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Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
Tue Feb 11, 2014, 11:43 PM Feb 2014

( Updated ) Mom creates birthday Facebook page after son says he has no friends

Last edited Sun Mar 9, 2014, 10:21 AM - Edit history (1)

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

February 11, 2014 (KALAMAZOO, Mich.) (WLS) -- Ten-year-old Colin, of Kalamazoo, Mich., told his mom not to throw him a birthday party because he has no friends.

Colin, who suffers from Asperger's, told his mom there would be no point in throwing a birthday party because all of the kids at school "don't like me" and "make fun of me."

That's when Colin's mom came up with a special surprise. She created a Facebook page called "Happy Birthday Colin" where people can leave birthday messages for Colin, and it's getting lots of attention.

Leave a birthday wish on Colin's page

"I am Colin's mom, I created this page for my amazing, wonderful, challenging son who is about to turn 11 on March 9th," she wrote February 2. "Because of Colin's disabilities, social skills are not easy for him, and he often acts out in school, and the other kids don't like him... He eats lunch alone in the office everyday because no one will let him sit with them.

"So I thought, if I could create a page where people could send him positive thoughts and encouraging words, that would be better than any birthday party. Please join me in making my very original son feel special on his day," Mom wrote.

The page has 81,389 likes so far. Colin's mom said she's hoping to keep it a secret until March 9. But he's already heard chatter at school about being on the news.

http://abclocal.go.com/wls/story?section=news/national_world&id=9427862

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( Updated ) Mom creates birthday Facebook page after son says he has no friends (Original Post) Jefferson23 Feb 2014 OP
And now I'm all onion-eyed Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #1
I'll share these with ya; A HERETIC I AM Feb 2014 #2
ha ha, I think you found the right size too :) Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #7
Great Mom, great kid, yep! n/t Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #5
he is a cutie pie Skittles Feb 2014 #3
Check this out, I think he will love it. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #15
aw how I loves me some firefighters Skittles Feb 2014 #16
What a sweet gift to Colin! sheshe2 Feb 2014 #4
You're very welcome..and terrific if you can check out the FB. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #6
Aww he's adorable! Triana Feb 2014 #8
I think so too...his Mom had a great idea. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #10
Happy Birthday Colin!! I'm here for you! nt riderinthestorm Feb 2014 #9
Sweet!! n/t Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #23
What a wonderful gift from a mother ChazII Feb 2014 #11
They are...so many great messages for him...thanks for adding yours! n/t Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #13
I "liked" the page... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2014 #12
I think you just did. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #14
Gonna send him a CD and a bunch of fun stuff from the band. calimary Feb 2014 #17
I bet you hear all the time, you're the best..but I'm going to say it anyway..just awesome. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #21
Hugs back atcha, Jefferson23!!! calimary Feb 2014 #25
Fantastic, truly!!! You have a prince of a son there, not just a rock star. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #28
Moms..... DeSwiss Feb 2014 #18
Total Likes 1,451,140, just an update! n/t Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #29
Up to 819,000+ likes so far. Common Sense Party Feb 2014 #19
Thank you! n/t Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #22
What a great thing Mom has started! liberalla Feb 2014 #20
Take a look: Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #24
My son with Asperger's just turned 11 yesterday aroach Feb 2014 #26
Happy Birthday to your son and what a great opportunity for him to help another kid :) Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #27
Time to kick. n\ Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #30
she thought she could keep it a secret for a month. lol Liberal_in_LA Feb 2014 #31
I imagine she had no idea how this would be received, take a look: Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #32
Colin says thank you Jefferson23 Mar 2014 #33
kick Jefferson23 Mar 2014 #34

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
15. Check this out, I think he will love it.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 12:35 AM
Feb 2014

psilanti Township Firefighters Happy Birthday Colin from your new buddies at the Fire Department! (And there is no cooler Friends than Firefighters!)
492 · 4 hours ago


Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
6. You're very welcome..and terrific if you can check out the FB.
Tue Feb 11, 2014, 11:55 PM
Feb 2014

Hopefully the little guy will feel a different perspective on friends from his Mom's efforts.

ChazII

(6,202 posts)
11. What a wonderful gift from a mother
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 12:25 AM
Feb 2014

to her son. I visited the page and sent Colin a birthday greeting. Colin and his mom are receiving lots of love from around the world.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
12. I "liked" the page...
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 12:27 AM
Feb 2014

and will send him a note and birthday card. I didnt fit in growing up, either, and hope I can come up with something good to say.

calimary

(81,125 posts)
17. Gonna send him a CD and a bunch of fun stuff from the band.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 01:42 AM
Feb 2014


The kids made fun of my son, too. Thought he was a weirdo and some of them tried to pick fights with him on the playground. Too often he felt isolated and alone.

Now he's a frickin' rock star!

Colin,

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
21. I bet you hear all the time, you're the best..but I'm going to say it anyway..just awesome.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 01:56 PM
Feb 2014

Thank you, calimary.



calimary

(81,125 posts)
25. Hugs back atcha, Jefferson23!!!
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 03:42 PM
Feb 2014


Btw - my son signed the CD for Colin and wrote "you're a rockstar!" on it!

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
24. Take a look:
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 02:05 PM
Feb 2014

Colin's Mom:

The first mail from the PO box! Colin still doesn't know (I hope) so I have to hide these!


How cool is that!

aroach

(212 posts)
26. My son with Asperger's just turned 11 yesterday
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 04:03 PM
Feb 2014

I am going to make sure he visits this Facebook page and comments when he gets home from school.

I might even reactivate my own Facebook for this.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
32. I imagine she had no idea how this would be received, take a look:
Thu Feb 13, 2014, 09:30 AM
Feb 2014

Wow, the support and love has been amazing. Thank you all! I do want to mention that we are no longer doing any interviews, and we are not accepting call. And Colin's school is no longer accepting calls. Please remember THIS IS A SECRET! We love all the support, but let's keep it on the page, please.

* this was posted about 11 hours ago by Colin's Mom.

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