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anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 09:34 AM Apr 2014

New HBO documentary on the working poor is a must see (if you can)! Please read! Thank you.

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I don't typically initiate discussions, as I know there are always many topics open for discussion, so I hesitated before posting but decided that the documentary is very worthy of our attention here at DU. Please, if you have access to HBO, please watch the new documentary titled "Paycheck to Paycheck: The Life and Times of Katrina Gilbert." I will check to see if it will be available through amazon or other means. It would be wonderful to share comments. The documentary is heartbreaking, especially because her story, in this country of extreme wealth and privilege in the hands of a ruling few, is not unique -- her story is in fact emblematic of how this country now treats its working classes -- the very treatment the GOP considers too lavish, too generous for these "lazy" single working mothers and their children. I wrote quite a missive here; I apologize in advance.

Katrina's story is not a unique one -- it is representative of millions of working Americans, and it is quietly devastating -- infuriating and shattering. A few details: Katrina is a hard working young mother, thirty years old, going through a divorce, with three young children, who is devoting her life to raising her children and surviving. And in our country of immense wealth and privilege, people like Paul Ryan want to do everything they can to eviscerate the few benefits that Katrina receives. I never cry. This brought tears to my eyes. It crystallizes the moral bankruptcy of the right, and the GOP's utterly heartless drive to destroy the souls of our fellow Americans. Katrina and her children are the real working poor, the real families that need help, not the fantasies of "Cadillac Welfare Queens" put forward again and again by Fox with its poor-hating pundits.

Katrina works a full-time job as an aide at a home for the elderly (she is not a nurse as she does not yet have a degree). She hopes to earn an Associates Degree to work as a Rad Tech (radiology, operating the CAT scan equipment or MRI) so that she can earn a better salary. But, as she says, working a full-time job, caring for three kindergarten/preschool aged children, and going to college is a very tough undertaking. Her job pays her $9.49 an hour, and it does not provide benefits such as affordable health insurance. Katrina receives some assistance to help pay for the daycare costs for the three children (as they enter school her daycare costs will decrease but then so will the aide). Her son appears to need some assistance as he exhibits some behavioral problems and OCD-like symptoms -- again this takes time and money.

Katrina needs food stamps to supply the necessities so that she and the children can eat very modest meals. She struggles to have enough money for basic food and gas so she can get to work. She has illnesses (including a thyroid condition and recurring migraines) that mostly go untreated as the medications are prohibitively expensive (I am not sure what her status would be as far as Medicaid is concerned). Her former husband pays child support but he has not been a stable provider for the children; he struggles with addiction (drugs) and has spent long periods of time unemployed. For some time he lived with his parents. Katrina lives in a trailer, in a trailer park, with her children, who often seem restless, feel confined in the small space, and act agitated and stressed out. They struggle to get dressed in the mornings, appearing exhausted and depressed when they are awakened at 5:30am, when Katrina takes them to daycare and school. Katrina herself -- an attractive young woman -- looks older, more fatigued, than a young woman of barely thirty should appear.

Like so many of our working-class citizens, she has a good, generous, and loving heart: she gently cares for the lonely elderly patients at her job. The work is very demanding, involving the lifting of elderly persons out of bed, into wheelchairs, etc -- constant changing of soiled sheets and adult diapers, spoon feeding, comforting crying patients who are often confused as to where they are or why they are in a nursing home. Some have very advanced senility and need a high level of constant care. One woman, approximately in her eighties, kept crying that she wanted her (long dead) mother. Other patients stare into space. Katrina's kind patience with these people (people often dumped and abandoned by their own families) was beautiful.

This is long, and I apologize. Please watch the documentary if you can. I would love to read my fellow DUers thoughts on any of this -- the GOP, the party of the corporation and big business not the American worker, wants to humiliate and degrade working class women (and men of course) like Katrina. These are the people their policies abuse and are slowly destroying.

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New HBO documentary on the working poor is a must see (if you can)! Please read! Thank you. (Original Post) anneboleyn Apr 2014 OP
I'll have to check that out. Thanks. nt laundry_queen Apr 2014 #1
K&R B Calm Apr 2014 #2
Too long... catnhatnh Apr 2014 #3
Thank you very much -- I was very motivated! anneboleyn Apr 2014 #10
hope you will post links if you find them to watch online Voice for Peace Apr 2014 #4
K&R.... daleanime Apr 2014 #5
K&R Solly Mack Apr 2014 #6
Thanks for the nice fill in report because I and many others don't/an't get HBO. Auntie Bush Apr 2014 #7
I am going to check around to see if it will be available through amazon or other means anneboleyn Apr 2014 #11
I don't have teevee but this surely needs a kick and a rec for those who do. Great report! nt riderinthestorm Apr 2014 #8
Hope to see it somewhere.... PasadenaTrudy Apr 2014 #9
Yes. She had them when she was married to their father. Of course that makes life anneboleyn Apr 2014 #12
I just can't see PasadenaTrudy Apr 2014 #13
I personally agree with you. My husband and I are kid free. But I do realize anneboleyn Apr 2014 #14
 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
4. hope you will post links if you find them to watch online
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 11:33 AM
Apr 2014

thanks for the post, no apologies necessary, beautifully written

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
7. Thanks for the nice fill in report because I and many others don't/an't get HBO.
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 12:14 PM
Apr 2014

Wish I could but I can't afford it.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
11. I am going to check around to see if it will be available through amazon or other means
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 05:12 PM
Apr 2014

It is something that really should be available to a wide audience (not just a paying HBO audience). Everyone should see something like this -- people who are in Katrina's situation will see that they are not alone in their struggles. The creeps that drive Fox's daily barrage against the working poor (the poor who need some gov. assistance just to survive) should be forced to see it. Maybe PBS will pick it up (I believe that has happened before). I will check.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
12. Yes. She had them when she was married to their father. Of course that makes life
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 06:00 PM
Apr 2014

much more difficult for her and for them -- her little boy goes to a daycare center that seems very decent compared to some of the stories I have heard but the amount of personal attention the son receives is minimal as there are just so many kids there all day in daycare. And it is fairly clear that he needs some extra help and is having adjustment problems -- he has meltdowns in the course of the documentary, Katrina mentions that his OCD behavior resulted in some bullying from the other kids, and he starts hitting/pushing as a response. Not good. He needs attention that Katrina cannot yet provide him; she is exhausted at the end of her long workday and her kids clearly would love more attention from their mother (and I am sure they need it).

I think Katrina and her husband (from what I could tell from the documentary) got married rather young and as some young couples do got swept up in the idea of starting a family without thinking through the financial consequences or waiting until they were more settled -- he had a decent construction job until he started having severe drug problems and stopped working and their marriage collapsed. They were young, naive, and excited to be married and to start a family. Was it well thought-out? No, they really did not have the means to support a family of that size. And now of course she is struggling mightily to support those three kids.

I agree in theory with what I think you are pointing out -- that people in tricky financial situations should not take on the extra responsibility of multiple children. But I also wish that in a country with this much wealth that a young mother like Katrina, who is trying to be a good mother and a good citizen by working full-time, paying her bills, etc -- could have the extra help that other countries provide (as in Scandinavian countries for example). It would make a world of difference for her and her children -- and in turn happier children make for a better society.

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
13. I just can't see
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 07:28 PM
Apr 2014

why people even have kids, especially more than one. That's mostly where I'm coming from. #childfree #birthcontrol #overpopulation

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
14. I personally agree with you. My husband and I are kid free. But I do realize
Tue Apr 8, 2014, 08:07 PM
Apr 2014

that most people (at least from what we see) want children, even when they are not in the best position to raise those children -- and of course environmental issues as you note. I am one of the only women still of child-bearing age that I know who has never wanted children. Oh wait I have one relative who feels the same. The rest think that I must be some sort of alien or that I am denying my "true maternal feelings." A colleague told me recently that I should "have a baby!" as though it were the same as buying a purse or something equivalent (she and her husband, both professors, have four children!)

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