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Now don't forget ladies, "Clean away the clutter before you husband arrives" (Original Post) kpete Apr 2015 OP
In other words: "Know Your Place." blkmusclmachine Apr 2015 #1
URL: http://resources2.news.com.au/images/2013/06/14/1226663/736298-burqa.jpg blkmusclmachine Apr 2015 #3
Oh, really, laughed all the way through. Thinkingabout Apr 2015 #2
If I started doing this after 40 years of marriage, hubby would think he was in the wrong house. leftofcool Apr 2015 #4
NOW I know why my 50s marriage fell apart. By the way does anyone know where this came jwirr Apr 2015 #5
I think it came from 2015. It appears to be a mash up of pictures from various sources ND-Dem Apr 2015 #14
And why Valium was referred to as "mother's little helpers." nt tblue37 Apr 2015 #17
Exactly. But seriously I don't think any of us back then were that bad. I suspect many of those pics jwirr Apr 2015 #21
The "perfect dinner" looks like boiled armadillo fresh from the interstate. Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #6
Yes. Kath1 Apr 2015 #7
Yuck. I had classes on this back in the day. Cleita Apr 2015 #8
This reminded me of a gem from the '60s - Grammy award winner LiberalElite Apr 2015 #20
Hey, little girl, comb your hair, frogmarch Apr 2015 #30
yep.. that and annabanana Apr 2015 #31
Marvin Gaye - I'll be Doggone - esp. at 1:50: (It's just one line) LiberalElite Apr 2015 #32
One of the weirdest my-how-times-have-changed aspect of this is Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #9
FTS!!! 2naSalit Apr 2015 #10
I was 9 years old in 1950 and it sure as hell wasn't like that in our house tularetom Apr 2015 #11
I was ten and that's for sure they weren't the Cleavers or Father Knows Best. Cleita Apr 2015 #12
as far as i can see that's a mash up of photos from various sources with an invented text. ND-Dem Apr 2015 #13
Clean up the clutter... littlemissmartypants Apr 2015 #15
Ouch! MiniMe Apr 2015 #16
Well, just call me a hoarder, I guess NickB79 Apr 2015 #24
Rapier wit. I like it. nt littlemissmartypants Apr 2015 #35
LOL! Behind the Aegis Apr 2015 #18
thank you kpete Apr 2015 #22
!2 is just so insulting treestar Apr 2015 #19
When I mercuryblues Apr 2015 #23
Screw that shit!!! pipi_k Apr 2015 #25
My upbringing in in black and white AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #26
Kind of scary to think that some folks read this.... daleanime Apr 2015 #27
Lol Faux pas Apr 2015 #28
If my wife did this, I'd get really suspicious FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #29
I be worried I was about to be poisoned. n/t MosheFeingold Apr 2015 #33
I always heard locks Apr 2015 #34

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
5. NOW I know why my 50s marriage fell apart. By the way does anyone know where this came
Fri Apr 17, 2015, 11:15 PM
Apr 2015

from originally?

 

ND-Dem

(4,571 posts)
14. I think it came from 2015. It appears to be a mash up of pictures from various sources
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:57 AM
Apr 2015

linked by a newly invented text.

the full thing is found on a right-wing site, which the photos copied here link to.

http://www.thefederalistpapers.org/us/see-how-wives-were-expected-to-act-in-1950-versus-2015

heres what looks like the original source:

http://www.hrtwarming.com/to-be-a-goodin-the-50s-10-is-shocking/

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
21. Exactly. But seriously I don't think any of us back then were that bad. I suspect many of those pics
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:08 AM
Apr 2015

come from advertisements and if we had seen this as it is presented today we would have laughed. But that is not to say that much of that did not happen -just not all of it.

I am going to a wedding shower this month and may try to find a way of using this as a joke.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
6. The "perfect dinner" looks like boiled armadillo fresh from the interstate.
Fri Apr 17, 2015, 11:15 PM
Apr 2015

Warning, ladies: your man may not approve if the roadkill souflee you slaved over all day, gives him leprosy.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
8. Yuck. I had classes on this back in the day.
Fri Apr 17, 2015, 11:36 PM
Apr 2015

Thank god I was still expected to know English, math, Latin and other boy stuff besides.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
30. Hey, little girl, comb your hair,
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:19 PM
Apr 2015

fix your makeup...♪♫

No.

I'm glad those days are gone. At least they are in my little world, but then I'm not a republican.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
9. One of the weirdest my-how-times-have-changed aspect of this is
Fri Apr 17, 2015, 11:45 PM
Apr 2015

the little boy in the first picture -- dressed in his suit for the family dinner!

2naSalit

(86,353 posts)
10. FTS!!!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:01 AM
Apr 2015

F that Sh*t. And it appears to be exactly what the r's expect.

And THIS one on particular...





Obviously they don't think women are anywhere near equal and barely human at that.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
11. I was 9 years old in 1950 and it sure as hell wasn't like that in our house
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:14 AM
Apr 2015

For those of you who weren't around, not every family was like the Cleavers or Father Knows Best.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
12. I was ten and that's for sure they weren't the Cleavers or Father Knows Best.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:51 AM
Apr 2015

But we liked watching those shows because we wanted our families to be like them. By that I mean, we wanted them to have the nice clothes and homes. The truth was is that mom although she baked cookies and made dinner, usually wasn't all that made up and put together. She was tired and had a beer or drink in her hand before dad came home, usually rather dirty and tired, and he had a beer or drink before the the thrifty casserole dinner. There wasn't much TV to watch, if you had a TV. Maybe you listened to radio and went to bed pretty soon after. But I didn't find it a bad life.

Behind the Aegis

(53,921 posts)
18. LOL!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 03:26 AM
Apr 2015

#1 I take care of by texting him an hour or so before he comes home, unless I don't feel like cooking, then he fends for himself.

#2 "Be well dressed" Sometimes I am wearing something other than my undies when he gets home.

#3 Now, this rule, I got this one down pat! I am gay as hell and no one would ever call me "boring."

#4 Yeah, sometimes I am good at this, more so than him. Plus, I outsource!

#5 Um, it is ME that needs to be comfortable otherwise things get real dicey real quick!

#6 "Peace of Mind" Ever try to quiet down 4 Chihuahuas?!

#7 "Smile" Yeah...that can mean multiple things...sometimes, it means "this is gonna cost you!"

#8 If I waited for him to talk, there would be nothing spoken in our home!

#9 "Manners" He better be interested in what is happening with me!

#10 "Freedom" He better call or text me! I will go looking for him! It won't be pleasant when I find him.

#11 "Comfortable"

#12 I think I peed myself from laughter!

It is funny to look at these and make fun like I did, but there is a profound sadness and dismay that some still feel this is "appropriate" and how "a lady should act." Marriage is a partnership...ours is!

treestar

(82,383 posts)
19. !2 is just so insulting
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:31 AM
Apr 2015

I wonder who wrote that - man or woman? Women could say these things to, to younger women.

mercuryblues

(14,525 posts)
23. When I
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:36 AM
Apr 2015

read the title, I thought it was going to be an instruction manual on how to get all those republican jobs out of my uterus.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
25. Screw that shit!!!
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:57 AM
Apr 2015

My first two marriages lasted less than five years each even though I followed most of those rules.


This time around, I'm a whole different person and Mr Pipi appreciates a challenge, much as he would never admit it.


We just celebrated 20 years together.



Faux pas

(14,645 posts)
28. Lol
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:18 AM
Apr 2015

when I was married, my husband was the clutter. All those examples are the reason I couldn't watch Mad Men, I lived that nightmare why would I want to watch it on the tv?

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