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Snarkoleptic

(5,997 posts)
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 09:47 PM Feb 2014

So my 107-YO Grandmother passed away today.

It was a pretty good run and we should all be so lucky as to have a life such as hers.

She was born in rural White County, Indiana and lived on a farm until moving into town in the early 1970's. She had 3 daughters and one son, my dad, who was the youngest. They grew a variety of crops, raised cows, chickens, goats, pigs, also bred plow horses and beagles. Later diversified and owned a roofing company until Grandpa passed in the mid-70's. After that she traveled extensively including Russia, Italy, Germany, etc. Here eyes were clear and bright, she made sense during most conversations, and was always cheery and upbeat. She was a skilled seamstress, never drove a car and her life experiences made her quite a raconteur.

She would spend summers in Indiana and winters in Florida with her daughters. About a year and a half ago, she attended my brother's wedding in Chicago. She moved around from table to table chatting (despite the loud DJ) and hardly ever sat down. They say if it's too loud, you're too old; she had no problem with the volume and had quite a nice time.

She was mostly in very good health until a couple of months ago when hospitalized after a fall. Two weeks ago her doctor recommended hospice care, moved a hospital bed into her home and assigned two shifts of visiting nurses. She demanded the bed be removed, dismissed the nurses and the following morning awoke demanding a breakfast of potatoes with onions and a fried egg.

A pretty good run!







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So my 107-YO Grandmother passed away today. (Original Post) Snarkoleptic Feb 2014 OP
She had a great life it sounds like. Kingofalldems Feb 2014 #1
VERY good run! elleng Feb 2014 #2
107! Wow.... Adrahil Feb 2014 #3
Thank you so much for sharing her story with us. warrior1 Feb 2014 #4
"always cheery and upbeat" panader0 Feb 2014 #5
just think of the changes during her lifetime. grasswire Feb 2014 #6
Thanks! She was a pretty cool lady. Snarkoleptic Feb 2014 #7
a toast to her MFM008 Feb 2014 #8
I'm sorry... Ron Obvious Feb 2014 #9
Wow, lucky lady. Bully for her for running such a long race. nt valerief Feb 2014 #10
Born in 1906 the same year as my mom's mom whistler162 Feb 2014 #11
My condolences, Snarkoleptic. polly7 Feb 2014 #12
She sounds like a fun lady - TBF Feb 2014 #13
She had quite a life, and a long life at that nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #14
Sounds like a real pistol! annabanana Feb 2014 #15
She saw a lot, wow. oldandhappy Feb 2014 #16
Damn Straight a pretty good run. Philly Cowboy Feb 2014 #17
Eveready Bunny of a Nanna. You were so blessed! n/t Loudly Feb 2014 #18
She sounds like she was my kind of grandma. TxDemChem Feb 2014 #19
Excellent run. RIP 840high Feb 2014 #20
I'll always remember the farm stories... Snarkoleptic Feb 2014 #21
My grandmother celebrated her centennial earlier this month. opiate69 Feb 2014 #22
A pretty good run, indeed. 3catwoman3 Feb 2014 #23
May she rest in peace. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #24
A great story about someone you will surely miss. we can do it Feb 2014 #25
A damn good run, I'd say. Gormy Cuss Feb 2014 #26
Congratulations for having had so wonderful a grandmother for so long. merrily Feb 2014 #27
Wow, good on her! Hope you inherited those good genes. polichick Feb 2014 #28
My grandmother died on her 86th birthday Jenoch Feb 2014 #29
Rest in peace..... AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #30
She saw it all happen, what a life! Egalitarian Thug Feb 2014 #31
I know you'll miss her terribly! What an awesome woman! Triana Feb 2014 #32
Good on her! A life well lived, it sounds like. MineralMan Feb 2014 #33
What a grand story of a life well lived. Thanks for sharing with us... Hekate Feb 2014 #34
That's quite amazing! pacalo Feb 2014 #35
a life well-lived noiretextatique Feb 2014 #36
 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
3. 107! Wow....
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 09:50 PM
Feb 2014

It must still hurt to lose her, and I send my deepest sympathies, but that is remarkable....

panader0

(25,816 posts)
5. "always cheery and upbeat"
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:01 PM
Feb 2014

I'll bet that contributed to her long and happy life. A pretty good run indeed!

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
9. I'm sorry...
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:12 PM
Feb 2014

But I also envy you. I never really knew my grandparents and I would give anything to be able to talk with them.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
12. My condolences, Snarkoleptic.
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:37 PM
Feb 2014

What an amazing woman. I'm sure she left you with so many fantastic memories to cherish. Peace and strength to you and yours - it's always hard, no matter what.

TBF

(32,029 posts)
13. She sounds like a fun lady -
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:41 PM
Feb 2014

and I agree a positive attitude can make a world of difference. Safe passage, grandma.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
14. She had quite a life, and a long life at that
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:43 PM
Feb 2014


Cherish the memories. And hugs, losing somebody dear is always hard.

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
15. Sounds like a real pistol!
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:43 PM
Feb 2014

How fortunate you were to have her in your life.
Thanks for sharing her with us.

 

Philly Cowboy

(35 posts)
17. Damn Straight a pretty good run.
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 10:46 PM
Feb 2014

Sound like my mom. They don't make them like that any more.

I bet she could play Euchre and would only trump her partners ace when needed.

Don't morn her loss, but celebrate her life.

She would like that.

TxDemChem

(1,918 posts)
19. She sounds like she was my kind of grandma.
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 11:05 PM
Feb 2014

I am so glad that she hot to live life on her terms. I hope to be as kick-ass she . My condolences to you and your fan. She seems like the epitome of an awesome grandma.

Snarkoleptic

(5,997 posts)
21. I'll always remember the farm stories...
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 11:41 PM
Feb 2014

How they had to rotate horse teams on an hourly basis while plowing fields.

The billy goat that had an attitude and would chase my dad around the barnyard.

Running a farm and house without electricity, esp. during the cold Northern Indiana winters. Gotta keep a pitcher of water to prime the pump.

How the "hobos" had somehow mysteriously marked the house as a place where they could reliably get a handout meal when passing through.

The pet goat that went missing for nearly two weeks only to be found lodged behind a large stack of roofing supplies. After being rescued, drank water for 5-minutes straight and then pretended nothing had happened. This is the goat that was part pet and part lawnmower.

I could listen to these stories for hours...


 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
22. My grandmother celebrated her centennial earlier this month.
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 11:51 PM
Feb 2014

I raise my glass to your grandmother, as well as mine, and all the amazing things they experienced.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
23. A pretty good run, indeed.
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 11:53 PM
Feb 2014

How enriched your life was because she was in it. May your many memories comfort you.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
29. My grandmother died on her 86th birthday
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 12:42 AM
Feb 2014

after only being sick for two weeks. She would have been miserable in a nursing home. She too did not drive. After my grandfather died, she wanted to see her sisters back in the old country. She went into the Soviet Union at the height of the Cold War using a false passport that identified her as a Canadian. She ditched her Inturist 'chaperone' in Kyiv and west to west Ukraine where westerners were not allowed. When she left, she smuggled ten quarts of moonshine vodka in her luggage and nobody bothered her. These old ladies sure had quite interesting lives.

I thought my grandmother had a good run, but your grandmother beat her by more than 20 years.

 

Triana

(22,666 posts)
32. I know you'll miss her terribly! What an awesome woman!
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:45 PM
Feb 2014

R.I.P. to her and condolences to your family on the loss of such a vibrant soul in this world!



Hekate

(90,616 posts)
34. What a grand story of a life well lived. Thanks for sharing with us...
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:52 PM
Feb 2014

I have to say that reading about a soul who was cheerful to the end is a nice change of pace for DU!

to you and your grandma.

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