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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:06 PM May 2014

NRA finally meets its match: Why Richard Martinez should have them shaking

NRA's trick is to silence critics by claiming politics disrespects victims. But Richard Martinez can't be silenced

KATIE MCDONOUGH


Richard Martinez’s son Christopher was among the six college students murdered this weekend in Isla Vista, California. It’s impossible to fathom the grief that Martinez must be experiencing right now, and the simple fact that he is upright and mobile is an act of tremendous courage. Which is precisely what makes everything else that he has done in the days since he lost his son all the more astounding.

From his first public statement — a blistering and emotional indictment of “craven” politicians who refuse to act on even moderate gun reform — to the tribute to Christopher he delivered Tuesday before a crowd of thousands, Martinez has been willing to show his raw and devastating grief to the world. He has made himself the gnarled and anguished face of our broken system — the lives that it takes and the lives that it ruins. His vulnerability and righteous, focused anger is unlike anything we’ve seen in response to a mass shooting.

And it should scare the shit out of the National Rifle Association, the gun lobby and the cowardly politicians who use these deadly weapons as literal and figurative political props.

It isn’t just the force of Martinez’s emotions or political conviction that make him powerful. He is currently shouldering the unimaginable grief of being yet another parent who has lost yet another child in yet another mass shooting. He has seen this happen before, he knows the political script that’s already playing out. He has listened as gun apologists — time and again — urge the nation not to “politicize” a national tragedy out of respect for the families, and then watched them turn on these same families in order to protect our deadly — and immensely profitable — culture of guns. And he’s using it. All of it.

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NRA finally meets its match: Why Richard Martinez should have them shaking (Original Post) DonViejo May 2014 OP
Yes, he's seen what happened to parents from Columbine to Newcastle who speak out against guns, what hlthe2b May 2014 #1
His raw emotions are formidable. They are real and I respect that. aikoaiko May 2014 #2
"Not one more" is a worthy goal, "doing something" has never been done, so the goal is just fine. Fred Sanders May 2014 #4
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Keep telling yourself that. HangOnKids May 2014 #9
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Good Luck To You HangOnKids May 2014 #14
Well, that was a short billh58 May 2014 #73
Welcome back. billh58 May 2014 #31
close Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #65
Really? flamin lib May 2014 #8
Most of the victims or family of victims are dropping off. aikoaiko May 2014 #16
First they ignore you, then they make fun of you, then they attack you and then you win. Ghandi flamin lib May 2014 #20
Gandhi was right about that working -- sometimes. aikoaiko May 2014 #24
I hope you have sweet dreams about that $75 million HangOnKids May 2014 #27
Since when is being paid SwankyXomb May 2014 #38
Is this a rhetorical question? aikoaiko May 2014 #41
NRA money in politics is thwarting the will of most Americans who poll overwhelmingly CTyankee May 2014 #49
I think the pendulum can swing again, but I don't the pendulum will find equililbrium aikoaiko May 2014 #51
political systems that don't respond to the will of the people have historically bad outcomes CTyankee May 2014 #56
Yes, but gun control doesn't seem that important to the majority aikoaiko May 2014 #60
We just haven't outnumbered them in Congress yet, due to the NRA money CTyankee May 2014 #66
+100 billh58 May 2014 #74
And while we are at it, why is it OK for Congress to prevent a government study of the issue? CTyankee May 2014 #89
Similar to the ALEC-backed push to hide what's in fracking fluid klook May 2014 #91
Really? flamin lib May 2014 #42
If that is meaningful action to you, then I'm happy for you. aikoaiko May 2014 #43
No, you said they all went away and that is wishful thinking bullshit. nt flamin lib May 2014 #44
I said they were "dropping off" aikoaiko May 2014 #45
Leave no nit un picked! nt flamin lib May 2014 #50
The Congress has stood in the way of the will of the people on gun control. CTyankee May 2014 #55
What you don't seem to understand... tosh May 2014 #94
I've heard this type of argument before aikoaiko May 2014 #97
I Agree nt Crabby Appleton May 2014 #87
A righteous man with a righteous cause and a firm grasp on politicial realities IS a great force. Fred Sanders May 2014 #3
Beautifully stated. blue neen May 2014 #76
The problem he will run into is that half the people in this massacre were killed by a blade JJChambers May 2014 #6
And how many were injured with a gun? nt flamin lib May 2014 #10
Please take it to another site HangOnKids May 2014 #11
We have a couple here right now .... they will get bored and go away etherealtruth May 2014 #21
I think he will not stay long! nt Logical May 2014 #37
It makes JJ uncomfortable, so we need to change the subject. Hekate May 2014 #30
Drop that BS, no sane gun owner says a knife is as easy to mass murder..... Logical May 2014 #33
I wish we could ban gun apologists. nt valerief May 2014 #40
I find "ignore" very satisfying northoftheborder May 2014 #62
I do, too. However, every year or so I clear out all my Ignores, so now I have to valerief May 2014 #72
Which tells us how easily, and quickly, he was able to double his "kill total" villager May 2014 #53
The politicians will screw it up hack89 May 2014 #7
The legislation after Sandy Hook was filibustered by flamin lib May 2014 #13
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2014 #15
There was no filibuster. Harry Reid agreed to a 60 vote threshold for each measure hack89 May 2014 #17
we can see it in our little microcosm (DU) etherealtruth May 2014 #18
"My son is dead. Brigid May 2014 #19
the NRA already laid into Malala Yousafzai and Gabby Giffords MisterP May 2014 #22
Probably should quit making movies glorifying teen murder like Hunger Games too. n/t jtuck004 May 2014 #23
What? mac56 May 2014 #26
Damn right I'm serious. Our culture is broken. We learn our culture partly from the stories we are jtuck004 May 2014 #29
Violence can be found in PG movies, LadyHawkAZ May 2014 #47
Oh, absolutely. And the media is a show, a circus. We should all know better than jtuck004 May 2014 #82
Really? mac56 May 2014 #48
We do not have "unrestricted access to weapons". former9thward May 2014 #64
Did anything restrict the asshole in Santa Barbara from getting his hands on guns and ammo? mac56 May 2014 #68
What law do you propose that would have stopped him? former9thward May 2014 #69
No way, chum. Not going there. mac56 May 2014 #71
They can't Duckhunter935 May 2014 #77
Nice story. Do you write fiction for a living? Notice that the character starts as a "psychopath". jtuck004 May 2014 #80
Sad that you won't be reading me or replying anymore. mac56 May 2014 #88
FFS, see the 1976 Logan's Run plot. And I shot dozens of my friends.... Logical May 2014 #34
You deep thinker you. n/t jtuck004 May 2014 #36
You got nothing, I understand! nt Logical May 2014 #39
You know, and I say this because I care, there are many brands of decaffeinated coffee jtuck004 May 2014 #83
Ahhhhh.......nap time? nt Logical May 2014 #85
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2014 #67
I wish this man's defiance would make a difference..... Swede Atlanta May 2014 #25
It tears my soul get the red out May 2014 #28
By the same logic, should I give up drinking because of deaths from DUI Travis_0004 May 2014 #84
God bless and God speed, sir Hekate May 2014 #32
I predict nothing will change!!! nt Logical May 2014 #35
But the other side has Joe the Plumber jmondine May 2014 #46
It's always been sickening how the fetishists, even here, claim empathy for victims "politicizes" villager May 2014 #52
I love the guy BeyondGeography May 2014 #54
As usual... Helen Borg May 2014 #57
I think the NRA is quite frightened by the history of MADD. They Should be. dballance May 2014 #58
and still tens of thousands die every year Duckhunter935 May 2014 #78
The difference is that the approach to reduce drunk driving blueridge3210 May 2014 #79
Gun registration & background checks are hardly analogous klook May 2014 #92
No, but attempting to address flash suppressors, magazine capacity, barrel shrouds blueridge3210 May 2014 #93
Agreed - for the most part. klook May 2014 #95
Real solutions should be the goal. blueridge3210 May 2014 #96
You're missing the big difference. aikoaiko May 2014 #98
nothing will come of it jollyreaper2112 May 2014 #59
I hope that is true, his words hit me, they were gut wrenching. Horrific club he now belongs too. Jefferson23 May 2014 #61
Nothing will come of it. sellitman May 2014 #63
It's about the "tipping point". CincyDem May 2014 #70
I got one freaking word for those who claim "politics disrepects victims" Cha May 2014 #75
Nothing will change. Mz Pip May 2014 #81
Richard Martinez is making a difference LeftFieldMom May 2014 #86
The NRA can't handle defense perdita9 May 2014 #90

hlthe2b

(102,189 posts)
1. Yes, he's seen what happened to parents from Columbine to Newcastle who speak out against guns, what
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:14 PM
May 2014

was done to Gabby Giffords. He's seen the ugly attitudes of vehement gunner so unapologetically voiced by the ugly teabagger poiser plumber, "your dead kids don’t trump my Constitutional rights" Samuel Wurzelbacher. He's seen the sick response of open carry activists terrorizing children and adult patrons with their AR15s in restaurants. He's seen the sick tactics of NRA and its even more extreme sister organizations.

He knows what he is getting into. I an only hope the need to honor his son's memory will give him the strength to endure the hateful attacks underway.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
2. His raw emotions are formidable. They are real and I respect that.
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:24 PM
May 2014

But I doubt he will be the messiah the gun restrictionist side is hoping for.

I think the biggest issue will be his early statements where he doesn't appear to blame the shooter. "Not one more" is an impossible goal. "Do something" is not an agenda.

The grief, anguish, and sorrow appears to sustain political action from parents for a little over 1 year. Its not that the pain isn't there, its just that it takes its toll on them. And their families need them back.

You could see it happen with the Sandy Hook parents.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
4. "Not one more" is a worthy goal, "doing something" has never been done, so the goal is just fine.
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:29 PM
May 2014

The Sandy Hook parents have never given up as you allude to, it is the politicians fearful of the NRA that have given up
and they need yet more kicks in the butt to do the overwhelming will of Americans on sensible gun controls, as shown by poll after poll after poll.

Response to aikoaiko (Reply #2)

Response to HangOnKids (Reply #9)

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
65. close
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:58 PM
May 2014

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aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
16. Most of the victims or family of victims are dropping off.
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:03 PM
May 2014

You don't see Sandy Hook parents staging press releases anymore.

Sara Brady stopped participating long ago and now the small professional staff are paid to make press releases.

MDA was never really populated by Sandy Hook parents and if Bloomberg didn't step in to provide money they would be going away.

Every town doesn't do anything except maintain a website.

I will say that Gabby Giffords did put together a good organization and built funding sources, but she doesn't show up much anymore and they just spent and lost big in GA. I expect they'll hire more professional staff to do the heavy lifting,

flamin lib

(14,559 posts)
20. First they ignore you, then they make fun of you, then they attack you and then you win. Ghandi
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:24 PM
May 2014

I get updates on action items from Sandy Hook and from Gifford's and from Every town almost weekly.

The gun lobby has finally got ligitamate opposition and opposition with funding.

The times they are a changing. Dylan

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
24. Gandhi was right about that working -- sometimes.
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:38 PM
May 2014

I'm glad those emails are coming, but do you really think it is the victims or family of victims that are writing them?

My comments were about the grieving father, Mr. Martinez.

The times are changing but overall they have been changing for lessening restrictions.


Still I encourage you to donate all that you can. I think Gabby has about 8 -10 millions dollars on hand.

Mere dues provides the NRA with over 75 million every year and that doesn't even count the legislative action side.

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
49. NRA money in politics is thwarting the will of most Americans who poll overwhelmingly
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:56 PM
May 2014

FOR gun control. Do you think that is sustainable forever?

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
56. political systems that don't respond to the will of the people have historically bad outcomes
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:09 PM
May 2014

for those in power. Eventually, we know what happens...haven't we seen this movie before in the vast sweep of history?

It will be interesting to watch our own sweep of history when the next president (a Democrat) gets another 8 years and the almost certain opportunity to appoint enough SCOTUS and other federal judges to add to the number of justices favoring a reversal of Heller, perhaps even getting a reversal of the "money is speech" decision, thereby limiting how much NRA money can influence our federal lawmakers. I hope so.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
60. Yes, but gun control doesn't seem that important to the majority
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:20 PM
May 2014

I acknowledge that it polls well, but when asked to list priorities its way down the list.

That's why the failure of post-Sandy Hook was met with a 'meh" instead of massive protests.


CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
66. We just haven't outnumbered them in Congress yet, due to the NRA money
Thu May 29, 2014, 05:17 PM
May 2014

stranglehold and the 60 vote "majority" idea in the Senate. Let's get back to the real majority -- I mean actual, mathematically -- and you've got a different story...no more thumb on the scale with the 60 vote crap.

I can tell you my personal experience with gun violence in my own family. The shooting that killed my niece was something my brother never got over. He was never very politically active but after her shocking death at age 24, he just went into his own world...and drank. A series of strokes finally killed him at age 62. Since that happened I have learned that many marriages where there is the loss of a child often fail. Grief over such a wretched loss tears apart people's lives. It does not surprise me that the Sandy Hook families experience problems the rest of us never have to deal with.

As for the polling among people who do not take action even tho they favor gun control, they vote on many different issues in their lives, if they have no personal stake as I do. They are beset with their own personal economic situation, wages kept miserably low, unions being diminished, voter ID crushing their political participation, education suffering...anything and everything to keep them down and out of the political picture. Plus, they are multi-focused and the gun enthusiasts are single focused. Liberals have many issues they have high interest in: just look at DU's rich forums and groups...what a widely diverse little universe we have here, so typical of the liberal progressive!

It is no surprise to me that a small but fanatical minority on the gun issue currently prevails in our sick political system. Time, demographic change, and the possibility that more of the 99% have a shot at a better future are the keys to getting lots of changes in our political system, gun control INCLUDED.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
74. +100
Thu May 29, 2014, 08:57 PM
May 2014

the future of meaningful gun control is improving and growing on a daily basis as more and more Americans discover how they've been lied to and deceived by the right-wing gun lobby and its apologists. The phony message of "protecting the Constitution" is actually a smoke and mirrors game of hiding behind the Second Amendment while buying political influence for profits and greed.

The American people are saying enough.

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
89. And while we are at it, why is it OK for Congress to prevent a government study of the issue?
Fri May 30, 2014, 08:33 AM
May 2014

Is it verboten now just to STUDY the gun violence problem in this country?

How does the insanity of such an effort ---"no, you can't even LOOK at the issue!" make any sense?

klook

(12,153 posts)
91. Similar to the ALEC-backed push to hide what's in fracking fluid
Fri May 30, 2014, 11:50 AM
May 2014

... if they can quash objective study and analysis, the gun lobby can continue to say their opposition is exaggerating or imagining the problem.

The conflation of gun registration with universal gun confiscation is a prime example of the rhetorical tools the gun lobby uses to promote their agenda -- which of course is ultimately about enhancing the profitability of the weapons and ammunition industry. As noted elsewhere, An estimated 20% of gun owners possess 65% of the nation's guns, according to a Harvard University survey published in 2007.

Keeping that customer base buying more is the way to keep the weapons industry growing.

(FYI - Fracking fluid reference)

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
45. I said they were "dropping off"
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:48 PM
May 2014

I will admit that Mark Barden has not dropped off the pursuit of gun control.

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
55. The Congress has stood in the way of the will of the people on gun control.
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:06 PM
May 2014

What happens to political systems when this is the case? What does history teach us?

tosh

(4,422 posts)
94. What you don't seem to understand...
Fri May 30, 2014, 12:47 PM
May 2014

is the ripple effect of each and every shooting.

Each and every victim of any kind of shooting has family and friends who see things differently from that point on.

It is not a contest or a game that is "won or lost".

Individuals and groups that so value their "2a rights" have wasted precious time in which they could have/should have been working toward a solution to these gun related deaths and tragedies. Instead they are trying to advance their "causes".

Sooner than you think, they will be left out of the discussion altogether.

Americans are fed up and will work on solutions without them.

Many, many, many of us don't give a flying hoot about your "2a rights" and the ripples keep spreading.

The organizations of which you speak understand this.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
97. I've heard this type of argument before
Fri May 30, 2014, 02:02 PM
May 2014

"If you don't do something now, something worse will happen legislatively."

It shouldn't be a game, but unfortunately most of the main players on both sides act as if it is.

There is never a lasting truce or compromise. Each side is always pushing for more restrictions or less. Beginning around 1968 the pro-restrictionist side prevailed for 25 years, and then after 1994 and 20 years forward the anti-restrictionist side gained ground. And here we are.

Its a game of Red Queen: each side has to run as fast as they can just to maintain their current status.

Who knows when the pendulum will swing and in what direction. And yes, lives and civil liberties are at stake.




Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
3. A righteous man with a righteous cause and a firm grasp on politicial realities IS a great force.
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:26 PM
May 2014

The NRA and all the apologists that will viciously attack anyone merely even mentioning background checks for starters will have a hard time with this righteous man with a cause. But they will, it is all they have, they are waiting for the opening.....they are evil people, they will do evil things as is in their nature.

 

JJChambers

(1,115 posts)
6. The problem he will run into is that half the people in this massacre were killed by a blade
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:43 PM
May 2014

Not by a gun. If Newtown couldn't bring about gun control, I seriously doubt anything will happen with this case.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
21. We have a couple here right now .... they will get bored and go away
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:30 PM
May 2014

How much effort or intellect does it take to write 'guns good" (and various iterations ) over and over.

* I am not talking about folk that are gun advocates that participate on the board on a multitude of subjects and hold liberal positions on a variety of subjects. I am talking about the folk that here solely to extoll the virtues of guns

Hekate

(90,616 posts)
30. It makes JJ uncomfortable, so we need to change the subject.
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:05 PM
May 2014

My statement is not performance art.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
33. Drop that BS, no sane gun owner says a knife is as easy to mass murder.....
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:08 PM
May 2014

With as a gun.

You expose your true goal more every week.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
72. I do, too. However, every year or so I clear out all my Ignores, so now I have to
Thu May 29, 2014, 07:39 PM
May 2014

build it back up again.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
7. The politicians will screw it up
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:45 PM
May 2014

instead of crafting a limited legislation package that they know has wide public support, they will not miss the opportunity to propose every pet gun control measure they can. They will screw it up like they did post Sandy Hook.


Richard Martinez's grief and anger will be wasted.

Response to flamin lib (Reply #13)

hack89

(39,171 posts)
17. There was no filibuster. Harry Reid agreed to a 60 vote threshold for each measure
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:04 PM
May 2014

the votes simply were not there, even among the Democrats.

A wrenching national search for solutions to the violence that left 20 children dead in Newtown, Conn., all but ended Wednesday after the Senate defeated several measures to expand gun control. In rapid succession, a bipartisan compromise to expand background checks for gun buyers, a ban on assault weapons and a ban on high-capacity gun magazines all failed to get the 60 votes needed under an agreement between both parties. Senators also turned back Republican proposals to expand permission to carry concealed weapons and to focus law enforcement efforts on prosecuting gun crimes.

The action on Wednesday was initially supposed to be only the first series of votes in a debate to take days if not weeks. But as the measures’ chances faded this week, Senate leaders decided to rush the process, reaching a bipartisan agreement to hold nine votes in succession, each with a 60-vote threshold for passage.

Using the 60-vote hurdle so early in the process allowed Democrats to prevent the passage of an amendment mandating that any state with a concealed-weapons law, no matter how rigorous, would have to recognize the concealed-weapons permit of residents from any other state. The amendment received 57 votes in favor, including those of 12 Democrats, and 43 votes against.

The bipartisan measure, which had appeared to have a strong chance of passage, received 55 votes before Mr. Reid changed his vote to “no” to preserve the parliamentary right to bring the measure up again. Four Republicans voted “yes”: Patrick J. Toomey of Pennsylvania, a co-author of the legislation; John McCain of Arizona; Mark Steven Kirk of Illinois; and Susan Collins of Maine. An equal number of Democrats voted “no”: Mark Begich of Alaska, Mark Pryor of Arkansas, Max Baucus of Montana and Heidi Heitkamp of North Dakota. All are from states that Mr. Obama lost by wide margins last fall, and all but Ms. Heitkamp face difficult re-election campaigns in 2014.

The assault weapons vote was 40 in favor and 60 against. The magazine ban fell with 46 in favor and 54 against.


http://www.nytimes.com/2013/04/18/us/politics/senate-obama-gun-control.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
18. we can see it in our little microcosm (DU)
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:04 PM
May 2014

Richard Martinez is resonating ... along with the other groups have have picked up steam ... I look to the patterns here. When we see new members sign up to a reportedly liberal site solely to extoll the virtues of "gun rights" (ineloquently and inarticulately), but staying on task, no interest in posting on any other subject, no real political opinions expressed .... just the task at hand... "no limits on guns" ... "any attempts to discuss gun violence = bad"

There really does appear to be a slowly moving sea change, I am finding more and more folk that are "apolitical" or have had no opinions, now thinking more and more about this ... and expressing an interest.

none of our enumerated rights are absolute, most of them have considerable limits.

Sadly, Mr. Martinez' poignant pleas are helping change the discourse

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
19. "My son is dead.
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:18 PM
May 2014

There is nothing you could do to me that is worse than that."

I think this article is right: Mr. Martinez is something new in the gun control battle. I think he felt the way he expressed for a while -- and then the worst happened. I'm hoping this might finally turn the corner on getting effective gun control legislation in this country.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
22. the NRA already laid into Malala Yousafzai and Gabby Giffords
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:30 PM
May 2014

that should've driven out all their membership and got them kicked off everything but the Political Cesspool--but like with Santorum saying Protestants weren't Christian or Coulter mocking 9-11 widows IOKIYAR (IOKIYAC?)
they're in the public eye because they 1) protect big profit or 2) buttress a system that protects big profit

mac56

(17,566 posts)
26. What?
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:46 PM
May 2014

Are you serious? Or maybe you forgot your sarcasm icon?

People all over the world see those movies. Hardly any of them shoot people up like we do in this country.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
29. Damn right I'm serious. Our culture is broken. We learn our culture partly from the stories we are
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:57 PM
May 2014

told, and today many of those come from movies and television. That is why we rate violence on tv shows and movies and forbid kids from seeing this shit. If it had no effect, there would be no need for a rating system, eh?

Try reading through murderers interviews, or even just those who assault others, especially the younger ones. One would have to be blind or an anti-knowledge Teabagger to miss or ignore the reality of thousands of interview of kids watching violent games over and over an then hurting people. Those cases are documented in police departments all over the country.

And how many people who have seen it have the unique intersection of serious psychological problems and a daddy who can keep you in BMWs and guns?

The argument above would be like saying everyone who smokes cigarettes must die early because cigarettes kill, yet we know it is only a fraction of smokers who actually do, so they must not be as dangerous.

Every movie or book or person doesn't influence everyone, but to ignore the possibility is just one more reason we keep murdering each other.






LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
47. Violence can be found in PG movies,
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:53 PM
May 2014

cartoon violence in G rated. Nudity is PG-13 and up.

Our society treats violence in media as more normal than breasts.

That being said, I think the media treatment is a case of art imitating life (or in this case culture) rather than the other way around.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
82. Oh, absolutely. And the media is a show, a circus. We should all know better than
Thu May 29, 2014, 10:09 PM
May 2014

to give it the credibility we do, but perhaps we prefer being fooled to living in our painful reality, or taking on the challenge to change it.

“Through TV and moving pictures a child may see more violence in thirty minutes than the average adult experiences in a lifetime. What children see on the screen is violence as an almost casual commonplace of daily living. Violence becomes the fundamental principle of society, the natural law of humanity. Killing is as common as taking a walk, a gun more natural than an umbrella. Children learn to take pride in force and violence and to feel ashamed of ordinary sympathy. They are encouraged to forget that people have feelings.”

Psychiatrist Fredric Wertham

I'm not blaming it on any media by itself because most of us see that stuff and don't turn all Rambo on strangers. There are likely several factors, and included in that is an impaired thinking, or perhaps even a pathology.

There are too many loose guns, but I grew up in homes where guns were piled in the corner, and it hasn't been until the last few years that a younger and perhaps more fearful generation has started picking them up and killing multiple total strangers with such frequency. We should also not ignore that this kind of stuff has been happening in neighborhoods with low incomes, especially where there people of color, for some time, yet it seems that unless white kids get gunned down nobody gets all that upset. So perhaps there is an element of racism as well, which perhaps explains the fear which drives the accumulation of guns in the first place. We start to stray from his responsibility, but if he really was sick those who must solve this HAVE to look elsewhere it would seem.

Since he is gone we may never really know why it went this way, but here is a kid who, perhaps, really wasn't shown the love and attention one would think. On the other hand, by virtue of profits on movies, one of which glorified teenagers murdering each other for the entertainment of the 1%, he was kept in BMWs, guns, and pizza.

What more could a kid want?

What gets me the most is that we ignore the very real needs of people who need medical assistance for their heads. There are huge numbers of mentally impaired people in prison, where we seem to prefer them instead of treatment.

And instead of paying them to help us solve these problems, we pay psychologists to learn how to more effectively torture other human beings...


"Dr. Bruce Jessen, a senior military psychologist with offices in Spokane, had a key role in expanding the controversial use of torture against enemy combatants, according to a report released Thursday by U.S. Sens. Carl Levin and John McCain, ranking members of the Senate Armed Services Committee."

Here.

No wonder we have mass killings.

mac56

(17,566 posts)
48. Really?
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:54 PM
May 2014

Movies are why a fucking psychopath was able to get his hands on easily-acquired weaponry and slaughter innocents?

Movies?

Not unrestricted access to weapons? Not a lack of meaningful background checks?

Movies? The same movies that are seen all over the world in countries where virtually no gun deaths take place?

Your contortionist skills would put a gymnast to shame.

former9thward

(31,961 posts)
64. We do not have "unrestricted access to weapons".
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:56 PM
May 2014

CA has one of the stronger background checks in the U.S. Your attempts to throw out strawmen fail.

mac56

(17,566 posts)
68. Did anything restrict the asshole in Santa Barbara from getting his hands on guns and ammo?
Thu May 29, 2014, 05:29 PM
May 2014

Clearly not.

Nice attempt, though.

mac56

(17,566 posts)
71. No way, chum. Not going there.
Thu May 29, 2014, 07:04 PM
May 2014

I've already resigned myself to the understanding that trigger-humpers run the show, and nothing is ever going to change.

IOW, we are all supremely fucked.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
77. They can't
Thu May 29, 2014, 09:35 PM
May 2014

you ever notice that when asked a straight simple question, they never can answer it because they do not have an answer.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
80. Nice story. Do you write fiction for a living? Notice that the character starts as a "psychopath".
Thu May 29, 2014, 09:42 PM
May 2014

Then it suddenly moves to advocacy with a bunch of the supporting story missing. According to your narrative the kid was sick. A psychopath. If he was sick there is no point in hypothetical which posit him as rational, and I won't waste my time. One could, by ignoring the available evidence which appears to point to that, but, much like the little kids at the short table lift their shrill little voices in a hearty round of name-calling and mud slinging, it's always easier to be attracted by the shiny things. But it really doesn't make things all better. And they are annoying.

"Faced with the choice between changing one's mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof."
-John Kenneth Galbraith

If he was a psychopath, which the chronicle above states, (which I doubt in total - I think it was another disorder, and he was very, pathologically, a little afraid and a little dead inside - like a dog who has been left out in the yard for years with little to no human contact) it gives short shrift to that most likely proximal cause. Such a lack of empathy indicates one might use any available weapon, and, indeed, he used a knife and at least one gun. We have bankers who also display that extreme lack of empathy, like psychopaths, who may well be responsible for the deaths of at least scores of people via suicide and heart failure and family murder from desperation according to CDC, Census, and Justice and police department reports. , - one has to wonder if the extreme lack of empathy qualifies them as psychopaths too? If so, we are probably fucking lucky this kid didn't take up accounting. But I digress...

You also disrespect and sweep under the bus the three that were stabbed to death in your rush to get on to the anti-gun rally. <--- and for that reason I won't be reading you any longer. I'm not that cold.

The kid was sick, and everyone missed every opportunity, if there was one, to keep everyone else safe by committing someone who was making threats and ill.

I'm not against the regulation of guns. I am against an ignorant and stupid rush to bring the torches and pitchforks to bear on the monster, the one the crowd has determined is guilty. Most times they are fools, will get other innocent people hurt, and in the process become no better than the psychopath.

Bye.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
34. FFS, see the 1976 Logan's Run plot. And I shot dozens of my friends....
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:11 PM
May 2014

With cap guns in the 70s.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
83. You know, and I say this because I care, there are many brands of decaffeinated coffee
Thu May 29, 2014, 10:12 PM
May 2014

that are just as tasty as the real thing.

bye.

Response to jtuck004 (Reply #23)

 

Swede Atlanta

(3,596 posts)
25. I wish this man's defiance would make a difference.....
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:42 PM
May 2014

but if Newtown, the Colorado and Florida movie theater shootings and those that occur every other day have not changed minds, nothing will.

The gun crowd care not about life. I'm sure they are the ones opposed to abortion but for the death penalty. They are opposed to any funding for HeadStart and other programs to help those in need. They claim to be "pro-life" but their actions are "pro-death".

They love their guns. Their guns compensate for a feeling of inferiority, for personal inadequacies and take on the form of a god. They claim they love god but given a choice between their gun and their god they would go with the gun.

It is a cult mentality for which there is no known cure.

get the red out

(13,460 posts)
28. It tears my soul
Thu May 29, 2014, 02:51 PM
May 2014

Every time I see him on TV and hear him speak. If these gun fanatics can see Mr. Martinez and still only care about their GUNS GUNS GUNS; they are psychopaths.

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
84. By the same logic, should I give up drinking because of deaths from DUI
Thu May 29, 2014, 10:14 PM
May 2014

I like a beer every now and then. Statistically 28 people are going to be killed today due to DUI's.

If we want to save lives, banning booze would save more lives than banning guns, so why don't we start there?

jmondine

(1,649 posts)
46. But the other side has Joe the Plumber
Thu May 29, 2014, 03:50 PM
May 2014

I'm sure his "Your dead kids" comment will generate lots of sympathy, right?

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
52. It's always been sickening how the fetishists, even here, claim empathy for victims "politicizes"
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:01 PM
May 2014

...the latest senseless slaughter, all while they are busy -- before the blood even cools on the sidewalk-- posting their various tortured legal arguments for the ongoing proliferation of war weapons on our streets...

BeyondGeography

(39,367 posts)
54. I love the guy
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:04 PM
May 2014

Last edited Thu May 29, 2014, 04:34 PM - Edit history (1)

This country needs to be screamed at sometimes. His feelings for his son, his only child, are pure and his anger is righteous. His comments about the unredeemed suffering of Sandy Hook have been heartfelt. I don't know what will come of it, but I love him.

Helen Borg

(3,963 posts)
57. As usual...
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:09 PM
May 2014

All it takes is one very determined person to change everything. The vast majority of people want this kind of nonsense to end. They just need a catalyst. It could be this parent, I don't know.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
58. I think the NRA is quite frightened by the history of MADD. They Should be.
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:10 PM
May 2014

MADD, or "Mothers Against Drunk Driving" had a profound effect on the laws in this country with regard to driving while intoxicated.

It's very difficult to slam a grieving parent whose child has been killed by indiscretion on the part of another person and when that indiscretion is unequivocally supported by a lobby like the NRA.

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
79. The difference is that the approach to reduce drunk driving
Thu May 29, 2014, 09:37 PM
May 2014

was targeted towards those who drove while incapacitated. It did not attempt to demonize those who drank responsibly or drove fast cars responsibly. The current approach to gun control, if applied to the DUI issue, would be to attempt to regulate mag wheels, ragtops and alcohol concentration in beverages instead of focusing on the bad actors who operate motor vehicles while intoxicated.

klook

(12,153 posts)
92. Gun registration & background checks are hardly analogous
Fri May 30, 2014, 11:55 AM
May 2014

to regulation of the ancillary issues you list.

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
93. No, but attempting to address flash suppressors, magazine capacity, barrel shrouds
Fri May 30, 2014, 12:12 PM
May 2014

bayonet lugs, pistol grips, etc. certainly are.

klook

(12,153 posts)
95. Agreed - for the most part.
Fri May 30, 2014, 01:26 PM
May 2014

Easy access to high-capacity magazines makes it a lot easier to shoot a bunch of people in a short amount of time. So I'm happy to restrict purchases of those.

Back to the drunk driving analogy, though -- although drunk drivers do occasionally injure and kill people by driving into buildings or into crowds of pedestrians, they're mostly restricted to roads and streets. Malevolent shooters are a lot more mobile. So the scenarios in which they can inflict mayhem are more varied and harder to control. Therefore regulation of weapons and restrictions on their use require a different approach.

On a broader level, I think we all need to take a look at societies where firearm violence is less prevalent and determine how we can be more like them. Allowing everybody to be armed all the time with all the weaponry they want is not the answer. Neither is pretending that we can confiscate every weapon and create a violence-free utopia. I am interested in learning more about real solutions.

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
96. Real solutions should be the goal.
Fri May 30, 2014, 01:47 PM
May 2014

Most progress was made with the DUI issue by changing the culture regarding impaired driving. My main point was that it was recognized that the problem was not with the law-abiding people regardless of alcohol consumption or type of vehicle they drove. Similarly, more progress can be made regarding firearm violence without attacking law abiding gun owners or trying to ban weapons based on cosmetic features. As 99+% of the lawful gun owners are not causing problems the issue clearly is who has the guns, not which guns are owned. On a side note, these open-carry activists are causing more problems than they are solving; absent a major cultural change, open carry of long guns in non-rural settings is never going to be regarded as normal.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
98. You're missing the big difference.
Fri May 30, 2014, 02:18 PM
May 2014

MADD went after drunk driving and not drinking and not driving. There were proponents of interceding when someone was about to do both. That was the indiscretion. Not drinking, per se, and not driving, per se. If they did they would be easy to dismiss.

Likewise, gun control advocates are easy to dismiss or fight when they go after lawful gun ownership.

The NRA does not support criminal activities with guns.

jollyreaper2112

(1,941 posts)
59. nothing will come of it
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:20 PM
May 2014

I thought we might have had enough emotional backing after Sandy Hook but the NRA and GOP flunkies shut that shit down. We're not getting change.

sellitman

(11,606 posts)
63. Nothing will come of it.
Thu May 29, 2014, 04:41 PM
May 2014

Until we take $$ out of politics it will ALWAYS rule. Unfortunately we not only haven't done that the Supreme Court has made it worse.

Gun nuts control everything.

I see no way its going to change. Once Newtown came and went I pretty much resigned myself to the cold facts that mass gun murders are acceptable.

CincyDem

(6,346 posts)
70. It's about the "tipping point".
Thu May 29, 2014, 05:41 PM
May 2014


I hope his loss can become the catalytic event the pushes us over the tipping point toward sanity on the "right to life". And I use that term purposeful...why is it that we're more concerned with the right to life of an unborn but we seem to have to commitment to a right to life for Christopher. At what point that the right to carry a gun trump the right to life.

Instead of sitting on the couch for the Dateline interview and trying to stoic - his raw emotion is so powerful.

Please please let this be the tipping point.

Cha

(297,029 posts)
75. I got one freaking word for those who claim "politics disrepects victims"
Thu May 29, 2014, 09:12 PM
May 2014

Benghazi.

And, I was thinking the same thing from reading Richard Martinez' heartbreaking words.. the murdering nra has met their match

Thank you, Don

Mz Pip

(27,434 posts)
81. Nothing will change.
Thu May 29, 2014, 10:04 PM
May 2014

All the postcards in the world won't matter. NRA enablers need to be voted out of office. Good luck with that.

LeftFieldMom

(13 posts)
86. Richard Martinez is making a difference
Thu May 29, 2014, 10:40 PM
May 2014

As those that lost loved ones and family members in Aurora, Sandy Hook and every other shooting that has rendered ordinary families filled with bone crushing grief and unabated anger when their voice for change is ignored.

The tide is slowly turning. These voices of anguish are weighing upon the general populous of this country. I think there is a growing fear that anyone's family can be torn apart in a heartbeat. Those that have been impacted like Richard Martinez and his family and countless other families are echoing in a way that builds a powerful if not terrifying narrative that no one is safe.

It may not happen with Martinez's passionate plea, but we can believe his voice along with so many others will move the consensus to change the gun culture we live in now.

perdita9

(1,144 posts)
90. The NRA can't handle defense
Fri May 30, 2014, 11:05 AM
May 2014

They really can't. That's why they pushed for so long the idea that "this isn't the time to talk about gun control" every time there was a mass murder.

Well, that's to groups like Moms Demand Action, those days are over. Now, people speak out. Now, people demand solutions.

Soon, the NRA is going to be dealing with the blood they've helped to spill.

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