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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMelissa Harris-Perry Welcomes New Addition to Family On Valentine’s Day...
What a cutie!..
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http://newsone.com/2891598/melissa-harris-perry-welcomes-daughter-on-valentines-day/
pnwest
(3,265 posts)Congrats to her. What a lovely family she has.
HipChick
(25,485 posts)I know she often spoke about her hysterectomy..
arthritisR_US
(7,269 posts)Deuce
(959 posts)elleng
(130,156 posts)Didn't know she was expecting; I'm rarely up at her hour!
Cha
(295,925 posts)baby "nerdland" is adopted.
http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2014/02/melissa-harris-perry-husband-adopt-baby-girl/
Loaded Liberal Dem
(230 posts)+KR!
uponit7771
(90,225 posts)arthritisR_US
(7,269 posts)Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Hissyspit
(45,788 posts)juajen
(8,515 posts)Tarheel_Dem
(31,211 posts)question everything
(47,271 posts)Lets applaud Melissa Harris-Perry. The host of her eponymous MSNBC show just had a baby girl, and in a blog post Tuesday, she was totally transparent about her struggles with fibroids, secondary infertility, and use of a surrogate. It took two families, three states, four doctors, and five attorneys to get this little girl here, Harris-Perry writes. And while our gestational carrier has no genetic tie to our little one, she is now our family.
While its great that Harris-Perry wanted to go public about her experience of raising a tween and a tot at 40, as well as her experience of using a surrogate, the key here is that it was her choice to speak out. Ive been somewhat appalled of late at commentators who say celebrities older than 35 must talk about their struggles to get pregnant, as if they owe it to us.
This has come up in particular in the publicity surrounding The Big Lie: Motherhood, Feminism, and the Reality of the Biological Clock by Tanya Selvaratnam. In an interview with CNN, Selvarantam said, "We see celebrities having kids seemingly without any problems, and we have no idea what they went through. We see the end result, but not the struggle."
Maybe thats because their struggles are none of our business, unless they choose to make it our business, as Harris-Perry bravely did. In an age when 49-year-old Laura Linneys pregnancy and subsequent birth is described as a secret just because she didnt start a blog about it on Peoples celebrity baby website, weve come too far in expecting famous women to expose their private lives to us.
CNNs Wendy Sachs describes celebrities such as Halle Berry and Uma Thurman seemingly having babies easily after 35 as a tragic disservice to women who might think that they, too, can get pregnant without assistance into their 40s. No. Berry is not your biology teacher. There is no shortage of media telling women about how their eggs are shriveling up and dying. Its a tragic disservice to assume that women cant learn that theres a relationship between age and fertility without someone famous telling them so.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/02/18/melissa_harris_perry_speaks_out_about_her_surrogate_but_every_celebrity.html