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Godhumor

(6,437 posts)
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:19 PM May 2014

Sometimes karma moves fast--transphobic radio hosts in Rochester, NY

So recently Rochester introduced health benefits for trans-gendered public employees that includes things like hormone replacement therapy, gender reassignment surgery and psychological services. A morning show on 98.9 hosted by "Kimberly and Beck" responded yesterday by having a 12 minute diatribe on trans-individuals that was just incredibly ugly.

When people complained, Kimberly took to Twitter to claim her right to Freedom of Speech.

What happened next was just incredible. A quick timeline:

Morning - offending segment on radio

Afternoon - Backlash begins. Host take to Twitter.

Evening - Kimberly and Beck suspended indefinitely

This morning - Kimberly and Beck fired

The parent corp posted the following:

"This morning Entercom fired Kimberly and Beck effective immediately. Their hateful comments against the transgender community do not represent our station or our company. We deeply apologize to the transgender community, the community of Rochester, and anyone else who was offended by their hateful comments. We are proud of our past work on behalf of the local LGBT community and we remain committed to that partnership."

Sue Munn Vice-President/General Manager Entercom Rochester


Sometimes the proper response is quick in coming. You can read the whole story and listen to the offending segment at:

http://www.towleroad.com/2014/05/rochfired.html

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Sometimes karma moves fast--transphobic radio hosts in Rochester, NY (Original Post) Godhumor May 2014 OP
Good on the company for firing them, and for doing it so promptly. n/t winter is coming May 2014 #1
I lived in this progressive city for some time. Not Me May 2014 #2
I was raised in Rochester Godhumor May 2014 #6
'Freedom of Speech' doesn't mean you won't get your worthless ass fired Aristus May 2014 #3
I keep seeing this said... Shandris May 2014 #11
It's one thing to hold a personal view, it's another to espouse that view while at work in the name cleanhippie May 2014 #20
Totally disagree. Shandris May 2014 #25
They were on the air, doing the job their employer pays them to do. cleanhippie May 2014 #26
It's always so very easily explainable. Shandris May 2014 #27
What what starts to happen back at us? cleanhippie May 2014 #28
I think you're misinterpreting the scenario. Shandris May 2014 #30
Sigh. cleanhippie May 2014 #31
I'm fine to accept agree to disagree; I can only point out the things that make me... Shandris May 2014 #34
You have a warped view of how things work Tsiyu May 2014 #54
Yes, that's exactly what I said. That we should all sit by and no one should say anything. Shandris May 2014 #55
I read what you said Tsiyu May 2014 #58
I'm sorry, but I can't seem to write much clearer than that. Shandris May 2014 #60
"It is way past time to start shaming the cretins among us. " cleanhippie May 2014 #68
Fear of losing their status and comfort Tsiyu May 2014 #73
As I already said, it's interesting watching "progressives" support transphobia... Gravitycollapse May 2014 #39
Wait. Let me get this straight. Shandris May 2014 #40
Yes, I see it all the time. Big left wing people all of a sudden lose it... Gravitycollapse May 2014 #50
You have no idea what I would and would not do in any given... Shandris May 2014 #51
"I'm sorry you feel that way." - Are you, though? Probably not. Gravitycollapse May 2014 #53
It is a bad thing that you feel that way, yes. You, like another poster, completely... Shandris May 2014 #56
I think you're misinterpreting it Spider Jerusalem May 2014 #43
I would have made the same comments (and probably received many of the same... Shandris May 2014 #46
Except if there are a lot of negative comments... Spider Jerusalem May 2014 #47
I'm far more inclined to trust Facebook than Twitter comments. Shandris May 2014 #48
We've ducked too often because of the idea "they'll do it to us" BrotherIvan May 2014 #29
"Bigots should be shamed and outed every single time." EXACTLY! cleanhippie May 2014 #32
Yes, I think the point is being missed BrotherIvan May 2014 #38
Do NOT confuse 'speaking out against hate' and social shaming. Shandris May 2014 #33
If there's an iota of difference I fail to see it BrotherIvan May 2014 #35
To be perfectly fair, it a very nuanced view. I have no problem with them losing their jobs... Shandris May 2014 #36
I understand that you don't want to see people hurt for the wrong reasons BrotherIvan May 2014 #41
Thank you. Honestly...thank you very much. You're completely right that these... Shandris May 2014 #44
I'm glad we came to understanding BrotherIvan May 2014 #49
And thank you as well. Shandris May 2014 #52
Your argument is that we should not tell people they're wrong... Gravitycollapse May 2014 #37
So this is that 'conservative argument' that you accused me of upthread? Shandris May 2014 #42
You want people to applaud you for being "nervous" over shaming bigots? Tsiyu May 2014 #59
You continue to try to ascribe cowardice to what I'm saying... Shandris May 2014 #61
Talk about your failed debate strategy Tsiyu May 2014 #62
*sigh* I never said that these two didn't deserve it. In fact, I -explicitly- said... Shandris May 2014 #63
Perhaps you might have had more success making that an OP Tsiyu May 2014 #64
You may well be right about starting it in my own thread... Shandris May 2014 #65
"social shaming"... sendero May 2014 #67
It's part of the historical and social process known as acculturation. LanternWaste May 2014 #72
It would really be karmic if Kimberly and Beck were replaced by someone from the Louisiana1976 May 2014 #4
To continue the timeline: bullwinkle428 May 2014 #5
you nailed it! m-lekktor May 2014 #45
Do Unto Others colsohlibgal May 2014 #7
Apparently no one in management ... GeorgeGist May 2014 #8
I'm in Rich. I know of those two but have never listened. BlancheSplanchnik May 2014 #9
Good corp action, nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #10
Getting fired comes with the territory in radio Ex Lurker May 2014 #12
By tomorrow WhoIsNumberNone May 2014 #13
Wingnut dipshits who wouldn't know the 1st Amendment if it bit them on the ass ... 11 Bravo May 2014 #14
I live near Rochester. pangaia May 2014 #15
...Not anymore 951-Riverside May 2014 #16
When they're sitting in jail, I'll be protesting for their free speech, but fired? mountain grammy May 2014 #17
Well said! marble falls May 2014 #18
How long till these guys work for cheap channel radio? d_legendary1 May 2014 #19
Good on my... 3catwoman3 May 2014 #21
I'm sure they'll find work at Fox "News" sakabatou May 2014 #22
Free speech does not mean you can violate your contract. riqster May 2014 #23
Bigotry and assholishness do not serve any purpose in a civilized society. Initech May 2014 #24
Wow That was awesomely fast. Glad those fuckheads are gone. Mrdrboi May 2014 #57
Props to Entercom for that. Jamastiene May 2014 #66
The radio station knew what crap they hired packman May 2014 #69
I wonder which idiot bagger will whine about their First Amendment rights being violated. catbyte May 2014 #70
Right Wing Hate Radio is sooooo last century. Spitfire of ATJ May 2014 #71

Not Me

(3,398 posts)
2. I lived in this progressive city for some time.
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:22 PM
May 2014

Things like this don't happen in Rochester, and when they do, they are dealt with quickly.

Aristus

(66,307 posts)
3. 'Freedom of Speech' doesn't mean you won't get your worthless ass fired
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:23 PM
May 2014

by a conscientious employer!

Good for the radio station.

Too fucking bad for the haters.

Good riddance.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
11. I keep seeing this said...
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:19 PM
May 2014

...and while I don't support one word of their hateful diatribe, we'd better hope this country isn't really on a rightward swing, huh. Otherwise this -will- come back to hurt us.

And given that, historically, our voters are the ones with -fewer- votes rather than greater, this is all the more likely to cost us.

Social shaming is a stupid idea to get behind.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
20. It's one thing to hold a personal view, it's another to espouse that view while at work in the name
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:17 PM
May 2014

of one's employer.

Social shaming, as used in this instance, is the best medicine to be had.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
25. Totally disagree.
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:36 PM
May 2014

If it's a problem with 'speaking in the employers name', then it will happen without all the constant tweets and calls for people to be fired. Since that isn't what happened, then its quite clear it isn't anything to do with speaking in the employer's name.

Social shaming is never and can never be the best medicine. Imagine if, right now, every single person who had spoken out against, say, corporate welfare were to be fired because of 'speaking in the employers name'. We'd come unglued about it and rightfully so.

To be fair, I can see the intent behind it and, fwiw, I do agree with the intent. But this is one of those tools that is simply too powerful, too destructive to be unleashed. It's great when the narrative is ours, but given that our fight is generally things that the narrative isn't for, we're handing our enemies the keys to our own destruction and crowing about how good it is. It's shortsighted imo.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
26. They were on the air, doing the job their employer pays them to do.
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:08 PM
May 2014

And they did it in a way that the employer didn't care for. And it is the employers right to terminate an employee for doing a shitty job, no?

The social shaming, as you put it, is just customer feedback. They were paid to entertain the public, and the public let them and their employer know just how they felt about it. Much like customer comments at a restaurant. If an employer is getting bombarded by customer complaints about an employee for poor performance, that employee is likely to be terminated.


Keep in mind, these folks' job was to be the public face of their company, to represent their company on the public airwaves.What they stated was for the public, and the backlash came from the public. It's not a personal matter.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
27. It's always so very easily explainable.
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:16 PM
May 2014

I'm sure the 'feedback' had -nothing- whatsoever to do with it; the company just couldn't stand to hear them go on like that.

Well, I hope you're as understanding when it starts to happen back to us, because I sure as hell won't be. I never claimed it was a personal matter (because that ventures into silly 'first amendment' horsepoo, which isn't my concern at all), but I don't see this as a good thing. Everyone knows it was and is social shaming; the only thing that remains to be seen is what will happen when we're on the receiving end of it.

We got rid of the Scarlet Letter for a reason, but somehow that reason seems to have been lost in time.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
28. What what starts to happen back at us?
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:19 PM
May 2014

If a Liberal on-air personality did something this offensive, I would be first in line to give that public feedback, AKA public shaming. Wouldn't you?

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
30. I think you're misinterpreting the scenario.
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:35 PM
May 2014

No liberal talk-show host would say something this offensive. But the thing is, it hasn't always -been- offensive. That's relatively recent.

This very same conversation, ten years ago, would have been perfectly fine. But what if it had been someone sticking up for LGBT ten years ago? Cue up the exact same excuses, "public face of the company", "it was a public backlash", "something so offensive, social shaming HAD to be done...". Only now (as in, in the example) we're the ones getting destroyed by it.

Had this kind of social shaming been acceptable 10 years ago, would LGBT rights have ever gotten off the ground? Highly unlikely, because you'd lose your job for talking about it! So wonderful, the narrative goes our way at the moment and we're safe. But what about the next cause that we pick up? Will it be as socially acceptable as LGBT is now? Probably not, because we tend to espouse causes most people don't care about. Only this time, since we've unleashed this social shaming trend, it's going to come down on US, not THEM. And our righteous cause may well flounder for a generation while we slowly fight through all the losses from this weapon we've unleashed that seemed so very good at the time.

It's like the Patriot Act. Conservatives loved it...when they had a conservative president. Now you can't find a one who supports it. What changed? The politic changed. That's the one constant -- the politic will always change.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
31. Sigh.
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:37 PM
May 2014

Lets just agree to disagree. If you cannot see my point by now, I don't think repeating myself will help.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
34. I'm fine to accept agree to disagree; I can only point out the things that make me...
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:42 PM
May 2014

...nervous, the things I've seen and experienced. I wasn't saying I didn't 'get' your point of view, I do. I just disagree that it's best. But that's okay, too...we're allowed to disagree. The real point is, ultimately we're both trying to do what we think is best, even if we have different ideas on how some of that may turn out.

I would be much more nervous if everyone agreed with everyone else about the definition of 'freedom'. Disagreements are one of the ways I know I'm not among conservatives!

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
54. You have a warped view of how things work
Fri May 23, 2014, 02:57 AM
May 2014

This can't be "turned against us" and believing it could be is either concern trolling or severe paranoia.

The hosts started the shaming, and reveled in their own ugliness. They are entitled to have their opinion, but they don't have the right not to be fired if they are offensive to their employer's clients.

i.e. you can't work in retail or medicine or ANY field and call women "sluts" or use racial epithets ( although this is your right to do on your own time, no matter how ill-advised ) and expect that the complaints and/or loss of business will not lead to your eventual termination.

It is way past time to start shaming the cretins among us.

I abhor the cowardice of the timid, the wishy washy, trembling man or woman who will not speak up when wrongs are done, who is too afraid of their image or precious status to speak out for the victimized and the weak and the marginalized.

I find them to be no more than cowards, who won't even fight to help themselves, let alone anyone else or the community in which they live.

You can sit placidly by, chewing the cud, scared out of your wits about some imaginary future backlash of persecution if you wish. But don't you dare tell other people it's "wrong" to call pigs what they are: pigs.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
55. Yes, that's exactly what I said. That we should all sit by and no one should say anything.
Fri May 23, 2014, 03:46 AM
May 2014

Oh wait, no it isn't. That's the words you put in my mouth either through intentional dishonesty, an abject inability to read, sheer meanness, or because you know I don't have a cadre of friends who will report the post.

Bravo.

Now if you'd like to discuss what I actually said sometime, I'd be okay with that.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
58. I read what you said
Fri May 23, 2014, 04:16 AM
May 2014


basically "OhNOES! Keep the powder dry! Don't ever call someone on their hideous speech against a minority group or it could backfire on us.!1111!!!!!!1111!!!!!!!!1111!!!!



If I interpreted that wrong, why don't you stop beating around the bush in your posts and say what you really mean? Because the above is the message I got out of it.


 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
60. I'm sorry, but I can't seem to write much clearer than that.
Fri May 23, 2014, 04:31 AM
May 2014

Whether that's my fault or not is debatable but ultimately irrelevant; it is what it is. But I don't see how you could -possibly- read 'Dont ever point out terrible things someone said' out of what I said. It's not even remotely close.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
68. "It is way past time to start shaming the cretins among us. "
Fri May 23, 2014, 10:48 AM
May 2014

Why this concept is difficult for some to comprehend, I don't know.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
73. Fear of losing their status and comfort
Fri May 23, 2014, 02:35 PM
May 2014


is my best guess.

And many are taught that they should not make waves, they should just be an acquiescing part of the herd.

In times like, these, we all need to "Get up, stand up, stand up for your rights"

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
39. As I already said, it's interesting watching "progressives" support transphobia...
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:50 PM
May 2014

Interesting but not surprising.

Your argument, oddly enough, is a conservative one used by cornered right-wingers trying to justify hate speech.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
40. Wait. Let me get this straight.
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:59 PM
May 2014

You...think I'm supporting...transphobia.

There's irony, and then there's "Oh my god, the amount of irony in this statement is enough to make a person cry". Suffice to say you're not -just- wrong, you're -so- wrong as to be a near textbook definition of "Utterly, completely wrong in every possible sense of the word".

Now, you were saying something about "Not surprising?" And do extrapolate on this 'conservative argument'. Given that my entire family almost is conservative, I'm surprised I don't know it.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
50. Yes, I see it all the time. Big left wing people all of a sudden lose it...
Fri May 23, 2014, 12:42 AM
May 2014

Over trans folk. It's actually still relatively okay among the left to be bigoted against this class. And it is especially okay to ignore them when people treat them like shit.

If these worthless disc jockies were all over the radio using epithets against people of color or women or gay men and women, and mocking them for being ugly, you and many others wouldn't hesitate at all to "shame" them. But because we're talking about the trans community, all of a sudden you're too worried about the rights of bigots and morons to care about the victims of the rhetorical abuse.

I don't care about your progressive credentials. They amount to the "all my best friends are ______" counter claims that every cornered individual tries to throw out.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
51. You have no idea what I would and would not do in any given...
Fri May 23, 2014, 01:19 AM
May 2014

...but that's alright.

I'm editing an overly antagonistic post here, so I'll leave it at this: I'm sorry you feel that way. You're wrong about me, but that's both okay and apparently something that's simply going to happen.

Take care.







Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
53. "I'm sorry you feel that way." - Are you, though? Probably not.
Fri May 23, 2014, 02:52 AM
May 2014

Give me sincerity and straightforwardness over fake apologies and equivocation any day of the week.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
56. It is a bad thing that you feel that way, yes. You, like another poster, completely...
Fri May 23, 2014, 03:52 AM
May 2014

...misrepresent me and apparently don't have the slightest idea where I'm coming from. Yah, I'd say that's something that isn't good.

Am I -apologizing- because I've been misunderstood and/or misrepresented? No. I don't apologize because someone else thinks I may be wrong, or accuses me of something inane like 'concern trolling' or 'using rightwing arguments' or 'must just hate trans people' or whatever the misrepresentation of the hour is. I'm sorry that the misunderstanding has occurred, but I've tried to make it right. Others want to keep insisting that I've done something wrong.

I won't beg to be forgiven for standing up for people who have been hurt by others who like shaming as a tool. Just because you haven't seen someone suffer from it doesn't mean it doesn't happen, no matter how much invective or snark or whatever is hurled my direction.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
43. I think you're misinterpreting it
Thu May 22, 2014, 11:01 PM
May 2014

commercial radio is a business. If you're getting the wrong kind of publicity and potentially alienating advertisers because of the comments of on-air personalities? You cut them loose. And I also think you're very wrong about "the politics will always change". Sure, things change. And I fully expect that at some point within the next few decades bigotry against LGBT people will become as socially unacceptable as racism. (If the city of Rochester had announced that it was increasing its minority hiring quota, and these people had made racist comments on-air about it, would you be making the same arguments?)

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
46. I would have made the same comments (and probably received many of the same...
Thu May 22, 2014, 11:08 PM
May 2014

...accusations), yes. It's -certainly- not because it's LGBT-related that I commented at all, but because I don't like social shaming as a tool.

That aside, you may be right about misinterpreting. It's the speed at which it happened that makes me think it was more backlash than corporate responsibility; had it taken another day or something I wouldn't have given it a second thought. I just don't like the thought of a big group being able to supplant people's opinions so quickly, so efficiently. If the company really were upset about it, placed them on leave, had a meeting or three or something...you know, something that showed it really was a company atmosphere (or the time requisite for an actual boycott to show effect, like in the olden days through advertisers), I wouldn't bat an eye. That's -justice-. But if its just to shut up a feeding frenzy on Twitter...there's too much potential for damage there. It's that difference -- the 'time and investigation/outcome/determination' difference -- that makes me much more nervous in this case.

I hope in my wordiness, what I mean is clear.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
47. Except if there are a lot of negative comments...
Thu May 22, 2014, 11:18 PM
May 2014

on Twitter and Facebook and online petition sites from local residents? People who are potential customers of the advertisers whose money supports the station, and who may now be reconsidering their advertising buy on that station? That's the sort of thing management takes notice of.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
48. I'm far more inclined to trust Facebook than Twitter comments.
Thu May 22, 2014, 11:28 PM
May 2014

Twitter has that 'easy to impersonate' problem that, while Facebook technically has it also, takes a lot more time and effort to set up. I don't think FB would make me nearly as uncomfortable either. But yah, those kinds of things management definitely takes notice of and should.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
29. We've ducked too often because of the idea "they'll do it to us"
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:34 PM
May 2014

Democrats in Congress claim the same thing every day, for example, changing the rules of the filibuster. We keep mum because we're afraid when the tide turns, the rwnjs will be mean to us. Newsflash: the wingers never play fair, they always play dirty. They will never treat a liberal point of view fairly. They try to out scream everyone now, when they are in the minority. So why play nice?

Then there is the idea that right is right. It's not political and it's not expedient. Bigots should be shamed and outed every single time. That's how you show they are wrong in their beliefs, their speech, their action. When someone is spreading hate, it's much more important to stop it than worry about retaliation.

I'm very glad that all the people who spoke out against hate did not take your point of view.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
32. "Bigots should be shamed and outed every single time." EXACTLY!
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:38 PM
May 2014

Why that seems to be so difficult for some to understand is beyond me.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
38. Yes, I think the point is being missed
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:45 PM
May 2014

That the LGBTQ community got their rights not by shutting up but by speaking up. Seems rather obvious and simple.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
33. Do NOT confuse 'speaking out against hate' and social shaming.
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:39 PM
May 2014

They're not related. I've spoke out against hate all my life, and I will -not- listen to someone tell me that my point of view speaks against pointing out hate. It doesn't.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
35. If there's an iota of difference I fail to see it
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:42 PM
May 2014

That was just a lot of people speaking out, but some how you're saying that's bad. They lost their jobs because their job depends on listeners & advertisers. But more importantly, they lost their jobs because they are hateful bigots. I have absolutely no problem with that.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
36. To be perfectly fair, it a very nuanced view. I have no problem with them losing their jobs...
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:44 PM
May 2014

...for being bigots either.

My guess is you've never seen someone destroyed because of social shaming (especially falsely-placed social shaming). Well I have. And I won't watch it again without a fight, a warning, -something-.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
41. I understand that you don't want to see people hurt for the wrong reasons
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:59 PM
May 2014

For too long, racists, bigots, and religious zealots have hurt good people. Thankfully in this case these people were shamed for the right reason. It shows that equality is now winning in this country. With all the bad things going on, there is some hope in that.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
44. Thank you. Honestly...thank you very much. You're completely right that these...
Thu May 22, 2014, 11:03 PM
May 2014

...people have hurt so many for so long, and I'm very glad equality is finally showing good signs. Sometimes I just don't word things well (I blame my family life in a lot of ways for my wordiness, but that's neither here nor there), but you spell it out well for me.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
49. I'm glad we came to understanding
Fri May 23, 2014, 12:32 AM
May 2014

It doesn't happen often, and I admit to be as stubborn as anyone most times. It's hard in a message board to convey what one truly means sometimes. Thanks for sticking with it because it taught me to "listen" more closely.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
52. And thank you as well.
Fri May 23, 2014, 01:22 AM
May 2014

It is so very hard on these kinds of forums sometimes isn't it?! I know its far too easy to snap-judge, and the environment and lack of actual voice makes it easier even still. But it's always good to watch it work the way it's meant to, I swear I live for those moments sometimes.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
37. Your argument is that we should not tell people they're wrong...
Thu May 22, 2014, 10:45 PM
May 2014

Because they may tell us we're wrong. Which, if I'm being totally honest, is unfettered stupidity.

It's always interesting to watch "progressives" come out of the woodwork to get behind transphobia because trans people are one of the few groups left who are still hated in mass by people on the political left.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
42. So this is that 'conservative argument' that you accused me of upthread?
Thu May 22, 2014, 11:00 PM
May 2014

And I'll say again...the amount of irony you show in this post as well as the other one is...beyond staggering.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
59. You want people to applaud you for being "nervous" over shaming bigots?
Fri May 23, 2014, 04:30 AM
May 2014


I'd rather lose my job for speaking up about something I believe in. If someone wants to shame me, have at it!

And if someone says or does something to hurt others, you better believe I will shame the asshole.

You claim it is irresponsible and premature to have shamed these obvious hateful bigots? How long do you wait to shame a bigot?


If you see a kid getting beat in the street, do you not rush out and shame the bigger kid out of fear you'll get shamed yourself for wearing pink polka dot shirts?

This is your message: " Let bigots run their mouths, don't call them on it because I might get shamed and lose my job, too!"


ALL IT TAKES FOR EVIL TO PREVAIL IS FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO DO NOTHING

Bigots need to be put in their place IMMEDIATELY, not months later when you finally decide to screw up your courage or when you don't think you will lose anything.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
61. You continue to try to ascribe cowardice to what I'm saying...
Fri May 23, 2014, 04:38 AM
May 2014

...and you continue to be wrong.

I can see at this point that nothing I say is going to matter to you. You've 'interpreted' what I wrote and are now arguing against it. It is literally the definition of a strawman argument.

What will you do when your rush to shame someone...hurts someone who was innocent? How will you make up for the person whose life was destroyed because you couldn't wait two or three days to make sure everything you heard was what actually happened? Or that the person 'reporting' it isn't someone under a false name? Or any of the other tiny things that can go wrong in a fast-information fast-turnaround fast-consumption society?

What words will you use to comfort them, hrm? "I thought I was doing good"? Oh, how about "Sorry, but my pride won't let me make sure I have my information right". Maybe "Hey, you hafta break a few eggs if you're gunna be first to claim credit for calling out bigots. Better luck next time."

That no one has considered the possibility of this kind of thing happening is what makes it all the more disgusting. Because it's not like this hasn't happened before. You speak to me of minority groups and how -you're- the one defending them. I'll tell you about the days after 9/11 when no one had the time to make sure they got their information right because they just HAD to 'call out' them there 'terrorists'. And that's just one example.

When you need the backing of 6,000 other angry people to do your 'calling out', you don't come across as someone fighting for the right. You come across as a cheap bully.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
62. Talk about your failed debate strategy
Fri May 23, 2014, 04:47 AM
May 2014

False equivalence is claiming one thing is very much like something else that is in no way the same.

Is there some doubt here that these two evil worms were spewing bigotry? How much proof do you need? Did you hear what they were saying?

How can anyone shaming them be "falsely shaming the poor things, Awwwwwwww?"

SERIOUSLY? You're saying we should wait a few days to make sure they really said those things? Like maybe we should make sure aliens didn't take over their studio and they were bound with duct tape in a closet at the time these statements are made?

Is there some reason you doubt that these two lower life forms said what is recorded?

Sentient humans know it was these sick pieces of human bigotry. There's no investigation that needs to be done.

They were not falsely shamed nor is there any need to make them out to be victims.

THEY ARE THE BULLIES, not me. Just because cowardice disgusts me, does not mean I am bullying you. I didn't ask you to do anything differently than wait until you feel it's safe to come outside and face the world, even if I think that's what's wrong with this country - too many scaredy cats afraid to speak up for the least of these.

You, however, ARE telling people what they should do, and using a false equivalency to do so. That is disingenuous at best, fake and patronizing at worst.


 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
63. *sigh* I never said that these two didn't deserve it. In fact, I -explicitly- said...
Fri May 23, 2014, 05:00 AM
May 2014

...that they did. So, yet again, you continue to ascribe things I didn't say to me. I was clearly talking, from my very first post in the thread throughout the entirety of every single post I've made in it, about the concept of social shaming as a whole. This one circumstance was nothing more than a springboard to address the topic as a whole, and I'm glad they're fired, again, as I have already posted. The entire topic of social shaming as a whole that I addressed had little to nothing to do with them in particular.

So whatever you think is a 'failed debating strategy' or 'false equivalency' or whatever...meh. I certainly didn't say you were bullying ME because I don't feel bullied by you at all. The context of that portion of the previous post was clearly referring to how it comes across when it takes a large number of people to feel 'safe' in 'calling out' people (read: large scale social shaming). I feel completely misunderstood, but that happens (and depressingly often, for someone who goes to such great pains to qualify what I say as I try to).

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
64. Perhaps you might have had more success making that an OP
Fri May 23, 2014, 05:16 AM
May 2014

in a separate thread.

You did, upthread, question the validity of shaming these specific people. Your claim was that things should have been left to run their course so that the employer made the call, and so that it was not perceived to be done by angry hordes shaming them. You did make it specific to this situation, but again, I think you see how well that went over.

Perhaps you could make your own thread about this topic so that it is not viewed as your judgment on the actions taken by the public in this case.

Use some examples where there was false shaming.

But you still won't get most of us to stop shaming the obvious bigots. Why? Because it works.

And if standing up for the least of these costs me a job, a home, whatever, I am willing to pay the price.

However, if you feel false public shaming is a real problem, start a discussion about it. I know there are some here who will agree with you and you may feel more understood.

Peace.

 

Shandris

(3,447 posts)
65. You may well be right about starting it in my own thread...
Fri May 23, 2014, 05:25 AM
May 2014

...but experience has shown me that my threads get little to no attention. And I guess I'm alright with that; I do what little I can. If all I accomplish is making someone slow down for just a second and make sure facts are facts, I've done more good than I could have hoped. And that's my only stake in this entire political arena -- to do some good.

But the main reason I drop one last post in here is to address the 'upthread' part. I did indeed say that I would have felt more comfortable if it had been slower, more of a 'run its course' thing. But I wasn't saying that in the context of 'because I agree with them' or 'because its about them', but in the context of 'the speed of it is what set off my large-scale shaming monitor', whereas the slower variant wouldn't have really drawn any comment at all from me because it wouldn't have hit one of my Hot Topic Buttons. I apologize if that wasn't made clear -- I do often admit to being overly wordy at times and it seems that makes some of my posts harder to read the way I intend them to.

As you rightly say, peace.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
67. "social shaming"...
Fri May 23, 2014, 10:27 AM
May 2014

... nonsense. there are any number of things you could say on the air that would cost you your job. their only mistake was they didn't realize this was one of them.

I don't feel a bit sorry for them in fact the sooner we get all flavors of just hate-filled non-information off of the airwaves the better.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
72. It's part of the historical and social process known as acculturation.
Fri May 23, 2014, 02:21 PM
May 2014

"we'd better hope this country isn't really on a rightward swing, huh. Otherwise this -will- come back to hurt us..."

They already have a history of doing so. It's not if they would, it's more "remember when they did?" E.g., the Dixie Chicks, the Girl Scouts of America, Ben & Jerry's, France, etc.


"Social shaming is a stupid idea to get behind..."
It's part of the historical and social process known as acculturation.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
5. To continue the timeline:
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:26 PM
May 2014

Tomorrow - "Kimberly & Beck" become the latest victims du jour and darlings of the RW-media, featured by guest appearances on multiple Fox News shows.

Place a decent-sized wager on Sarah Palin tossing out some word salad on her Facebook page!

colsohlibgal

(5,275 posts)
7. Do Unto Others
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:37 PM
May 2014

People have a right to be who they are, whatever that is. Plus - the people who react the most vehemently about this stuff - self loathing quite possibly.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
9. I'm in Rich. I know of those two but have never listened.
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:08 PM
May 2014

We have a few morning jock. Straps. I call that crap "BigDickRadio". They live on mocking throse "low in testosterone".

I'm really glad these two jerks got what was coming to them!!!

I wish they all would get what they deserve for how they mock women. Phone games pranking women, using sexualized humiliation. But that crap always gets a pass. (Ok, I haven't listened to any of these jerks lately--if they've cleaned up their act, let me know. But if there had ever been a reaction like this to misogyny, --with firings and public apologies-- I'm pretty sure I would have heard about it.)

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
10. Good corp action,
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:08 PM
May 2014

karma has none to do with this. They can read demographics and local market

Though I am betting these two will be paraded as another example of hate from the left.

(And we really need to get away from magical thinking)

Ex Lurker

(3,812 posts)
12. Getting fired comes with the territory in radio
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:20 PM
May 2014

For cause, like this, or just because the management wants to make a change. They'll be back on the air somewhere withinin six months.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
14. Wingnut dipshits who wouldn't know the 1st Amendment if it bit them on the ass ...
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:39 PM
May 2014

begin foaming at the mouth in 3 ... 2 .. 1 ...

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
15. I live near Rochester.
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:46 PM
May 2014

This city has very long historical connections to Women's Suffrage, the Underground Railroad since the 1830s, and support of equal rights in general...

We also have Nick Tahoe's garbage plate but, hey can't win 'em all.

:&gt

mountain grammy

(26,608 posts)
17. When they're sitting in jail, I'll be protesting for their free speech, but fired?
Thu May 22, 2014, 06:12 PM
May 2014

Good riddance. I know people fired for a whole lot less. Offend your boss, get fired. That's usually how that works.

d_legendary1

(2,586 posts)
19. How long till these guys work for cheap channel radio?
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:14 PM
May 2014

And get on some right wing station and get paid to spew hate? Remember Juan Williams?

riqster

(13,986 posts)
23. Free speech does not mean you can violate your contract.
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:36 PM
May 2014

I went 15 years not trash-talking Microsoft at work, because of a stipulation in my then contract. Had I said what I thought, I could have been fired.

All those yahoos who love the "right to work" and "at will" states should think about this type of situation, that goes hand-in-hand with employer-dominated paradigms.

Initech

(100,054 posts)
24. Bigotry and assholishness do not serve any purpose in a civilized society.
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:45 PM
May 2014

Good on the radio station!

Mrdrboi

(110 posts)
57. Wow That was awesomely fast. Glad those fuckheads are gone.
Fri May 23, 2014, 04:03 AM
May 2014

These Fuckheads really dont understand Freedom of Speech at all. You can say all that stupid bigoted bullshit all you want. BUT!!! That doesnt mean there arnt going to be consequences. Its all about Public image at those places.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
66. Props to Entercom for that.
Fri May 23, 2014, 10:21 AM
May 2014

I wish more companies would start doing something about the hate that is spread on a lot of radio shows, especially when they are spreading hideous misinformation. That is wrong.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
69. The radio station knew what crap they hired
Fri May 23, 2014, 11:43 AM
May 2014

They should fine themselves, if such a thing is possible. Can't understand radio stations, TV, etc. that hire these people and then are "surprised" as to what they express. Reminds me of the old story of the guy who nursed a frozen deadly snake back to health and then, when it bit him, thought it was an ungrateful animal. It's their nature.
I heard these two on the radio a while back and thought they sucked then and were trying very hard to be controversial about some bullshit thing.

catbyte

(34,359 posts)
70. I wonder which idiot bagger will whine about their First Amendment rights being violated.
Fri May 23, 2014, 01:23 PM
May 2014


Good work, Entercom Rochester!
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