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Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:11 PM May 2014

My sweet 17 year old sweet baby cat, Scat, passed at 11:30am.

She began to feel bad and then her breathing changed. I took her to the vet and x-rayed her chest. Her lungs looked awful. There was a fluid buildup too.

I didn't bring her back home because all I would do is cry. She hates the vet and it was getting harder for her to do anything.

I held her when she crossed the Rainbow Bridge. My two best buddies are now gone.

I am completely crushed and utterly bereft.


RIP Scat baby. Find Mousie.

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My sweet 17 year old sweet baby cat, Scat, passed at 11:30am. (Original Post) Are_grits_groceries May 2014 OP
Mercy shenmue May 2014 #1
RIP Scat.. you were a beautiful girl...n/t SoCalDem May 2014 #2
I am so sorry. KarenS May 2014 #3
Sorry to hear that. dipsydoodle May 2014 #4
I'm so sorry to hear this. My kitty had passed on just before Mousie, and now Scat. Maybe RKP5637 May 2014 #5
Ah, Grits. Le Taz Hot May 2014 #6
Beautiful kitty tabbycat31 May 2014 #7
I'm so sorry, alsame May 2014 #8
Sorry to hear that. :hug: nt raccoon May 2014 #9
I'm so sorry TDale313 May 2014 #10
I'm so very sorry. hamsterjill May 2014 #11
I am sorry for your loss. SamKnause May 2014 #12
I'm so sorry. sinkingfeeling May 2014 #13
I'm so very sorry - TBF May 2014 #14
((((((((grits)))))))). I know how hard it was when you lost mousie. it doesn't help, but know niyad May 2014 #15
I'm so sorry! Triana May 2014 #16
OMG, I am SO SORRY, AGG! You are just recovering from Mousie and now this. I have no words. catbyte May 2014 #17
I am so sorry.....She was so beautiful. lucca18 May 2014 #18
I am so sorry, Grits. GoCubsGo May 2014 #19
() Jack Rabbit May 2014 #20
So very sorry Grits. MoonRiver May 2014 #21
Aw, I'm so very sorry. City Lights May 2014 #22
I'm so sorry. OnyxCollie May 2014 #23
It wasn't just old age - she was missing Mousie as well malaise May 2014 #24
It's the worst... Blue Owl May 2014 #25
I'm so sorry for you and your beloved cats CountAllVotes May 2014 #26
"Be of good hope in the face of death. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2014 #27
I am so sorry. BuelahWitch May 2014 #28
I'm sure they've been reunited in kitty heaven! joeybee12 May 2014 #29
Sorry for your loss. I know it isn't easy. WCLinolVir May 2014 #30
RIP Ohio Joe May 2014 #31
... 2naSalit May 2014 #32
So, so sorry! Daemonaquila May 2014 #33
So sorry Grits. BarbaRosa May 2014 #34
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved cat LiberalEsto May 2014 #35
... Skittles May 2014 #36
My most sincere condolences Moostache May 2014 #37
Grits, remember You always get to keep Their love for You! hue May 2014 #38
RIP Scat.. You and Mousie are together again.... onecaliberal May 2014 #39
you gave scat love heaven05 May 2014 #40
Sorry to hear about your cat. =( R.I.P. Scat. AverageJoe90 May 2014 #41
I'm so sorry about the loss of your cat. mimi85 May 2014 #42
(((grits))) irisblue May 2014 #43
Hugs to you mercymechap May 2014 #44
:( Voice for Peace May 2014 #45
I'm so sorry Ishoutandscream2 May 2014 #46
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Losing one is bullwinkle428 May 2014 #47
So sad to read that Scat is gone so soon after Mousie. cry baby May 2014 #48
My sympathy for your loss Number9Dream May 2014 #49
I am so sorry! Behind the Aegis May 2014 #50
I'm so sorry Grits.... onecent May 2014 #51
Rest in peace Scat warrior1 May 2014 #52
I am so sorry for your loss. hrmjustin May 2014 #53
So sorry montanacowboy May 2014 #54
so sorry grits..... spanone May 2014 #55
May Peace be with you at this difficult time. nt xchrom May 2014 #56
My sincere condolences to you. My beloved cat is now 16 and I am treasuring the time totodeinhere May 2014 #57
Oh, geez, that's so sad. Mz Pip May 2014 #58
So sorry TuxedoKat May 2014 #59
So sorry, Grits... CherokeeDem May 2014 #60
This message was self-deleted by its author fleabiscuit May 2014 #62
I'm so very, very sorry for your loss! herding cats May 2014 #61
I'm so very sorry. fleabiscuit May 2014 #63
I'm so sorry. 17 years! What a great life she had. mountain grammy May 2014 #64
RIP Scat and peace to you lunasun May 2014 #65
I am so sorry for your loss... virgdem May 2014 #66
I'm so sorry, grits! brer cat May 2014 #67
It's never easy losing a beloved pet Major Nikon May 2014 #68
((((((Hug)))))) nt Raine May 2014 #69
Oh, grits, I'm so so sorry. I know how you loved her and what LiberalLoner May 2014 #70
so sorry noiretextatique May 2014 #71
What a lovely kitty. Very sorry. spooky3 May 2014 #72
Deepest Sympathies smallcat88 May 2014 #73
I'm so sorry for your loss. MerryBlooms May 2014 #74
Dear Grits, am so sorry about your beautiful baby girl. She was adorable. japple May 2014 #75
So sorry to hear of sweet baby Scat's passing. Louisiana1976 May 2014 #76
So sorry to hear this. cate94 May 2014 #77
So sorry to hear this passiveporcupine May 2014 #78
Oh AGG, so much loss in such a short time. I am so sorry. Mnemosyne May 2014 #79
What a beautiful girl. tosh May 2014 #80
How sad. SevenSixtyTwo May 2014 #81
I am so sorry to hear this... arthritisR_US May 2014 #82
Yes, but always remember how your life was enriched by your friends.. busterbrown May 2014 #83
As hard as it is, I'm glad you were there for her at the end. I have done that jtuck004 May 2014 #84
I'm sorry, Grits... awoke_in_2003 May 2014 #85
I'm sorry for your loss. In_The_Wind May 2014 #86
I am so, so sorry! GreenPartyVoter May 2014 #87
I'm so sorry A Little Weird May 2014 #88
my condolences, Grits. shireen May 2014 #89
I'm so sorry. myrna minx May 2014 #90
This song has comforted me many times. roody May 2014 #91
I am sorry for your loss, you dear soul. JNelson6563 May 2014 #92
I'm very sorry for your loss. MarianJack May 2014 #93
I'm so terribly sorry. tabasco May 2014 #94
I'm very sorry. polly7 May 2014 #95
so sorry for the loss of this beautiful girl eom catrose May 2014 #96
I'm so sorry to hear this, Grits. Curmudgeoness May 2014 #97
I am very sad Rosa Luxemburg May 2014 #98
Very sorry for your loss 47of74 May 2014 #99
So very sorry OwnedByCats May 2014 #100
All I can send you is tears, because, now, I'm crying. Ferretherder May 2014 #101
(((Grits))) Solly Mack May 2014 #102
I am sorry to hear this nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #103
Condolences - She Loved You As Much As You Cherished Her - All Creatures Know Who Cares For Them cantbeserious May 2014 #104
I'm so sorry renate May 2014 #105
I'm so sorry, Grits. intheflow May 2014 #106
My heart said "Noooooooooooooooooo..." 3catwoman3 May 2014 #107
I'm so sorry. Jamastiene May 2014 #108
I am so sorry. woo me with science May 2014 #109
I just went through the same thing navarth May 2014 #110
I am truly sorry for your loss Diremoon May 2014 #111
so very sorry for your loss. niyad May 2014 #135
She was a beauty. Jakes Progress May 2014 #112
Rest In Purrs Baby Scat Tsiyu May 2014 #113
Please accept my sincerest condolences on your loss. greatlaurel May 2014 #114
I am so sorry. what a beautiful cat. Having them a long roguevalley May 2014 #115
Find Mousie, dear Scat! calimary May 2014 #116
She was a good girl. Veracious May 2014 #117
So very sorry, Are_grits_groceries. Granny M May 2014 #118
I'm so sorry. area51 May 2014 #119
I am sorry for your loss Gothmog May 2014 #120
Take heart, grits. Mousie was there to meet Scat Surya Gayatri May 2014 #121
... IdaBriggs May 2014 #122
I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you cali May 2014 #123
I am very sorry for your loss. gademocrat7 May 2014 #124
So sorry for your loss. Lex May 2014 #125
So Sorry for your loss, Grits vt_native May 2014 #126
So very sorry. n/t Bossy Monkey May 2014 #127
I am so sorry Prophet 451 May 2014 #128
So sorry for you, tears in my eyes. nt Fla Dem May 2014 #129
My heart goes out to you. I've been there. My cats are my children. Scat is with you, right now... DesertDiamond May 2014 #130
godspeed, Scat magical thyme May 2014 #131
So sorry Grits PumpkinAle May 2014 #132
Sending hugs Stargazer09 May 2014 #133
So sorry. Sheepshank May 2014 #134
Sorry to hear the news, Grits Oilwellian May 2014 #136

RKP5637

(67,104 posts)
5. I'm so sorry to hear this. My kitty had passed on just before Mousie, and now Scat. Maybe
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:16 PM
May 2014

they will all meet. I know so much how you feel, I miss my kitty of 12 years so much, we were so very close 7x24.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
6. Ah, Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:17 PM
May 2014

I am so sorry. I know it hurts but 17 is a nice long life for a fur baby. And, like Mousie, she was loved and cared for and had a good forever home. You could not have given her more.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
11. I'm so very sorry.
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:28 PM
May 2014

It hurts because you loved her so. I hope as time passes, you will begin to feel less of the hurt and more of the cherished memories.

Thank you for loving her and taking care of her. I wish you peace and comfort.

niyad

(113,261 posts)
15. ((((((((grits)))))))). I know how hard it was when you lost mousie. it doesn't help, but know
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:43 PM
May 2014

that scat and mousie are together across the rainbow bridge. will tell my gang to go say hello. sending all the loving, comforting vibes I can. I am so very, very sorry to hear this.

 

Triana

(22,666 posts)
16. I'm so sorry!
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:47 PM
May 2014

You've lost two precious furries in such a short time. My heart goes out to you.



They'll always be alive in your heart!

catbyte

(34,373 posts)
17. OMG, I am SO SORRY, AGG! You are just recovering from Mousie and now this. I have no words.
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:48 PM
May 2014

I am sitting at my desk in tears. I am so, so very sorry. I wish I could give you a {{{hug}}}. How are Tater & Moonpie?

lucca18

(1,241 posts)
18. I am so sorry.....She was so beautiful.
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:51 PM
May 2014

How lucky you were to have her in your life. She will always be with you......

GoCubsGo

(32,079 posts)
19. I am so sorry, Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:52 PM
May 2014

So glad you got those kittens when you did. I won't tell you to go hug them, because I know you're already doing that.

Good bye, Scat.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
21. So very sorry Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 12:54 PM
May 2014

My precious doggie passed last January. Maybe our babies are frolicking together across the Rainbow Bridge.

malaise

(268,931 posts)
24. It wasn't just old age - she was missing Mousie as well
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:00 PM
May 2014

I'm really glad you have two new young ones - it's really hard to lose one cat, let alone two. I feel for you Grits.

CountAllVotes

(20,868 posts)
26. I'm so sorry for you and your beloved cats
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:04 PM
May 2014

Had the same thing happen to me; lost two of them within 2 mos. of one another. It was incredibly sad and I was a mess for a long time.

HOWEVER, this happened at the end of 2011 and early 2012. It was about 6 mos. ago that we finally adopted two very loving two kittens (now they are about 10 mos. old and oh what a handful they are -- a good handful!) from the local shelter.

I wish I knew what to say but I have no words for you except that take good care of yourself. Time is the great healer (or so they say ...).

In the meantime ...



 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
27. "Be of good hope in the face of death.
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:07 PM
May 2014

"Be of good hope in the face of death. Believe in this one truth for certain, that no evil can befall a good cat either in life or death, and that her fate is not a matter of indifference to the Gods." - Socrates


Slightly edited but still applicable.

WCLinolVir

(951 posts)
30. Sorry for your loss. I know it isn't easy.
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:12 PM
May 2014

I lost my 17 yr old Meb this year. Just glad she is not in pain anymore. Last year her sister left us.

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
33. So, so sorry!
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:28 PM
May 2014

You lost two best buddies in so short a time. May you all find peace, and may Bast give you new friends who will be as dear as Scat and Mousie. Alas, they are designed to break our hearts.

BarbaRosa

(2,684 posts)
34. So sorry Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:34 PM
May 2014

It's coming up on a year since Tiger wandered across the bridge. I still glance at places he use to hang out half expecting to see him.

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
36. ...
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:42 PM
May 2014

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
37. My most sincere condolences
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:45 PM
May 2014

We have our baby boy....Schmoo, who is soon to be 17. He gave us a scare a couple years ago but bounced back.

I wish you all the best thoughts

hue

(4,949 posts)
38. Grits, remember You always get to keep Their love for You!
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:46 PM
May 2014

I'm sorry for Your loss, but They will always be grateful for the majestic way in which they lived and were loved, and still are loved by You. It is the love that survives-->in both directions.
Also Thank You for Your courage when Scat was suffering. Now She is not suffering and She would not want You to suffer. Thank You for loving Them so much!

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
40. you gave scat love
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:52 PM
May 2014

and scat gave you love to carry the rest of your life. Celebrate the love. May scat have fields to run in with all the other buddies we could possibly see again, somewhere, sometime. I'll shut up now. My empathy and sympathy for your sadness and loss.

mimi85

(1,805 posts)
42. I'm so sorry about the loss of your cat.
Tue May 27, 2014, 01:57 PM
May 2014

I remember when our beloved English Bulldog, Maggie, passed away in 2009. We still miss her, but we have a lot of fond memories as well. Take good care.

irisblue

(32,968 posts)
43. (((grits)))
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:00 PM
May 2014

Grits...ah Grits You know that Scat and Mousie are together again. I know the pain well. I am sorry.

mercymechap

(579 posts)
44. Hugs to you
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:01 PM
May 2014

We all hate it when our dear pets go the Pet Heaven.....but think about all the happy moments that cat made possible for you. After I grieve for a while for my pets, I find that replacing them makes me happier quicker. Just a thought.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
47. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Losing one is
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:03 PM
May 2014

hard enough; I can't imagine what it would be like to lose another in short succession.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
51. I'm so sorry Grits....
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:27 PM
May 2014

It's not easy letting those little fur babies go....You know she was loved and
she KNOWS she was loved.

Hugs to you today!!

montanacowboy

(6,083 posts)
54. So sorry
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:33 PM
May 2014

we are all still trying to cope with our Aussie's sudden death in April from spleen cancer. Everywhere I go I see him and his litter mate is still devastated.

It leaves a hole in your heart that never goes away.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
57. My sincere condolences to you. My beloved cat is now 16 and I am treasuring the time
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:36 PM
May 2014

I left with her. I got her when I was 12 years old and I have not known any adulthood without her. I hope she has a lot of good years left but realistically she could go at any time after reaching her current age.

Mz Pip

(27,439 posts)
58. Oh, geez, that's so sad.
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:40 PM
May 2014

It's never easy, even when they've had long wonderful lives. You have my sympathy.

All we can do is love them while they are with us.

I suspect I'll be facing this soon. My Wicket is 17 and has a heart condition. He seems fine, but it's only a matter of time.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
59. So sorry
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:42 PM
May 2014

For the loss of your beloved kitty, Scat. She was a beautiful cat. I lost my 18.5 year old cat two months ago today, so I feel what you are going through. (((HUGS)))

CherokeeDem

(3,709 posts)
60. So sorry, Grits...
Tue May 27, 2014, 02:42 PM
May 2014

So hard to lose them, and so tough to lose them so closely together. I hope you can find peace in your memories of Scat and Mousie. Remember, they are now together.

Response to CherokeeDem (Reply #60)

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
61. I'm so very, very sorry for your loss!
Tue May 27, 2014, 03:00 PM
May 2014

I know how much it hurts to lose a furbaby, and to have lost two this close together...I feel for your loss more than words can convey.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
65. RIP Scat and peace to you
Tue May 27, 2014, 03:30 PM
May 2014

in a very stressful year with lots of loss - hang in there and remember the good times ( gorgeous cat pic !)

virgdem

(2,124 posts)
66. I am so sorry for your loss...
Tue May 27, 2014, 03:47 PM
May 2014

Scat was such a beautiful kitty. It's so very hard to lose them-they are family. I lost two beloved kitties within 5 days of one another due to old age and kidney issues and I know exactly how you feel. I hope that the coming days and weeks bring peace to you as you deal with this enormous loss.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
68. It's never easy losing a beloved pet
Tue May 27, 2014, 04:45 PM
May 2014

But losing one that has been part of the family for so long is particularly devastating and is like losing a part of yourself.

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
70. Oh, grits, I'm so so sorry. I know how you loved her and what
Tue May 27, 2014, 04:53 PM
May 2014

She meant to you.

You were the best human a cat could ever have and Scat was the best kitty a human could ever have.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm here if you need me.

japple

(9,821 posts)
75. Dear Grits, am so sorry about your beautiful baby girl. She was adorable.
Tue May 27, 2014, 05:48 PM
May 2014

You gave her a great life and a welcome release from her sick body. I know she is grateful. You were a good kitty mama.

tosh

(4,423 posts)
80. What a beautiful girl.
Tue May 27, 2014, 06:27 PM
May 2014

I am sorry for your losses and that they are so close together.

Tears and Hugs from someone who has walked a similar path.

 

SevenSixtyTwo

(255 posts)
81. How sad.
Tue May 27, 2014, 06:30 PM
May 2014

And what a pretty cat. I've shed a tear with every cat we've lost. They all have their own distinct personalities and characteristics. I'm sure a new kitty will be lucky enough to find a home in your loving home in time to come.

busterbrown

(8,515 posts)
83. Yes, but always remember how your life was enriched by your friends..
Tue May 27, 2014, 06:37 PM
May 2014

W/O them ever being in your life your world wouldn’t have been ...............fill it in..

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
84. As hard as it is, I'm glad you were there for her at the end. I have done that
Tue May 27, 2014, 06:57 PM
May 2014

for all our animals over the past 30 years or so, and I think (hope) it comforts them.

Thank you for taking care of them.

It has been my experience that, sooner than I expected, the loss will became more manageable and the space it left was filled with thoughts of the good times. That left me with more to do though, because I was then left to figure out how to apply the lessons they demonstrated for me on how better to live life.

And while I realize that I am woefully short on napping and playing, the hardest thing for me to learn was that I need to keep trying to moving those to the top of the list, not where I usually put them.

We will have some good thoughts for you and the good times and memories you are left with.









shireen

(8,333 posts)
89. my condolences, Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 07:49 PM
May 2014

Losing two little furkids within just a few months is devastating. I'm so sorry for your losses.


MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
93. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Tue May 27, 2014, 08:52 PM
May 2014

I'm sure that tonight in Kittie cat heaven, Scat & Mousie are having a great game with their favorite catnip toy and missing you. While you do have your new kitties, there is a part of us that will always love all of the pets who go before us. My heart aches for you and the loss of you 2 family members. Please accept my best wishes and condolences!

PEACE!

 

tabasco

(22,974 posts)
94. I'm so terribly sorry.
Tue May 27, 2014, 08:55 PM
May 2014

I recently lost a doggie friend in a tragic accident and it was heart breaking.

Grieve and pay no attention to those who do not understand. Only time will heal your pain, but it will.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
97. I'm so sorry to hear this, Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 10:01 PM
May 2014

I know that feeling. Two times, I have lost a pair of cats in a rather short period of time. The emptiness consumes you. (Not right this minute, since I did get another sweetheart who says it is time for bed and dinner so is walking all over the computer.)

May you find another companion who will fill some of that void. I didn't think I could, but I was wrong. Take time to mourn.

RIP Scat (and Mousie).

Ferretherder

(1,446 posts)
101. All I can send you is tears, because, now, I'm crying.
Tue May 27, 2014, 10:24 PM
May 2014

Tears for you...because Scat doesn't need them, now. I truly hope you can find some relief from the pain of this loss.

You have my deepest sympathies,.....and my tears. It ain't much, but they are real.

renate

(13,776 posts)
105. I'm so sorry
Tue May 27, 2014, 11:12 PM
May 2014

It's so hard when someone who gave you unconditional love, and whom you loved unconditionally, is gone... and especially after you just lost Mousie. I'm so sorry.

intheflow

(28,462 posts)
106. I'm so sorry, Grits.
Tue May 27, 2014, 11:18 PM
May 2014

We have not always gotten along but I know well and have always admired your devotion to your fur babies. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

3catwoman3

(23,973 posts)
107. My heart said "Noooooooooooooooooo..."
Tue May 27, 2014, 11:39 PM
May 2014

...when I saw this. Another loss so soon after the previous one is a heavy burden. Thinking of you, and being very glad that Tater and Moonpie captured you heart so you do not have to come home to an empty house.

I have a t-shirt that says "A house without a cat is ike a garden without flowers."

navarth

(5,927 posts)
110. I just went through the same thing
Wed May 28, 2014, 12:17 AM
May 2014

Our oldest boy died in my arms. I was in tatters for weeks. It still hurts. The house seems wounded. There's a vacancy in our hearts.

Sending you comfort and courage. Love hurts. Scat was a beautiful kitty. I know exactly how you feel. When I lost my boy I seriously thought of making a thread like this one. But the grief was paralyzing.

May you heal and find some peace. And someday be a good parent to another sweet little one. There are so many in need of good humans like you. I know the time is not now. But someday.

Diremoon

(86 posts)
111. I am truly sorry for your loss
Wed May 28, 2014, 12:17 AM
May 2014

It will slowly get easier to function. I lost my friend Sam a week ago today. He was a 14 yr old Lab. It is very hard to lose someone that you are so close to. All I can suggest is to remember all of the good things that they brought into your life. As hard as it is to lose them, you were able to spend their life with them. I am sure that she was happy to spend it with you.

Jakes Progress

(11,122 posts)
112. She was a beauty.
Wed May 28, 2014, 12:32 AM
May 2014

I wish you peace. But I know that crying is all that there is to do.

My thoughts are for your pain and loss. So very, very sorry.

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
114. Please accept my sincerest condolences on your loss.
Wed May 28, 2014, 12:47 AM
May 2014

It is so difficult when one of our dear friends departs. You were a wonderful companion to help Scat make it to 17. Take care of yourself, I am so sorry for your loss.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
115. I am so sorry. what a beautiful cat. Having them a long
Wed May 28, 2014, 01:21 AM
May 2014

time is so hard when they go. It feels so lonely and empty. I am so sorry, my friend. I wish you peace about this soon. Time is your friend. Take care and know you are loved tonight.

Take as many pictures of your pets as you can

When you go they will be precious.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
116. Find Mousie, dear Scat!
Wed May 28, 2014, 01:44 AM
May 2014

Aw, grits, I'm so sorry. Seems like only yesterday Mousie made the jump to light speed, too.

I'm always comforted seeing posts from people who are in mourning. I'm glad they post that here. So many loving, caring, compassionate, sympathetic, and empathetic here. LOTS of big broad pairs of shoulders. I'm glad you posted here. We all kinda grow old together here, sharing triumphs and losses and disappointments, and great hopes and dreams and sorrows and joys. Thank you for sharing your two special critters with us. You do not mourn alone.

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
121. Take heart, grits. Mousie was there to meet Scat
Wed May 28, 2014, 05:15 AM
May 2014

on the other side. That's the promise of the Rainbow Bridge. And they'll both be there to welcome you at some far future time.

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
130. My heart goes out to you. I've been there. My cats are my children. Scat is with you, right now...
Wed May 28, 2014, 11:02 AM
May 2014

purring.... purring....

PumpkinAle

(1,210 posts)
132. So sorry Grits
Wed May 28, 2014, 11:20 AM
May 2014

With heavy hearts; and a tear in our eyes
after all these years; we must say goodbye
Please understand; we've done all we could
if there was anything we could do; you know we would

I'm sitting right here; gently rub your ears
while I talk to you softly; trying to hold back the tears
The memories you gave us; we'll never forget
especially the ones; of the day we all met

One last hug; and one last kiss
you have no idea; how much you'll be missed
To look into your eyes; this one last time
you tell me it's ok; you know it's your time

Close your eyes now; and go to sleep
we'll pray to the Lord; you're soul he'll keep
Go in peace now; our good friend
we'll stay right here with you; until the end

Dream of that special day and time
when we'll meet at the Bridge; and all will be fine
We'll run and play; side by side
with a soft warm feeling; deep down inside

Your memory will live on; in each one of us
you'll always be number 1; to all of us
Have a safe journey; through the night
I promise when you awake; you'll be in God's light

So with heavy hearts; and tears in our eyes
just for now my friend; we say goodbye

John Quealy
http://www.petloss.com/poems/johnq/goodbye.htm

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