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Such a moving piece from Russell Brand at The Guardian UK. Not that familiar with Brand, but very impressed by his moving words.
Russell Brand: Robin Williams divine madness will no longer disrupt the sadness of the world
I'd been thinking about Robin Williams a bit recently. His manager Larry Bresner told me that when Robin was asked by a German journalist on a press junket why the Germans had a reputation for humourlessness that Williams replied, Because you killed all the funny people.
Robin Williams was exciting to me because he seemed to be sat upon a geyser of comedy. Like he didnt manufacture it laboriously within but had only to open a valve and it would come bursting through in effervescent jets. He was plugged into the mains of comedy.
I was aware too that this burbling and manic man-child that I watched on the box on my Nans front room floor with a Mork action figure (I wish I still had that, he came in a plastic egg) struggled with mental illness and addiction. The chaotic clarity that lashed like an electric cable, that razzed and sparked with amoral, puckish wonder was in fact harvested madness. A refinement of an energy that could turn as easily to destruction as creativity.
....Robin Williams could have tapped anyone in the western world on the shoulder and told them he felt down and they would have told him not to worry, that he was great, that they loved him. He must have known that. He must have known his wife and kids loved him, that his mates all thought he was great, that millions of strangers the world over held him in their hearts, a hilarious stranger that we could rely on to anarchically interrupt, the all-encompassing sadness of the world.
....What I might do is watch Mrs Doubtfire. Or Dead Poets Society or Good Will Hunting and I might be nice to people, mindful today how fragile we all are, how delicate we are, even when fizzing with divine madness that seems like it will never expire.
It's been a year of much loss and sadness. It's hard for me to write when things feel so personal. I think Russell Brand is right....he must have known all the love and appreciation was out there. It had to matter greatly, though it wasn't enough in the end.
scarletwoman
(31,893 posts)madfloridian
(88,117 posts)Most welcome. It's so sincere and real.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Even while fizzing with divine madness that seems like it will never expire.
yes.
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)I don't know much about Russell Brand, but he really uses eloquent words sometimes.
deathrind
(1,786 posts)The more I see and now read from Mr. Brand the more impressed I am becoming with him. His recent take downs of Hannity are priceless.
senseandsensibility
(17,000 posts)Wow. You see, that's funny but it's not. It's biting. It's dark. Love this piece by Russell Brand. I don't know that much about him, but I've seen him on Letterman and he is very caustic and amusing. Good piece by him.
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)That was first impression, that it was not funny.
deutsey
(20,166 posts)I recommend looking up his other pieces, especially the one about Margaret Thatcher's passing.
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)I've been really trying hard to not get totally weepy, since I started teaching classes today and need to keep my stuff together, but that really brought on tears. Thanks madflo, great piece.
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)
12th Aug 2014 | 6,675 notes
My family has always been private about our time spent together. It was our way of keeping one thing that was ours, with a man we shared with an entire world. But now thats gone, and I feel stripped bare.
....To those he touched who are sending kind words, know that one of his favorite things in the world was to make you all laugh. As for those who are sending negativity, know that some small, giggling part of him is sending a flock of pigeons to your house to poop on your car. Right after youve had it washed. After all, he loved to laugh too
littlemissmartypants
(22,632 posts)madfloridian
(88,117 posts)C Moon
(12,212 posts)ThingsGottaChange
(1,200 posts)But, not true understanding of the torment he lived with.
tblue
(16,350 posts)No words. Just
Except, I'll say, I love what both you and Brand wrote.
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)deutsey
(20,166 posts)Not that I was playing armchair psychiatrist, but this morning as I was reflecting on this sad loss I just wondered if perhaps the general "misery of our times" also influenced Robin Williams in some tragic way. By most accounts, he was a highly sensitive and caring person and could even be quite idealistic and sentimental in a lot of his humor and life.
His personal demons combined with with "our fractured and unhappy planet" might just have been too much.
Ultimately, it doesn't matter, I suppose. I'll never know. It's just my innate human tendency to try to find a pattern of meaning where perhaps none exists.
I just thought it was interesting that this possibility had also occurred to Russell Brand.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Keep in mind there is a gulf between knowing this:
and believing it.
One of the most insidious parts of depression is you don't believe you have any worth. Sure, there's a crowd of people saying you are wonderful, but they're praising the person they see, not the "real" you. The "real" you is awful because of (whatever your personal triggers are)
Take our fractured and unhappy planet out of the equation, and that insidious self-loathing is still there. And still plenty to cause suicide all on its own.
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)It's hard sometimes for those of us who do not suffer from depression to see "our fractured and unhappy planet" grow more so all the time.
I can only imagine how hard it would have been for someone with such a condition.
This world is not made for sensitive people. In fact we go so far as to ridicule those who are. We tell them to toughen up, and other such terms.
deutsey
(20,166 posts)Maybe not when it's in the context of something trivial ("Yeah, I spelled wine on the rug; it can be cleaned. Get over it!" , but I've heard it said in the context of someone who is grieving the loss of someone or something (e.g., a job) that was significant to them.
"It's been a month already, geez! They really need to get over it!"
I've actually heard someone say that about someone who was still openly grieving the loss of a loved one.
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)here especially and at other forums. When someone takes too strong a stance or cares too much about being understood....it's a very popular form of put down.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)what is going on in a person's head...
Initech
(100,063 posts)randome
(34,845 posts)[hr][font color="blue"][center]"The whole world is a circus if you know how to look at it."
Tony Randall, 7 Faces of Dr. Lao (1964)[/center][/font][hr]
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)Now I am incapable of looking back at my fleeting meeting with him with any kind of objectivity, I am bound to apply, with hindsight, some special significance to his fragility, meekness and humility. Hidden behind his beard and kindness and compliments was a kind of awkwardness, like he was in the wrong context or element, a fallen bird on a hard floor.
It seems that Robin Williams could not find a context...
glinda
(14,807 posts)BeyondGeography
(39,369 posts)This is profound and moving. Russell is an indispensable human being.