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Girl admits she lied about being molested. (Original Post) CBGLuthier Feb 2014 OP
... DonViejo Feb 2014 #1
Does the girl own any Woody Allen movies? FSogol Feb 2014 #2
! TeeYiYi Feb 2014 #16
Some people lie about things justiceischeap Feb 2014 #3
So it is normal AgingAmerican Feb 2014 #107
Didn't say that. justiceischeap Feb 2014 #121
The PM's are flying right now! snooper2 Feb 2014 #4
I doubt this makes up for the 93+% of valid accusations LanternWaste Feb 2014 #5
Man still denies he molested and raped children for years: Whisp Feb 2014 #52
+1 Le Taz Hot Feb 2014 #55
what's your point? PeaceNikki Feb 2014 #6
What's yours? cleanhippie Feb 2014 #79
What's yours? PeaceNikki Feb 2014 #93
To show that you don't have one. Thanks for helping demonstrate that. cleanhippie Feb 2014 #131
i asked a question to the op about intention. clearly that is is very tough for you to grasp. PeaceNikki Feb 2014 #132
And I asked you a question about your intention. cleanhippie Feb 2014 #133
One girl lied. That means they all lied!!! Even me. Maybe I have ' false memories'!!! bravenak Feb 2014 #7
According to your words, all molesters are men 1000words Feb 2014 #9
Wow. bravenak Feb 2014 #13
Try as you might ... 1000words Feb 2014 #15
But you're doing it right now. bravenak Feb 2014 #17
Ah, I gotta borrow that word BainsBane Feb 2014 #29
I make up shit all day. bravenak Feb 2014 #31
if you don't get noticed it's because of phenomanonymosity. Voice for Peace Feb 2014 #46
I'm awesome at being anonymous? bravenak Feb 2014 #49
only if it's done phenomenonymously. Voice for Peace Feb 2014 #51
Damn your good! JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #101
Do you have statistics to prove that "most" are men? Renew Deal Feb 2014 #80
Yes I do. bravenak Feb 2014 #111
I so want to create a poll and ask how many DU members have been molested by women justiceischeap Feb 2014 #53
Both a man and a woman FrodosPet Feb 2014 #57
I was too. bravenak Feb 2014 #58
....nooooooooo.... that's not the point, is it? sibelian Feb 2014 #73
Pretending is always fun. bravenak Feb 2014 #112
Why do you assume they are all men? Renew Deal Feb 2014 #78
99% of the people convicted of and imprisoned in response to rape accusations were male seabeyond Feb 2014 #86
They stated that "all" "child molesters" are men. Renew Deal Feb 2014 #98
no. they did not. take note of periods, end of sentences. re read. NO.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #99
Her statement isn't clear Renew Deal Feb 2014 #102
you would just rather falsely accuse, and present an incorrect assumption than read the second post? seabeyond Feb 2014 #103
I get what you're saying Renew Deal Feb 2014 #105
you are continuing to purposely misread it. that is your part. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #106
Read further. bravenak Feb 2014 #110
Reading is fundamental. bravenak Feb 2014 #115
Binary thinking rarely survives contact with the real world. n/t Orsino Feb 2014 #92
... 1000words Feb 2014 #8
Maybe you should post another OP about how one woman lied about being raped. Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #10
But this is DU, where if less than one percent of people do something wrong The Straight Story Feb 2014 #14
Oh, it's been done BainsBane Feb 2014 #24
Why does this not surprise me? Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #41
pretty certain it's the defense for why subsequent accused rapists are innocent until proven guilty frylock Feb 2014 #56
Interesting how innocent until proven guilty is always raised to defend rapists BainsBane Feb 2014 #65
i guess you missed the video of the cops wailing on the schizophrenic man? frylock Feb 2014 #66
So you agree it is about subject matter BainsBane Feb 2014 #68
no, that's something you decided yourself.. frylock Feb 2014 #69
I'm not talking about you specifically BainsBane Feb 2014 #70
I often see that as a form of attempting to shut down the opponent kcr Feb 2014 #71
Actually, "innocent until proven guilty" should apply to everyone. Eleanors38 Feb 2014 #85
Read Once again, this time paying attention BainsBane Feb 2014 #127
I agree. Everyone. But what is this "special status?" Eleanors38 Feb 2014 #130
Well, becuase what they mean is "The powerful are presumed innocent" Scootaloo Feb 2014 #126
Why are you acting so strange? Renew Deal Feb 2014 #81
I'm sure it's just a coincidence this OP was posted. Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #94
The story is 18 hours old Renew Deal Feb 2014 #96
Come on. Don't assume people are stupid BainsBane Feb 2014 #128
That can't be ..... oldhippie Feb 2014 #11
Links? BainsBane Feb 2014 #21
You know perfectly well what posts I am talking about ..... oldhippie Feb 2014 #75
I not only don't know pefectly well, I have never seen such a post BainsBane Feb 2014 #104
Me? Pissed off? oldhippie Feb 2014 #120
One person said it? BainsBane Feb 2014 #129
It doesn't say she lied about being molested kcr Feb 2014 #12
Don't let facts get in the way BainsBane Feb 2014 #20
Isn't it funny how some will insist it's all about facts, and some let emotion get in the way kcr Feb 2014 #36
Yes, the facts trope is a Positivist one BainsBane Feb 2014 #47
Here's the quote from the article: okaawhatever Feb 2014 #34
It was the father's defense. kcr Feb 2014 #42
I'm pretty sure this isn't a common thing. HappyMe Feb 2014 #18
I guess that well-known Delaware Doctor is off the hook. el_bryanto Feb 2014 #19
I doubt it. If you actually read the details she doesn't say she wasn't molested. kcr Feb 2014 #22
If a child makes claims of sexual abuse Aerows Feb 2014 #23
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #25
I'm sorry, this can't be right. TroglodyteScholar Feb 2014 #26
And it isn't right in this case. The headline is wrong n/t kcr Feb 2014 #27
Please provide us links to those DU sources BainsBane Feb 2014 #28
Oh, c'mon. There's a thread with 300+ replies in GD right now... Comrade Grumpy Feb 2014 #39
And people can and do distort BainsBane Feb 2014 #44
You have never seen anyone say that false accusations are impossible? Democat Feb 2014 #113
That wasn't the point of that thread at all kcr Feb 2014 #45
I actually haven't posted directly on the issue TroglodyteScholar Feb 2014 #60
I'm not going to tell you you're an awful person kcr Feb 2014 #64
You just call people idiots and "assholery army" BainsBane Feb 2014 #67
The headline was WRONG...she didn't say NO abuse happened. Ken Burch Feb 2014 #61
Yea, that's me precisely TroglodyteScholar Feb 2014 #72
"Researchers Say That as Few As 1 in 10 Instances of Child Abuse Are Reported." Squinch Feb 2014 #30
I guess that bottom of the barrel you lot are scraping *does* go lower. Starry Messenger Feb 2014 #32
"My home life is far too stable." Aerows Feb 2014 #35
Father of the year here: Starry Messenger Feb 2014 #38
Oh, well that settles it Aerows Feb 2014 #40
I feel there's an Ignore in your future...nt SidDithers Feb 2014 #33
That's a really bad choice of story for the point you are trying to make. Read the rest of it: Squinch Feb 2014 #37
Do you really want counter-point "Man admits he lied about molesting" links? WinkyDink Feb 2014 #43
I am so fucking sick of the wrongs of one person being used to paint all victims as the same... cynatnite Feb 2014 #48
The girl's father is being tried for torturing her Kelvin Mace Feb 2014 #50
Wow, is Woody Allen Tien1985 Feb 2014 #54
Is this what DU is now? gollygee Feb 2014 #59
It's pretty much what has been alluded to by many. She lied, her mother planted false memories.... boston bean Feb 2014 #83
This thread is hilarious pintobean Feb 2014 #62
I think DU is done. sibelian Feb 2014 #76
I agree Renew Deal Feb 2014 #82
there will always be those that prefer a chuckle and bag of popcorn seabeyond Feb 2014 #88
And, there are those that read pintobean Feb 2014 #95
and, there are those that know the reality and STILL actively promote the worst seabeyond Feb 2014 #97
Even if the girl said there was more abuse than actually happened Ken Burch Feb 2014 #63
"nobody ever tries to collectively discredit any OTHER category of crime victims" bettyellen Feb 2014 #74
quit trying to rationalize allens pervertities. they are what they are. be offended. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #77
Your back! snooper2 Feb 2014 #84
hey.... i have been reading you. seabeyond Feb 2014 #87
best thread so far snooper2 Feb 2014 #89
omg.... lol, thanks for the link. seabeyond Feb 2014 #90
You really don't get the whole "presumption of innocence" thing, do you? TheSarcastinator Feb 2014 #108
you ignore the tells of rape and molestation of our chilldren, you are part of the problem. seabeyond Feb 2014 #109
Yes, insisting on presumption of innocence is obviously a problem for you. TheSarcastinator Feb 2014 #116
Projection? You do not even need me in this conversation since you feel capable seabeyond Feb 2014 #118
"Pervertities"??? opiate69 Feb 2014 #114
You laugh at molestation of children? I understand you and yours seabeyond Feb 2014 #117
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #119
wow... a whole post of insults. just blatant. no if and or buts. just throw out insults..... seabeyond Feb 2014 #122
I don't think you'll find ONE single person here who doesn't take molesting polly7 Feb 2014 #123
Nope. RiffRandell Feb 2014 #124
Ya got dat right pintobean Feb 2014 #125
Bullshit. JTFrog Feb 2014 #134
Not one person read the article. (edited) I found one who did. Cerridwen Feb 2014 #91
I had several of his books riverwalker Feb 2014 #100

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
3. Some people lie about things
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:13 PM
Feb 2014

Some girls lie about being molested, some women lie about being raped, some men lie about molesting young girls and some men lie about raping women. Point?

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
121. Didn't say that.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:40 PM
Feb 2014

I was asking the OP their point with the post. Obviously there was some point to be made with it, one could think that the OP was insinuating that someone was lying about being molested by their famous father. Yes, some people lie, that doesn't mean all accusations are lies.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
5. I doubt this makes up for the 93+% of valid accusations
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:31 PM
Feb 2014

I doubt this makes up for the 93+% of valid accusations, but I'm sure it makes a bizarre demographic feel validated and warm inside...

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
55. +1
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:10 PM
Feb 2014

I'm seething. I dare not respond to the OP so I'm just going to piggy back on yours if you don't mind.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
132. i asked a question to the op about intention. clearly that is is very tough for you to grasp.
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 12:07 PM
Feb 2014

oh, and here's my passive aggressive smilie waving at yours, for good measure:

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
133. And I asked you a question about your intention.
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 12:12 PM
Feb 2014

At least we know you have a firm grasp on passive-aggressive behavior. QED.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
7. One girl lied. That means they all lied!!! Even me. Maybe I have ' false memories'!!!
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:34 PM
Feb 2014

Let's let all of the child molesters out of prison right now!!! Innocent men all!!!

 

1000words

(7,051 posts)
9. According to your words, all molesters are men
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:38 PM
Feb 2014

Let's let all of the child molesters out of prison right now!!! Innocent men all!!!
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
13. Wow.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:42 PM
Feb 2014

Rephrase. Let's let all of the molesters out, most of them men, innocent all!!!!!

Do you feel better now? Put you 1000 words in? I know I do.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
17. But you're doing it right now.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:47 PM
Feb 2014

You're feeding the female beast. I'm feeling mysandrific today anyways.

You started it.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
53. I so want to create a poll and ask how many DU members have been molested by women
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:58 PM
Feb 2014

or men. However, I won't do that to the survivors of this horrendous crime. But I will raise my hand a state I was molested by a male.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
57. Both a man and a woman
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:21 PM
Feb 2014

To be fair, she was very drunk and very depressed over a bad breakup.

The guy, a friend of my mom, never got further than a hand on my shoulder and an obscene request that was met with an icy stare that said "Touch me again and you will be pooping into a sack".

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
58. I was too.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:22 PM
Feb 2014

My father was molested by his aunt.
He still thought I should worry more about men than women since most molesters are men.
And most victims are women.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
86. 99% of the people convicted of and imprisoned in response to rape accusations were male
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:43 AM
Feb 2014
This rape by gender article classifies types of rape by the sex of both the rapist and the victim. The scope of the article includes both rape and sexual violence more generally.

Since only a small percentage of acts of sexual violence are brought to the attention of the authorities, it is difficult to compile accurate statistics. Often, the statistics of successful convictions are looked at in lieu of this. The U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics (1997) stated that 91% of United States people whose rape accusations resulted in convictions against the accused were female and 9% were male. It also stated that 99% of the people convicted of and imprisoned in response to rape accusations were male, with only 1% of those convicted being female.[1]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_gender


the poster did not say all rapists are men. please re read and correct. further, she clarified the statement to make it more clear in a follow up post and used most. at 99%, that would be most rapists are men.

Renew Deal

(81,852 posts)
98. They stated that "all" "child molesters" are men.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 01:09 PM
Feb 2014

"Let's let all of the child molesters out of prison right now!!! Innocent men all!!!"

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
99. no. they did not. take note of periods, end of sentences. re read. NO....
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 01:12 PM
Feb 2014

the words arent in the right place, and as i told you in my first post to you, she clarified, corrected in her next post. a simple look see will further illustrate you are incorrect.

the poster is saying let the molesters our of prison. all the men are innocent.... meaning, not molesters dontcha know.

i think that is pretty clear. added bonus, clarity in the next post.

please correct you wrong accusation. you have proof that you interpreted the post wrong. to continue in this vain isnt.... nice.

Renew Deal

(81,852 posts)
102. Her statement isn't clear
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 01:50 PM
Feb 2014

And I'm not the only one that read it that way. If she wants to clear up the original post, she is free to do so. As written, it is blatantly sexist.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
103. you would just rather falsely accuse, and present an incorrect assumption than read the second post?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 01:54 PM
Feb 2014

not to mention consideration of periods, end of sentences?

it is you choice to continue on making misstatements. and you seem to be ok with that.

just so others are clear, reading this exchange. you are well aware the very next post makes it abundantly clear for you, the reader, and you refuse to take that little step so you are no longer presenting a wrong.

Renew Deal

(81,852 posts)
105. I get what you're saying
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:29 PM
Feb 2014

But you're talking to the wrong person. I didn't make the confusing post. My view is clear.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
115. Reading is fundamental.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:59 PM
Feb 2014

Response to 1000words (Reply #9)Tue Feb 4, 2014, 12:42 PM
bravenak (2,258 posts)
13. Wow.

Rephrase. Let's let all of the molesters out, most of them men, innocent all!!!!!

Do you feel better now? Put you 1000 words in? I know I do.

 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
10. Maybe you should post another OP about how one woman lied about being raped.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:39 PM
Feb 2014

It would be on par with this.



What's the point of this? Yes, one person lied. But it doesn't mean all child molestation allegations are lies.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
14. But this is DU, where if less than one percent of people do something wrong
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:43 PM
Feb 2014

We blame all.

Like on the gun issue. Own a gun you are a humper, nut, wanna be killer, small penis, etc and so on - all because a very tiny few in the group of gun owners did bad things with guns.

If people want to use that logic they best be prepared when others use the same logic.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
24. Oh, it's been done
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:53 PM
Feb 2014

The woman who accused the Duke LaCross player is the favorite defense for why subsequent accused rapists are innocent.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
56. pretty certain it's the defense for why subsequent accused rapists are innocent until proven guilty
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:16 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
65. Interesting how innocent until proven guilty is always raised to defend rapists
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 09:49 PM
Feb 2014

but not those of other crimes, the cop who killed the schizophrenic man, for example. Bush and Cheney aren't proclaimed innocent until proven guilty, nor is Chris Christie, whereas women who make false allegations are wished all variety of horrible punishment.

The fact is everyone is innocent until proven guilty in our justice system. Everyone. The question is why do some feel compelled to continually defend accused sexual predators? What is it about being accused of rape or child abuse that raises someone to a special status of respect over cops, elected officials, or others accused of a crime?

frylock

(34,825 posts)
66. i guess you missed the video of the cops wailing on the schizophrenic man?
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 11:34 PM
Feb 2014

you want to go to the mat for chris christie in light of the current evidence? knock yourself out. any insight into the zimmerman trial you'd care to share with the group?

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
68. So you agree it is about subject matter
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 12:59 AM
Feb 2014

and not legal principal? So explain to me what makes rapists and child abusers better than those others you mention?

frylock

(34,825 posts)
69. no, that's something you decided yourself..
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 01:40 AM
Feb 2014

i'll invite you to peruse the many threads I posted in regarding jerry sandusky or steubenville if you'd like to learn how I feel about rapists and child molesters. i'll also kindly ask you to not put words in my fucking mouth.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
70. I'm not talking about you specifically
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:12 AM
Feb 2014

I'm talking about the broader reaction. You interjected in this subthread to tell me it was all about innocent until proven guilty, yet you scoff at the idea that folks accused of other crimes should have that point championed for them on this site. So again, I repeat, what is it about accused sexual predators that elevates them above everyone else? Why are they more important than other accused persons and more important than their alleged victims? Getting angry doesn't change the fact you aren't addressing my point. Since you injected in a subthread about a broader point and decided to make the discussion about yourself, perhaps you can tell me why the idea of raising innocent until proven guilty more offensive for you in those other cases you mentioned than for accused sexual predators?


kcr

(15,315 posts)
71. I often see that as a form of attempting to shut down the opponent
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:26 AM
Feb 2014

Those who raise innocent until proven guilty rarely ever apply this evenly to every opinion, just like you say. The justice system somehow manages to chug along merrily whatever any one of us thinks or types.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
127. Read Once again, this time paying attention
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 06:47 PM
Feb 2014
The fact is everyone is innocent until proven guilty in our justice system. Everyone. The question is why do some feel compelled to continually defend accused sexual predators? What is it about being accused of rape or child abuse that raises someone to a special status of respect over cops, elected officials, or others accused of a crime?


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4445478
 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
126. Well, becuase what they mean is "The powerful are presumed innocent"
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 05:57 PM
Feb 2014

Police, politicians, famous actor-directors, etc.

Renew Deal

(81,852 posts)
81. Why are you acting so strange?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:25 AM
Feb 2014

It's an ordinary DU news related post without comment? Why do you feel the need to respond with accusations?

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
128. Come on. Don't assume people are stupid
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 06:49 PM
Feb 2014

We all know people choose certain news stories to make a point. Everyone does it. Pretending otherwise is disingenuous.

 

oldhippie

(3,249 posts)
75. You know perfectly well what posts I am talking about .....
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 10:57 AM
Feb 2014

.... and, no, I am not going to waste my time. Keep on guessing.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
104. I not only don't know pefectly well, I have never seen such a post
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:03 PM
Feb 2014

Unless of course you are pissed off that people have pointed out the fact that FBI stats show that false allegations are extremely rare, while some here drudge up a rarity each and every time they want to excuse an accused sexual predator. Child abuse and rape are exceedingly common. False allegations are rare. I seriously doubt anyone has said it is impossible for a false allegation to occur.

I knew I'd be waiting forever.

 

oldhippie

(3,249 posts)
120. Me? Pissed off?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:38 PM
Feb 2014
Unless of course you are pissed off that people have pointed out the fact ...


Where did you get the idea that I get pissed off by facts?

Seriously, you can't make this stuff up.

I seriously doubt anyone has said it is impossible for a false allegation to occur.


Yes, someone did. Said that if anyone believed that such a false allegation was possible they would be ignored.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
129. One person said it?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 06:51 PM
Feb 2014

Why not post the quote?

If one person said it, it will soon become the meme that everyone says it, because that's how the bullshit flies around here. They are still feeding off that doors lie, and will for another decade at least.

kcr

(15,315 posts)
12. It doesn't say she lied about being molested
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:41 PM
Feb 2014

It says she lied about one of the occurrences. Not that she was molested at all. She was afraid the person molesting her would be allowed to come home.

kcr

(15,315 posts)
36. Isn't it funny how some will insist it's all about facts, and some let emotion get in the way
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:06 PM
Feb 2014

Yet here we are. And facts are getting downright ignored.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
47. Yes, the facts trope is a Positivist one
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:28 PM
Feb 2014

and like Positivism has a clear class, race, and gender bias. They use the term "facts" when they have none, and then when someone puts forward a piece of information that doesn't fit their case, they turn to attacking the poster, calling her obsessed, predicable, etc....
as happened in this thread of mine. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024441074

okaawhatever

(9,461 posts)
34. Here's the quote from the article:
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:05 PM
Feb 2014

"Yes," the girl, now 12, replied. "The first time it was the truth, but then the second time that she did, it was a lie."

The girl said she did not want her half-sister, who was sent to a juvenile detention center for molesting her in 2007, to return to live with the family.




Based on the WHOLE story, she came from a very unstable home. The father seemingly abused her. The mother, step-mother and father all seem like they have problems. Is it any wonder she has issues?

kcr

(15,315 posts)
42. It was the father's defense.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:17 PM
Feb 2014

They were probably trying to trip her up, to discredit her. She wasn't saying the abuse didn't happen. Given that this was an attempt to discredit her for the defense of her father, who knows how that response happened. I agree, it's obvious she comes from pretty awful circumstances. At any rate, she didn't admit to the abuse not happening at all, as the headline falsely suggests.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
18. I'm pretty sure this isn't a common thing.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:48 PM
Feb 2014

I just wish the few that do would stop to consider before they fuck somebody else's life up, make it weirder and harder for actual victims and make themselves look really bad.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
19. I guess that well-known Delaware Doctor is off the hook.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:50 PM
Feb 2014

Good news for him.

But doesn't really exonerate others accused of molesting. Or those who intimidate their victims into keeping their mouths shut.

Bryant

kcr

(15,315 posts)
22. I doubt it. If you actually read the details she doesn't say she wasn't molested.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:52 PM
Feb 2014

She isn't lying about it. It's a misleading headline.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
23. If a child makes claims of sexual abuse
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 05:52 PM
Feb 2014

it needs to be investigated, because even if it *ISN'T* true, some fucked up things are going on in that house to give an eight year old fodder to accuse an adult.

Response to CBGLuthier (Original post)

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
28. Please provide us links to those DU sources
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:00 PM
Feb 2014

I am guessing what you were told is that false allegations are rare, as FBI data shows. Whereas some here like to take one false allegation and use that as an excuse for why accused pedophile x, y, and rapist z and q are all innocent. It is an illogical position unsupported by data or anything else.

 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
39. Oh, c'mon. There's a thread with 300+ replies in GD right now...
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:13 PM
Feb 2014

...whose basic premise is that if someone makes an allegation it MUST be true.

A false allegation about doctor in Delaware proves nothing except about that case. It certainly doesn't prove that Woody Allen is innocent of the claims against him.

I don't know who is arguing that because some tiny fraction of such allegations are false, all such must be false.

I do see a big dispute over the veracity of the allegations in the Allen case. That's the way it goes. People are allowed to make allegations; people are allowed to defend themselves against them.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
44. And people can and do distort
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:25 PM
Feb 2014

which is precisely what the post you are defending did. I have seen NO ONE ever say false accusation is impossible. They have said the truth, it is rare. Now you may find that truth inconvenient, but that doesn't change the data.

Democat

(11,617 posts)
113. You have never seen anyone say that false accusations are impossible?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:55 PM
Feb 2014

Maybe you need to visit DU more often.

According to the DU witch hunters, no one has ever lied about being abused and anyone accused of abuse is guilty until proven innocent.

kcr

(15,315 posts)
45. That wasn't the point of that thread at all
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:26 PM
Feb 2014

I know that is the knee jerk response that many seem to have taken from it. Claims of abuse should always be taken seriously. It doesn't therefore follow that all people accused are automatically guilty. That thread came from a very understandable point of frustration. The attitude that claims must always be suspect to protect the accused has been prolific with the Woody Allen scandal. I think that is what that OP was talking about.

TroglodyteScholar

(5,477 posts)
60. I actually haven't posted directly on the issue
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 08:30 PM
Feb 2014

But I've seen a number of innocent DUers get attacked when they suggest the possibility that a child's accusation (or the adult recollection of childhood memories) might conceivably be flawed. I believe the current discussion arose over Woody Allen/Mia Farrow. This is a case where primarily one parent had access to the child and also has intensely bitter feelings, predating the alleged abuse, towards the other parent. This kind of case calls for increased scrutiny of the accusation...and to deny this is denying the accused of the presumption of innocence (you've heard of that, right?).

And IF you truly think anyone here is claiming that all rapists and pedophiles are innocent, you're an idiot who is wasting your time and everyone else's. However, there literally are people here who believe that an accuser's accusation is not to be questioned or examined too closely, and that you love sex criminals if you think anything different. It's nearly as simple-minded and offensive as the worst conservative views.

Alright, now for the knee-jerk asshole army to come along and tell me what an awful person I am for hating victims of abuse and loving baby-diddlers. I see that "You are ignoring this member" has already chimed in. Yay.

kcr

(15,315 posts)
64. I'm not going to tell you you're an awful person
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 08:59 PM
Feb 2014

I just don't think your assessment of what happens on DU is accurate. Your portrayal of the Woody Allen/Mia Farrow story shows the same bias that probably leads you to see the controversy playing out on DU as innocent DUers being attacked.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
67. You just call people idiots and "assholery army"
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 12:55 AM
Feb 2014

and insist others are doing the attacking? You can't seriously think that is credible.

Here are some basic points: Everyone is innocent until proven guilty in the US legal system. Everyone. Yet for some reasons the idea is raised constantly for accused sexual predators and not others. What is it about an accused rapist or child molester than puts him in higher esteem than a cop or an elected official, or the women accused of waging false accusations who are wished to serve lifetime in prison? It seems to me that accused sexual predators receive more respect that any other kind of accused person. That is what makes me wonder WTF is going on.

Someone just claimed the difference between sex with a minor before and after the age of consent was a "minor point." Another insisted than Woody Allen's attention on the underage Soon-Yi was needed attention since the girl wasn't pretty enough to date. That tells me that some people at least diverge from what you claim above.

The fact is any random population of a large enough size contains a certain number of rapists and child abusers. Pretending that is the case everywhere but here is absurd. It's beyond absurd. It's an entirely unbelievable claim. We have even had rapists admit to their crimes on this board. So your whole pretense that none of that exists is patently absurd.

If you don't want people to accuse you of things, perhaps you should stop using profane insult to refer to them? The fact is there are a lot of survivors of rape and child abuse on this board. That is a function of how incredibly common those crimes are: one in 4 women and a lesser though significant number of men are survivors. Yet they are assholes to you because they care about this issue and react strongly. Clearly some have a personal connection to the issue that explains the strong emotion. You insist NONE of Allen's defenders have any such personal experience. If that is true, why the level of anger? Why the insults and profanity? Why the complete lack of compassion for abuse survivors? Why the unyielding focus on themselves and their hurt feelings over the experiences of victims?
I suggest you look in the mirror before flinging profane insults. You lost me when you showed you practice none of the respect and decorum you insist others adhere to.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
61. The headline was WRONG...she didn't say NO abuse happened.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 08:34 PM
Feb 2014

This doesn't mean the doctor is innocent.

And there's no good reason for you to start this shit.

Are you a "Manhood 101" kind of guy?

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
35. "My home life is far too stable."
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:05 PM
Feb 2014

"I'd better make up some accusations of sexual abuse at 7 years old to keep things interesting!".

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
38. Father of the year here:
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:11 PM
Feb 2014

""Yes," the girl, now 12, replied. "The first time it was the truth, but then the second time that she did, it was a lie."

The girl said she did not want her half-sister, who was sent to a juvenile detention center for molesting her in 2007, to return to live with the family.

She also admitted to telling a therapist that Morse had never really slapped her, but that she had gotten the idea from talking to her half-sister.

Earlier on Tuesday, the girl said Morse, 60, had waterboarded her as punishment for vomiting milk.

Waterboarding, typically associated with the interrogation of terrorism suspects, in general involves holding a cloth over a person's face and flooding it with water to simulate drowning.

Morse {dear old dad} told her she could survive without air for "five minutes without brain damage," she said in a video of her questioning at a children's advocacy center in August 2012."

Squinch

(50,935 posts)
37. That's a really bad choice of story for the point you are trying to make. Read the rest of it:
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:09 PM
Feb 2014

"During cross-examination, Morse's defense team played a video of the girl telling a counselor how her half-sister, then 16, had recently molested her for a second time.

"That was a lie under oath, wasn't it?" asked Morse's attorney, Joe Hurley.

"Yes," the girl, now 12, replied. "The first time it was the truth, but then the second time that she did, it was a lie."

The girl said she did not want her half-sister, who was sent to a juvenile detention center for molesting her in 2007, to return to live with the family."

http://uk.reuters.com/article/2014/02/04/us-usa-delaware-waterboard-trial-idUKBREA131EL20140204

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
48. I am so fucking sick of the wrongs of one person being used to paint all victims as the same...
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:31 PM
Feb 2014

Geez, enough already people. It's fucking sick.

When are we going to stop victimizing the victims.

 

Kelvin Mace

(17,469 posts)
50. The girl's father is being tried for torturing her
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 06:38 PM
Feb 2014

I don't think we can draw any broad conclusions about the topic of molestation from this incident.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
59. Is this what DU is now?
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:23 PM
Feb 2014

First, she admitted that one of the two instances of molestation didn't really happen, not that she wasn't molested at all.

Second, are we going to say that because one girl lied once about one instance of abuse, all girls are suspect?

boston bean

(36,220 posts)
83. It's pretty much what has been alluded to by many. She lied, her mother planted false memories....
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:31 AM
Feb 2014

New day, same bullshit.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
62. This thread is hilarious
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 08:35 PM
Feb 2014

Just post a news story, without comment, and watch a bunch of people fall all over themselves jumping to conclusions.

Renew Deal

(81,852 posts)
82. I agree
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:28 AM
Feb 2014

It's crazy. I've stayed away from the Woody Allen stuff. I'm guessing that's where all the angst is coming from.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
88. there will always be those that prefer a chuckle and bag of popcorn
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:49 AM
Feb 2014

for entertainment at others expense.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
97. and, there are those that know the reality and STILL actively promote the worst
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 01:07 PM
Feb 2014

of who we are. at all cost.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
63. Even if the girl said there was more abuse than actually happened
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 08:54 PM
Feb 2014

That doesn't mean the doctor is innocent...and it doesn't discredit her accusations...and it doesn't have a damn thing to do with Dylan's accusations against Woody Allen.

And you damn well know it.

Funny, how nobody ever tries to collectively discredit any OTHER category of crime victims, isn't it?

Go join "Manhood 101".

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
87. hey.... i have been reading you.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:45 AM
Feb 2014

a bit of game playing, but always a soft spot. god only knows why.... lol

saw the 51 billion

or the water

or the anti gay

or the bad courses that cause injury

help me out.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
90. omg.... lol, thanks for the link.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 11:52 AM
Feb 2014

the manhole itself had my stomach rolling. wowsers, to be so totally inept. and 51b. had to grease a lot fo palms to get uncovered manholes, lol

thanks

TheSarcastinator

(854 posts)
108. You really don't get the whole "presumption of innocence" thing, do you?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:35 PM
Feb 2014

Allen is still officially innocent, no matter how many times you try to find him guilty in the court of public opinion.

TheSarcastinator

(854 posts)
116. Yes, insisting on presumption of innocence is obviously a problem for you.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:01 PM
Feb 2014

Thanks for the clarification.

I'm sure it will only take you a few minutes to begin hinting that those who insist on presumption of innocence must have "something to hide", as I have seen on other threads. Your tactics -- and your ethics -- are crystal clear.

Carry on, brave internet warrior.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
118. Projection? You do not even need me in this conversation since you feel capable
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:15 PM
Feb 2014

Of redefining what I say and take it a step further to tell all what I say next.

Tell me how seriously you take the presumption of innocence. But that is not what my post are about as you are well aware. And that is not what this thread is about which is clear to the majority here.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
117. You laugh at molestation of children? I understand you and yours
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:11 PM
Feb 2014

Are working hard at redefining the issue. Hence, the new low. But I really do not see the belly laugh in molesting our children.

Response to seabeyond (Reply #117)

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
122. wow... a whole post of insults. just blatant. no if and or buts. just throw out insults.....
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:49 PM
Feb 2014

after laughing at people who take molesting children seriously.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
123. I don't think you'll find ONE single person here who doesn't take molesting
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 04:04 PM
Feb 2014

children seriously.

That's a horrible accusation, whether you realize it, or not.

Nothing changes.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
124. Nope.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 05:40 PM
Feb 2014

Although it was a tad more "quiet" around here and a lot more pleasant...until today. Very telling.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
134. Bullshit.
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 12:32 PM
Feb 2014

You must have had your fingers in your ears for the last week or so.

At least with the addition of sea's voice, things are back to being a little more balanced around here.

And you can save it, I don't really care if you agree with that or not.



Cerridwen

(13,252 posts)
91. Not one person read the article. (edited) I found one who did.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 12:05 PM
Feb 2014

Last edited Wed Feb 5, 2014, 12:45 PM - Edit history (1)

<snip>

During cross-examination, Morse's defense team played a video of the girl telling a counselor how her half-sister, then 16, had recently molested her for a second time.

"That was a lie under oath, wasn't it?" asked Morse's attorney, Joe Hurley.

"Yes," replied the girl, now 12, who was cross-examined for more than three hours. "The first time it was the truth, but then the second time that she did, it was a lie."

The girl said she did not want her half-sister, who was sent to a juvenile detention center for molesting her in 2007, to return to live with the family.

<snip>


The article has a decided bias. Apparently the girl's sister was due home from detention. The girl did not want her to come home and so fabricated a 2nd molestation. "The first time it was the truth, but then the second time that she did, it was a lie."

Not one person who replied to the OP read or understood the article at the link. It helped that the OP didn't include a few paragraphs.

The girl, unlike here, is not on trial. Her step-father is on trial for torturing her. he jokingly referred to it as waterboarding.

his defense attorney is twisting and turning her testimony to cast doubt on her words in order to provide a "shadow of a doubt."

http://abclocal.go.com/wls/story?section=news/national_world&id=9411601

It looks as though yahoo has updated or added an article with an entirely different style: http://news.yahoo.com/delaware-doctor-accused-waterboarding-stepdaughter-trial-opens-235754950--sector.html



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