If you want to look at women with lust in your hearts, learn from cats

[eridani]

Since cats regard continued staring as aggression, when they want to watch a cat, person, or other entity without telegraphing aggression, they take quick cat glances. Glance, look away. Glance, look away. Lather, rinse, repeat.

Get a clue, fellas! You don't have to be a boor to appreciate.

[Gravitycollapse]

1. You could just not look. Is that going to kill anyone?

I don't get it. I mean, I have experienced the irrational desire to look at someone who is sexually attractive. I experience it all the time. That doesn't mean it isn't an irrational desire. I don't gain anything meaningful out of looking. So why even endorse the staring in the first place?

[eridani]

2. So what is wrong with looking unobtrusively?

On another thread, someone asked what the difference was between admiration and leering. I'd say it's whether or not the person you are looking at notices.

[MineralMan]

3. If we tried to SEE other people, rather than just LOOK at them,

things would work better, I think. Just my opinion.