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La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 12:58 PM Aug 2014

I have a seventeen year old brother and I fully understand that kids do things

some are stupid, some are exploratory, and some are innocuous

If he stole some cigars (maybe, as a prank), smoked some pot (who hasn't, really), or jaywalked (again, who hasn't?), I really hope no one believes that this is a reason to gun him down.

This narrative coming from a racist police force and being perpetuated by a media that is often uncritical of authority, is really maddening.

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I have a seventeen year old brother and I fully understand that kids do things (Original Post) La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 OP
The cigars are a red herring gollygee Aug 2014 #1
its all red herrings. i think that is my point La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #2
Yeah gollygee Aug 2014 #5
OOoh OOOh so true hollysmom Aug 2014 #38
Michael Brown had weed in his system!!! Don't you see!!11!! Cali_Democrat Aug 2014 #3
lol. everyone i know must be black then, besides my actually black ex gf La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #4
I've never smoked pot gollygee Aug 2014 #8
i said everyone i know. i live in an highly urban area and most people i know are well under 40 La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #12
White, 56 years old here, don't smoke pot anymore, but phylny Aug 2014 #53
Black folks use drugs at a lower rate than white folks AngryAmish Aug 2014 #15
i know. nt La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #27
Post removed Post removed Aug 2014 #52
REALLY. Do tell. n/t phylny Aug 2014 #54
Or maybe only black teenagers get shot for it. Of course I know others have but to get shot for jwirr Aug 2014 #9
as you said upthread, all red herrings fishwax Aug 2014 #6
all things to malign the victim. none really proven at all. La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #14
Shoplifting some cigars is different exboyfil Aug 2014 #7
again, since he was not tried by a jury, we don't actually know if he was guilty La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #13
The defense will argue that he is not the gentle giant he was portrayed as Travis_0004 Aug 2014 #35
I still think Mike was up to some shenanigans, but.. louis-t Aug 2014 #51
While it is no reason to shoot anyone Lee-Lee Aug 2014 #10
First of all, we don't know that he did it. When kids do things we shouldnt escalate La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #11
He was 18, an adult Lee-Lee Aug 2014 #16
That this country has lost its mind on appropriate response to minor criminal behavior Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #21
Assaulting a store clerk during a theft is not "minor" Lee-Lee Aug 2014 #23
The theft was minor. If the clerk grabbed him first, or physically tried to prevent him from leaving Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #25
No, the clerk had every right to stop him under the law Lee-Lee Aug 2014 #29
If a clerk grabbed me when I tried to exit, I'd push back. Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #32
Look up "shopkeepers privilege" nt Lee-Lee Aug 2014 #34
Missing the point, again. Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #36
' screw over someone's potential jobs, training, etc. for life. ' La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #30
Someone will leap in and say it's a class issue, not a racial one Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #33
Well, since the shopkeeper didn't even report it lolly Aug 2014 #37
I think there's a big gap between "tolerating and excusing" and "shooting", don't you agree? lumberjack_jeff Aug 2014 #18
Agreed- but we also shouldn't be calling it a "prank" nt Lee-Lee Aug 2014 #20
The courts would have Glitterati Aug 2014 #24
The theories, observations and factoids offered as expanatory of the shooting... lumberjack_jeff Aug 2014 #17
it is maddening, La Lioness Priyanka bigtree Aug 2014 #19
agreed, give these kids the benefit of the doubt and quit pretending that they are La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #31
I have a fully grown son ismnotwasm Aug 2014 #22
"He got to grow up." Lex Aug 2014 #26
exactly this. nt La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #28
The media did him in think_in_code Aug 2014 #39
Do we even know that that was him? FiveGoodMen Aug 2014 #40
no, we don't. i was just saying, even if the worst is true La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #43
Agreed FiveGoodMen Aug 2014 #49
also we honestly dont know how much this video was edited La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #50
It's not a prank, but it also did not require that level of force from police. Marrah_G Aug 2014 #41
well we don't actually know what happened, we can't even confirm that it was a robbery La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #42
I mean that shoplifting is not a prank Marrah_G Aug 2014 #44
i think it could well be for a teenager. nt La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #45
I think maybe we have different ideas on what a prank is. :) Marrah_G Aug 2014 #46
also annoying is the Store owner himself is saying nothing that happened in the store JI7 Aug 2014 #48
i work in an area with a lot of bars JI7 Aug 2014 #47

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
1. The cigars are a red herring
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:15 PM
Aug 2014

The police officer didn't know what was happening, and even if he had known, stealing cigars doesn't make someone so threatening you have to gun them down.

But yeah.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
5. Yeah
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:18 PM
Aug 2014

How long does marijuana stay in your system? It's a long time. If they tested every member of the police department, I have no doubt at all that a decent number would have marijuana in their systems. Does that make them crazy?

And jaywalking? I think that was made up as the reason Michael Brown was stopped. I think it's more likely they just randomly stop African American young men. Because that's how our country works.

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
38. OOoh OOOh so true
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 03:46 PM
Aug 2014

I am the weird one who never tried drugs but I do drink and have drunk too much occasionally, but only one at college who never smoked ha ha
Anyway, Just after college and after I got married and was having a dinner with a girl friend and not my husband, I had a cop try and pick me up and say some very rude things as if he thought I was like the town slut - (it was the 60's I was not into free love either even though I had long straight hair and short skirts - every woman did). I told him I was not interested and he called me a damned hippy and cocked his gun, held it to my head and asked me to sing the star spangled banner. Luckily several of his friends and an alderman took him down before he could shoot me. If I sang he would have shot me, I can not sing on key to save my life. They apologized for him and said he was high on pot - go figure - who was the criminal there, I was just eating dinner with a friend.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
4. lol. everyone i know must be black then, besides my actually black ex gf
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:18 PM
Aug 2014

who is maybe the only person i know who hasn't smoked pot.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
8. I've never smoked pot
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:20 PM
Aug 2014

although I hear it's good for migraine headaches so maybe I should try it.

But I don't think everyone has. Maybe a majority.

My migraine headaches are why I never tried it - I knew cigarette smoke triggered my migraines and I assumed marijuana would too.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
12. i said everyone i know. i live in an highly urban area and most people i know are well under 40
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:38 PM
Aug 2014

so maybe that has something to do with my perceptions of pot usage.

phylny

(8,380 posts)
53. White, 56 years old here, don't smoke pot anymore, but
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 04:39 AM
Aug 2014

most people I know did when they were younger, some friends of mine still do.

Response to La Lioness Priyanka (Reply #4)

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
9. Or maybe only black teenagers get shot for it. Of course I know others have but to get shot for
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:24 PM
Aug 2014

something that is so close to becoming legal is beyond belief.

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
7. Shoplifting some cigars is different
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:20 PM
Aug 2014

than pushing a storekeeper into a rack and then going back to intimidate him. There is some question as to the reason for the confrontation, and the storekeeper did initiate the first physical contact (it was slight). He had every right to detain a suspected shoplifter.

It is not a reason to shoot Brown at a distance, but I would have no difficulty understanding how Brown could have initiated the initial physical contact if he had been stopped by the police. It really hurts the initial narrative of a Brown innocently walking down the middle of the road.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
13. again, since he was not tried by a jury, we don't actually know if he was guilty
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:40 PM
Aug 2014

or exactly how that 'crime' went down. or if at all it did go down.

my point is that i can imagine a really good kid (including my brother, who is by all accounts a really great kid) stealing something minor for some reason that only teens can really fathom

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
35. The defense will argue that he is not the gentle giant he was portrayed as
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:45 PM
Aug 2014

If assulted a store keeper 10 minutes ago and likely didnt want to be arrested it is more likely that he would have assulted a cop to get away. The cop didnt know about the robbery yet but mike didnt know that.

In that sense the robbery is relevent and it certainly boosts the cops defense.

louis-t

(23,292 posts)
51. I still think Mike was up to some shenanigans, but..
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 05:28 PM
Aug 2014

if you watch the part of the tape where he appears to pay for the items, then reaches behind the counter, jumps back when the cashier yells at him. Then you see them both putting a bunch of packages back on the counter but some boxes fell on the floor. He calmly picks them up and counts them, then walks away. Did he have more boxes then he paid for?

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
10. While it is no reason to shoot anyone
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:24 PM
Aug 2014

Stealing cigars and using physical force against a store employee to do it is NOT a "prank", and the attitude that dismisses criminal behavior like this as a harmless prank it what leads to kids growing up thinking it is acceptable. Kids thinking it is acceptable leads them to do it, that leads to getting caught, that leads to starting life with a criminal record and putting them onto a path of almost certain poverty by stacking the odds against them even more.

Stop calling actions like that a "prank". It is anything but, it shouldn't be tolerated or excused among our youth if we want them to have a decent chance at a future or have a civil society and good neighborhoods that attract good jobs.

Look at it this way- had he just been caught and arrested, it's a felony under MO law because he assaulted the store employee. I am sure his defense and the prosecution would have struck a deal for a lessor charge, but he would have had a record following him for life and might have screwed up his chances of going to college in the fall. He would no longer have the option of joining the military, becoming a cop, getting any job requiring a background check for the next 5-8 years, and it would be more difficult to rent an apartment.

That's not a prank- it's behavior that we shouldn't tolerate or excuse because it's bad for those doing it and bad for society.

Quite tolerating, making excuses for, or diminishing this kind of stuff when our youth do it. Whenever you do you are putting out the attitude that it's no big deal and helping perpetuate the cycle of poverty.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
11. First of all, we don't know that he did it. When kids do things we shouldnt escalate
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:37 PM
Aug 2014

into criminality, especially when years of social science has shown that we assume Black teens are adult men, whereas white and Asian kids are still considered kids.

Quit pretending race is not an issue when weighing the criminality of a deed. Also, quit pretending that you actually know whether or not he was guilty of this 'crime'.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
16. He was 18, an adult
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:46 PM
Aug 2014

And the elements of a crime exist regardless of race.

My whole point is that even if he was alive, this one incident could have resulted in an arrest and conviction that followed him the rest of his life- and that is a big deal. The kind of big deal that puts more roadblocks in the path of young men and women who already have too many, and results in a life of poverty they can't escape.

It's not a prank, calling it that does a great disservice to our youth who need to be guided down a better path.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
21. That this country has lost its mind on appropriate response to minor criminal behavior
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:53 PM
Aug 2014

concerns me more than whether or not this action was a prank.

I have no doubt that white college boy from a family with middle income or higher would have been arrested, had the charges set aside under the guise of it being a youthful indiscretion, and suffered no lifelong consequences.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
23. Assaulting a store clerk during a theft is not "minor"
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:02 PM
Aug 2014

And your attitude calling it suck is part of the problem I am describing.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
25. The theft was minor. If the clerk grabbed him first, or physically tried to prevent him from leaving
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:11 PM
Aug 2014

then grabbing the clerk was defensive, not offensive and yes, a minor offense in the greater scheme of things, or at least it used to be treated as such if the person had no violent criminal history.

Your attitude of trying to elevate the nature of the behavior to serious crime is an example of the problem I described. The country has lost its damn mind when that level of incident is enough to screw over someone's potential jobs, training, etc. for life.



 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
29. No, the clerk had every right to stop him under the law
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:15 PM
Aug 2014

In no way was what we saw on the video justified as a "defensive" move, even if the clerk touched him first.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
32. If a clerk grabbed me when I tried to exit, I'd push back.
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:30 PM
Aug 2014

It's a natural, defensive reaction. If the law allows a clerk to commit battery because he/she thinks I'm a shoplifter, the law is screwed up.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
36. Missing the point, again.
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 03:07 PM
Aug 2014

Last edited Fri Aug 22, 2014, 12:13 PM - Edit history (1)

I don't care if the shopkeeper has the legal right to detain me that way. It's a natural reaction to push back and it's a PROVOKED assault and battery.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
30. ' screw over someone's potential jobs, training, etc. for life. '
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:17 PM
Aug 2014

and it's never just someone, it's someone of color.

this entire pretense that we judge criminality the same regardless of who is committing crime, is just white privilege in action (this statement is not addressed at you gormy but to the person you are responding to)

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
33. Someone will leap in and say it's a class issue, not a racial one
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:34 PM
Aug 2014

so we might as well cover that one now.
Income matters, but only to the extent that higher income whites get a pass. Higher income POCs don't.

lolly

(3,248 posts)
37. Well, since the shopkeeper didn't even report it
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 03:43 PM
Aug 2014

And apparently didn't consider it a crime, then no, it probably wouldn't have followed him.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
18. I think there's a big gap between "tolerating and excusing" and "shooting", don't you agree?
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:50 PM
Aug 2014

Someone caught stealing should be prosecuted... by the courts. Not executed by the police.

 

Glitterati

(3,182 posts)
24. The courts would have
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:03 PM
Aug 2014

why not us?

Look, we have no idea WHAT happened in that store. What we DO know is that it was so minor the employee never even bothered to call the cops about it. Yeah, call that a "felony" if you want but you, like the press and the racists PD, are blowing this all out of proportion.

The bottom line is simple, IF Michael Brown had been prosecuted for some trumped up "crime" here, it would have been pled down to a misdemeanor and on first offender status. The kid didn't have a record. Once he was sufficiently contrite to the court, his record would have been wiped clean. Yes, a prank.

For all we know, Michael paid for this cigars (we SAW that, thankyouverymuch) and the store clerk might have been harassing him for ID to buy the damned things, even when he's served him many times and KNOWS his age because he's seen his ID many, many times.

The bottom line is simple. Had Michael Brown been allowed to LIVE to face whatever his conduct was, the courts would have simply laughed the prank out of the courtroom and the prosecutor wouldn't have wasted valuable dollars to take it to court.

Instead, Michael Brown is dead. Murdered by a cop. In. The. Street. With. His. Hands. Up.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
17. The theories, observations and factoids offered as expanatory of the shooting...
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:47 PM
Aug 2014

... are themselves phenomena almost as disturbing as the shooting himself.

i.e. "Do you really think that smoking pot, flipping off a camera or stealing cigars justifies lethal force?"

bigtree

(85,992 posts)
19. it is maddening, La Lioness Priyanka
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 01:50 PM
Aug 2014

. . . your sentiment is evidently a powerful motivator for protest action among members of the Ferguson community. Our youth are to benefit from the lessons we provide them as they grow. That opportunity is tragically over for Mike Brown - still an imperative for those remaining.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
31. agreed, give these kids the benefit of the doubt and quit pretending that they are
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:29 PM
Aug 2014

hardened criminals of some sort.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
22. I have a fully grown son
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:00 PM
Aug 2014

Who could be, quite frankly, an asshole when he was younger. For one fairly mild instance, one night, he and a friend shattered a bus stop plexiglass, his friend was difficult to subdue and spit on the cop car. Both were charged with resisting arrest.
Both are white. (actually my son is half Native American-- but he appears white) Neither were shot to death. They went to jail.

My son is doing ok now, has a decent life. White privilege in action. He got to grow up.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
26. "He got to grow up."
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 02:13 PM
Aug 2014

Exactly. White kids are "just being teenagers" while black kids are being "dangerous."

Institutionalized racism.



 

think_in_code

(6 posts)
39. The media did him in
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:03 PM
Aug 2014

They played selective parts of the tape over and over again and didn't present the full picture. Yes, Brown should not have taken the cigarellos but describing what he did as a "strong armed robbery" was a bit much. He only grabbed the clerk when the clerk tried to prevent him from leaving. Ignorant behavior, yes, all out thuggary worthy of being executed for I think not. The funny thing about the media is that they love to call into question Brown's character but have done nothing to call into question the character of the police force. I mean for God's sake why is nobody in the media expressing outrage at the fact that the boy's dead body laid out on the concrete for hours before anybody even so much as put a sheet over him. Don't be fooled, the American media has and always will have an agenda. All they want to do is create anger on both sides and drive people to watch their shows so that they can reap more profits. Shameful.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
49. Agreed
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:47 PM
Aug 2014

It's just that post after post seems to imply that that issue is settled.

I just wondered if someone has corroborated that because if all they're going on is the video ... it doesn't look like much to me!

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
50. also we honestly dont know how much this video was edited
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:48 PM
Aug 2014

or what preceded it. this police department cannot be trusted.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
42. well we don't actually know what happened, we can't even confirm that it was a robbery
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:10 PM
Aug 2014

given that no judge/jury/hearing/witnesses were involved.

this is what happens when the entire justice system is taken into the hands of cops.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
46. I think maybe we have different ideas on what a prank is. :)
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:15 PM
Aug 2014

No worries- the important thing is the police's over reaction to the situation resulting in the murder of a young man.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
48. also annoying is the Store owner himself is saying nothing that happened in the store
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:22 PM
Aug 2014

had anything to do with what happened to brown being shot and killed. the store owner himself didn't call the cops about anything.

and yet you have people trying to use it to justify him being shot .

JI7

(89,247 posts)
47. i work in an area with a lot of bars
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 04:19 PM
Aug 2014

it's mostly white although there is a decent amount of diversity .

but i see white guys doing things all the time which when done by a black guy is described as thuggish and results in lectures about the black community. guys who are yelling and screaming and throwing things and harrassing women .

i see white guys being assholes to cops when they are drunk or even when they are not drunk. they start saying shit to the cops and usually the cops either just laugh at them and escort them away but they are never violent with them.


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