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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy sweet 17 year old sweet baby cat, Scat, passed at 11:30am.
She began to feel bad and then her breathing changed. I took her to the vet and x-rayed her chest. Her lungs looked awful. There was a fluid buildup too.
I didn't bring her back home because all I would do is cry. She hates the vet and it was getting harder for her to do anything.
I held her when she crossed the Rainbow Bridge. My two best buddies are now gone.
I am completely crushed and utterly bereft.
RIP Scat baby. Find Mousie.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)So sorry. I lost my Keisha last year. I hope you find comfort.
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)KarenS
(4,073 posts)There are no words I can say to make you feel better.
Sending you a hug.
dipsydoodle
(42,239 posts)RKP5637
(67,104 posts)they will all meet. I know so much how you feel, I miss my kitty of 12 years so much, we were so very close 7x24.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)I am so sorry. I know it hurts but 17 is a nice long life for a fur baby. And, like Mousie, she was loved and cared for and had a good forever home. You could not have given her more.
tabbycat31
(6,336 posts)RIP sweet baby. Go play with Tabby across the Rainbow Bridge
alsame
(7,784 posts)grits
RIP across the bridge, Scat. You were a very good girl
raccoon
(31,110 posts)TDale313
(7,820 posts)hamsterjill
(15,220 posts)It hurts because you loved her so. I hope as time passes, you will begin to feel less of the hurt and more of the cherished memories.
Thank you for loving her and taking care of her. I wish you peace and comfort.
SamKnause
(13,091 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,445 posts)TBF
(32,047 posts)I know how hard it is.
niyad
(113,261 posts)that scat and mousie are together across the rainbow bridge. will tell my gang to go say hello. sending all the loving, comforting vibes I can. I am so very, very sorry to hear this.
Triana
(22,666 posts)You've lost two precious furries in such a short time. My heart goes out to you.
They'll always be alive in your heart!
catbyte
(34,373 posts)I am sitting at my desk in tears. I am so, so very sorry. I wish I could give you a {{{hug}}}. How are Tater & Moonpie?
lucca18
(1,241 posts)How lucky you were to have her in your life. She will always be with you......
GoCubsGo
(32,079 posts)So glad you got those kittens when you did. I won't tell you to go hug them, because I know you're already doing that.
Good bye, Scat.
Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)My precious doggie passed last January. Maybe our babies are frolicking together across the Rainbow Bridge.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)Hurts like hell to lose a furry friend.
OnyxCollie
(9,958 posts)RIP, Scat.
(sigh)
malaise
(268,931 posts)I'm really glad you have two new young ones - it's really hard to lose one cat, let alone two. I feel for you Grits.
Blue Owl
(50,349 posts)Be strong, and take comfort that you gave both your cats a wonderful home...
CountAllVotes
(20,868 posts)Had the same thing happen to me; lost two of them within 2 mos. of one another. It was incredibly sad and I was a mess for a long time.
HOWEVER, this happened at the end of 2011 and early 2012. It was about 6 mos. ago that we finally adopted two very loving two kittens (now they are about 10 mos. old and oh what a handful they are -- a good handful!) from the local shelter.
I wish I knew what to say but I have no words for you except that take good care of yourself. Time is the great healer (or so they say ...).
In the meantime ...
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)"Be of good hope in the face of death. Believe in this one truth for certain, that no evil can befall a good cat either in life or death, and that her fate is not a matter of indifference to the Gods." - Socrates
Slightly edited but still applicable.
BuelahWitch
(9,083 posts)She was a beautiful kitty. :hugs:
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)WCLinolVir
(951 posts)I lost my 17 yr old Meb this year. Just glad she is not in pain anymore. Last year her sister left us.
Ohio Joe
(21,752 posts)2naSalit
(86,536 posts)Daemonaquila
(1,712 posts)You lost two best buddies in so short a time. May you all find peace, and may Bast give you new friends who will be as dear as Scat and Mousie. Alas, they are designed to break our hearts.
BarbaRosa
(2,684 posts)It's coming up on a year since Tiger wandered across the bridge. I still glance at places he use to hang out half expecting to see him.
LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)Skittles
(153,150 posts)Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.
--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson
Moostache
(9,895 posts)We have our baby boy....Schmoo, who is soon to be 17. He gave us a scare a couple years ago but bounced back.
I wish you all the best thoughts
hue
(4,949 posts)I'm sorry for Your loss, but They will always be grateful for the majestic way in which they lived and were loved, and still are loved by You. It is the love that survives-->in both directions.
Also Thank You for Your courage when Scat was suffering. Now She is not suffering and She would not want You to suffer. Thank You for loving Them so much!
onecaliberal
(32,826 posts)heaven05
(18,124 posts)and scat gave you love to carry the rest of your life. Celebrate the love. May scat have fields to run in with all the other buddies we could possibly see again, somewhere, sometime. I'll shut up now. My empathy and sympathy for your sadness and loss.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)mimi85
(1,805 posts)I remember when our beloved English Bulldog, Maggie, passed away in 2009. We still miss her, but we have a lot of fond memories as well. Take good care.
irisblue
(32,968 posts)Grits...ah Grits You know that Scat and Mousie are together again. I know the pain well. I am sorry.
mercymechap
(579 posts)We all hate it when our dear pets go the Pet Heaven.....but think about all the happy moments that cat made possible for you. After I grieve for a while for my pets, I find that replacing them makes me happier quicker. Just a thought.
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)may the new little ones bring you comfort and joy.
Ishoutandscream2
(6,661 posts)Peace and strength be with you.
bullwinkle428
(20,629 posts)hard enough; I can't imagine what it would be like to lose another in short succession.
cry baby
(6,682 posts)I am so very sorry for the loss of your best buddies.
Number9Dream
(1,561 posts)Know how you're feeling... been there several times.
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)So soon after Mousie.
onecent
(6,096 posts)It's not easy letting those little fur babies go....You know she was loved and
she KNOWS she was loved.
Hugs to you today!!
warrior1
(12,325 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)montanacowboy
(6,083 posts)we are all still trying to cope with our Aussie's sudden death in April from spleen cancer. Everywhere I go I see him and his litter mate is still devastated.
It leaves a hole in your heart that never goes away.
spanone
(135,823 posts)xchrom
(108,903 posts)totodeinhere
(13,058 posts)I left with her. I got her when I was 12 years old and I have not known any adulthood without her. I hope she has a lot of good years left but realistically she could go at any time after reaching her current age.
Mz Pip
(27,439 posts)It's never easy, even when they've had long wonderful lives. You have my sympathy.
All we can do is love them while they are with us.
I suspect I'll be facing this soon. My Wicket is 17 and has a heart condition. He seems fine, but it's only a matter of time.
TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)For the loss of your beloved kitty, Scat. She was a beautiful cat. I lost my 18.5 year old cat two months ago today, so I feel what you are going through. (((HUGS)))
CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)So hard to lose them, and so tough to lose them so closely together. I hope you can find peace in your memories of Scat and Mousie. Remember, they are now together.
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herding cats
(19,564 posts)I know how much it hurts to lose a furbaby, and to have lost two this close together...I feel for your loss more than words can convey.
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)I hope the heartache I feel is relieving yours somewhat.
mountain grammy
(26,619 posts)lunasun
(21,646 posts)in a very stressful year with lots of loss - hang in there and remember the good times ( gorgeous cat pic !)
virgdem
(2,124 posts)Scat was such a beautiful kitty. It's so very hard to lose them-they are family. I lost two beloved kitties within 5 days of one another due to old age and kidney issues and I know exactly how you feel. I hope that the coming days and weeks bring peace to you as you deal with this enormous loss.
brer cat
(24,559 posts)What a blow.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)But losing one that has been part of the family for so long is particularly devastating and is like losing a part of yourself.
Raine
(30,540 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,761 posts)She meant to you.
You were the best human a cat could ever have and Scat was the best kitty a human could ever have.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm here if you need me.
noiretextatique
(27,275 posts)spooky3
(34,439 posts)smallcat88
(426 posts)I understand. Every time I lose one of my babies it feels like I've lost a child.
MerryBlooms
(11,767 posts)Rest In Peace, sweet girl.
japple
(9,821 posts)You gave her a great life and a welcome release from her sick body. I know she is grateful. You were a good kitty mama.
Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)cate94
(2,810 posts)passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)She was a beautiful girl. You were so very lucky to have her in your life.
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)tosh
(4,423 posts)I am sorry for your losses and that they are so close together.
Tears and Hugs from someone who has walked a similar path.
SevenSixtyTwo
(255 posts)And what a pretty cat. I've shed a tear with every cat we've lost. They all have their own distinct personalities and characteristics. I'm sure a new kitty will be lucky enough to find a home in your loving home in time to come.
arthritisR_US
(7,287 posts)I am glad she was in your arms at the time...
busterbrown
(8,515 posts)W/O them ever being in your life your world wouldnt have been ...............fill it in..
jtuck004
(15,882 posts)for all our animals over the past 30 years or so, and I think (hope) it comforts them.
Thank you for taking care of them.
It has been my experience that, sooner than I expected, the loss will became more manageable and the space it left was filled with thoughts of the good times. That left me with more to do though, because I was then left to figure out how to apply the lessons they demonstrated for me on how better to live life.
And while I realize that I am woefully short on napping and playing, the hardest thing for me to learn was that I need to keep trying to moving those to the top of the list, not where I usually put them.
We will have some good thoughts for you and the good times and memories you are left with.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)How are the young ones taking it?
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)A Little Weird
(1,754 posts)shireen
(8,333 posts)Losing two little furkids within just a few months is devastating. I'm so sorry for your losses.
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)roody
(10,849 posts)I have a cemetery in my backyard (2 dogs, 4 cats, and ashes of another dog.)
http://m.youtube.com/?#/watch?v=2kaOLKEAVLo
JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)MarianJack
(10,237 posts)I'm sure that tonight in Kittie cat heaven, Scat & Mousie are having a great game with their favorite catnip toy and missing you. While you do have your new kitties, there is a part of us that will always love all of the pets who go before us. My heart aches for you and the loss of you 2 family members. Please accept my best wishes and condolences!
PEACE!
tabasco
(22,974 posts)I recently lost a doggie friend in a tragic accident and it was heart breaking.
Grieve and pay no attention to those who do not understand. Only time will heal your pain, but it will.
polly7
(20,582 posts)What a beautiful kitty.
RIP Scat.
catrose
(5,065 posts)Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)I know that feeling. Two times, I have lost a pair of cats in a rather short period of time. The emptiness consumes you. (Not right this minute, since I did get another sweetheart who says it is time for bed and dinner so is walking all over the computer.)
May you find another companion who will fill some of that void. I didn't think I could, but I was wrong. Take time to mourn.
RIP Scat (and Mousie).
Rosa Luxemburg
(28,627 posts)47of74
(18,470 posts)OwnedByCats
(805 posts)to hear. I lost my cat in Dec 2012. I know how hard it is for you. My sincere condolences.
Ferretherder
(1,446 posts)Tears for you...because Scat doesn't need them, now. I truly hope you can find some relief from the pain of this loss.
You have my deepest sympathies,.....and my tears. It ain't much, but they are real.
Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)I'm so sorry!
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)My condolences
cantbeserious
(13,039 posts)eom
renate
(13,776 posts)It's so hard when someone who gave you unconditional love, and whom you loved unconditionally, is gone... and especially after you just lost Mousie. I'm so sorry.
intheflow
(28,462 posts)We have not always gotten along but I know well and have always admired your devotion to your fur babies. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
3catwoman3
(23,973 posts)...when I saw this. Another loss so soon after the previous one is a heavy burden. Thinking of you, and being very glad that Tater and Moonpie captured you heart so you do not have to come home to an empty house.
I have a t-shirt that says "A house without a cat is ike a garden without flowers."
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)woo me with science
(32,139 posts)What a beautiful cat she was, and obviously a beautiful friend to you.
navarth
(5,927 posts)Our oldest boy died in my arms. I was in tatters for weeks. It still hurts. The house seems wounded. There's a vacancy in our hearts.
Sending you comfort and courage. Love hurts. Scat was a beautiful kitty. I know exactly how you feel. When I lost my boy I seriously thought of making a thread like this one. But the grief was paralyzing.
May you heal and find some peace. And someday be a good parent to another sweet little one. There are so many in need of good humans like you. I know the time is not now. But someday.
Diremoon
(86 posts)It will slowly get easier to function. I lost my friend Sam a week ago today. He was a 14 yr old Lab. It is very hard to lose someone that you are so close to. All I can suggest is to remember all of the good things that they brought into your life. As hard as it is to lose them, you were able to spend their life with them. I am sure that she was happy to spend it with you.
niyad
(113,261 posts)Jakes Progress
(11,122 posts)I wish you peace. But I know that crying is all that there is to do.
My thoughts are for your pain and loss. So very, very sorry.
Tsiyu
(18,186 posts)So sorry to hear, AGG
greatlaurel
(2,004 posts)It is so difficult when one of our dear friends departs. You were a wonderful companion to help Scat make it to 17. Take care of yourself, I am so sorry for your loss.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)time is so hard when they go. It feels so lonely and empty. I am so sorry, my friend. I wish you peace about this soon. Time is your friend. Take care and know you are loved tonight.
Take as many pictures of your pets as you can
When you go they will be precious.
calimary
(81,220 posts)Aw, grits, I'm so sorry. Seems like only yesterday Mousie made the jump to light speed, too.
I'm always comforted seeing posts from people who are in mourning. I'm glad they post that here. So many loving, caring, compassionate, sympathetic, and empathetic here. LOTS of big broad pairs of shoulders. I'm glad you posted here. We all kinda grow old together here, sharing triumphs and losses and disappointments, and great hopes and dreams and sorrows and joys. Thank you for sharing your two special critters with us. You do not mourn alone.
Veracious
(234 posts)She loved you and you loved her. You gave her a wonderful life.
Granny M
(1,395 posts)Peace and comfort to you.
area51
(11,906 posts)I know what it's like to lose a cat that you were close to.
Gothmog
(145,130 posts)Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)on the other side. That's the promise of the Rainbow Bridge. And they'll both be there to welcome you at some far future time.
IdaBriggs
(10,559 posts)So sorry.
cali
(114,904 posts)gademocrat7
(10,654 posts)Lex
(34,108 posts)Really nothing can take away the sense of loss right now. Beautiful kitty.
vt_native
(484 posts)Scat and Mousie are waiting for you, somewhere, at peace.
Bossy Monkey
(15,863 posts)Prophet 451
(9,796 posts)My SO worships Bast, I'll ask her to put in a prayer for your lovely girl.
Fla Dem
(23,650 posts)DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)purring.... purring....
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)and RIP...
I'm so sorry for your loss, grits. Peace to you and yours
PumpkinAle
(1,210 posts)With heavy hearts; and a tear in our eyes
after all these years; we must say goodbye
Please understand; we've done all we could
if there was anything we could do; you know we would
I'm sitting right here; gently rub your ears
while I talk to you softly; trying to hold back the tears
The memories you gave us; we'll never forget
especially the ones; of the day we all met
One last hug; and one last kiss
you have no idea; how much you'll be missed
To look into your eyes; this one last time
you tell me it's ok; you know it's your time
Close your eyes now; and go to sleep
we'll pray to the Lord; you're soul he'll keep
Go in peace now; our good friend
we'll stay right here with you; until the end
Dream of that special day and time
when we'll meet at the Bridge; and all will be fine
We'll run and play; side by side
with a soft warm feeling; deep down inside
Your memory will live on; in each one of us
you'll always be number 1; to all of us
Have a safe journey; through the night
I promise when you awake; you'll be in God's light
So with heavy hearts; and tears in our eyes
just for now my friend; we say goodbye
John Quealy
http://www.petloss.com/poems/johnq/goodbye.htm
Stargazer09
(2,132 posts)She was beautiful and quite obviously loved.
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)Our hearts break when we lose a companion. You clearly loved you sweetheart companion!!
Oilwellian
(12,647 posts)She's beautiful.