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Panich52

(5,829 posts)
Mon May 4, 2015, 11:43 AM May 2015

Flight Turbulence: Another Example Of Runaway Religious Accommodations | Americans United

Anyone who uses modes of public transport should expect to encounter women. You may end up sitting next to one. If you aren’t willing to deal with that, don’t travel by these methods.

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Seasoned travelers learn to deal with it. But here’s one thing I’m not going to put up with: giving up my seat or being moved to another one because a religious fundamentalist has decided he can’t tolerate sitting next to me.

Of course, I don’t have to worry about this because I’m a man. But lately, a lot of women have encountered this problem thanks to an ultra-conservative faction of Hasidic Judaism whose members have decided that they can’t sit next to women on commercial flights. Their antics are increasingly inconveniencing a lot of passengers.

As The New York Times reported last week, “A growing number of airline passengers, particularly on trips between the United States and Israel, are now sharing stories of conflicts between ultra-Orthodox Jewish men trying to follow their faith and women just hoping to sit down.”

The Times reported that several flights from New York to Israel were delayed or disrupted recently because Hasidic men would not take their seats. Sometimes other passengers will agree to a seat shuffle to accommodate these men, but more and more women are saying they aren’t going to do it. I don’t blame them. (It’s worth noting that not all Hasidic men feel this way. It’s just a tiny minority that refuses to sit next to any women except their family members.)

This is yet another example of religious "accommodations" run amok – and the unrealistic expectations these demands have created.

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https://au.org/blogs/wall-of-separation/flight-turbulence-another-example-of-runaway-religious-accommodations


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Religious misogyny may be more overt among Hasidic Jews, but it's alive, well, and in overdrive among RW 'Christian' radicals in the US.

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Flight Turbulence: Another Example Of Runaway Religious Accommodations | Americans United (Original Post) Panich52 May 2015 OP
Such b.s. Arugula Latte May 2015 #1
I agree. nt darkangel218 May 2015 #2
fundies snooper2 May 2015 #3
I wouldn't move JustAnotherGen May 2015 #4
Anybody Can Sue Anybody ProfessorGAC May 2015 #8
I could see myself getting into real trouble if this happened to me. Lizzie Poppet May 2015 #5
Suppose someone said that their religion forbids sitting next to someone of a diffferent race? drm604 May 2015 #6
No one should accommodate someone's religious beliefs FLPanhandle May 2015 #7
Yep. If anything like this happened to me, expect me to be a real asshole Nay May 2015 #10
I was on a flight with one of these psychos years ago Sen. Walter Sobchak May 2015 #9
The flight attendents should have taught him the "cootie quits!" technique darkangel218 May 2015 #13
If they care so much, they should buy extra seats next to them n2doc May 2015 #11
Or charter a flight with an all male crew. hobbit709 May 2015 #12
Nope, not ever giving up my seat for one of these dudes. justiceischeap May 2015 #14
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
1. Such b.s.
Mon May 4, 2015, 11:46 AM
May 2015

If these nutty control-freak zealots don't want to sit next to an icky-girl-with-cooties they can strap themselves to the wing.

JustAnotherGen

(31,798 posts)
4. I wouldn't move
Mon May 4, 2015, 11:56 AM
May 2015

I simply wouldn't - he can move and try to find a 'middle seat' between to men.

I'm not doing.

He can sue me.

ProfessorGAC

(64,988 posts)
8. Anybody Can Sue Anybody
Mon May 4, 2015, 12:10 PM
May 2015

But, there at least would be no grounds. The airline wants to make an accommodation? Tell him he can leave the next time the entire flight is only men. That'll take a while.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
5. I could see myself getting into real trouble if this happened to me.
Mon May 4, 2015, 11:58 AM
May 2015

I make no small effort to check in as soon as humanly possible and get the seat I want (an aisle seat as close to the exit as possible). My first refusal to move will be polite. Beyond that, I'll be in Full Bitch Mode, believe me.

drm604

(16,230 posts)
6. Suppose someone said that their religion forbids sitting next to someone of a diffferent race?
Mon May 4, 2015, 12:06 PM
May 2015

Would it or should it be tolerated? Of course not. Why is this any different?

If you want to go out in public then you have to accept that you'll be in public and that everyone won't bow and scrape to your beliefs, regardless of how deeply held or sincere they are.

If you can't do that then either don't travel, or charter a private flight.

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
7. No one should accommodate someone's religious beliefs
Mon May 4, 2015, 12:08 PM
May 2015

If someone wants to believe in silly shit, they are free to do so. However, don't expect the rest of the world to accommodate you.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
10. Yep. If anything like this happened to me, expect me to be a real asshole
Mon May 4, 2015, 01:01 PM
May 2015

about it. I really hate being reminded daily that I'm half a human anyway, and by god, I'm not gonna get packed onto a shitty airplane and be reminded there, too.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
9. I was on a flight with one of these psychos years ago
Mon May 4, 2015, 12:31 PM
May 2015

As soon as the flight took off he ran to the back of the plane and sat in the bathroom and refused to come out. Eventually the flight attendants setup a cootie-free section for him and he was pretty ruthlessly heckled on his way down the aisle. I actually felt sorry for him, he was extremely young and didn't speak much english at all.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
13. The flight attendents should have taught him the "cootie quits!" technique
Mon May 4, 2015, 02:58 PM
May 2015

Jk. It's a hopeless situation with these people.

n2doc

(47,953 posts)
11. If they care so much, they should buy extra seats next to them
Mon May 4, 2015, 01:38 PM
May 2015

If they are too cheap to do that, they don't really care about their god so much.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
14. Nope, not ever giving up my seat for one of these dudes.
Mon May 4, 2015, 03:01 PM
May 2015

He's the one with the issue, not me. He should be the one expected to find other seating.

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