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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThe Benjamin Franklin effect: A friend just passed this on to me.
It is an interesting read and timely.
http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2014/02/20/the-benjamin-franklin-effect-mcraney/
The Benjamin Franklin Effect: The Surprising Psychology of How to Handle Haters
by Maria Popova
He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged.
We are what we pretend to be, Kurt Vonnegut famously wrote, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be. But given how much our minds mislead us, what if we dont realize when were pretending who are we then? Thats precisely what David McRaney explores in You Are Now Less Dumb: How to Conquer Mob Mentality, How to Buy Happiness, and All the Other Ways to Outsmart Yourself (public library) a book about self-delusion, but also a celebration of it, a fascinating and pleasantly uncomfortable-making look at why self-delusion is as much a part of the human condition as fingers and toes, and the follow-up to McRaneys You Are Not So Smart, one of the best psychology books of 2011. McRaney, with his signature fusion of intelligent irreverence and irreverent intelligence, writes in the introduction:
The human mind is obviously vaster and more powerful than any other animal mind, and thats something people throughout all human history couldnt help but notice. You probably considered this the last time you visited the zoo or watched a dog battle its own hind legs. Your kind seems the absolute pinnacle of what evolution can produce, maybe even the apex and final beautiful result of the universe unfolding itself. It is a delectable idea to entertain. Even before we had roller skates and Salvador Dalí, it was a conviction in which great thinkers liked to wallow. Of course, as soon as you settle into that thought, youll accidentally send an e-mail to your boss meant for your proctologist, or youll read a news story about how hot dog-stuffed pizza is now the most popular food in the country. Its always true that whenever you look at the human condition and get a case of the smugs, a nice heaping helping of ridiculousness plops in your lap and remedies the matter.
This tendency of ours is known as naïve realism the assertion that we see the world as it actually is and our impression of it is an objective, accurate representation of reality a concept that comes from ancient philosophy and has since been amply debunked by modern science. McRaney writes:...More
Perhaps that is why it is said somewhere, "the more one knows the more one knows that one does not know". or something like that. or "the more one knows, the more one realizes how ignorant one is.-
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Dunno, just seems to apply maybe.
Leme
(1,092 posts)Someone else's reality is different than mine.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)I learned that quite a while back and the older I get the more I believe that the only thing we can learn is that we don't have all of the answers as individuals and must work together collectively.
Bernardo de La Paz
(48,999 posts)The more you learn, the more you see how insignificant your knowledge is compared to the possible knowledge a person could have.
bemildred
(90,061 posts)Being admittedly ignorant won't get you in half as much trouble as thinking you know all about it when you don't.
loudsue
(14,087 posts)I'm going to make a poster of that for my office.
bemildred
(90,061 posts)And I have had vast fields of wrongness to play in.
I'm a big fan of humility in all its aspects. However good you are, you're no so hot, and however bad you are, you are far from the worst, but there is no cure for being full of yourself.
eppur_se_muova
(36,260 posts)Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)So said Ralph Washington Sockman, who was, as it happens, a Christian minister.
Octafish
(55,745 posts)The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.
via Plato, quoting Socrates...
I am wiser than this man, for neither of us appears to know anything great and good; but he fancies he knows something, although he knows nothing; whereas I, as I do not know anything, so I do not fancy I do. In this trifling particular, then, I appear to be wiser than he, because I do not fancy I know what I do not know.
The Socratic Paradox via WikiPedia.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)I'm serious, thanks for the find.
smallcat88
(426 posts)The more I learn, the more I learn how little I know. - Socrates
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)smallcat88
(426 posts)The mark of true intelligence is realizing you don't know everything.
warrior1
(12,325 posts)Motown_Johnny
(22,308 posts)Linking to and copying a portion of a very old post of mine. (old DU)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x211490
^snip^
The title of the essay is "The Fateful Lightning" and it describes the lightning rod's impact on rational thinking. It is included in the collections "The Stars In Their Courses" 1971) and "The Edge Of Tomorrow" 1985).
What this essay describes is the lightning rod being rejected by Theologians because it claimed to control something they thought was controlled by God. It describes the various steps taken for the lightning rod to begin to be accepted by society until finally the only choice was to either put them on top of churches or allow these building to continue to be the only ones struck by lightning (which made it appear that God didn't like them).
Also applicable to today's argument about climate change.
calimary
(81,220 posts)Really amazing how damn dumb some people are - and INSIST on continuing to be. Proudly, too, in too many cases.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)warrior1
(12,325 posts)apathetic.
tech3149
(4,452 posts)tech3149
(4,452 posts)Our reality is based on what we can perceive. It's really hard to digest new information that challenges our understanding of the world we know.