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dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:36 PM Aug 2014

My bank wants to "protect" me by canceling my debit card

if I do not answer my home phone when they call
while I am running errands using my debit card.

Just got the letter today.



"In order to protect you from the inconvenience of debit card fraud, if your card is being used *outside your normal usage pattern*
we will contact you by phone to verify the use.
If we cannot reach you by phone, the card will be temporarily canceled.

In order to avoid the "inconvenience" of your card not working when needed, please let us know when you will be traveling or using the card out of your normal usage area.

Please fill out the information below and mail it back to us:

Your name
Your checking account number(s).
Your home and cell and work phone numbers ( I do not have a cell or work phone)
your email address

PS: we are not open after 5 pm or on the weekends.


Note that they use the term "usage pattern" and then change it to "usage area".

Background: This is a local bank. We live in a small town about 90 miles from any city. We usually shop in this town.

Looks like the weekend trip to New Orleans is off, eh?

Edited to add:
Mr. Dixie got same letter yesterday, we called bank, is NOT a scam.
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My bank wants to "protect" me by canceling my debit card (Original Post) dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 OP
You sure its not a scam? JaneyVee Aug 2014 #1
are you sure it's not a scam? Enrique Aug 2014 #2
Not a scam, we called bank, I edited OP. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #8
It's annoying but it's become very common. Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #40
Just call the bank before going on a trip. tammywammy Aug 2014 #3
Same here. I purchased a computer program that was transacted through the EU company's base. pinto Aug 2014 #6
I also use a local credit union. tammywammy Aug 2014 #14
Same here. It's not a big hurdle. Agschmid Aug 2014 #25
It *is* for your protection. Still, I'd call them directly to verify the letter / info. pinto Aug 2014 #4
No scam... dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #9
I'd take that letter into the bank. politicat Aug 2014 #5
Never, EVER give this kind of information out when solicited like this. 99Forever Aug 2014 #7
It IS the bank's letter, they said, when I called. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #11
Wow, just wow. 99Forever Aug 2014 #18
This sounds very weird. It tells me the bank is immature and does not RKP5637 Aug 2014 #57
I agree. LuvNewcastle Aug 2014 #12
And I agree with you. 99Forever Aug 2014 #15
Turns out..it IS the bank's letter. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #19
I've taken to calling on my card before we travel. Husband didn't call on his card before our Shrike47 Aug 2014 #10
I do that as well.. Last year when we went to Seattle to see our grandbaby SoCalDem Aug 2014 #60
Why should the weekend trip be off? Just call them and tell them you will be using it pnwmom Aug 2014 #13
Because the bank is not open on weekends and holidays dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #21
In that case, I'd let them know in advance that certain cities should be considered pnwmom Aug 2014 #23
Sounds like a scam notadmblnd Aug 2014 #16
You might want to call them. Evergreen Emerald Aug 2014 #17
Every credit card company does the same thing... brooklynite Aug 2014 #20
So you have no idea if you exceeding "usage", hmmm? dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #22
It may also depend on where the charge is processed. brooklynite Aug 2014 #24
All card providers have an "average use" figure for a card. Anything out of line triggers a look. pinto Aug 2014 #29
I have CITBANK and they call/email me from time to time asking about a purchase I just did or winstars Aug 2014 #26
If you're out of your normal range how the hell can you answer your home phone? hobbit709 Aug 2014 #27
Bless you, Hobbit...YOU get it. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #36
I have a CU debit and VISA pulled my card without notifying the CU for 4 days. Card kept being Mnemosyne Aug 2014 #63
This happened to me too, jen63 Aug 2014 #28
As I just commented to Hobbit,above dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #38
I did! jen63 Aug 2014 #51
The problem is that it's the bank's money when something goes wrong mythology Aug 2014 #56
mythology, permit me a small correction to your post. ms.smiler Aug 2014 #62
We got a call yesterday. Mz Pip Aug 2014 #30
I've had my card suspended a few times. Igel Aug 2014 #31
There's usually a window of time to to refute debit transactions. Lars39 Aug 2014 #37
Last year my bank sent me a new kiva Aug 2014 #32
Actually, I am going to call them dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #43
Hmmm, I'd just tell them kiva Aug 2014 #45
Bwaaah! jen63 Aug 2014 #59
You should always contact credit cards when going out of town Beaverhausen Aug 2014 #33
and my "convenience", as they pointed out several times in the letter. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #41
Ok. As others have said see if you can join a credit union Beaverhausen Aug 2014 #53
No cell. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #54
Well, they could check with the NSA, find out where YOUR cell phone was when the purchases DocwillCuNow Aug 2014 #34
Debit card...no interest. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #39
This is a good thing. d_r Aug 2014 #35
This just happened to me with my credit union. joshcryer Aug 2014 #42
Most debit card fraudulant useage... gerogie2 Aug 2014 #44
Better bet is to use cash, methinks. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #46
Travellers Checks. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #50
WHAT?! Since when do banks add a "P.S.", for one thing? I'd go in person. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #47
Good point. In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #48
Oppps..that ps was my writing. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #49
Heehee. My world-view is permanently raised eyebrows! WinkyDink Aug 2014 #52
I've had credit card companies call several times over the years csziggy Aug 2014 #55
Before i traveled to Paris two years ago, I LibDemAlways Aug 2014 #58
WhenI make an unusually 840high Aug 2014 #61

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
2. are you sure it's not a scam?
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:39 PM
Aug 2014

the information they are asking you to send doesn't make sense, wouldn't they already have that information?

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
8. Not a scam, we called bank, I edited OP.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:50 PM
Aug 2014

What it IS...is stupid.
Of course they have the info.
and our home number.
I pointed that out when I called.
Then I asked them how we could call THEM if we decided to go outside of our "usage" area on a weekend.
Spontaneity, and all that, y'know.
Poor teller stuttered for a few minutes, suggested I call manager when "she returns to bank".



Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
40. It's annoying but it's become very common.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:16 PM
Aug 2014

I'd say that the vast majority of the times when a bank or credit card company has contacted me to verify usage it's been legit use but two or three times it was fraud. Being able to catch the fraudulent use quickly is helpful to them and reduces the chance that you're going to have fraudulent debits on your account.

Bottom line? You don't have to tell them when you're going out of the area or making large purchases but if you have the time it's good for your piece of mind.

FWIW if their algorithm is any good they will notice patterns like dixiegrrrrl likes to take weekend trips every once in a while. I never get flagged when I go back to visit my relatives because their records show that these are places I visit once a year or so.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
3. Just call the bank before going on a trip.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:41 PM
Aug 2014

Whenever I'm traveling I called my bank a few days beforehand and they put a note in the file. Otherwise it would look like suspicious activity. I've had them contact me about unusual purchases that were mine, but also activity that wasn't mine.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
6. Same here. I purchased a computer program that was transacted through the EU company's base.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:47 PM
Aug 2014

My credit union called me to verify if I authorized the purchase. Small, local credit union. First name basis sort of place. Very easy to work with.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
4. It *is* for your protection. Still, I'd call them directly to verify the letter / info.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:43 PM
Aug 2014

I assume this was a written (letter) notice?

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
9. No scam...
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:53 PM
Aug 2014

I had stupid conversation with bank yesterday when Mr. Dixie's letter came.

Stupid letter, sending it with no return envelope and asking customers to mail back the info. the bank already has.

Oh..and I asked what out normal area of usage is, they could not tell me.

politicat

(9,808 posts)
5. I'd take that letter into the bank.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:46 PM
Aug 2014

Worst case, it's a scam they need to know about.

However, even the smallest banks have a number on the back of the debit card. Look there, then call that number.

That sounds fishy (and phishy) as hell.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
7. Never, EVER give this kind of information out when solicited like this.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:50 PM
Aug 2014

It is high unlikely this actually IS your bank. go to them in person and take that "notification letter" with you. Best guess is that identity thieves are targeting you and it needs to get handed to the proper authorities (state or federal, depending on the bank's charter.) Do it as soon as possible to protect yourself and your assets.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
11. It IS the bank's letter, they said, when I called.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:57 PM
Aug 2014

Can you believe it?

Things like this are the downside of living in dumb downed Repug. country.
Bank could not see that sending a letter like that would be a problem.

I did not send it back, of course.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
18. Wow, just wow.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:12 PM
Aug 2014

I'd run, not walk out of there. As LuvNewcastle says below, get yourself to a credit union, all the services without the nonsense and descriptive business practices.

RKP5637

(67,102 posts)
57. This sounds very weird. It tells me the bank is immature and does not
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 09:03 PM
Aug 2014

have the tools to effectively deal with fraudulent activities. I would look for another bank or a credit union.

LuvNewcastle

(16,844 posts)
12. I agree.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:00 PM
Aug 2014

Something doesn't add up here. I would never give out my information, especially my account number, to anyone. The only time you should have to do that is when you go to the teller at the bank. If it is legit, I would move my money to another bank or, better yet, a credit union pronto. This is stupid, and no bank should operate like that.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
15. And I agree with you.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:09 PM
Aug 2014

Even tho Dixiegrrrl says it was the bank, that would send me running. Moving to a credit union was a great move for me, MUCH better service, almost no phony fees, and being a member instead of just another customer to be milked, has made a believer out of me.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
19. Turns out..it IS the bank's letter.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:12 PM
Aug 2014

I have yet to speak to the manager, which I will do Monday morning, cause I have a whole list of questions for her.
The first one being...why is the bank sending out letters that are copies of scams?

The 2nd one will be....what is her home number I can call on the weekends if I decide to travel outside of my "usage area" some Saturday afternoon?

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
10. I've taken to calling on my card before we travel. Husband didn't call on his card before our
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 05:55 PM
Aug 2014

last trip. His card was turned down in a gas station in Barstow. Embarrassing.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
60. I do that as well.. Last year when we went to Seattle to see our grandbaby
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 09:12 PM
Aug 2014

I got an "emergency alert" email from Discover.. If I did not call the number they gave me within SIX hours from the time on their email, they would cancel our card. During the 6 hours it was "suspended"..

Why? We charged $750.00 at Extended Stay Hotel and charged $600 at a Renton WA Best Buy (bought an ipad & some stuff), and we do not LIVE in Seattle, so they assumed the card was stolen.

If I had NOT brought my laptop, I would have never even read the email..

Ever since then, I always call them BEFORE I travel or buy anything over what we normally buy (they are our only credit card)..

I am somewhat annoyed,but I DO understand that they are protecting us and themselves.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
13. Why should the weekend trip be off? Just call them and tell them you will be using it
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:05 PM
Aug 2014

it in the other city. I like it that the banks are doing this, in general. But I don't know why your bank would have to ask you information that they should already have.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
21. Because the bank is not open on weekends and holidays
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:16 PM
Aug 2014

if I have a spur of the moment urge , or a family emergency requires me to travel out of town.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
23. In that case, I'd let them know in advance that certain cities should be considered
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:22 PM
Aug 2014

as part of your normal range, because your family lives there.

I've noticed I don't need to call my bank before I go to see my daughter in her state. That has apparently become part of my usual range.

Evergreen Emerald

(13,069 posts)
17. You might want to call them.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:12 PM
Aug 2014

When my bank called me, the unusual pattern included some guy in jail getting fifty bucks from my debt, someone paying for theater tickets across the country, and racking up five hundred bucks. All in different states.

brooklynite

(94,490 posts)
20. Every credit card company does the same thing...
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:15 PM
Aug 2014

....what the algorithm is that determines your spending pattern in unusual is never explained.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
22. So you have no idea if you exceeding "usage", hmmm?
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:20 PM
Aug 2014

Probably in this area, it would be anything out of the county.
We are truly in the middle of nowhere.

brooklynite

(94,490 posts)
24. It may also depend on where the charge is processed.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:23 PM
Aug 2014

If I'm at a trade show in San Francisco, and I buy something from a vendor who's office is in Los Angeles, that'll throw up a red flag.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
29. All card providers have an "average use" figure for a card. Anything out of line triggers a look.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:37 PM
Aug 2014

It's not a penalty nor is it nefarious, imo. It's a protection against misuse (unauthorized use) of your account. Suggest you contact the bank for particulars and take advantage of the oversight.

winstars

(4,219 posts)
26. I have CITBANK and they call/email me from time to time asking about a purchase I just did or
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:26 PM
Aug 2014

made recently. Every few months. I travel for work and sometimes I think that a recurring payment might go thru just as I am doing something in another state or country that would raise a red flag. I actually like when they do that because I see them protecting me...

With that said, I would surely NOT want to let CITIBANK or any other bank know my travel plans all the time. What if you told them you were going to a certain city and someone there copies your card number and tries to use it? Does that bank LET it go thru because you told them you would be there?

CITIBANK has once or twice even refused to let a charge go thru until I called them to say it was me and everything was cool. This might have been pre cell phone or email era though. I didn't mind that their software is set so sensitive, fine with me.

Last night I bought some albums on iTunes. one at $12.99, two at $9.99 and one more... Almost always I only buy songs individually but not last night. The sale goes thru and I download the albums. I check my email and there is one from CITBANK from the their Fraud Prevention Department asking me, by clicking on a link, that the purchase was on the up and up. I did that and that was it. I liked that they seemed on top of it like that.

However, I would not want to have to tell CITIBANK I am about to but that Al Green album before I do...

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
27. If you're out of your normal range how the hell can you answer your home phone?
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:27 PM
Aug 2014

I'd be moving my money out of their normal range and going to a credit union.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
36. Bless you, Hobbit...YOU get it.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:00 PM
Aug 2014

Of COURSE I can't answer my land line when I am out of town.
Of COURSE I cannot call the bank on the weekend if there is an out of town emergency.
And of course I do not want to be tracked by my local community bank.
Which is run by idiots who do not understand they wrote the perfect scam letter
and that not everybody has a cell phone
and even if I DID have a cell phone, service is so bad out here that we cannot make calls between towns anyhow.

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
63. I have a CU debit and VISA pulled my card without notifying the CU for 4 days. Card kept being
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 11:17 PM
Aug 2014

refused starting on a Thurs, called CU on Monday. They had no clue until they looked and we never did figure out why.

jen63

(813 posts)
28. This happened to me too,
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:29 PM
Aug 2014

A few days before I was to go out of town also. Really, really yanked my chain. I told them that I use their automated system almost daily and if I didn't call them to report a stolen card, to leave it the hell alone. They refused, said the card was "bank property". Meh, idiots.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
38. As I just commented to Hobbit,above
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:10 PM
Aug 2014

It is all about tracking and control of personal info.

"Those who give up their liberty for more security neither deserve liberty nor security."

We are going to use cash more often, looks like.

jen63

(813 posts)
51. I did!
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:55 PM
Aug 2014

It's embarrassing, but I was sooo enraged that they took upon themselves to do it, that I closed my checking account. I do the cash thing and I also found a prepaid that my paycheck can be directly deposited into. Stay out of my personal business! It's my $$$. They think they own your money because they "own the card". Pfffft. I hate banks!

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
56. The problem is that it's the bank's money when something goes wrong
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 08:56 PM
Aug 2014

Target didn't pay for their gross negligence in their recent data breach. The banks paid for it. In spite of the fact that in that case, it was Target's fault entirely for having awful financial security.

Especially when it comes to credit cards, the issuer is on the hook for any fraudulent charges. And with it taking us so long to get to chip and pin cards which will greatly reduce this, that's a lot of money they get stuck paying.

But even if Target were on the hook for the fraudulent charges, they aren't the ones directly dealing with replacing cards, dealing with other retailers who are either not being paid for legitimate services, or are trying to be paid for illegitimate ones and aren't happy either way and customers who are upset about the data breach and needing to get a new card.

ms.smiler

(551 posts)
62. mythology, permit me a small correction to your post.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 11:11 PM
Aug 2014

It is not the banks money, and they aren’t “on the hook.” Credit card debt is securitized and sold off to investors and the banks collect large fees and commissions for managing those securities. Banks are extremely risk avoidant so they design vehicles by which they put other people’s money at risk while they are guaranteed profits and insured on the investments they create.

I’ll certainly agree with you though on Target’s lax security.

Mz Pip

(27,436 posts)
30. We got a call yesterday.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:39 PM
Aug 2014

Sort of the same thing. We had made a particularly large purchase and the bank was concerned about the possibility of fraud. It was an unusual charge. We live in CA but booked a trip through a travel agent in New Mexico because other people in our group were using this agent.

I'm not offended by this. We've had our credit card number used in a fraud before and though we didn't have to pay, it was still a hassle.

Igel

(35,296 posts)
31. I've had my card suspended a few times.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:40 PM
Aug 2014

Pattern was to buy mostly small stuff. Then one day I bought something for $2k, and something else at a store down the block for $1.8k. So "not my pattern" that it's not surprising it was suspended. Embarrassing, to be sure.

Pattern is Houston, TX. Then, out of the clear blue sky, I'm buying something over the Internet from someplace in Germany and it's going to Lodz, Poland. Suspicious? Sure. Obnoxious, since I didn't have phone access. Internet ... That worked.

In another case my wife was travelling to Arizona. She tried to use the card and I got a phone call. I confirmed that my wife really was in Arizona, and either of us might show up there at any time. A minute later, she called to say her card wasn't working. "Problem solved, dear, it should work now."

I've also had my card cancelled once between my pattern was broken. It was suspended after the first transaction, then attempted to be used in a number of other locations, still in Ohio. I was contacted. No, I wasn't in Ohio at the time, nor was my wife, and we hadn't ordered stuff. Somebody got my card number. The card company was saved a bunch of money by suspending the card.

If it had been a debit card ... It's not covered. The cash is taken from your account, it's taken from your account.

kiva

(4,373 posts)
32. Last year my bank sent me a new
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:40 PM
Aug 2014

debit card and cancelled my old one. When I called and said I hadn't requested this, they had a vague explanation about fraud and shopping patterns; my presumption is that some accounts had been hacked (not mine) and they just didn't want to admit it.

I'd call them and ask them to note some of the places you tend to go with little notice - like your New Orleans trip. Does your husband have a cell phone? If so, consider listing it; it's annoying, but given the choice between losing the ability to use my card or offering up his phone, I'd choose the latter.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
43. Actually, I am going to call them
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:31 PM
Aug 2014

and have them note a LOT of places I "might" go.

Compiling a list now.

Is Cuba still on our shit list?

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
41. and my "convenience", as they pointed out several times in the letter.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:27 PM
Aug 2014

Actually I DO contact my CREDIT cards.

But this is about a debit card.
From a local bank.
which is not open after 5 or on weekends and holidays.
One of the holidays being Confederate Day.

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
53. Ok. As others have said see if you can join a credit union
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:58 PM
Aug 2014

At least they have someone working 24/7. Also do you not have a cell phone?

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
54. No cell.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 08:15 PM
Aug 2014

See, this is very rural.
We do not have 24/7 credit unions, banks, or anything other than the Emergency room and police.
Small town.
Small local bank serving 2 towns.

I DO have a goodly amount of privacy other than the internet I use.
aim to keep it that way.

 

DocwillCuNow

(162 posts)
34. Well, they could check with the NSA, find out where YOUR cell phone was when the purchases
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:50 PM
Aug 2014

were made and then rest easy. Bad idea I know but I just wanted to make a point about what they know and when they know it. Maybe you will be able to get one of their new cards at 20 some percent in the meantime. Really though that sucks, hope you are able to contact them asap. I tried to obtain a rebate from Goodyear and could not open a line of credit because of previous ID theft. That sucked as well.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
39. Debit card...no interest.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:14 PM
Aug 2014

Your point is valid, tho re: NSA and how easy we make it for them to track us.

With credit cards, I have called when I moved across country, since a frozen card would have been the only alternative.
But now, LOCAL small community banks????
Nope....no way.

d_r

(6,907 posts)
35. This is a good thing.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 06:59 PM
Aug 2014

My bank does it.

I've gotten a call right after making a different sort of charge.

I appreciate that they do it.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
42. This just happened to me with my credit union.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:28 PM
Aug 2014


I'm annoyed but I didn't use the card for a year and no change of address or phone number.
 

gerogie2

(450 posts)
44. Most debit card fraudulant useage...
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:38 PM
Aug 2014

makes you liable for the first $50 of use for each fraudulent transactions. So check your debit card and bank account agreements. The banks use the term if your card is lost or stolen you will not be liable for fraudulent use if the card is reported missing in a timely manner. But if someone just gets hold of your card number that is not covered because the card was not physically lost or stolen.

Your best option is to use a credit card for POS transactions so your bank account won't be empty one day.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
46. Better bet is to use cash, methinks.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 07:50 PM
Aug 2014

Instead of leaving a pile of money for the bank to use, free, all month.

I do use Credit card for online buying, of course.

but all this hassle over a debit card?
Not worth it and the merchants will be happy they do not have to pay the bank for debiting my purchases.

csziggy

(34,135 posts)
55. I've had credit card companies call several times over the years
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 08:36 PM
Aug 2014

About "out of range" card usage. Most often it would happen when my husband was at DragonCon, charging stuff with various vendors from across the country. So over the last several years we've tried to remember to call them when we go on trips out of state - the thing that most often causes them alarm.

Year before last I talked it over with the credit company security people and gave them both my and my husband's cell phone numbers to add to their files in case of a problem. It was a good thing I did - last year my Dad died just before my husband went off to DragonCon. I was still at my Mom's helping her deal with things when the credit card people called my husband (my cell phone as usual was not nearby or charged when they tried to call me) to verify the charges he had just made.

I'm GLAD they are checking on usage - it makes me feel safer.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
58. Before i traveled to Paris two years ago, I
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 09:03 PM
Aug 2014

notified my credit card company of my plans including specific dates and destinations. They informed me that any purchase overseas would receive extra scrutiny anyway. Sure enough, the first time I used the card right at Orly airport to buy a train ticket, the charge was denied. I had to call the bank to assure them the charge was legit. This happened several more times the next few days as well. I appreciate security, but in this case it went too far and bordered on harassment.

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