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sheshe2

(83,661 posts)
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:14 PM Apr 2014

GOP’s woman-haters club swells: Why their hatred is actually getting worse



In the recently released report he commissioned on the bridge closing scandal, New Jersey Governor Chris Christie’s lawyer depicts the client as the innocent who was ensnared in the web woven by an “emotional” woman. No longer is Bridget Anne Kelly his hard-working deputy chief of staff, doing the bidding of a canny, no-nonsense governor; instead, she is your run-of-the-mill hysterical female lashing out against the multitude of commuters to get revenge, somehow, for being dumped by a guy.

Does this scenario make any sense? Why is it so common to subject to psychoanalysis a public official who is a woman? Why must she be cast as the dangerously “emotional” one in a political drama that paints Christie as a properly sensitive, duly caring public servant with “heartfelt” concern for his staff? Kelly’s attorney reacted to the obvious gender bias: “The report’s venomous, gratuitous, and inappropriate sexist remarks concerning Ms. Kelly have no place in what is alleged to be a professional and independent report.”

The Christie report’s sexist motif cannot be treated in isolation. The evidence suggests a deep-seated hatred that calls to mind the hatred directed at President Obama for his oft-imagined illegitimacy. Just like the knee-jerk “You lie!” and “subhuman mongrel” that Obama unfortunately has to hear, sexist remarks from thought-deprived men are more than an eye-rolling distraction. “Barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen” is not a dead ideology; insidious remarks about women’s “natural” helplessness are automatic in certain circles. They keep popping up like an annoying Whack-a-Mole. Can we figure out what’s going on?

The month just past was a heckuva month for know-nothingness and woman-bashing. In mid-March, responding to news of a projected National Women’s History museum, the always instructive Rush Limbaugh auto-blurted: “We already have, ladies and gentlemen, I don’t know how many museums for women all over the country. They are called malls.” Pregnant pause. “Hey, I could have said brothel.” Yes, and you could have admitted that in your oafish imagination a woman who is not deferential is a militant.

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GOP’s woman-haters club swells: Why their hatred is actually getting worse (Original Post) sheshe2 Apr 2014 OP
so.. when using this same kinda argument with women on du, and we get pissed and call you on it seabeyond Apr 2014 #1
You mean people arguing that woman at DU are too emotional? nt el_bryanto Apr 2014 #2
yes. that is what i mean, lol. or when we call people out in dismissing what we say, seabeyond Apr 2014 #3
Are you accusing the OP of doing this and being called on it? Bluenorthwest Apr 2014 #4
i was talking "you" as du, not the OP poster. as that person clearly gets, seabeyond Apr 2014 #7
I couldn't agree with you more! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #5
I thought you were being accused.... Bluenorthwest Apr 2014 #6
Well... sheshe2 Apr 2014 #9
lol.... seabeyond Apr 2014 #8
As I said to Blue above, sheshe2 Apr 2014 #11
This from the article: riqster Apr 2014 #10
Thanks for posting that paragraph, riqster. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #13
I am mercuryblues Apr 2014 #12
I am hoping they are in their death throes, too. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #14
It is the mercuryblues Apr 2014 #17
True, however... sheshe2 Apr 2014 #19
because they mercuryblues Apr 2014 #24
I still ca't figure where they get GOP women from. hollysmom Apr 2014 #15
This happens all the time in the "news" obxhead Apr 2014 #16
The He-Man Woman Hater's Club. longship Apr 2014 #18
Thanks longship!!!! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #20
What's with the Gingrich Buddha pose? longship Apr 2014 #21
You are a good man, longship. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #22
One boy amongst three girls. longship Apr 2014 #23
Love your story. Thanks for telling it. seabeyond Apr 2014 #25
And my father was with it, too. longship Apr 2014 #26
That makes all the difference in the world, I believe. seabeyond Apr 2014 #27
Love ya, sea! nt longship Apr 2014 #28
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
1. so.. when using this same kinda argument with women on du, and we get pissed and call you on it
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:23 PM
Apr 2014

and then there is a whole lot fo pretending of wha? wha? ...

remember back to this.

i hope he gets his ass fried. like limbaugh is still getting with fluke being a whore.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
3. yes. that is what i mean, lol. or when we call people out in dismissing what we say,
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:28 PM
Apr 2014

WHEN they use that terminology. and then pretend there is no history of this dismissal with women.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
4. Are you accusing the OP of doing this and being called on it?
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:36 PM
Apr 2014

Because that's what you typed. Can you show examples of this OP doing the 'same kinda arguments' as Rush? If not I just do not believe you.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
7. i was talking "you" as du, not the OP poster. as that person clearly gets,
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:42 PM
Apr 2014

having come across this argument from duers herself.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
10. This from the article:
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:47 PM
Apr 2014

"Before the weaponless, holier-than-thou Rand Paul attaches Hillary Clinton to husband Bill’s Lewinsky affair, the Kentucky senator ought to have a word with Newt Gingrich, who cheated on his second wife because he loved America so much. And he should ask Oklahoma Senator Tom Coburn why he covered up Nevada Senator John Ensign’s sordid, payoff-laced affair with his campaign director’s wife, when Ensign used their ultra-Christian bachelor pad in D.C. to stage his trysts. There are enough Republican libertines to go around–and generally speaking, they are the same men who attack women for using birth control."

sheshe2

(83,661 posts)
13. Thanks for posting that paragraph, riqster.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 04:13 PM
Apr 2014

Those asshats are all holier-than-thou. Ha! I think we should take their viagra away from them, it's rotting their brains. That is to assume of course that they have one functioning brain between them all.

mercuryblues

(14,525 posts)
12. I am
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 03:48 PM
Apr 2014

hoping they are in their death throes. More women are going to college, more women are voting. Women are the biggest voting bloc. So you would think that the republicans would try to STFU concerning women. But this is not the case. Their strategy is to try and humiliate, demoralize and disempower women. When you take away women's rights over their own bodies, taking away their right to vote will be easy.
Yes, they have women who will support that. They think they are special and people like Christie, Limbaugh and Huckabee don't mean them, just those "other" women. They are beyond help.

Even their rape talk falls into this line of thinking. Rape is denying a woman the right over her own body. Therefor even rape must be questioned, minimized and women must be branded as liars to get even.

The good part is that it really isn't working. Women are getting mad and to the voting booth. What does discourage me is that line of thinking is seeping into the so-called liberal media and people who would have said, just a few years ago that stuff is crazy, are now defending it.

sheshe2

(83,661 posts)
14. I am hoping they are in their death throes, too.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 04:22 PM
Apr 2014

They can't help themselves, they just keep digging themselves in deeper and deeper.

mercuryblues

(14,525 posts)
17. It is the
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 04:45 PM
Apr 2014

republican brain. They want X to happen and devise a plan. The only outcome they see happening based on their plan is X. When X doesn't happen, they don't ask what is wrong, they just assume they are not trying hard enough. They double down. Look what they did with the economy. They really believed that loosening wall st and banking regulations would result in an economic boom, despite that every reasoned brain said the exact opposite was true. They still will not admit their policies were failures and filibuster every piece of legislation proposed.

Now it is women who stand in their way of achieving the money and power they desire.

sheshe2

(83,661 posts)
19. True, however...
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 05:06 PM
Apr 2014

They severely underestimate the power of a woman. They have no clue who they have taken on.

GOTV2014 and beyond!

mercuryblues

(14,525 posts)
24. because they
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 06:29 PM
Apr 2014

surround themselves with women the bachmann and palin types of women, they think all women are like that.

It will bode well if Hillary wins the nom. They will underestimate her and they will unleash the vitriol like we have never seen. I think a lot of this crap are just them laying the groundwork. Even more women will be running from them as fast as they can.

 

obxhead

(8,434 posts)
16. This happens all the time in the "news"
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 04:43 PM
Apr 2014

The recent shooting at Ft Hood is another example.

Before the name of the gunman was even released he was a disturbed individual with a history of mental issues. That was widely reported here on WTOP in the DC area before they even "knew" the name of the shooter. It was reported within minutes of the initial announcement of the incident.

Twist the news to discredit the target. It doesn't matter if it is incorrect, all that matters is that the "offending" party has "mental" problems of some kind to explain away why they did it.

longship

(40,416 posts)
18. The He-Man Woman Hater's Club.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 05:05 PM
Apr 2014


Why? Oh why would any guy hate women? Or would want them to be anything less than equals?

It just does not make any sense. None at all.

R&K She!

longship

(40,416 posts)
21. What's with the Gingrich Buddha pose?
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 05:27 PM
Apr 2014

I suppose that as long as he's pregnant -- and not just plain fat -- it will have to do.



Longship is a guy who learned feminism at his parents' knees. It was always an issue to be advocated for in my household. And I was born in the 40's, very much a Baby Boomer. I lucked out, I guess. No need for cultural transformation. I learned it all basically from birth. And my father served in the US Marines. He was very cool with it. He was also very funny.

Lucky I guess.



sheshe2

(83,661 posts)
22. You are a good man, longship.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 05:45 PM
Apr 2014

"Teach your children well..." they sure did that~ I think I love your family.



longship

(40,416 posts)
23. One boy amongst three girls.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 05:58 PM
Apr 2014

(Plus my dad, who was all over it.)

I had no choice. Best thing ever, BTW.

I have a twin sister. She's eight minutes older than me. So she's got that going for her. My other sister is three years older. No brothers.

One learns feminism one way or another. I think it's best to learn it my way. Less stress that way. It's just normal.


 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
25. Love your story. Thanks for telling it.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 06:45 PM
Apr 2014

I was gonna ask how that worked for you seeing how both my boys get it. Glad it was positive. I hear men speak about that experience in a negative manner. I like the positive better.

Coolest

longship

(40,416 posts)
26. And my father was with it, too.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 06:55 PM
Apr 2014

And he was a US Marine (before WWII).

He was an awesome guy. If I were 1/10 the guy he was, I would be awesome myself. But I would not be so presumptuous.



 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
27. That makes all the difference in the world, I believe.
Mon Apr 7, 2014, 07:10 PM
Apr 2014

The acceptance from the father and an example. My father was like that. It allowed me my worth. Self respect takes us a long way in life.

And ya... I am sure, you are all that.

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