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(44,228 posts)2naSalit
(86,323 posts)cynatnite
(31,011 posts)Donald Ian Rankin
(13,598 posts)Thorne comes across as a smug, sanctimonious, obnoxious asshole.
Incidentally, net human energy consumption is currently about 16tW.
beachbum bob
(10,437 posts)if there are no zoning restrictions or local codes then you are entitle to place whatever light you want pointing anywhere you want....unfortunately that is the law.
I learned a long time age to get along with neighbors so this kind of stuff doesn't happen.............going to war with neighbor has NO good outcome
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Hassin Bin Sober
(26,311 posts)For some reason, at least one of their residents insists on using our recycling and garbage cans.
It wouldn't be so bad but they are lazy and won't shuffle the cans around to get to the empty rear cans is as necessary in the tight quarters. So we come out our back gate and find recycling and garbage piled on the top with the lids propped open. One time it was a bag of smelly dirty disposable diapers - that was the tip-off we were being used.
One of my proactive neighbors did a little sleuthing and obtained the email address of the offender. It wasn't that hard, her junk mail was overflowing the cans at one point. Turns out she is an attorney. My neighbor sends a nice note to request she stop dumping on our property or at least get in the rotation of cleaning up and moving cans around when needed as all (really just me) our owners are supposed to take turns. The lawyer writes back one word "OK".
End of story? Nah, that would be too easy. Mail keeps coming, junk keeps coming, dirty diapers keep coming. We even inherited an old toilet bowl in the new toilet bowl box.
This is where it gets funny and sort of resembles the OP. My neighbor starts throwing bags of garbage back over what she assumes is the offenders back fence. All this time we assumed the offender was the 5 unit apartment directly outside our back fence. Turns out it was the large condo bldg. right next door to the apt. bldg.
We get this long snarky sarcastic letter from one of the apartment residents accusing my neighbor of being a drunk and embarrassing and all kinds of other things. I wish I had saved it. It was pretty funny. It sounded a lot like the OP's guy.
In my neighbor's defense, we ALL assumed it was the apartment because the bdlg. owner (Marlene) is a notorious cheapskate who doesn't supply cans. Apparently, the residents are required to carry the garbage three doors down where the landlord lives and has free city cans. Obviously illegal. The only reason I can think of why this person(s) uses our cans is because they are closer to their back gate than their own dumpster.
What's even more strange, the offending condo building, at one time, had a sign on their dumpster telling Marlene's tenants not to use their dumpster "unless you agree to pay overage charges".
So the battle rages on. My partner found a bag of garbage on our front stoop the other day.
I'm at the point where I want to put up cameras.
renate
(13,776 posts)I think because unfairness just really rubs us the wrong way, and in this case, there's three unfairnesses... the person's use of your dumpster without a right to do so, the way she's using them wrong and causing inconvenience to you, and the way that she is so rude and unrepentent when she ought to be horribly embarrassed. And now she's leaving garbage on your stoop? She sounds a little unbalanced, actually. I know that in the great scheme of things it shouldn't be a big deal, but I really feel for you. It's so upsetting when somebody is in the wrong and they act like you're the bad person. Good luck getting this resolved. (Your camera idea's not a bad one, IMO. Or at least put up a convincing-looking fake one so they'll knock it off.)
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,311 posts)I think this will seal the deal.
I doubt a camera will deter a real criminal - my buddy's building was just robbed by guys who walked in covering their faces.
But the camera might deter wayward fly dumpers and the people who stole our yard seat cushions - I'm almost certain that caper coincided with and a result of my neighbor's 2 day Masters golf party last year where we had people in an out of the yard for a couple days. I mean, who hops a fence to steal seat cushions?
B2G
(9,766 posts)B2G
(9,766 posts)I can't stop reading now.
http://www.27bslash6.com/overdue.html
DeschutesRiver
(2,354 posts)Jenoch
(7,720 posts)Flecker should have both reduced the wattage of the floodligbt and made sure to point it down so that it did not disturb his neighbor.
This situation happened in my hometown, except the neighbors were right next to each other. The guy that was getting the unwanted light in his bedroom window set up a high pressure lawn sprinkler to spray the neighbor's house. At some point one of them shot the other one with a BB gun while on his riding lawn mower.