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Everyone I know from Europe in the U.S. wants to move back to Europe. (Original Post) onehandle Nov 2013 OP
Everyone I know named William will also answer to Hey Billy NightWatcher Nov 2013 #1
I know lots of Americans who would rather live in Europe Morphia Nov 2013 #2
Hell I want to move back to Europe ogradda Nov 2013 #3
Oh I don't know; I see people who want to go either way Recursion Nov 2013 #4
Western Europe is more equal, IMO. Eastern European countries prolly has less equality. CTyankee Nov 2013 #7
Hence, "Europe as a whole" Recursion Nov 2013 #15
"Eurozone Gini" NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #27
Sorry, it's the simplest measure of inequality of a population Recursion Nov 2013 #41
Thanks for the explanation. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #44
Not actually true, according to this data from the OECD Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #38
Did you post the wrong link? Recursion Nov 2013 #40
You're still wrong. Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #47
You're still wrong Recursion Nov 2013 #48
The Euro area Gini is 30.5. Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #49
We have different data then. Recursion Nov 2013 #50
Nope Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #53
Yes, I think you're mistaken about that Recursion Nov 2013 #54
No, you're the one doing that. I linked you to the data. Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #57
Nope. Recursion Nov 2013 #58
Again, I did that: Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #61
Nope, still nothing about the Eurozone Recursion Nov 2013 #64
"Eurozone" and "Euro area" are synonyms. Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #65
Still nothing. Here's James Galbraith on it Recursion Nov 2013 #70
"Europe as a whole" is not the Eurozone. Spider Jerusalem Nov 2013 #73
With only one exception, I have zero ESL students from Europe... CTyankee Nov 2013 #5
Part of the problem: OldEurope Nov 2013 #20
Then why don't they? Yo_Mama Nov 2013 #6
pretty much a good question, as another poster said i see it both ways loli phabay Nov 2013 #8
Our local refugee organization gets people from some of the most desperate places on the planet. CTyankee Nov 2013 #9
I remember when I was working with Afghan refugees Recursion Nov 2013 #16
I had a class of all women Afghanis (males had a male tutor) and the difference in the CTyankee Nov 2013 #17
It's hard to move across an ocean Art_from_Ark Nov 2013 #74
Most Europeans I've known get homesick a lot, which is understandable LuvNewcastle Nov 2013 #10
i would say it depends more on what they have built here rather than the area of europe they are loli phabay Nov 2013 #12
I certainly agree with that! So many Americans just don't know how people in western European CTyankee Nov 2013 #19
cool story bro piedmont Nov 2013 #11
The grass is always greener.... RichGirl Nov 2013 #13
I have a European travel "bucket list" I'm working on...my 5th trip to Italy will be in March... CTyankee Nov 2013 #14
Technically, Bombeck was wrong Fumesucker Nov 2013 #59
Do they have jobs waiting for them back there? nt geek tragedy Nov 2013 #18
Tell them goodbye for me, then. nt ladyVet Nov 2013 #21
Where in Europe? There are certain countries there that are in worse shape than the US... YoungDemCA Nov 2013 #22
Yeah? gollygee Nov 2013 #23
Everyone I know in Europe wants to move to the United States. MineralMan Nov 2013 #24
but where in Europe? CTyankee Nov 2013 #34
I don't believe this for a minute. WinkyDink Nov 2013 #45
You don't? But you don't know MineralMan Nov 2013 #62
Even the Russians? NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #25
Me too but I'm not FROM Europe. elleng Nov 2013 #26
My wife is Eastern European, JimboBillyBubbaBob Nov 2013 #28
Yep...they take the money and run. And there a lot of EUers here as well as Slavic ,Balkan, Asian. kelliekat44 Nov 2013 #29
I know a couple from Ireland who moved here because their economy is so bad. undeterred Nov 2013 #30
Ireland accepted the "austerity" crap that is being urged on US. That is why their economy CTyankee Nov 2013 #32
If I had an opportunity to live in europe, I would not look back. The US has become RKP5637 Nov 2013 #31
kinda depends what state you live in. VT continues becoming more cali Nov 2013 #55
Yes, definitely true! Vermont is a bright spot! I spent time there in my youth. I was RKP5637 Nov 2013 #68
Well people do tend to miss home. CFLDem Nov 2013 #33
I know someone from MO who moved to France last summer mnhtnbb Nov 2013 #35
When I read "Under the Tuscan Sun" I was sick with envy of Frances Mayes, the author. CTyankee Nov 2013 #37
There are certain European countries where I might rather live. Bradical79 Nov 2013 #36
you left off the second part of their sentence... 'when they can afford to' JCMach1 Nov 2013 #39
Spent 6 months in Montpelier late 70's...planned to stay, but couldn't. I'd go back in a heartbeat. libdem4life Nov 2013 #42
The USA is a big place. Warren DeMontague Nov 2013 #43
Then please give us some anecdotes. Otherwise, this OP looks like you need a good night's sleep. randome Nov 2013 #46
Funny Lurker Deluxe Nov 2013 #51
That's who you know. I was just at dinner with two professional couples pnwmom Nov 2013 #52
Okay. HappyMe Nov 2013 #56
Well JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #60
Then what is it ? treestar Nov 2013 #63
But they stay. Why is that? In my field, Europeans and Canadians and Australians have to come Bluenorthwest Nov 2013 #66
I know a family from Germany who moved her just over a year ago. NCTraveler Nov 2013 #67
And of course they must be white? Everything is relative. nt kelliekat44 Nov 2013 #75
What in the world is stopping them? former9thward Nov 2013 #69
Seriously - go back home, Euros... Jack_Dawson Nov 2013 #71
Nice. "I can't stand this bloody awful country you have here!" Nye Bevan Nov 2013 #72
I got T-boned by a drunk driver... meaculpa2011 Nov 2013 #76
 

Morphia

(49 posts)
2. I know lots of Americans who would rather live in Europe
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 08:49 AM
Nov 2013

If people could freely move between countries, the world would be a very different place.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
4. Oh I don't know; I see people who want to go either way
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:06 AM
Nov 2013

And I think which part of Europe you're talking about matters, too; Europe as a whole has much higher inequality than the US, after all.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
7. Western Europe is more equal, IMO. Eastern European countries prolly has less equality.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:18 AM
Nov 2013

Sometimes I really wish my bi-lingual grandson would visit Italy when he grows up and marry an Italian so he could have a citizenship option...

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
15. Hence, "Europe as a whole"
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 12:03 PM
Nov 2013

After taxes and transfers, the Eurozone Gini is something like .42, and ours is something like .37. Part of that is because the Eurozone member states fund their safety nets by a VAT system that, oddly enough, is far too regressive to ever pass in the US.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
27. "Eurozone Gini"
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 04:57 PM
Nov 2013

Could you tell me what you mean by that? I've forgotten everything I ever learned about economics.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
41. Sorry, it's the simplest measure of inequality of a population
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 01:18 AM
Nov 2013
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gini_coefficient

It's not just an economic thing; it can be used in any distribution and gets used in probability a lot. A lower coefficient means greater equality (0 would mean everybody has exactly the same amount of money; 1 would mean exactly one person has everything; generally countries are somewhere between .3 and .6)

Each individual country within the Eurozone has a low Gini coefficient, but the Eurozone as a whole has a rather high coefficient -- which is why people are moving from Poland to France.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
40. Did you post the wrong link?
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 01:13 AM
Nov 2013

That doesn't have the Eurozone's Gini coefficient anywhere listed.

I'm talking about the Eurozone as whole. It's significantly more unequal than the US as a whole, because the US does a lot of transfers from, e.g., New York to Arkansas.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
47. You're still wrong.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 08:54 AM
Nov 2013

No Eurozone country has a Gini coefficient BEFORE taxes and transfers which is higher than the USA's AFTER taxes and transfers.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
48. You're still wrong
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:36 AM
Nov 2013
No Eurozone country has a Gini coefficient BEFORE taxes and transfers which is higher than the USA's AFTER taxes and transfers.

True, and irrelevant. I'm talking about the Gini of the Eurozone as a whole. The individual states' Ginis are irrelevant.
 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
49. The Euro area Gini is 30.5.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:42 AM
Nov 2013

Data from Eurostat. Before taxes and transfers. (US Gini is 45 before taxes and transfers and 36 after, for the US as a whole.) Therefore, you're wrong, sorry.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
50. We have different data then.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:49 AM
Nov 2013

I'm talking about the actual eurozone per se. I know you're wrong because 30.5 is the OECD average, and the Eurozone is far above that.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
54. Yes, I think you're mistaken about that
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:55 AM
Nov 2013

You seem to be confusing "Eurozone" with "EU". Glad that you're coming around, though. It might help to figure out the difference between "Eurozone" and "EU". One is a monetary/customs union, the other is a much more political structure, and they are not the same.

But the Gini of the Eurozone is shockingly high.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
58. Nope.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:59 AM
Nov 2013

No data above. Feel free to link to something showing the Gini (or some other measure of inequality) of the Eurozone as a whole, not its member states.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
61. Again, I did that:
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:01 AM
Nov 2013
http://epp.eurostat.ec.europa.eu/tgm/table.do?tab=table&language=en&pcode=tessi190

Scroll down to where it says "Euro area - 17 countries". Then follow that row across to the column under "2012". And what do you see? 30.5.
 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
65. "Eurozone" and "Euro area" are synonyms.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:15 AM
Nov 2013

So yes, the data are right there in the link I gave you. (More recent data than cited in your link.) Either you can't actually read, or you're being deliberately obtuse.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
70. Still nothing. Here's James Galbraith on it
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:56 PM
Nov 2013
http://www.nakedcapitalism.com/2012/04/jamie-galbraith-on-inequality-and-instability.html

And when you do that, when you take what had been isolated labor market situations and bring them into direct interaction with each other, you have to measure the inequality on the new basis, on the new foundation. And nobody had done that. And what we found was that in fact when you do that, European inequality, taking into account the differences that exist between, let’s say, Germany and Poland or between Norway and Portugal, is actually larger in wages than it is in the United States.


The book is here:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/019985565X/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=matthygles-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=019985565X
 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
73. "Europe as a whole" is not the Eurozone.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:45 AM
Nov 2013

The Eurozone consists of the European countries that use the Euro currency. If you're going to use a term it's a good idea to know what it means.

And Texas isn't California isn't New Hampshire isn't Mississippi, either. So the entire basis of this argument is fundamentally and deeply flawed. Considering that the overall inequalities of the US as measured by conventional means don't take into account the fundamental differences between states, either, and when talking about Mississippi, or Alabama, vs California or New York or Massachusetts? That's a much larger inequality than between Finland and Portugal. (Poland? Not on the Euro, either.)

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
5. With only one exception, I have zero ESL students from Europe...
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:09 AM
Nov 2013

Even my Turkish students have dropped off to zero lately. I currently only have an engineer from Mexico (who will return to Mexico and use his English skills to develop business in both Mexico and the U.S.) and a young man from Benin. Prior to them I had Iranian and Chinese students.

My one exception is a retired worker from Bratislava who came to the U.S. many years ago when there was a Czechoslovakia and it was in the Soviet bloc. He is very advanced and really wants to talk about politics to help him understand our system better (which I am happy to do!).

My Mexican student is reading a history of the U.S. union movement, which I got from a friend who was a steward in his union when he was working).

Before these students, I tutored a South Korean who runs a local nail salon.

OldEurope

(1,273 posts)
20. Part of the problem:
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 03:45 PM
Nov 2013

the so called Bologna Process. Universities in Europe changed everything. Now students don't have enough time to look for chances abroad. And many of them don't have enough money, because it is hardly possible to work besides the curse of studies. So, if the parents are not able to pay, the student is not able to visit America.

And: America is no longer the dreamland of Europeans. My daughter, for example, said she'd prefer to go to another country to get her term abroad (which is required in her studies). Maybe Canada or those countries "down under".

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
6. Then why don't they?
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:17 AM
Nov 2013

This may come through as a snide question, but it is not meant to be. It's a sincere question. Is it that their lives/families/jobs are now here?

There should be no obstacle whatsoever for anyone from a European country to repatriate. It's harder for a non-European to go and get working/residence permits. I do know several younger people who graduated and got jobs in Germany in the last few years, though.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
8. pretty much a good question, as another poster said i see it both ways
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:20 AM
Nov 2013

And for lots of different reasons whether its homesick, financial or family reasons. You are always going to get people in either zone wanting to move to the other.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
9. Our local refugee organization gets people from some of the most desperate places on the planet.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:26 AM
Nov 2013

When I worked with them, they had Afghanis and Somalians. Incredibly resilient people who faced absolute horrors in their native lands. So by comparison, they have a better place here in the U.S. However, they are from countries without a written language it is tough to integrate into American society. But those people have developed fabulous memorization skills...

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
16. I remember when I was working with Afghan refugees
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 12:04 PM
Nov 2013

Last edited Sun Nov 24, 2013, 03:31 PM - Edit history (1)

They had seen every horror imaginable, but they had to have the concept of "homelessness" explained to them.

"What do you mean they don't have a place to live? Their distant cousins would obviously take them in, right?"

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
17. I had a class of all women Afghanis (males had a male tutor) and the difference in the
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 03:11 PM
Nov 2013

Last edited Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:16 PM - Edit history (1)

older women from the younger ones was striking. The older women had been somewhat infantilized, very passive. The younger ones (who were there just to accompany the older women) were much more independent and self sufficient.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
74. It's hard to move across an ocean
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 03:34 AM
Nov 2013

In 10 years, a person can accumulate a houseful of stuff. Packing it up and sending it across an ocean is tedious and expensive. There's also the question of work-- I have a job where I am, but will I be able to find anything if I return to my home country? And the longer someone stays in another country, the greater the inertia that sets in.

LuvNewcastle

(16,844 posts)
10. Most Europeans I've known get homesick a lot, which is understandable
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:27 AM
Nov 2013

for anybody from almost anywhere. If I was in Europe for a long time, I'd probably miss some things about the U.S. too. The people I've known from western Europe usually want to go back, but the eastern Europeans seem to be a lot more happy here. I think it's mostly about whether or not you had anything to leave in the first place.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
12. i would say it depends more on what they have built here rather than the area of europe they are
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:29 AM
Nov 2013

From. Also as you say what they have to go back to.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
19. I certainly agree with that! So many Americans just don't know how people in western European
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 03:16 PM
Nov 2013

countries live. They think having "socialized medicine" is a terrible thing and they don't really know what that means. And the republicans play on that ignorance...

RichGirl

(4,119 posts)
13. The grass is always greener....
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:30 AM
Nov 2013

As Erma Bombeck said...the grass is always greener over the septic tank. We are currently living over the septic tank so let's just wait for spring.

Of course we have huge problems...I'm not in denial about that. But it's better to be positive and do your best to help fix it. I have found in life that people who have a habit of complaining will always find something to complain about. Wherever you go...you take yourself with you.

I was born in Europe and have traveled there many times and would encourage anyone to visit or go live there...especially Americans who have never been there. If FOX NEW viewers spent one week in Italy they would be clamouring for socialism!

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
14. I have a European travel "bucket list" I'm working on...my 5th trip to Italy will be in March...
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:35 AM
Nov 2013

also on the list, two more trips to Spain and at least one more trip to France...at my age I figure I have another 5 good years to travel in Europe. So it's carpe diem for me...

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
59. Technically, Bombeck was wrong
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:00 AM
Nov 2013

The grass is greener over the drain field, not the septic tank..

But I understand the point.



 

YoungDemCA

(5,714 posts)
22. Where in Europe? There are certain countries there that are in worse shape than the US...
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 04:33 PM
Nov 2013

Economically and politically, I mean.

MineralMan

(146,286 posts)
62. You don't? But you don't know
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:01 AM
Nov 2013

everyone I know in Europe, so how would you know what they think?

It's the same issue with the OP's statement, really, isn't it?

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
25. Even the Russians?
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 04:51 PM
Nov 2013

Well, I guess that's kind of Eurasia.

A good friend of mine is Czech, and he can't believe that I even want to visit his country.

 

kelliekat44

(7,759 posts)
29. Yep...they take the money and run. And there a lot of EUers here as well as Slavic ,Balkan, Asian.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 04:57 PM
Nov 2013

TMost of them never would have accomplished in their homeland what they achieved here. Can't blame them...blame the corporate-capitalistic system they all love and don't have to contribute to

undeterred

(34,658 posts)
30. I know a couple from Ireland who moved here because their economy is so bad.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:01 PM
Nov 2013

Our economy is doing great compared to theirs and they are not moving back.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
32. Ireland accepted the "austerity" crap that is being urged on US. That is why their economy
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:21 PM
Nov 2013

suffered so greatly. Just wait till the RW austerians get thru with us. We'll look like Ireland...

RKP5637

(67,104 posts)
31. If I had an opportunity to live in europe, I would not look back. The US has become
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:02 PM
Nov 2013

unpleasant in many ways. And if the US swings anymore RW, it will be a deplorable place to live for many. Problem is, so many Americans are so information limited.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
55. kinda depends what state you live in. VT continues becoming more
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:55 AM
Nov 2013

progressive.

Politically, environmentally and community wise, it's a good place to live.

The weather, however, isn't for everyone. This much winter can be hard.

RKP5637

(67,104 posts)
68. Yes, definitely true! Vermont is a bright spot! I spent time there in my youth. I was
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 11:19 AM
Nov 2013

thinking of living there in my older years, but it seems a bit expensive, maybe I was just looking in the wrong areas. I've always loved Vermont from the time I was a tiny tiny kid a long time ago.

 

CFLDem

(2,083 posts)
33. Well people do tend to miss home.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:21 PM
Nov 2013

It's a bias we all have.

That said I agree with the rest of the posters that the most valuable location depends I what you happen to be looking for.

As for me, I still think the US still holds a lot of value. Mostly because it's at least seven countries in one.

mnhtnbb

(31,384 posts)
35. I know someone from MO who moved to France last summer
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:28 PM
Nov 2013

after meeting the man of his dreams the previous summer.

They are now married, in France. He LOVES living in Lyon.


We just came home from a 3 week trip to Vienna, Salzburg, Prague, Berlin.
Our youngest son is in Berlin until next July on a Fulbright scholarship.
Although he's applying for graduate school in the US fall 2014, we've encouraged
him to think about living in Europe (Germany) permanently.

They are so far ahead of us in terms of social justice. Energy conservation.
Great public transportation systems. Universal health care.

Who wouldn't want to live in Europe? Sarah Palin fans?

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
37. When I read "Under the Tuscan Sun" I was sick with envy of Frances Mayes, the author.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:46 PM
Nov 2013

She was an writing professor at a college in CA and bought a house in Cortona, Tuscany, where she could live in the summers when she wasn't teaching. That book is enough to make you want to pack your bags and join her! I've since read two of her other books on living in Italy and I still have little fantasies that I could do the same...

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
36. There are certain European countries where I might rather live.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:29 PM
Nov 2013

Others not so much. U.S. isn't then only place with right wing nuts. I'm sure for many though living in the U.S. is a serious downgrade if they have to deal with any kind of medical problem.

JCMach1

(27,556 posts)
39. you left off the second part of their sentence... 'when they can afford to'
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:53 PM
Nov 2013

Cost of living is still surprisingly cheap in America... I was actually shocked to even find it is cheaper than a city like Nairobi.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
46. Then please give us some anecdotes. Otherwise, this OP looks like you need a good night's sleep.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 08:54 AM
Nov 2013

[hr][font color="blue"][center]Stop looking for heroes. BE one.[/center][/font][hr]

Lurker Deluxe

(1,036 posts)
51. Funny
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:50 AM
Nov 2013

We have three people who will be leaving the US and headed "home" at the beginning of next year.

All of them will have jobs when they get home, with the same company. They all applied to open vacancies and were granted work visas to come to the US and work for a period of time: 3-5 years. Now that those visa are up they have to return, and not a single one of them want to leave.

Niklas is the one I know the best and he will be missed. His simple goal when he got here three years ago was, "to have a corvette" ... which he accomplished.

The other two are not in my department and I do not know them but in passing, but I can promise you they do not want to leave.

The company I work for is based in Europe and, guessing, I would say about a third of our workforce is from somewhere other than the US, another 20% or so are naturalized US citizens, and the rest local. There are very few who are here on visas that want to return, and those who have become citizens certainly do not wish to leave.

I have applied several times for jobs posted in other countries and have never been allowed to transfer because, "the lack of talent here in the US". And, truthfully, we do have an incredibly hard time retaining US based help.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
52. That's who you know. I was just at dinner with two professional couples
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 09:52 AM
Nov 2013

who both want to get their citizenship here, after having green cards for years.

JustAnotherGen

(31,811 posts)
60. Well
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:00 AM
Nov 2013

My husband has never given up his citizenship and has no intention of doing so. We also now have two joint homes in Acri Italy - and he has accumulated flats in Paris, Firenze,and Rome.

He came here because his very particular skill - UNESCO certified in metal restoration - no one was doing it here/had it. As well, he had moved from art for arts sake (juried artist) to art for commercial purposes and his restoration and artisitic skills are in high demand in the very old cities of US (older architecture - think New Orleans, Manhattan, Boston, most of NJ, Charleston, etc. etc.)

In ten years we will do a three way loop between NJ, Italy, and Costa Rica throughout the year. It's not a matter of going back for going back's sake - all of his family except for a second cousin and well now - me - they are 90% in Italy and 10% in Germany.

Now - ask about his generation that moved to Germany. They are there to make their money (including his younger brother) and go back home to Italy. That same younger brother as well as his younger sister are Americans but have zero desire to live here . .. both left when they were still in grade school.

And - looking at my husband's parents - their 7/8 year stay when he was kid in NYC - was just that. A chance to expose their children and themselves to a different lifestyle/culture but no desire to stay here forever. FIL was a structural engineer that worked on the WTC.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
66. But they stay. Why is that? In my field, Europeans and Canadians and Australians have to come
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:16 AM
Nov 2013

here to get the big biscuit most usually. Those who do not remain minor or regional players. There are exceptions, of course. I assume from your posting history that you know mostly straight and 'faith based' Europeans, and would not really care about nor know about how minority peoples are treated there, which has great variations around the continent.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
67. I know a family from Germany who moved her just over a year ago.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 11:07 AM
Nov 2013

The wife came here for a temporary work assignment. They are now doing everything possible to stay here for good. The business is thriving and the company is going to have her stay here to continue working on its growth in the US. This is in the Tampa Bay area of Florida. They absolutely love it.

A person who works with me was just granted citizenship after about 10 years. She is happy as could be. She came here from England.

That is my anecdotal evidence that doesn't really amount to a hill of beans. Except that maybe your acquaintances don't live in a place like Tampa. That might make them want to stay a little more.

former9thward

(31,981 posts)
69. What in the world is stopping them?
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 11:22 AM
Nov 2013

I am unaware of any restrictions of travel to Europe. If there are tell them to go to Canada or Mexico and make their escape from there.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
72. Nice. "I can't stand this bloody awful country you have here!"
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 11:04 PM
Nov 2013

"D'accord, moi aussi, je voudrais get the hell away from les Etats Unis!"
"Yawohl! Der WienerSchnitzel in der states ist nastyheimer!"

You think they would be polite enough to keep these sentiments to themselves.

meaculpa2011

(918 posts)
76. I got T-boned by a drunk driver...
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 06:38 AM
Nov 2013

last summer and was getting patched by the EMTs when his Mama showed up.

She remarked that in their country they wouldn't have to worry about paying the medical bill.

I told her that if they had stayed there I'd be at home having dinner with my wife and kids.

Was I too snarky?

BTW: I never got a bill from the volunteer fire department.

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