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rdking647

(5,113 posts)
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 09:42 PM Jun 2014

sheba the cat... 1992-2014

today we made the vet trip no one want to make
we took our sheba in for the final time.
she was down to under 5 pounds and was having trouble walking

she was the queen of the household and my wifes baby girl.

good bye dear sheba we will miss you. until we meet again at the rainbow bridge.


as for us... i think its time for a tumbler of bourbon or two

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sheba the cat... 1992-2014 (Original Post) rdking647 Jun 2014 OP
{{{Sorry}}} shenmue Jun 2014 #1
What a long life. Enjoy the memories. eom Frustratedlady Jun 2014 #2
So sorry. SfromCanada Jun 2014 #3
... Skittles Jun 2014 #4
It's the walking difficulty that usually makes that decision for us. onehandle Jun 2014 #5
Hugs to the rdking647 family... Tikki Jun 2014 #6
A trip we all dread MFM008 Jun 2014 #7
So sorry Beaverhausen Jun 2014 #8
I'm sorry rdking BarbaRosa Jun 2014 #9
RIP little Sheba lunasun Jun 2014 #10
I've made that trip too many times. Curmudgeoness Jun 2014 #11
She'll be there in the shadows packman Jun 2014 #12
hugs to help through your grief. BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2014 #13
Oh god look at that cat sammythecat Jul 2014 #28
Sheba is with you now, purriing! DesertDiamond Jun 2014 #14
Oh, rd. I am so sorry! Solly Mack Jun 2014 #15
blessings and happy trails sheba! G_j Jun 2014 #16
She leaves a big hole in your hearts. oldandhappy Jun 2014 #17
So very sorry, such a difficult thing to do. greatlaurel Jun 2014 #18
That is the worst... MrMickeysMom Jun 2014 #19
Damn. So sorry to hear this, rdking647. calimary Jun 2014 #20
Somehow... nikto Jul 2014 #21
... sammythecat Jul 2014 #22
I am very sorry for your loss. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #23
I cannot imagine losing a 22 yr long companion irisblue Jul 2014 #24
No words or thoughts can make it easier, but I send you both... Moostache Jul 2014 #25
RIP, I Will Never Forget The Day I Had To Bury Snoopy, My Dalmatian, Whom I Loved Corey_Baker08 Jul 2014 #26
Have two. MADem Jul 2014 #27
I am so sorry. Are_grits_groceries Jul 2014 #29
I'm so sorry KT2000 Jul 2014 #30
It's so very hard, all my sympathies to you & your wife. countryjake Jul 2014 #31
Peace be with Sheba's people at this time. nt xchrom Jul 2014 #32
condolences and best wishes to you.... mike_c Jul 2014 #33
That was a good long life, I'm sure she's in Kitteh Heaven joeybee12 Jul 2014 #34
RIP, Sheba: a queen for a very long and much-loved reign indepat Jul 2014 #35
Tears from this old curmudgeon TheKentuckian Jul 2014 #36
I'm so sorry for your loss. MerryBlooms Jul 2014 #37
So sorry for your loss. Jawja Jul 2014 #38

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
4. ...
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 09:47 PM
Jun 2014

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
6. Hugs to the rdking647 family...
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 09:48 PM
Jun 2014



What a sweetheart, she was there a long time as part of your family.


Tikki

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
8. So sorry
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 09:53 PM
Jun 2014

Sheba had a long life. I'm sure she had a happy and loving home with you and your wife. She lives on in your hearts.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
11. I've made that trip too many times.
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 10:05 PM
Jun 2014

My condolences. Rejoice that you knew her.

Rest if peace, Sheba.

And peace to you and your wife.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
12. She'll be there in the shadows
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 11:14 PM
Jun 2014

and you'll see her as you turn your head. Pets fill the empty spaces and stay for awhile after they they leave us.

sammythecat

(3,568 posts)
28. Oh god look at that cat
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:43 AM
Jul 2014

This is a sad thread and by the time I responded I was really feeling low. I was scrolling up through the responses and that gif you have just cracked me up. I laughed out loud. That is a seriously scary move that cat has there. I see that and whatever problem we were having is totally forgotten on my end. Cat wins. Whatever he wants. The bed, the room, money, whatever.

i hope rdking could get a laugh as well, but maybe not today.

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
18. So very sorry, such a difficult thing to do.
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 11:43 PM
Jun 2014

Take care. Pets give us so much, while asking so little. for Sheba and to the rdking647 family.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
19. That is the worst...
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 11:50 PM
Jun 2014

And, how can you describe your love in doing it? Because she deserved you to be there with her until the rainbow bridge. I'm so sorry for your loss of dear little sheba. Please accept a warm embrace.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
20. Damn. So sorry to hear this, rdking647.
Mon Jun 30, 2014, 11:54 PM
Jun 2014

I'm so sorry. MAN, we've been through that, too. MISERABLE. The worst drive ever taken. The vet trip no one wants to make. No kidding. Many of us here at DU have had to bid a beloved pet a reluctant farewell lately. You're not alone. And you don't mourn alone, either.

 

nikto

(3,284 posts)
21. Somehow...
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:16 AM
Jul 2014

It is the loss of beloved pets that makes me hope there's an afterlife of some sort,
even more than the deaths of beloved people do.

Maybe that's weird.

But that's how I feel.

sammythecat

(3,568 posts)
22. ...
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:18 AM
Jul 2014

It's tough when the light goes out in something innocent and beautiful. It's really hard.

When death approaches I'm reminded of a line from a Lord Byron poem, "If I laugh at any mortal thing, 'tis only that I do not weep." I think of that too often for some reason.

What I do in situations like this is probably unhealthy. I try to keep it out of my mind as much as I can. I never forget but I avoid reminders. A lot of people find some comfort in looking at photos and talking about memories but for me it just brings back the end and the permanent loss. And regrets. Always regrets. We're never perfect in any of our relationships no matter how devoted we were. There's always something we could have done better even if there really wasn't.

I do apologize for such a gloomy response. Your post just really hit home with me. 22 years is a long time.

I don't have comforting words. I just don't know what to say, but you do have my sincerest empathy and sympathy. I know it hurts.

Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
23. I am very sorry for your loss.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:20 AM
Jul 2014

Sadly, my Tony died in my arms yesterday morning. I hope they meet up and have a wonderful time.

irisblue

(32,969 posts)
24. I cannot imagine losing a 22 yr long companion
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:28 AM
Jul 2014

sleep sweetly sheba, squirty the bobcat( dog do NOT mess with her) can show you the best perches to wait for your humans....

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
25. No words or thoughts can make it easier, but I send you both...
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:34 AM
Jul 2014

Words to encourage you to remember the many good years and love shared,
Thoughts for a grieving and recovery that leaves you only with those good memories in short order.

Corey_Baker08

(2,157 posts)
26. RIP, I Will Never Forget The Day I Had To Bury Snoopy, My Dalmatian, Whom I Loved
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:35 AM
Jul 2014

RIP Snoopy James 2000-2012

MADem

(135,425 posts)
27. Have two.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 12:42 AM
Jul 2014

I've got to say, you cared for that cat beautifully.

That's a good long life.

I've had a cat that made it to 21 (barely), another that made it to 20, but 22 years, and you had to help the poor thing over the bridge...that is a well-cared-for cat!

It sucks to lose a companion you've had for so long. So yeah, have two.

Toast a good life well lived. Mourn. Hang in there.

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
30. I'm so sorry
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 02:25 AM
Jul 2014

I know - it is so difficult but we do it for them. Peace to you and your wife. RIP Sheba girl.

Jawja

(3,233 posts)
38. So sorry for your loss.
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 01:29 PM
Jul 2014

I had to do the same for my kitty today.... She was 17 years old. I know how you are feeling.

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