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Causes of rape (Original Post) Playinghardball Dec 2013 OP
Yep, that about sums up the reasons. Thinkingabout Dec 2013 #1
Simple graphic. xulamaude Dec 2013 #2
Well, thank you. Mister Ed Dec 2013 #3
Thank you. K&R n/t myrna minx Dec 2013 #4
K and R BainsBane Dec 2013 #5
Why wouldn't alcohol also be listed in the graph? firsttimer Dec 2013 #6
Well, now...has alcohol ever raped anyone? Mister Ed Dec 2013 #8
That logic could be used on any crime committed then firsttimer Dec 2013 #9
I'm sincerely trying to understand what you're saying... Mister Ed Dec 2013 #11
I saying that this graph leaves nothing to contributing factors firsttimer Dec 2013 #12
I guess you and I have kind of gotten away from the point of the original post... Mister Ed Dec 2013 #18
lots and lots of men get drunk. and lotsa lotsa men NEVER consider rape cause rape is not in their seabeyond Dec 2013 #13
I've been drunk plenty of times...schnockered to the gills... CoffeeCat Dec 2013 #19
Causes of Gun Murders Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #7
Unless the black line is the war on drugs... bobclark86 Dec 2013 #17
Would hope this is a given on DU! TroglodyteScholar Dec 2013 #10
Not exactly deeply meaningful. Like saying what causes rain is the clouds. Gravitycollapse Dec 2013 #14
No, but better than going on about what women wear BainsBane Dec 2013 #15
I suppose this would be better as a separation between who's responsible for rape... Gravitycollapse Dec 2013 #16
Well, this is good. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2013 #20
+1000 smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #21
Ego. flvegan Dec 2013 #22

Mister Ed

(5,928 posts)
3. Well, thank you.
Thu Dec 26, 2013, 10:32 PM
Dec 2013

As I went to click on the OP, I was indignantly thinking to myself, "WTF?! There's only one goddam cause!"

Feeling better now that I've seen the graphic.

 

firsttimer

(324 posts)
6. Why wouldn't alcohol also be listed in the graph?
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 12:03 AM
Dec 2013

Many times it's a contributing factor in college life.

Jocks getting drunk and acting like asses ...no?

or am I missing something here

Mister Ed

(5,928 posts)
8. Well, now...has alcohol ever raped anyone?
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 12:22 AM
Dec 2013

Drunken rapists have. Sober rapists have, too. But alcohol? It's never raped anyone.

You just can't have a rape without a rapist.

 

firsttimer

(324 posts)
9. That logic could be used on any crime committed then
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 12:28 AM
Dec 2013

What caused the robbery ? Can't have a robbery without a robber..

hunger maybe ? No

No it was a robber.............


You don't believe in contributing factors ever.

Mister Ed

(5,928 posts)
11. I'm sincerely trying to understand what you're saying...
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 12:58 AM
Dec 2013

...and I'm sincerely failing to.

I understand that the dire necessity of hunger could drive a man to rob, although he truly didn't want to. Like Jean Valjean stealing a loaf of bread in "Les Miserables", right?

But I do not understand what on this earth could make a person commit rape even though he truly didn't want to.

 

firsttimer

(324 posts)
12. I saying that this graph leaves nothing to contributing factors
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 02:08 AM
Dec 2013

It 's not an excuse for the crime or any crime so please don't misinterpret what I'm saying.

I 'm saying that to not include alcohol in some portion of that graph when in fact many rapes
are committed in drink binge frat house parties is not an actual description .

It is a contributing factor involved numerous rapes .

Alcohol should be included in that graph.
There are in fact people who have committed crimes ( and convicted , rightly so ) under the influence who black out and don't even remember committing the crime.

Have you ever worked in a women's shelter ? When you talk to them the one thing they all seem to have in common
is their abuser was an alcoholic and most if not all incidents happened when he drank.

Mister Ed

(5,928 posts)
18. I guess you and I have kind of gotten away from the point of the original post...
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 07:55 AM
Dec 2013

...which was just a quick visual reminder that there is nothing about a rape victim that causes rape. (Not her alcohol consumption, not her clothing style, not her racial milieu, etc.)

Obviously, we both grasp that fundamental fact. Any discussion of the motivations and psychological makeup of a rapist is pretty much secondary to that.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
13. lots and lots of men get drunk. and lotsa lotsa men NEVER consider rape cause rape is not in their
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 02:11 AM
Dec 2013

mentality. it is not the booze cause the men to rape. it is a man that can conceive of rape, to rape. booze or not.

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
19. I've been drunk plenty of times...schnockered to the gills...
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 10:57 AM
Dec 2013

...and I've never raped anyone.

Alcohol is used as an excuse. It's a copout.

This is the danger. I've sat down and spoken with my girls about the dangers of alcohol and being alone with guys at parties, where booze is around. This warning is because so many young men have been taught that alcohol is an excuse. They can say, "Well, I was drunk".

That's the danger. Alcohol is a contributing factor--but only because men who rape use it to justify their crimes.

Alcohol doesn't cause anyone to rape a woman--but rapists sure like to use it to rationalize and excuse away their sick, sadistic behavior.

bobclark86

(1,415 posts)
17. Unless the black line is the war on drugs...
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 02:41 AM
Dec 2013

which forces drugs underground and leads to violence in getting money for drugs or retaliating against those who take the money without providing the goods -- which are the situations involved in the vast majority of all murders in this country, not just gun murders -- then no.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
15. No, but better than going on about what women wear
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 02:21 AM
Dec 2013

How much they drink or where they go. The longer I'm online, the lower my standards get for what I find encouraging.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
16. I suppose this would be better as a separation between who's responsible for rape...
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 02:33 AM
Dec 2013

And what causes rape to exist.

In each instance of sexual assault, the perpetrator is responsible. However, a necessary discussion must exist on the social and psychological mechanisms that promote rape.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
20. Well, this is good.
Fri Dec 27, 2013, 11:48 AM
Dec 2013

A topic on rape and there are pictures of half naked women rolling all over on the side of my screen.

Gross.

flvegan

(64,407 posts)
22. Ego.
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 01:33 AM
Dec 2013

To be more specific.

Feel free to discuss that, and to explore the space of the evils that the ego causes anyone to do. Not that I'm trying to de-prioritize rape. Just something to maybe think about.

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