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Both the strength of this woman and the power of her statement are astoundingFound on the Facebook page of Eric Eztli
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=396893077004339&set=a.192892457404403.55840.100000509517296&type=1&theater
Edited to post link to Eric's facebook
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)lsewpershad
(2,620 posts)mazzarro
(3,450 posts)madokie
(51,076 posts)This could be any one of the girls I know, sisters, friends any of them.
siligut
(12,272 posts)Allowing the perpetrators and their enablers to define the terms is like assigning the fox to rule the hen house.
arthritisR_US
(7,286 posts)abelenkpe
(9,933 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)niyad
(113,213 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,560 posts)ceile
(8,692 posts)SalviaBlue
(2,915 posts)Citizen Worker
(1,785 posts)but that women who are asked for it. Her reasoning, because it had never happened to her despite the fact that "I have been the only woman in a roomful of Hell's Angels and not one of them tried to do anything."
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)And, in this society, we are trained to be obsessed with being superior to other people...and to believe that there's no such thing as an innocent victim.
Some days, this whole freaking country seems like it's a giant cycle of abuse.
CrispyQ
(36,442 posts)Fuckin' A.
SemperEadem
(8,053 posts)Reading that makes me glad I was born me and not her
One really would have to be messed up in the head to articulate that to anyone; I'm quite sure she's said that to someone who has been raped.
Being in a roomful of Hell's Angels isn't the litmus test for who is prone to rape.
What a jerk she was for saying that to you.
Alcibiades
(5,061 posts)who are basically good people, but frat boys.
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)And I know it wouldn't help, but I feel an incredible urge to kick the living #$%@ out of not only her rapist, but her boyfriend and her so-called "friends".
Christ...what is WRONG with us?
libodem
(19,288 posts)That makes us want to kick Afghanistan's ass for making their women wear burkas. Holding women responsible for being too sexy for their clothes, because it gives men the wrong, idea (that women ask for it by breathing, and we want it because we showed up).
Projection.
ellenfl
(8,660 posts)'if you party 'til 3 a.m. you are liable to attract trouble' meme all of the time. i always asked the guy who said that to me if he was planning to do the deed. pissed me off to no end. especially since i am a night owl and have seen more sunsets from the back side than from the front.
my father used to say i would never find a good man in a bar. i would ask him what that said about me, who loved the nightlife. my two best men WERE found in bars and i am still with the last one.
we need more (progressive/liberal) women leading this country.
ellen fl
Flatulo
(5,005 posts)FlaGranny
(8,361 posts)met my husband in a bar 44 years ago. We're still happily married.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Society is deeply misogynist. There are a few bright spots, but mostly we are all indoctrinated to believe men are the default human beings and women are subordinates, the sex class.
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)We need to start teaching our sons RIGHT NOW that rape is never acceptable. Only consent is acceptable. And it should be enthusiastic consent. That's it.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)4 of 5 young women (18 and younger) felt that their boyfriends had the right to slap them if they 'deserved it.'
Misogyny is strongly correlated with patriarchy--indeed, how can we expect our young male children to respect our young female children, when they are persistently taught that women are 'less than'? How can we expect our young female children to be strong and independent, when they are persistently taught that rapes, relationship violence, and sexual assaults are 'their fault'?
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Slutwalk is... show them this.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)People had objections to the name, not the goal.
marshall gaines
(347 posts)brave and on point. wonder what limbaugh would do with this statement? the jerk.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)nolabear
(41,958 posts)Thanks for posting. But I wish you didn't have to.
LiberalArkie
(15,708 posts)CrispyQ
(36,442 posts)Thanks for the link.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Numbers don't seem to be so effective at communicating how commonplace this is.
Quotes help people really get it.
gateley
(62,683 posts)than I'll ever be. Inspirational.
I hope she learns how many people she's touched by this.
arthritisR_US
(7,286 posts)so proud and blessed to have her. She has hit the nail dead on and put the impetus where it rightfully should be!
lupinella
(365 posts)This woman is my hero.
tallahasseedem
(6,716 posts)and could truly be a wonderful advocate for women!