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I hate the phrase "pick-up line," because it reeks of moronic lameness. But, you have to say something when you're in a situation where you need to say something so you don't look like a tongue-tied cretin. Here's my favorite line, spoken when there's a genuine opportunity or reason to say something to someone who is a stranger to you. It works in all situations, regardless of who you say it to. It's an all-purpose line. Say it with a pleasant expression or a smile:
"Hi, I'm George." (It's probably best if you use your own name, rather than mine, though.)
Then, listen. You have just begun a conversation, and there's no way to know where it's heading. The next thing you say will depend on what you hear as you listen, on the circumstances of the situation, and on any other factor that may be pertinent. For example, if there's a hurricane outside, the weather might be a good subject. If you're at a party, inquire about the hosts of the party and how your new companion knows them. You get the drill. It's a conversation, so converse.
That's it. Play the rest by ear.
CANDO
(2,068 posts)I like it also.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)It's also how I began the process of a acquiring a very lucrative contract as a writer. It seems to work really well in most situations.
Simple, but effective.
tridim
(45,358 posts)It's so much fun being friendly to strangers. They usually don't expect it.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)Assuming, of course, that you have not spent too much time at the open bar, that is.
George II
(67,782 posts)....either looking down in the hallway or waiting for another elevator. I still said "hi" to them. After a year or so they started responding "hi" themselves, and a year later would initiate the "hi"!
I also used to smile at people walking down the street - half thought I was crazy, the other half smiled back.
tridim
(45,358 posts)It has changed my life.
I've basically been trying to un-shy myself. It's working extremely well.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)Shyness can be overcome, and your method is a great one.
George II
(67,782 posts)....in Manhattan, one can smile at people relatively anonymously, with little or no rebuff. I hope it also turned some people around.
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)Although, as a pick-up line, it might inspire other results.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)It might lead to a discussion of "Moby Dick," and it's been a long time since I read that.
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)longship
(40,416 posts)Actually, psychologist Richard Wiseman did a study on chat-up lines. He's the author of Quirkology where he delves into speed dating to answer that question. His conclusions were pretty much that anything that gets the other person an opportunity to talk about them self is good. The important issue is to do it in a humorous way.
But a simple introduction might give one an opportunity to do just that.
Marshall III
(69 posts)Your name's not Adolph!!!!
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)we would encourage you to use George!
obxhead
(8,434 posts)I was having an ice cold home brew beer with the couple an hour later and having a charming conversation about nothing in particular while basking in the sun.
"Hi" can take you many places.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)jtuck004
(15,882 posts)chrisstopher
(152 posts)"I can buy my own damn beer!" Lol
Gman
(24,780 posts)since they ended the space program.
egold2604
(369 posts)Last edited Mon Apr 21, 2014, 10:38 AM - Edit history (2)
Back in his singles days during the 70s, my brother would go into a bar and find the most beautiful woman at the bar, tap her on the shoulder and start reading from the book, How to Pick Up Women.
His dialogue would go as follows, with a very exaggerated reading expression.
Hi, how are you
Do you come here (at this point he would very dramatically turn the page) often.
By this time, the woman was laughing and the ice was broken. The rest was as you would expect it to be
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)bpositive
(423 posts)Hi, I'm Hayden...
proReality
(1,628 posts)Oh, sorry, that was my husband's line. Six weeks later he asked for real...that was 45 years ago and counting.
tinrobot
(10,883 posts)"My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents ..."
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)Especially changing after a swim.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)At a party where you don't know anyone, find a spot where there are two places to sit. Sit in one, and just observe with a pleasant expression. Within a short time, someone will walk over and say, "Hi,I'm Emily (or some other name), and ask why you're sitting there all by yourself. Then, a conversation can begin. Note: The person who comes over will always be of the opposite sex, and will be glad to talk to you.
knitter4democracy
(14,350 posts)I've been the one to go up and talk to someone, but when I try that, no one of the opposite sex every comes up to talk with me.
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)I've met some very interesting people at parties or gatherings where I was a stranger by sitting, observing, and waiting.
petronius
(26,595 posts)of "Screw off! That seat is taken! !" (Not sure why; it seems very endearing the way I deliver it.) But your method may come off as a bit more welcoming...
MineralMan
(146,252 posts)I can't imagine why your method doesn't work. :tic: (Note to admins: We really need a tongue-in-cheek smiley.)