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Here's the letter that the Lamasco Bar received:
Here is the owner's response on Facebook:
I. Can't. Even.
I have spent the better part of this afternoon and evening having so many feels in regards to this letter, and I am not even sure where to begin.
I don't think I have ever gone from such intense feelings of anger to protectiveness to sadness in such a short period of time. So many of my dear friends are LGBT, and to know the character and moral fiber of these humans, and to know this is something they have to deal with on a daily basis, makes my momma bear side absolutely irate; anger so intense it makes you cry. For these people to say we are "low" to make sure EVERY SINGLE HUMAN feels welcome in my place business, Mr. and Mrs. Hill, you most certainly know nothing about me or how I conduct my business. I have such a hard time even mentally grappling with your logic, because I live in a world that a person is a person. IT IS THAT SIMPLE. I am in the business of people, and in particular, we pride ourselves on making every single person that walks through our door feel welcomed. A first time Lamasco Bar and Grill patron walks in our door as a friend, and more often than not, leaves as family. AND THIS LOVE, ACCEPTANCE, AND TOLERANCE IS EXTENDED TO ALL! And under my watch and care, for many decades to come, this will always be the manner in which I conduct business.
In regards to to the values of the original owners, I must say, you did give me quite a chuckle. Lamasco Bar, during the 1920's, was a speak-easy and house of ill-repute. Stories of gambling, illegal rum-running, stories of loose women and even looser liquor pours abound. For me, this was part of the charm of the old gal, and one of the reasons I fell in love with our story. I can guarantee you, the original owners are rolling over in their graves at your supposition they would be offended by my current manner in running the business, NOT at us accepting ALL people.
In regards to shaming my employees, I have never been more proud of a group of people. My LAMASCO FAMILY, is compromised of some of the most kind, caring, ethical, community minded individuals I have ever seen in a small business. The way they take care of each other, our extended Lamasco family (patrons), and the way they have adopted my business philosophy of love and acceptance above all, makes me one the proudest business owners ever.
I'm sure you can find a like-minded bigoted owner in which to patronize their business, but I do wish for a day in my hometown, in which this would be an impossibility! You might want to stay off Franklin Street and Haynie's Corner, because all we have is love there too. I know MANY owners in the business community of Evansville, and there are MANY who are very supportive of basic human rights for all. In fact, you can check all the places in Evansville to stay away from, at Map Evansville!
I will do my best to take a moment out of my very love and awesome filled life to send you light and soul healing thoughts, Mr. and Mrs. Hill. It probably wouldn't take but a few times for you to #GetLamascoed and we could have you waving your freak flags, spewing rainbows, and having a much more general happy disposition. Very quickly with our crew and our crowds, we'd have you learning the gift of acceptance and love for all in no time.
jtuck004
(15,882 posts)I never saw anything like that before!
That is WONDERFUL!
THANKS!
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Last edited Sat Apr 11, 2015, 10:10 AM - Edit history (1)
Cringe.
I can almost comprehend going to notebook paper for the sheer trashiness needed to underscore the ill-raised sentiment.
But...please for the love of all that is good and pure, that page has tiny little scoring along the edge. See it?
So you can at least rid the sheet of those nasty, grabby, hideous hands.
caraher
(6,278 posts)I teach and that move of ripping the homework out of the notebook ignoring the scoring - drives me bonkers. Doesn't put me in a generous mood when grading. Also wastes my time (because I cannot proceed until I fix the result of their careless laziness).
My small-ish Indiana town is going to consider its own resolution opposing LGBT discrimination this coming week. One thing Pence's folly has done is make people declare which side they are on, and it's not as many on the side of bigotry as the Christianists imagined.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)caraher
(6,278 posts)Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)alphafemale
(18,497 posts)MH1
(17,573 posts)and don't let me easily separate the sheet out of the book, you won't find me buying that cheap-ass brand of notebook again.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)3catwoman3
(23,944 posts)ITA - classy, just like the idiots who wrote it.
At the pediatric office, we occasionally get real pain-in-ass parents who are always unhappy and play the "We just might have to leave for another practice" card. We don't miss their business one bit, and politely restrain ourselves from saying, "Please do, and the sooner the better."
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Some formally normal people become insufferable when they become parents.
"Don't you SEE how perfect and precious this child is? So much better than every other child you will ever meet."
irisblue
(32,928 posts)I did that once, didn't speak it, just copied the records, put them in a file and hoped they would leave, didn't work.
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)lame54
(35,262 posts)Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)brer cat
(24,523 posts)The Lamasco family rocks.
sinkingfeeling
(51,436 posts)SCVDem
(5,103 posts)on the Lamasco Bar?
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)In my mind I pictured a small 50 seat mom and pop tavern. Seeing the reality makes me realize how the original hater is a piss ant in the sheer size of this place.
His futility amuses me and he should go pound sand.
Those like them will not be missed!
Thespian2
(2,741 posts)A very fine response to some very bigoted people. Saw your map and your webpage. If I were ever in your city, I would come by for a drink.
seveneyes
(4,631 posts)We all need to stop allowing children to be taught to hate and belittle others.
This kind of sickness will die with the absence of its teachings.
calimary
(81,099 posts)Eloquent and wonderful response! It SO restores my faith! I think we all need to see, read, and savor more stuff like this. We all need reminding that there are loads of people on THIS particular platform here - than there are the bad guys. They're just never the noisy ones, so they don't get noticed as much. I know I certainly need reminders of this! Thank you for posting this one, ehrnst!
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)RecoveringJournalist
(148 posts)We're not all bigots here. And I have a new favorite bar when I'm next in Evansville.
Missn-Hitch
(1,383 posts)Reading this story makes me want to move back to help in this fight. "The Christianists" (credit to previous poster for such a perfect descriptor of this club) are already increasing the "victim" rhetoric. Assault on christians, bigotry toward christians, etc. Great story for me to engage in on a personal level. Cheers!
niyad
(113,049 posts)and I absolutely LOVED the part about the bar being a speakeasy and brothel.
oh, and I loved that even though the names were blanked, the response referred to Jay and Ann Hill several times.
kath
(10,565 posts)Staph
(6,251 posts)kath
(10,565 posts)Journeyman
(15,024 posts)It's late and I should have been able to reason that one out, but sometimes you just don't feel like spending any more time on some moron's screed than you have to.
Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)That'll frost 'em.
leanforward
(1,076 posts)You just have to love the Hills. I noted there names were blocked on their note. If I'm in the Evansville area anytime soon, I will stop in and have one. That's south of I-70 near the Illinois State line.
Cha
(296,801 posts)lpbk2713
(42,736 posts)I'm surprised it wasn't written with a crayon.
Heidi
(58,237 posts)niyad
(113,049 posts)the responses here to the letter. She said that was the second one they had gotten like that--the first one had not even bothered with a name.
anyway, she wanted to thank us all for our support. this sounds like a truly great and welcoming place.