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cali

(114,904 posts)
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 04:26 PM Apr 2012

When I heard Wallace died in CT, I knew exactly where he died

so I checked it out and I was right.

I wish all elderly people with dementia or Alzheimer's or other conditions that make a nursing home the place they have to be, could get the level of care that Mr. Wallace got.


http://www.waveny.org/

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dkf

(37,305 posts)
1. I'd prefer if we massively funded a search for a cure. Then at least there is hope.
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 04:42 PM
Apr 2012

No one's dream is to be well taken care of after they lose their mental faculties.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
4. And if these folks are cut off from Medicaid, then we are all surely in a heap of trouble...
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 05:32 PM
Apr 2012

it occurs to me that this is why people used to lock their crazy aunt or uncle in their attics...

ColesCountyDem

(6,943 posts)
5. Amen!
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 05:36 PM
Apr 2012

I was fortunate enough to live in a community that had an excellent and affordable Alzheimer's care facility, when my Mom needed one.

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
8. The OP wants Mike Wallace level care for every patient with Dementia.
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 09:47 PM
Apr 2012

I have a feeling Mike Wallace's expenses were quite a bit above "affordable".

90-percent

(6,829 posts)
6. Connecticut Eldercare
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 08:30 PM
Apr 2012

Both my mother and father spent their last years in Connecticut Nursing Homes. Did the Title 19 plan thoughtfully, as my parents were ignorant fools in planning for the finances in their final years. Their life savings went to First Class $10,000 a month assisted living and building an in law apartment for my mother, who was still active when dad could no longer take care of himself, and actually jeopardized my mothers safety.

I was impressed with teh level of care and lvoe they both recieved. My dad not so much, as he was old school punch them out at the home. He was a hard guy to like Mean and self absorbed.

MY point is that my wife and I did as much as we could to make their final years as happy as possible. MY mom's deal sucked because she had parkinsons. she still outlived her siblings by 10 or 20 years. Her will t olive was astounding.

Connecticut does a pretty good job in this area and I appreciate the compassion of all those that worked with betty. Goog God, I hope they're making good money!

-jim

From what I recall, Mike was a pretty good journalist for decades. I liked his fifties history stuff - you are there

UTUSN

(70,674 posts)
7. (ducking: ) Just wondering, why would a rich human not have a coccoon at home
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 09:33 PM
Apr 2012

That's how I would like it, AT HOME, with a whole phalanx of privately paid health-professionals (besides family).

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
9. That's what Reagan did. Maybe Wallace didn't a wife willing to coordinate it?
Sun Apr 8, 2012, 09:49 PM
Apr 2012

Just a guess. There still has to be a family member overseeing everything, and it's quite a job, I imagine.

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