORE he got out the car FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #15
it is reasonable to fear guns, it's not reasonable to rape in any case JI7 Nov 2013 #25
In BOTH cases they "See what they WANT to see" FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #26
it's never ok to rape anyone JI7 Nov 2013 #27
"Fear" and "criminal intent" are two entirely different motivations jberryhill Nov 2013 #28
The Bullet Trajectory proved he didn't point the toy at the cop FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #29
wrong. as rapists fuck 80 yr old women, a rapist does not THINK about his victim. the victim is a seabeyond Nov 2013 #64
The police could have acted differently, but you're terrible at supporting the victim. aikoaiko Nov 2013 #21
If you're looking to salvage your rape analogy WRT out-of-control police procedure and Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2013 #23
You can kill someone with a dress? Throd Nov 2013 #30
No it's not - I miss unrec. nt Crabby Appleton Nov 2013 #31
gun nuts will justify any violence to keep their guns Ohio Joe Nov 2013 #32
^^^^ THIS ^^^^ FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #33
^^^AND THIS^^^is the real intent of your OP. Eleanors38 Nov 2013 #53
I agree with the OP…this child was wearing a hoodie and carrying a toy type gun…that in itself…. Tikki Nov 2013 #34
sorry it was not a toy type gun Duckhunter935 Nov 2013 #36
Sorry your excuse was "She was wearing a sexy dress" FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #37
The fact is this was a kid and and it was a toy and the only solution was to shoot first!!!???... Tikki Nov 2013 #38
Rigorous defense of a feeble analogy. 1000words Nov 2013 #40
That is just a terrible comparison... Decaffeinated Nov 2013 #42
Disturbing folks here want to justify shooting children FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #45
This fallacy is rampant in the gun control arguments. Bazinga Nov 2013 #46
This is basically you... Decaffeinated Nov 2013 #47
Exactly. DeSwiss Nov 2013 #43
The word "rape" in our culture is now sacred. Norrin Radd Nov 2013 #44
huh? what is it you're trying to say? cali Nov 2013 #54
the fuck? Iggo Nov 2013 #82
Any time you openly carry a firearm or a convincing firearm replica around in public... Nine Nov 2013 #48
+1 Couldn't agree more! B Calm Nov 2013 #49
Those cases you cited the Police did not Assume FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #58
If, as you claim, the Police didn't assume firearms were real in those other cases, they're fools. Nine Nov 2013 #72
His hand would have to be on the Pistol Grip FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #84
As I've said repeatedly, I'm not defending the police response. Nine Nov 2013 #91
Somehow the kid in this story manged to NOT get shot: Blue_Tires Nov 2013 #73
So what? Nine Nov 2013 #76
I'm pretty sure if they weren't white, they would have been arrested at the minimum Blue_Tires Nov 2013 #77
The news readers said they didn't do anything illegal. Nine Nov 2013 #81
that has to rate as one of the all-time bad analogies DrDan Nov 2013 #51
Dresses cannot look a lot like a lethal weapon California_here Nov 2013 #52
We are so screwed up LiberalArkie Nov 2013 #57
yup gopiscrap Nov 2013 #59
I'm glad these pigs weren't around when I was a kid. L0oniX Nov 2013 #66
Got a link? nt rrneck Nov 2013 #69
I don't understand... Xyzse Nov 2013 #79
I thought the police were called FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #80
I am still looking things up in both cases. Xyzse Nov 2013 #83
I would have thought FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #87
After looking further they did. Xyzse Nov 2013 #88
Not at all if your White FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #90

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
11. It's not justifying murder, it's pointing out a bad analogy.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:01 AM
Nov 2013

You're bolstering a bad analogy with a false dichotomy.

I'm on record lamenting what I perceive as an escalation of police force against citizens who are not threats to themselves or anyone else.

The reason you analogy fails is because a rapist seeks out a victim. This was a crime in that the policies governing our police are geared confront violent criminals rather than being public servants -- who are also capable of confronting violent criminals if/when the need arises. Victims aren't raped because of bad policies and militant mindsets leading to tragic consequences.

We can (must) confront these outrageous acts of police brutality but bad analogies do more harm than good.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
14. It was the perception in the shooters mind that caused this
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:09 AM
Nov 2013

he wasn't following any procedures when he exited that car.

If he was Andy would still be alive

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
16. The police are becoming militarized.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:17 AM
Nov 2013

They are not acting as public servants but as soldiers patrolling an occupied, hostile nation.

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
19. What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop?
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:05 AM
Nov 2013

You seem to possess all of the facts, so I'm eager to hear your response.

Thanks!

Lancero

(3,003 posts)
22. OP isn't here...
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:26 AM
Nov 2013

But according to OP, proper procedure would be for the cop to...

A) Do nothing

And

B) Pray they don't get shot

...Which is kind of ironic, since thats what a good number of people do when the police approach them.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
24. The "Pointing" thingy is in dispute - or do apologist not recognise multiple witnesses
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 07:34 PM
Nov 2013

just the cop's testimony

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
41. Bullet Trajectory proves he never "Pointed" the toy
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 05:54 AM
Nov 2013

so what am I supposed to explain that the victim supposedly did





Orrex

(63,203 posts)
55. That wasn't the question
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 09:54 AM
Nov 2013

The question is this: What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop?

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
56. Doesn't apply to this case
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 10:54 AM
Nov 2013

Just exactly would be the point hypothesizing over some thing that didn't happen

Are you suggesting people be shot on sight just for holding such a weapon?

Because that is the point of my analogy - should people ASSUME the Victim's intentions by what they are HOLDING or WEARING

So far this proves my point

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
60. As everyone in the thread has already observed, your analogy is bullshit
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:13 AM
Nov 2013

Therefore, rather than wasting time on your bullshit analogy, I have instead asked you a simple question that you are unable to answer.

Are you suggesting people be shot on sight just for holding such a weapon?
Nope. And instead of asking questions that have nothing to do with anything that I've posted, why don't you answer the question asked of you?
 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
61. Every citizen has the Right to Defend themselves
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:27 AM
Nov 2013

But You have made it a point to infuse that into the conversation for what point

Would a citizen be in jail for shooting Andy Lopez that day - absolutely

Would the investigation be 100% transparent if a citizen had shot Andy Lopez - Absolutely

Would state laws allow the Sheriffs Dept to keep the results of their investigation secret - Not a Chance

Would have the FBI investigated the case for a Hate Crime rather then just assest the Sheriff's Whitewash - completely

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
65. His hand wasn't on the trigger - it doesn't apply
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:43 AM
Nov 2013

What - You want to ASSUME because he was holding a toy that this police officer chooses to percive as a threat that the child was in a firing position ?

Which is what an honest investigation should be concerned with. Even thou witnesses have come forth claiming the child was swinging it back and forth like the toy that it was

Your assumptions are quite telling of your mindet

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
67. I want you to answer the question that I asked
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 12:04 PM
Nov 2013
What - You want to ASSUME because he was holding a toy that this police officer chooses to percive as a threat that the child was in a firing position?
Nope. Here is the question that I asked, which you still haven't answered:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop?[/font]

Your assumptions are quite telling of your mindet.
Well, your bullshit analogy is quite telling of your mindset, as many in this thread have already observed. It's also quite telling that you can't answer a simple question, which I will ask again:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop?[/font]

Do you understand? I'm not asking what the boy did or what the cop did or whether the real-looking "toy" weapon looked like a real weapon. What I am asking is this:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop?[/font]


Why do you refuse to answer?
 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
74. I've answered the question repeatedly - you don't like the answer
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 01:40 PM
Nov 2013

Sorry - as the Op states "preconceived notions" are not accurate nor legal

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
75. In which post did you answer it?
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:03 PM
Nov 2013

Obviously, you haven't.
You have posed numerous other questions and answered those while pretending that I had asked them.

You have not, however, answered my question.


So here's where we stand: you posted a bullshit analogy and have been repeatedly (and rightly) called out for it; you have been asked simple questions that you have refused to answer, and you have, Rumsfeld-style, posed/answered the questions that you would prefer to answer.

You aren't doing to well here. Care to try again, or would you rather just cut your losses and quit?

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
78. Every Citizen has the Right to Defend Theirself
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:11 PM
Nov 2013

Do you need me to explain THAT to make it anymore Clear to you - or are capable of comprehending that statement

Of course you might want elaborate what part of holding a toy is considered a lethal threat

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
86. Amazingly, you still haven't answered my question.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:34 PM
Nov 2013

You are arguing against a point that I haven't made, and you're upset that I'm not defending an argument that you have assigned to me. I'm not in any way inclined to answer your questions when you refuse to answer mine.

Here is my question:
[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? [/font]



 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
89. Amazing you still lack the ability to comprehend
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:40 PM
Nov 2013

Is the weapon a threat to life or property is the question you might be trying to fathom

Or how to tie your shoes - not really sure what level of comprehention you capable of at this point

But thanks for keeping my thread alive on the latest page

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
92. I am more than happy to draw attention to your bullshit analogy.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:57 PM
Nov 2013

However, I'm not asking about the child who was shot or the cop who shot him. Again, you are pretending that I asked a question that I didn't actually ask. Here is the what I am asking, and here is the question that you refuse (or are unable) to answer:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? [/font]


If it makes you feel better, you're welcome to attempt to insult my intelligence, because that simply highlights your bullshit analogy and the fact that you still haven't answered the question.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
93. Almost verbatim from SCOTUS decision
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 03:43 PM
Nov 2013

Governing the use of Lethal Force is what I told you TWICE and still you FAIL to comprehend

And yet again you have proven my point

Your preconceived notion of the events that took place that day. Your preconceived notions of how I should reply have eliminated ALL other options from transpiring

Now how is that not unlike the Rape Apologist

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
94. You STILL aren't answering the question that I asked
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 03:55 PM
Nov 2013

You claim to have answered it twice. Tell me in which replies you answered. If you have any interest in intellectual honesty, you might cite the actual SCOTUS decision, so that all can benefit from your wisdom.

I have reviewed your posts in this sub-thread and have found nothing that approaches an answer to this question:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? [/font]

Your preconceived notion of the events that took place that day. Your preconceived notions of how I should reply have eliminated ALL other options from transpiring
As I have stated repeatedly, I'm not asking about the child and I'm not asking about the cop. I'm asking a general question:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? [/font]

I ask that you provide a clear, succinct answer, rather than referring to a court case (which you haven't actually cited) or claiming that you've already answered (which you haven't actually done). Plain and simple, post your answer to this question:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? [/font]

Now how is that not unlike the Rape Apologist
Do you not see the difference? Truly? I am asking you to clarify a point by posing this question:

[font size=3]What is proper procedure when someone points an apparently real weapon at a cop? [/font]

I'm not justifying anyone's action nor advocating on anyone's behalf. I am asking a question, and you STILL aren't answering.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
63. the analogy goes beyond bullshit and is offensive. i agree. to use rape in this manner is more
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:34 AM
Nov 2013

than weak

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
68. How many times have we read about this?
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 12:36 PM
Nov 2013

Recent history is chock full of stories about women using their high heels and tight dresses to shoot up a school or mall or restaurant or military base or post office. The message is clear: women can't be trusted with sexy clothes!!!!1!

 

reddread

(6,896 posts)
70. the difference between LEO/militarist kneejerks and 2nd Amendment buffs
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 12:40 PM
Nov 2013

I will take the 2nd Amendment backers over nutcase law enforcement zealots.
the racism is stronger with the LEO maniacs.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
20. Yes, that definitely looks real.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:11 AM
Nov 2013

Looking at the picture, I can't tell which one is real and which one is fake.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
35. Which is why Gelhaus thinks he can "Get Away with Murder"
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:29 PM
Nov 2013

Gelhaus had determined he was going to fire shots before he ever got out of the car

He was in a Brown Neighborhood. He had a Brown skinned Perp. ....

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
50. The "gun" on the right looks as if it has a truncated barrel...
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 08:29 AM
Nov 2013

Is this where the bright orange section indicating a toy should be?

 

tapermaker

(244 posts)
85. we could have used a cop like this guy
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:34 PM
Nov 2013

in the parking lot in Texas ,where there were gang members brandishing guns. I am sure the mothers against gun violence would have approved .

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
8. no, it's not although I appreciate the point you're trying to make
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:54 AM
Nov 2013

some toy guns look awfully realistic. I don't know the one this particular child was carrying, but that seems beside the point. It's the specifics of the case that are so disturbig.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
10. Some dresses look so sexy and inviting
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:59 AM
Nov 2013

I think the specifics in the case point to the cop's mind was made up before he got out of the car

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
17. I think at this point
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:19 AM
Nov 2013

the OP is more interested in defending a bad analogy than making any valid point about this heinous tragedy -- or rape.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
13. cops are afraid of being shot which makes some of them trigger happy
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:07 AM
Nov 2013

rapists are not afraid of being physically harmed by a sexy dress. Unless your argument is that the gun plays the same role as a sexy dress, it doesnt work to well. And though I'm sure there are cops that get a rush out of shooting people, I don't see that as a factor here. They guy was, most likely, scared, amped on adrenalin and trigger happy. there's no excuse for that. It's my understanding he didn't even wait for his partner to get out of the car.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
25. it is reasonable to fear guns, it's not reasonable to rape in any case
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 07:38 PM
Nov 2013

the cop was wrong to shoot the 13 year old.

but your comparison just sucks.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
26. In BOTH cases they "See what they WANT to see"
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 07:42 PM
Nov 2013

They have a preconceived idea of some one else

They carry out their intended actions without thought for what the other person is doing or about to do

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
28. "Fear" and "criminal intent" are two entirely different motivations
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 07:51 PM
Nov 2013

An intent to commit an unconsented sexual act is a criminal intent, no matter how you slice it.

A reaction to a perceived threat is not a criminal intent.

Criminal violations, with certain limited exceptions, rely on the combination of criminal mental intent (mens rea) and action (actus reus).

To say that someone responded to a perceived threat, and was incorrect in that perception, is different from someone affirmatively acting on a criminal intent to engage in an unconsented sexual act.

That is why, subject to other conditions, "mistake of fact" is a criminal defense which seeks to establish lack of criminal intent.
 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
29. The Bullet Trajectory proved he didn't point the toy at the cop
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:09 PM
Nov 2013

The sheriffs Dept. keeps referring to the 10 second time line for shots being fired. The apologist keep referring to that as well. that was the time lapse between when they reported on the radio to seeing Andy Lopez and when they called back to report shots fired

Witnesses claim as little as 3 seconds transpired between the time the car stopped tell Andy was shot. They also report the police yelled "Drop the Weapon" from inside the car and only once. No one even addresses the Supreme Court Decision governing Officers use of deadly force requiring officers to identify their self as Law Enforcement

The "Weapons Expert" Deputy Gelhaus can tell you from holding a toy gun by the stock to raising a weapon WITH Your Hand on the Pistol Grip TAKES 2 HANDS or some very fancy Western Style Gun Slinger crap that ALL the witnesses must have missed

NOPE - his mind was made up before he exited the car - shots were going to be fired

Hence my argument - his preconceived notion

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
64. wrong. as rapists fuck 80 yr old women, a rapist does not THINK about his victim. the victim is a
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:36 AM
Nov 2013

thing to be used. it is a bullshit and offensive and unmaintainable position for you to have.

you are working toward disgusting.

i was in the thread early i read the crap. but you keep pushing it further and further

aikoaiko

(34,169 posts)
21. The police could have acted differently, but you're terrible at supporting the victim.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:23 AM
Nov 2013

Last edited Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:59 PM - Edit history (1)

Your analogy is weak. Nobody thinks Andy Lopez wanted to be shot.

At some point you really should acknowledge how a realistic looking airsoft AK47 could fool a reasonable person/police officer into thinking it was a real firearm.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
23. If you're looking to salvage your rape analogy WRT out-of-control police procedure and
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:57 AM
Nov 2013

an overly militant mindset, consider the man in New Mexico that was subjected to 2 body cavity searches, a colonoscopy and 3 forced enemas via a bogus probable cause affidavit to search for non-existent drugs.

Ohio Joe

(21,752 posts)
32. gun nuts will justify any violence to keep their guns
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:19 PM
Nov 2013

It matters not who or how many get murdered, their fear overrides everything.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
34. I agree with the OP…this child was wearing a hoodie and carrying a toy type gun…that in itself….
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:29 PM
Nov 2013
should not be enough to cause a law enforcement official to gun down first and ask questions later…


Tikki
there are all kinds of ways that policeman could have approached the situation...
 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
36. sorry it was not a toy type gun
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:17 PM
Nov 2013

It is an air-soft gun that looked very real and had the required red identifying tip removed.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
38. The fact is this was a kid and and it was a toy and the only solution was to shoot first!!!???...
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 09:33 PM
Nov 2013

Shoot first…this was a cop with lots of resources at hand…and this was his first and only solution..

This was not correct, appropriate or crucial action in any way...

Tikki

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
45. Disturbing folks here want to justify shooting children
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 06:10 AM
Nov 2013

If the shooter had been a civilian (not hiding behind the Sheriffs "Cone of Silence&quot they would most definitely be behind bars awaiting court.

In California you can not shoot some one in the back for holding a REAL Weapon if they pose no threat to other persons. Yet we've had quite a few "Murder apologist" on here claiming "I would have shot him if he came on my property with that thing"

Which reminds me more of how they used to treat Blacks in the South 100 yrs ago

Bazinga

(331 posts)
46. This fallacy is rampant in the gun control arguments.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 07:49 AM
Nov 2013

It appears from time to time on the pro-gun side as well, usually in the form of "if you want to make it harder to get guns, you must be a freedom hating authoritarian."

In this thread you repeatedly try to frame those who take issue with your poor analogy as "murder apologists."

Obviously one can be for an increase in firearms regulation without wanting to take a match to the constitution, and similarly one can disagree with a tactless analogy without wanting 13 year olds to get shot.

In fact, if I remember correctly (and i have the link to show I do) you are the only one talking about this case who HAS wished harm on children.

So do be careful claiming "if you think X, you must be Y."

 

Decaffeinated

(556 posts)
47. This is basically you...
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 08:04 AM
Nov 2013

This shooting is just like pedophilia and anyone who disagrees must love to touch children.

It's almost offensive just for being so transparent.

Norrin Radd

(4,959 posts)
44. The word "rape" in our culture is now sacred.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 06:05 AM
Nov 2013

You are never to utter it under any circumstances or contexts.

Nine

(1,741 posts)
48. Any time you openly carry a firearm or a convincing firearm replica around in public...
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 08:17 AM
Nov 2013

...you're already creating a bad situation from the get go. How many stories have we had about people doing such a thing? There was the guy walking around outside a school, the guy who took a gun into Walmart or someplace, the large group of "protesters" outside the Mothers Demand Action meeting. What if those guns had been fake? What if the had been unloaded? Would that have changed the dynamics of the situation any? People would still be just as justifiably frightened and intimidated. Would you want kids to be able to carry "toy" guns like the one that kid had into your own kid's school? I sure as hell wouldn't. Would I shoot that kid if I saw him on my property? No, because I don't own a gun. But I would definitely lock the doors, go to the safest place I could find, and call the police. In case you missed watching the news for the last, oh let's just go back 20 years, kids that young have been known to kill people, even go on killing rampages.

Did the police respond appropriately to the situation? Perhaps not. But it's completely disingenuous to keep going on about how it was just a "kid with a toy gun." A 13-year-old with a gun is just as dangerous as a 19-year-old with a gun. And an object that is designed to look exactly like a firearm IS a firearm for all intents and purposes, just like a loaded and unloaded firearm are the same thing if you're not the one in a position to know.

It boggles my mind how things can be turned completely upside down around here. Now if you object to people walking around in public with a firearm or a convincing firearm replica, that makes you a gun nut.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
58. Those cases you cited the Police did not Assume
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:04 AM
Nov 2013

Probably because the folks holding the Real Weapons were White

So here we have a Latino child gunned down for doing nothing illegal what so ever and apologist after apologist comes on here blaming the Victim.

The only other cases in memory where folks attempt to blame the victim so vigorously the come to mind are Rape cases where thankfully that type of defense is not allowed in court

Nine

(1,741 posts)
72. If, as you claim, the Police didn't assume firearms were real in those other cases, they're fools.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 12:54 PM
Nov 2013

But I'm sure they DID assume they were real and loaded, even when the people carrying them were White.

As to blaming the victim, a person can create a dangerous situation without intending to, and this is especially true of kids because they lack adult judgment. A four-year-old can create a dangerous situation by chasing a ball into a busy street.

Maybe from Andy Lopez's point of view, he was just going down the street with a toy, but from an outsider's perspective he was holding a real weapon. And that's because the toy he was holding looked just like the real thing, not because he was Latino. The era where kids can walk around their neighborhoods with toy guns and have play gunfights ended a few decades ago. Not sure how you missed it. It ended because of all the real gun violence affecting this country, including gun violence coming from or directed at kids of all races and income levels. I have a white, elementary-school-age son and I would never let him go around our low-crime, suburban neighborhood with a "toy" like Andy Lopez had.

The police response is a separate issue. Did they ID themselves? Did they give the kid enough time to respond? Did they continue shooting him after he was down? Those and other questions are very important. But the one thing the police did not do wrong, in my opinion, was assume that the weapon Andy Lopez had was real and loaded and that Andy Lopez himself had the potential to use it. Because that's the world we live in now.

The gun nuts who bring their guns to protests, to stores, to schools, etc. are being disingenuous assholes when they say, "Oh we're not threatening anyone, we're not trying to intimidate people, we're just going about our day exercising our second amendment rights." Because walking around with a gun, or what looks like a gun, IS threatening. Andy Lopez may not have had that intent but the effect was the same, and I agree that's tragic. Criticize the Police response all you want, but you only weaken your case when you keep repeating, "he was just a kid with a toy."

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
84. His hand would have to be on the Pistol Grip
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:31 PM
Nov 2013

Which by witness accounts it was not.

So should the Weapons Expert Gelhaus professes to be in his writings and the initial statements he gave at the scene mean he should know this

Nine

(1,741 posts)
91. As I've said repeatedly, I'm not defending the police response.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:56 PM
Nov 2013

I haven't followed it enough to have an informed opinion on it. But I adamantly believe that it is a terrible idea for people to be openly carrying guns (or in this case a convincing replica of a gun) around in public and this is a perfect, tragic illustration of why.

If you're going to say that Andy Lopez should not have been regarded as threatening because he never had the intent to do harm, then you're also going to have to say that about all the gun nuts who bring their guns with them to political protests or near elementary schools, and I am not going to say that. Those people may be staying just within the law but what they are doing is terribly foolish and dangerous and the laws should, in my opinion, be changed. You should not be allowed to parade through an airport with a rifle over your shoulder. I don't want people with guns that look like the one Andy had walking through my neighborhood.

If the police officer who shot Andy Lopez made a bad shoot, he should face the consequences for that. The only thing I object to is the implication that the police were not allowed to have any response at all. Because that feeds right into the gun nuts who want to flaunt their guns everywhere they go and if people object or the police are called, they act like they're victims who are being treated as criminals just based on what they are carrying.

Nine

(1,741 posts)
76. So what?
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:05 PM
Nov 2013

The father and son in that story are not identified by ethnicity. They could also be Latino... or anything else. Even if they're white, what does it prove? People rightly panicked when they entered the airport. They were confronted by six police officers who kept a distance of 10 feet. No one said, "Oh it's fine. They're white." And in their case, the handgun was holstered and the rifle was slung over the shoulder. Did Andy Lopez have his toy gun slung over his shoulder or was he carrying it in a ready-to-shoot position? There are a million reasons why the police responses in these two cases could be different, and I'm certainly not ruling out that the cop who shot Lopez was trigger-happy. I won't even rule out that race could have played a factor, but that's a long way from saying race is the ONLY possible reason it could have happened the way it did.

As I said, criticize the Police response in the Andy Lopez case you want. Just stop pretending that 13-year-olds are never violent with guns or that there is any important difference between a real loaded gun, a real unloaded gun, or a realistic replica of a gun from the perspective of a bystander or a responding police officer.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
77. I'm pretty sure if they weren't white, they would have been arrested at the minimum
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:08 PM
Nov 2013

and a MUCH bigger story would have been made of it...

Nine

(1,741 posts)
81. The news readers said they didn't do anything illegal.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:24 PM
Nov 2013

I think the father there was probably a typical teabagger gun nut. The eyewitness described their demeanor as smug, as though they knew exactly how far they could go to stay just within the law... and I believe the eyewitness, a gun owner herself, got it exactly right. If you wanted to bet me the father and son were white, I wouldn't take that bet because my guess is they probably were. But we don't know that for certain. None of this has anything to do with the fact that people are being disingenuous when they say Andy Lopez was just a kid with a toy. Kids can kill, and toys that look just like real guns are just as threatening as the real thing.

LiberalArkie

(15,713 posts)
57. We are so screwed up
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:02 AM
Nov 2013

I remember as a kid, playing cops and robbers in our neighborhood. A police officer drove up to see one of our neighbors. He came out and we were shooting away with our cap pistols. One of my friends shot him and he did one of the best movie dying scenes ever.

But, that was when the police were real men not the bullies we have today.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
66. I'm glad these pigs weren't around when I was a kid.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:47 AM
Nov 2013

I, my cousins and neighbourhood friends used to play cops and robbers, cowboys and Indians and mock up war games. Toy guns with rolls of caps were the thing to have. Today we'd all be killed by the pigs. I know ...things were different in those days but ...wow ...they really were different. Not saying that they were the good ol days but in comparison we are a really fucked up country (and world) today.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
79. I don't understand...
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:17 PM
Nov 2013

I was reading this a bit in regards to this kid. Seems senseless when something like this is allowed:


Why would a kid get shot, even if they are waving that toy around.
These guys with real guns at the ready and as a group, did not get police called up on them.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
83. I am still looking things up in both cases.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:27 PM
Nov 2013

From what I was hearing on the case about a group of men with guns that are there to threaten a group of women, it seems that the owner refused to call the police.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
87. I would have thought
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:35 PM
Nov 2013

The ladies inside would have called themselves from a cell phone

- which makes it all the more disturbing

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
88. After looking further they did.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 02:37 PM
Nov 2013

Police refused to do anything citing that the Open Carry group were not breaking any laws.

Apparently, putting guns at the ready does not constitute threatening or intimidating people for bodily harm.

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