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book_worm

(15,951 posts)
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 09:41 AM Nov 2014

I'm sorry but I think Obama is partly to blame

I have been a strong supporter of his over the years and think in many ways he has done a very good job. He is as cool as a cucumber or perhaps an ice berg. Sometimes there is a feeling that there is no passion there. He doesn't fight, so people don't really know if he truly supports his agenda. He seems to use the bully pulpit of the presidency only sparingly. He has accomplished a good many thngs--especially The Affordable Care Act, but even there despite providing insurance for more than 10 million people --many people are convinced by GOP arguments because, frankly, Obama and his team don't do well in countering the arguments.

I support the president and think he is a good man and a good president, but I hope the president will go to the mat once in a while and not just talk of 'cooperation' because for six years he hasn't gotten any in return.

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I'm sorry but I think Obama is partly to blame (Original Post) book_worm Nov 2014 OP
OK, seriously, what do you mean by "fight"? Recursion Nov 2014 #1
He compromises prematurely - he takes things off the table before there's even a debate el_bryanto Nov 2014 #3
On that, we are in total agreement. cleanhippie Nov 2014 #5
You may not understand politics. randome Nov 2014 #15
You may not understand negotiation el_bryanto Nov 2014 #34
It's a substitute for GOTV and doing anything oneself treestar Nov 2014 #24
And the media does a very good job of promoting the GOP disinformation and agenda and not discussing kelliekat44 Nov 2014 #2
No kidding! nt arthritisR_US Nov 2014 #10
And media does a good job of raking in Koch bro and Rove $$$$ emulatorloo Nov 2014 #13
i agree with you. I know it's not right but fox news is part okieinpain Nov 2014 #18
Denial Skeowes28 Nov 2014 #4
That Obama! How dare he be so blameworthy! 6000eliot Nov 2014 #6
Yes!!! Someone who gets it! n/t progressivebydesign Nov 2014 #19
I'm a yellow-dog Democrat walkingman Nov 2014 #7
I always get off my butt and vote. antiquie Nov 2014 #8
i agree with some of your points but the iraq thing is frustrating okieinpain Nov 2014 #25
It is definately frustrating walkingman Nov 2014 #36
lol, that sounds like the republican commercials in oklahoma. too funny. n/t. okieinpain Nov 2014 #37
of course it had nothing to do with the so-called democrats running away from his accomplishments. still_one Nov 2014 #9
And may I repeat that the two Presidents... TreasonousBastard Nov 2014 #11
Agreed. Obama is viewed as weak. BillZBubb Nov 2014 #12
Image is everything Awsi Dooger Nov 2014 #38
The amazing communicator is not. jillan Nov 2014 #14
Hmmm.. so when EXACTLY is he supposed to be doing that??? progressivebydesign Nov 2014 #21
I don't think anyone (especially Obama) anticipated how racist the American populace is. Tatiana Nov 2014 #16
He who owns the media, owns the message. progressivebydesign Nov 2014 #17
He wasn't running for election. JaneyVee Nov 2014 #20
Now that both houses are Republican treestar Nov 2014 #22
Maybe Obama is sick of fighting. Ykcutnek Nov 2014 #23
If he is sick of fighting, then he should resign. bigwillq Nov 2014 #27
Plenty of people get burnt out on doing their jobs. Ykcutnek Nov 2014 #29
Boo Hoo. Then quit. bigwillq Nov 2014 #31
never fear....the blame Obama "Democrats" have VanillaRhapsody Nov 2014 #26
Maybe it was the job of those running to fight for themselves and us. bravenak Nov 2014 #28
I disagree. Democratic candidates (and uninformed voters) were to blame. Vinca Nov 2014 #30
The LGBT minority has delivered the vote to many candidates who threw us under the bus Bluenorthwest Nov 2014 #33
I agree with you. bravenak Nov 2014 #35
Exactly. The LGBT community was apathetic and disenfranchised from politics for years Bluenorthwest Nov 2014 #41
I am waiting for the stats. Who did and did not vote? I am hoping for a state by state breakdown. jwirr Nov 2014 #32
Partly to blame? you're not making sense to me.. blame for what? I have his back.. and, Cha Nov 2014 #39
the President does talk of other things besides 'cooperation'. LawDeeDah Nov 2014 #40
Anyone who thinks Obama hasn't gone to the mat for progressive issues hasn't been paying attention. NYC Liberal Nov 2014 #42

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
1. OK, seriously, what do you mean by "fight"?
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 09:41 AM
Nov 2014

Seriously. I see that all the time here.

Do you want him to go punch Mitch McConnell in the face? Key his car?

What do you mean by "fight"?

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
3. He compromises prematurely - he takes things off the table before there's even a debate
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 09:43 AM
Nov 2014

Rather than doing that he should put genuine democratic proposals out there and then work from there - instead of prematurely giving up on things like the Government Option.

Bryant

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
15. You may not understand politics.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:03 PM
Nov 2014

You don't play a losing hand repeatedly because then the electorate labels you a permanent loser.

If he had done the things you say, you know what would have changed? Nothing.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]I'm always right. When I'm wrong I admit it.
So then I'm right about being wrong.
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el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
34. You may not understand negotiation
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:48 PM
Nov 2014

You don't start with huge concessions because it just makes people think you are willing to accept even larger concessions.

Bryant

treestar

(82,383 posts)
24. It's a substitute for GOTV and doing anything oneself
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:58 PM
Nov 2014

You sit back and demand the President "fight." Because only the Presidency matters to these people. They really wish Congress was simply a rubber stamping body.

 

kelliekat44

(7,759 posts)
2. And the media does a very good job of promoting the GOP disinformation and agenda and not discussing
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 09:42 AM
Nov 2014

the counter arguments.

okieinpain

(9,397 posts)
18. i agree with you. I know it's not right but fox news is part
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:52 PM
Nov 2014

of the republican party, dems don't have that.

 

Skeowes28

(62 posts)
4. Denial
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 09:48 AM
Nov 2014

I'm a diehard dem but I knew this election was over for dems before it began the Mai was terrible but thank god 2016 looks allot Bette

walkingman

(7,595 posts)
7. I'm a yellow-dog Democrat
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 09:52 AM
Nov 2014

but am personally frustrated with Obama. He doesn't seem to have strong principles and telegraphs that message. His recent escalation in Iraq was stupid and unnecessary and his willingness to change CPI on SS are not principles of Democratic Party.

Let's face it "white males rule" and if that sounds harsh then maybe minorities and women will get off their butt and vote? We get the government we ask for.

okieinpain

(9,397 posts)
25. i agree with some of your points but the iraq thing is frustrating
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:00 PM
Nov 2014

I hate that he had to get involved but the media made it look like iraq is one of the 50 states of the usa, and he allowed a terrorist organization to take it over. LOL, what happened to the dude running that country and i didn't hear one person say isil is the reason president obama didn't get more involved in syria to overthrow assad. i only heard that here on DU.

walkingman

(7,595 posts)
36. It is definately frustrating
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 03:23 PM
Nov 2014

but only because we continue on the same path. I think most people agree that Iraq was a mistake but as usual we seem to try and fix our mistakes with more mistakes. The drone program was just another way to appease the "fear" campaign that surrounds almost everything we do.

God - fear of damnation and everlasting hell; Ebola - fear that a pandemic will kill us all; Guns - fear that we will not be able to defend ourselves against the bad guys or government; Gay marriage - fear that our social structure will disintegrate into bestiality or that gaydom will take over the masses and destroy the family values; Universal healthcare - fear that socialism will destroy our "free" markets; Taxes - fear that raising taxes will stop job growth; Minimum wage - fear that businesses will go broke paying more to their employees; Climate change - fear that it will destroy the oil companies and that other will gain advantage over us economically and on and on....

In truth the difference between left and right these days is small because we have shifted so far to the right. IMO, we are quickly becoming a nation rules by Corporations and the electorate is being manipulated to maintain the status quo simply because of FEAR.

Peace

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
11. And may I repeat that the two Presidents...
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 10:05 AM
Nov 2014

in the post war era that have been most revered were Reagan and JFK.

And why is that?

They were communicators. They inspired the citizenry.

Now, I'm not going to defend just howReagan inspired us, but he didn't get to be this conservative icon for his policies.

At first, I had high hopes for Obama to continue the tradition. He might not have the oratorical skills of MLK, but his speechwriters are the best and I hoped he'd give it a shot.

Nope. He has lots of good qualities, but rousing speechmaking just isn't one of them.

And, you are right that he has been avoiding conflict, giving the other side free reign to walk all over him. It's like he just doesn't get that this isn't a gentlemen's quarrel-- it's a life or death struggle between two opposing forces. I think he gets that the public gets the worst of it as they battle, but just giving up isn't an answer, either..

BillZBubb

(10,650 posts)
12. Agreed. Obama is viewed as weak.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 10:42 AM
Nov 2014

He can inspire the Democratic base to support him personally, but he has zero coattails. The republicans mock him at every opportunity, but there is never any counter punch.

Obama has offered no vision for the Democratic future. He is more a day to day reactor to events. His chief ideal seemed to be bipartisanship--in a time when the other party was never going to cooperate. The end result to many has been a lack of leadership.

Of course, not all of this is Obama's fault, but he does bear some of the responsibility.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
38. Image is everything
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 03:56 PM
Nov 2014

The danger throughout with Obama is that he would come across as too weak. Unfortunately that has played out.

His entire presidency has been like that performance in the first debate against Romney. It doesn't matter what you are saying or doing if it comes across as if you are looking down at your notes and generally disinterested.

jillan

(39,451 posts)
14. The amazing communicator is not.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:00 PM
Nov 2014

This is turning out to be his biggest weakness.

The history books will write about Obama that he was one of the best Presidents ever....
but no one will remember.

progressivebydesign

(19,458 posts)
21. Hmmm.. so when EXACTLY is he supposed to be doing that???
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:56 PM
Nov 2014

When the media not only ignores everything he does, and actually will cut IN to his speeches and press conferences to cover a Nascar story... You guys got it wrong. It's not his message, it's the medium. The media has refused to cover any of his accomplishments, refused to show him to the American public at all. We couldn't get Bush's idiot face off the TVs... they were there for every stupid staged photo op, every speech, every burp.

The MEDIA portrays Obama as week. He is far from him.

Tatiana

(14,167 posts)
16. I don't think anyone (especially Obama) anticipated how racist the American populace is.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:46 PM
Nov 2014

No one wants to believe they live in a nation full of racists. I truly believe Obama wanted to be the President of everyone. But everyone didn't want him to be their President and a resentment began to grow. I would even call it a hatred. It deserved to be confronted and tackled head on. But I believe Obama's advisers, as well as Obama himself, thought compromise and appeasement would be the way to win those racists over.

It didn't. It only emboldened them.

I don't think Obama, in his life, had ever dealt with racism on this level and he seemed genuinely mystified as to how to deal with this issue. His advisers were no help. I believe they encouraged him to move to the right, to "cave" and to try to pacify a segment of the population that should be confronted and shamed. Turning the other cheek doesn't work with these type of people. Force and strength does.

So, I don't think Obama got a good feel for the Presidential "bully pulpit." He was too busy trying not to look like an angry black man. Ironically, maybe the angry black man may have rallied others to his side and caused the virulent right to think twice about their disrespect.

I fear that we are in for more compromising in the future.

progressivebydesign

(19,458 posts)
17. He who owns the media, owns the message.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 12:48 PM
Nov 2014

I don't fault the President one bit. I voted for him twice, and he's done everything that he said he'd do. All the while enduring a hostile media (after the fawning media for Bush who fucked the Country up one side and down the other,) a GOP that vowed before he got in office that they would destroy him, scumbag's like Issa whose entire tenure has been to take the President down.

What more could that guy have done, FFS??? Shown up in a flight suit on an aircraft carrier???

Let's be honest, NO WAY he is to blame for this crap. He presided over: killing Public Enemy #1, OBL, the near gutting of Al Queda, the recovery of the job and real estate market, the saving of the auto industry, health care reform, reducing the deficit, growing the GDP, exploding the consumer confidence index.

It has NOTHING to do with how he acts.. it has to do with having a coordinated and hostile media that refused to EVER report on all of those things. They spend the past 6 years doing nothing but scaring people. And there is so much inherent racism in those folks that believe the worst about him.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
27. If he is sick of fighting, then he should resign.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:11 PM
Nov 2014

I don't believe he should. And I also don't agree with your post.

 

Ykcutnek

(1,305 posts)
29. Plenty of people get burnt out on doing their jobs.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:19 PM
Nov 2014

And he has one of the most difficult jobs in the world.

I wouldn't blame him if he were to phone it in the next couple of years.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
28. Maybe it was the job of those running to fight for themselves and us.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:18 PM
Nov 2014

Republicans do not ignore their base. Democrats irritate their base and are always trying for the 'moderate' vote or trying to run away from policies that democrats and those on the left support. It seems to me that Dems try to pull conservative votes by leaning right and lose votes they should already have sewn up. And they assume that certain groups are in the bag and that they do not have to do anything for them.
Dems ignore issues that are very important to me all the time. They ignore racism so as to not piss off people who never vote for them anyway.

Democrats spend too much time sitting on the side lines waiting for someone else to do their fighting for them and lack loyalty to the president and the base. They completely ignore the younger voters and pretend to care while working hards to distance themselves from policies that would help young people. Some dems are fighters, but I find most to be stuck back in the 80's or 90's and they are still afraid of Reagan.

Maybe next election, we can play offense. Maybe we can stop caring about offending racist legislators and we can call them out to their faces instead of being nice. Maybe we can accuse the right of running a prison state. Maybe we can put minimum wage on the ballot everywhere to draw in young voters and poor voters. Maybe we can stop only caring about the middle class and try to get the poor votes too. We have plenty of poor. Maybe we can stop eating our own for a few years and do something for the people. And maybe we can get the 50' state strategy going again.

Vinca

(50,261 posts)
30. I disagree. Democratic candidates (and uninformed voters) were to blame.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:23 PM
Nov 2014

While we might disagree with many things the POTUS has done, he's also done some very good things. Democrats should have stood as Democrats and touted those things. Instead, they opted to go GOP Lite. I'm also wondering why Democratic candidates would expect minority voters to support them when they threw the first black POTUS under the bus.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
33. The LGBT minority has delivered the vote to many candidates who threw us under the bus
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:47 PM
Nov 2014

including candidate Obama who said he was against our rights because of God and held rallies with actual ex gay hate preachers who preached hate at those rallies. I have yet to be allowed to vote for a Presidential candidate who has not trash talked my community directly. Next cycle, Hillary who opposed my rights for 17 years, Warren who was an anti gay Reagan Republican during the early AIDS crisis, Biden, who used to spout 'I agree with Palin about gay marriage'. All of them threw me under the bus, again and again.
Such privilege, to sit out a vote because a politician did not sufficiently praise another politician. I'm used to holding my nose and voting for some guy who just said God thinks I shouldn't have equal rights.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
35. I agree with you.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:54 PM
Nov 2014

I have to vote for people who ignore racism and think it ended in the Sixties and want me to hush so they can pull in 'moderates'. People who are pro drug war even though it is unbalanced and used as a defacto war against black families and men especially. People who expect my vote and feel that we as black people owe it to them because the republicans are demons.
It is hard to get black youth to vote for people who are pro drug war, anti obama, scared of raising wages or lowering school costs, and love corporations more that their mothers.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
41. Exactly. The LGBT community was apathetic and disenfranchised from politics for years
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 04:25 PM
Nov 2014

it really took the full tilt existential challenge of AIDS to get people engaged. But part of that engagement involved voting for people whose message was not always palatable and which was frequently openly hostile toward us. It was not easy to get people to vote for candidates in spite of the candidates lack of support for the people.
When we first organized, not only was the Republican Party anti gay, the Democrats were not very receptive either. Not one national Democrat had ever included the gay community in their campaign talks. Not even a mention. Well, no positive mention, there was no shortage of open bigotry.
Next cycle my choices are all a bunch of people with a history of anti gay talk, actions, votes. Every last one of them. Except Bernie Sanders. The rest have all of them done or said bad things to or about LGBT people. Openly said it. That's how it is.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
32. I am waiting for the stats. Who did and did not vote? I am hoping for a state by state breakdown.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 01:44 PM
Nov 2014

Then I will decide if President Obama has any blame.

Cha

(297,137 posts)
39. Partly to blame? you're not making sense to me.. blame for what? I have his back.. and,
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 03:57 PM
Nov 2014

a lot of other people do too.. he is in the front lines standing between us and fascism. But, it's time to pick at his bones like vultures now? It's ugly.

It's Yes We Can.. "We" being the operative word.. Too many people don't really pay attention to all that this President has been saying. He hasn't been talking about "cooperation" for a long time now.

Don't lump the President in with those who don't counter the arguments.. Obama does a great job of it.. if only people paid more attention.

 

LawDeeDah

(1,596 posts)
40. the President does talk of other things besides 'cooperation'.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 03:57 PM
Nov 2014

Where have you been?

And this ice bergy passionless shit - yeah, it's just plain shit.

NYC Liberal

(20,135 posts)
42. Anyone who thinks Obama hasn't gone to the mat for progressive issues hasn't been paying attention.
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 04:41 PM
Nov 2014

At ALL.

Time and time again he has fought. Health care. LGBT rights. Women's rights. Better regulation of big business. The environment. On and on and on and on. His accomplishments have rivaled, or arguably even surpassed, those of FDR. Yes FDR. For all those people who scream that Obama should be more like him, where was FDR's health care reform bill? Where was his civil rights legislation? Where was he on women's rights? FDR had 75%+ majorities in the House AND Senate for almost 12 YEARS! And never had anything close to a Repub majority. Obama has done far more for many people with a far smaller majority.

But...any time President Obama accomplishes something, he is attacked both from the right (for being "wrong&quot and from a vocal minority on the left (for not doing "enough&quot . He has had to work twice has hard, accomplish twice as much, to get barely half the credit. And the people who claim to be on his side in actuality rarely have his back in supporting him against real enemies on the right. They attack him for speak out ("actions mean more than words!!!1&quot and then attack him when he takes action ("it's NOT ENOUGH!!!1&quot . It's never enough for some.

many people are convinced by GOP arguments because, frankly, Obama and his team don't do well in countering the arguments


No. They have countered the lies every single damn day. Put the blame where it lies: with the media. No matter what Obama says, it will be spun, twisted, and distorted by them. And if all else fails, they simply won't report on it.
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