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cali

(114,904 posts)
Thu May 29, 2014, 07:16 AM May 2014

Does Misandry exist? Sure. Is it a significant social and cultural factor?

Does it exist on an institutional basis?

No and no. Which is why it's a red herring- a transparent one at that- in discussions about its impact.

When you start in on it, you reveal something none too pretty.

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Does Misandry exist? Sure. Is it a significant social and cultural factor? (Original Post) cali May 2014 OP
Anyone who starts talking about "misandry"? Spider Jerusalem May 2014 #1
Yep! Exactly right..... VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #4
I have yet to see the "misandry" card played by sufrommich May 2014 #9
True, Ma'am The Magistrate May 2014 #2
Gender wars. Feral Child May 2014 #3
except you didn't. You kicked it. cali May 2014 #5
exhibit A! VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #6
Does it exist on DU, and is it claimed to be a justified when it pipoman May 2014 #7
Do people conflate woman standing up for themselves with misandry? el_bryanto May 2014 #8
thanks cali May 2014 #10
Yes, this is exactly right. scruboak May 2014 #11
The only way it is used is as a red herring by misogynists. nt geek tragedy May 2014 #13
Claims of misandry, IMO, are a smokescreen for good old-fashioned misogyny and racism elias7 May 2014 #12
 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
1. Anyone who starts talking about "misandry"?
Thu May 29, 2014, 07:18 AM
May 2014

Also probably thinks affirmative action is "racist against white people". It's the exact same mindset.

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
4. Yep! Exactly right.....
Thu May 29, 2014, 08:23 AM
May 2014

i have said all along....if you think they hate minorities.....wait till a woman runs. They are even more threatened by women.....because women are actually a majority. If women ever realize this and start weilding that power....they are toast as far as being "the kings" of everyone else!

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
9. I have yet to see the "misandry" card played by
Thu May 29, 2014, 08:37 AM
May 2014

anybody who doesn't also believe that white guys are being picked on,they are one and the same.Angry white guys who fear that someday they may find themselves discriminated against the same way women and minorities are,the irony is lost on them.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
8. Do people conflate woman standing up for themselves with misandry?
Thu May 29, 2014, 08:31 AM
May 2014

Absolutely.

Are discussions of the various problems and hassles, from inconveniences up to rape, labeled as misandry by those who want to stop discussion of those issues?

Absolutely.

Bryant

scruboak

(34 posts)
11. Yes, this is exactly right.
Thu May 29, 2014, 09:29 AM
May 2014

I'm trying to think of a situation when women are allowed to stand up for themselves, without the risk of being accused of "militant feminism." Hmmmm.... we can stand up for our children, and society is okay with that. We can stand up for our husbands, and society is usually okay with that. We can stand up for religion, and society love us (as long as it's Christianity). We can stand up for "family values," and society's good with that.

But stand up for ourselves? I don't think that's allowed. If anyone can think of a situation in which a woman has been allowed to stand up for herself, or in which a group of women have been allowed to stand up for themselves, without facing the wrath of society, I'd like to hear about it.

elias7

(3,991 posts)
12. Claims of misandry, IMO, are a smokescreen for good old-fashioned misogyny and racism
Thu May 29, 2014, 09:32 AM
May 2014

Just makes people feel justified in their hatred and anger, borne of their own inadequacies.

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