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The Terrorist Hijabi Experiment (Original Post) rug Dec 2013 OP
That is a sad statement about our society... ManiacJoe Dec 2013 #1
What's worse is that walking by is doing something. rug Dec 2013 #2
People don't want to get involved firsttimer Dec 2013 #3
Not sure most would agree with your blanket assessment of reactions. ManiacJoe Dec 2013 #4
You won't be assaulting him firsttimer Dec 2013 #5
Bystander effect joshcryer Dec 2013 #6
Yep seveneyes Dec 2013 #7
That one guy who simply said "you have to stop it" caused 3 others to stop. joshcryer Dec 2013 #8
they aren't good actors JI7 Dec 2013 #9
 

firsttimer

(324 posts)
3. People don't want to get involved
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 12:24 AM
Dec 2013

with a jerk like that.

I know he was acting but first thing you think is you are going to have to
hit this guy if you stop.
We have made the laws where you would be the one sued and arrested if a confrontation happens
because you stopped. She wasn't being hurt physically.

ManiacJoe

(10,136 posts)
4. Not sure most would agree with your blanket assessment of reactions.
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 12:36 AM
Dec 2013

> ... first thing you think is you are going to have to hit this guy if you stop.

If wanting to assault the man is your first reaction, then, yes, you need to keep walking. Otherwise showing him the errors of his ways is a proper response.

 

firsttimer

(324 posts)
5. You won't be assaulting him
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 12:51 AM
Dec 2013

He going to get aggressive with you.
That's why he's portraying him self as a jerk and verbally abusing a woman supposedly he doesn't know.

Do nice rational people do this? No
It's people that will start in on you if you stop .

So in many peoples minds it's trouble in the making .

 

seveneyes

(4,631 posts)
7. Yep
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 01:07 AM
Dec 2013

It's known there are plenty of people around to help if the self indulged loudmouth tries physical harm. Otherwise he is just showing what an idiot he is.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
8. That one guy who simply said "you have to stop it" caused 3 others to stop.
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 01:14 AM
Dec 2013

Just by being up front.

Hell even if you don't want to be involved, step up, then walk away when others get involved. I've done that on several occasions when I had to be somewhere and saw abuse happening.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
9. they aren't good actors
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 01:34 AM
Dec 2013

i think people think they are trying to get attention and that guy "looks like a terrorist".

i didn't watch the whole thing, just a bit and they just don't come off as convincing.

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