Why I Retired At 26

[mfcorey1]

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rashard-mendenhall/rashard-mendenhall-retirement-_b_4931316.html

I decided not to hold a press conference because I didn't want to have to say things that were cliché. I've done enough of that since I've been playing football. I actually didn't really plan on saying anything about my retirement at all. I just kind of wanted to disappear. The fact that I was done playing would've been clear once some time had passed, and I hadn't signed back with the Cardinals or any other team. Maybe people would've thought I couldn't get another job. Either way, I was okay with the idea of fading to black, and my legacy becoming "What ever happened to that dude Rashard Mendenhall? He was pretty good for a few years, then he just vanished."

The truth is, I don't really think my walking away is that big of deal. For me it's saying, "Football was pretty cool, but I don't want to play anymore. I want to travel the world and write!" However as I told the people around me that I wasn't planning on signing again, there was a surprising amount of shock and bewilderment.

"Why would you stop now? You're only 26 years old! You're just going to walk away from millions of dollars? Is your knee fully healed? You had a pretty good year last year," etc. After the initial shock response and realization that I'm not kidding, the question that would continue to arise is: Why?

"Why do you want to stop playing football at 26?"

Honestly, I've really enjoyed my time in the NFL and have had tons of fun.

I feel like I've done it all. I've been to two Super Bowls; made a bunch of money; had a lot of success; traveled all over the country and overseas; met some really cool people; made lasting relationships; had the opportunity to give back to causes close to my heart; and have been able to share my experiences and wisdom with friends, family and people all over the world. Not to mention all the fun I had goofing around at work day after day with my teammates! I'm thankful that I can walk away at this time and smile over my six years in the NFL, and 17 total seasons of football -- dating back to when I started pee-wee ball at Niles West in 1997, when I was 10. These experiences are all a part of me, and will remain in my heart no matter what I do, or where I go.

Along with the joyful experiences I had, came many trials. In my last piece, "The Vision," I wrote about traversing through dark and dangerous waters, working to attain peace and refuge. That intense journey described my personal life in the NFL. Journeying through those waters symbolized living a private life in the public eye. Imagine having a job where you're always on duty, and can never fully relax or you just may drown. Having to fight through waves and currents of praise and criticism, but mostly hate. I can't even count how many times I've been called a 'dumb nigger'. There is a bold coarseness you receive from non-supporters that seems to only exist on the Internet. However, even if you try to avoid these things completely -- because I've tried -- somehow they still reach you. If not first-hand, then through friends and loved ones who take to heart all that they read and hear. I'm not a terribly sensitive person, so this stuff never really bothered me. That was until I realized that it actually had an impact my career. Over my career, I would learn that everything people say behind these computer and smartphones actually shape the perception of you -- the brand, the athlete and the person. Go figure!

What was more difficult for me to grasp was the way that the business of entertainment had really shifted the game and the sport of football in the NFL. The culture of football now is very different from the one I grew up with. When I came up, teammates fought together for wins and got respect for the fight. The player who gave the ball to the referee after a touchdown was commended; the one who played through injury was tough; the role of the blocking tight end was acknowledged; running backs who picked up blitzing linebackers showed heart; and the story of the game was told through the tape, and not the stats alone. That was my model of football.

[madokie]

1. Good on Rashard

I'm sure he has enough money to retire on, at least until he figures out a way to make some more.
I watch football and from my arm chair I can see its a brutal sport and one only has so many hits until the line has been crossed. I respect the person who can walk away long before they reach that point.

[OKNancy]

2. I think writing would be a good career if this is any indication

I went to the link and the rest is as good as the paragraphs posted.

[sibelian]

3. It really flows, doesn' it?

"Sweet and clear" as Sinatra sang...

[bemildred]

4. For some people, it's not about the money.

For other empty headed people, it is:

[Scuba]

5. Obviously smart, and wise beyond his years.

[pipoman]

6. Twenty six...This will always be a defining decision

In his life. In 10 years it will have been either his best or worst decision...there will be no redo. I think of this often as I have 2 twenty three year old sons who are making decisions that will go on to define their lives. I pray they decide their futures using good logic. I believe it is my job to help them see the full picture before they make big decisions, understand the possible long term effects, then make their own decisions and let the chips fall where they will. .

[dotymed]

7. Great Rashard.

You have the intelligence and drive to succeed at most anything.

I am in no way attacking you. I just want an opinion from someone who has been there.
Knowing how poor the average American is, that the majority will never take an international vacation and so many other things.
Do you feel that professional sports affiliated people (including the owners, coaches .. all except the minimally paid day to day workers) are overpaid comparatively speaking?
I know that when I was an active Union carpenter, $32.50 hourly plus benefits, I felt that I earned a good living. I worked very hard (bridge crew for 8 years .. a lot of overtime to raise my 4 children with) and we had to work as a team, like professional athletes.

What are your thoughts on a much more equitable pay system for everyone? I could never afford to attend a Major sporting event. I was able to attend some (my Son and I were "into" baseball) professional ball games but never the "Major events."

I am not putting the Athletes, Politicians(well maybe), Financiers of the world down) but honestly, as a hard working father, I wish that I could have afforded to do many more things with my family and not be too exhausted to enjoy them.
I earned more than double the pay that my non-Union counterparts made. When I joined the Union after 13 years in my trade, my family's quality of life improved dramatically which is why I have been so pro-Union every since.
Rashard, what are your thoughts about financial equality?

[mfcorey1]

9. 'No comprende?'

[alp227]

10. K&R good article! nt