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Not The Onion!!
http://www.sfgate.com/news/article/Reports-Dad-confesses-to-murdering-family-on-6251468.php
The Province newspaper in Vancouver is reporting that Randy Jazen, of Rosedale, B.C., is suspected to have murdered his wife, sister, and adult daughter in a home which was apparently later set on fire....
The note allegedly posted by Janzen to Facebook begins: "Over the last 10 days I have done some of the worst things I could have ever imagined a person doing. First to do with my dear, sweet loving daughter Emily. The best little girl two parents could ever hope for"
Janzen goes on to explain that his daughter, Emily, had been struggling with migraines: "I just could not see my little girl hurt for one more second... I took a gun and shot her in the head and now she is migraine free and floating in the clouds on a sunny afternoon, her long beautiful brown hair flowing in the breeze, a true angel... Now my family is pain free and in heaven," he wrote."
Migraines?! This is the mentality behind physician-assisted suicide (now legal in Canada): that life with a painful, disabling medical condition is not worth living.
This brings back memories of the Tracy Latimer case. Tracy was a young girl in Saskatchewan who had cerebral palsy. Her dad also killed her to relieve her of her pain. There was a nationwide outpouring of sympathy -- for him.
LeftInTX
(25,224 posts)Maybe he won't get off in this case --- he killed other family members too.
Cal Carpenter
(4,959 posts)to make a case against physician-assisted suicide
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)Physician assisted suicide isn't done with a gun. This is just regular old deranged murder.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)This case most likely is about mental illness and access to lethal weapons. Doesn't have a damn thing to do with Dignity in Dying legislation, and the OP knows it.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)winter is coming
(11,785 posts)A family annihilator is nothing like physician-assisted suicide.
Duppers
(28,117 posts)Suicide is a Choice!
What these men have done is Murder!
The OP's lack of logic is most troubling.
REP
(21,691 posts)Electric Monk
(13,869 posts)Dad confesses to murdering family on Facebook to save daughter from migraines
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026643962
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The OP is being flat out dishonest. This story has nothing to do with assisted suicide. I have no idea what the OP's agenda is, but this is not progressive at all.
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Explanation: If you disagree with the OP bringing assisted suicide into this, then say so. I just can't stand mewling cowards who feel the need to shut someone up behind the scenes. Use your words and don't expect other people to fight your battles for you next time you have a fit.
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Codeine
(25,586 posts)NutmegYankee
(16,199 posts)This is really disgusting!
This has nothing to do with that.
Fla Dem
(23,645 posts)Whenever I start to feel sorry for myself, I just thank God I'm still alive. I complain about all the pain, but at least I'm here to feel it.
Post on the daughter's FB page on 4/124/2015.
This was murder pure and simple. PAS is when the person has an incurable, debilitating conditions and they request to end their life. Not so this case. Sounds like the dad just couldn't take it anymore. So very selfish.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)It was not his decision to make. He was disturbed. Murdered 3 people to help his daughter? A bullshit after the fact justification, maybe.
markpkessinger
(8,392 posts)Thank you!
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Two long days at court. So my congratulations to the Prosecutors on this case.
We are following a local case where the DA tried to build a case on FB postings that lacked any evidence to knowledge of an actual crime.
cali
(114,904 posts)physician assisted suicide? NOTHING. Fucking nothing at all. I mean what the hell? He murdered five members of his family.
Do explain the connection between physician assisted suicide and this case.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)I am not making a direct comparison, as Emily did not choose to be murdered, but had Daddy not fallen into the trap of viewing her illness as literally a fate worse than death, she would not have been.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Daddy would've come up with another reason for his rampage. Family annihilators have nothing to do with Death with Dignity Legislation. And you know that.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)And that is my point.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)and fail at it badly.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)is a bad thing.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)granted, most of those are theoretical, but still, this story, while tragic, is NOT it.
cali
(114,904 posts)assisted suicide
Shame on you.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)He sounds like he suffers from schizophrenia. He's completely delusional. He wasn't reasoning at all.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)That's my take away.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)That's my take away.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)the question of how you get from a man who murdered his family to PAS.
One has nothing to do with the other.
Yet, you see a connection.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)that disability is a fate worse than death. I know poeple who have been told, to their face, "I'd rather be dead than be like you."
morningfog
(18,115 posts)Which is far far far different than a doctor advising someone who is terminally ill or in untreatable and incessant pain.
You are not the judge of whether someone pain is so great that the only treatment available to them is their death. That is a choice they make with their physician's advice.
Here, a man murdered his family. That was his choice, not the victims. It is shameful to use this tragedy as on par with physician assisted suicide. You should delete the OP.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)The murderer's underlying mentality is revealed by his murder of the entire family. The other members of his family had no disability. His mind is disordered. You can't use this as an example of what you say it is. You're making your argument look silly.
There may be valid arguments against physician associated suicide but this example doesn't support them.
The difference is that with PAS the person decides that they want to commit suicide. The victims in this case you cite made no such choice.
bananas
(27,509 posts)Feron
(2,063 posts)If it weren't for migraines it would've been something else. I had a semester in school with many absences due to migraines. It sucked, but it was far from hopeless or fatal. It just took time to find a prevention and treatment plan that worked.
It's an absolute false equivalence between a migraine sufferer and someone who has a terminal illness and decides to die on their on terms.
You're not helping people with disabilities.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)He doesn't claim they had migraines.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)Should ever have to hear the news that her baby has died. Then I shot my sister because...etc.
http://blogs.theprovince.com/2015/05/08/a-fathers-disturbing-confession-to-murder/
LisaL
(44,973 posts)elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)And then too cowardly to off himself...
Lars39
(26,109 posts)He murdered because he wanted to murder.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)winter is coming
(11,785 posts)Dig into this guy's life and you'll likely find the true stressor is a recent job loss or threat of job loss... or perhaps that his marriage was breaking up.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)his excuse. Another day and it might have been constipation or something.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)Because he was mentally ill. Shame on your trying to compare this murder with the Death with Dignity issue.
wheniwasincongress
(1,307 posts)Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)tragedy to further your own agenda! Shame on you.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)After being convicted of 2nd degree murder (twice, 1st conviction was overturned on appeal), he was incarcerated on January 18, 2001. He didn't begin parole in March 2008. Not long enough in my opinion, but hardly "six whole months."
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Lochloosa
(16,063 posts)REP
(21,691 posts)I'll wait.
REP
(21,691 posts)How many clinics have you defended? I will wager less than I have. Conflating abortion with assisted suicide is far more of a reach than what I did here.
REP
(21,691 posts)I was an escort during the so-called Summer of Mercy.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)conflating abortion with assisted suicide plays right into the anti's' hands, by equating a fetus with a living person.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)It's a psycho making a bullshit defense
Shame on you.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)There it is.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)There it is.
Warpy
(111,240 posts)and shame on you for making the comparison between a murderer with mental problems and a program to offer terminally ill patients death with dignity.
A sane man would have taken his daughter in for treatment. A saner man might have had the insight to realize his own issues were taking a murderous turn and presented himself for treatment.
This man killed his wife and daughter because of his problems, not theirs. His Farcebook post was an attempt at rationalizing a heinous double murder.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)uppityperson
(115,677 posts)there is no comparison. Trying to compare these is a cheap shot not only against those murdered here but against those who have chosen to end their lives in their own way.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)but the underlying issue of devaluing disability is the same.
polly7
(20,582 posts)Physician assisted suicide doesn't 'devalue disability'. Can you come up with a case of it here that's actually relevant?
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)but assisted suicide would be.
http://www.kval.com/news/26140519.html
Her doctor offered hope in the new chemotherapy drug Tarceva, but the Oregon Health Plan sent her a letter telling her the cancer treatment was not approved.
Instead, the letter said, the plan would pay for comfort care, including "physician aid in dying," better known as assisted suicide.
"I told them, I said, 'Who do you guys think you are?' You know, to say that you'll pay for my dying, but you won't pay to help me possibly live longer?' " Wagner said.
Of course, this was in the Lower 48, where healthcare is practically barbaric compared to what you're used to in the Great White North.
polly7
(20,582 posts)My dad's doctor took away his hope before we even had a chance to begin to fight, I can only imagine how awful this had to have been for this woman. I agree that it's something that has to be regulated very closely - but every human being deserves the right to die with dignity once they've considered every option and made up their mind. I hope her doctor was reported.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)Reading the article, coverage for the chemo was denied because there's a longstanding policy not to reimburse for chemo than will only prolong life, without the potential for saving it. The woman in question must have been terminally ill. Because she lived in Oregon, the doctor's aid in dying included the possibility of PAS, but if she'd lived in a state where that's not legal, she still wouldn't have received the drug. Instead, she would have received palliative care until she died or the pain meds stopped working and she either committed suicide without a doctor's assistance or she asked to be taking off of IV feeding.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)Our health care system is fucked up, no question.
Godhumor
(6,437 posts)An article showing that cancer treatment is not covered is still not comparable to maintaining that physician assisted suicide can be used to target disabled people.
The first time a state allows guardians to choose PAS for a disabled, non-terminal dependent you will have a case. Somehow, I think you have a very long time to wait before that happens.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)Physician assisted suicide, death with dignity, is not about disability but about chosing your time and method of death when you are terminal.
Donald Ian Rankin
(13,598 posts)"This is the mentality behind physician-assisted suicide (now legal in Canada): that life with a painful, disabling medical condition is not worth living. "
Shame on you.
951-Riverside
(7,234 posts)First you dig into physician-assisted suicide then you find humor in this tragedy?
What the fuck is your problem?
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)I find it preposterous that anyone would take his own daughter's life over migraines.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)in common whatsoever with physician assisted suicide.
polly7
(20,582 posts)scrummy that you're doing this.
There was much more 'nationwide sympathy' for Tracy Latimer ............ and yes, many did empathize with her her father, Robert, it was a terrible thing all the way around.
My dad died on his own terms but he didn't have the luxury of physician-assisted suicide. When I think of what people like him torture themselves with emotionally getting to that point, reading crap like this really pisses me off. If you're against it, provide real reasons - not tragedies that have absolutely nothing to do with it.
Mariana
(14,854 posts)that there's another life after this one, and that it's much better than this one, he wouldn't have been so quick to pull the trigger. He says his family are in heaven and if he really believes that, then in his mind he's done the most loving thing he could possibly do for them by sending them there.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)I think you could make a much better case of religion being to blame than assisted suicide
Marr
(20,317 posts)physician assisted suicide. Much more.
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)will die. Suicide in itself by definition is a choice. For someone else to decide you will die is not suicide.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)See the case of Barbara Wagner upthread where she was told that Medicaid would pay for her suicide but not her chemo.
polly7
(20,582 posts)I've had to take some of mine in and hold them close and tell them how much I loved them as the vet did her work. They were suffering, and I felt very badly afterwards for dragging it out as long as I did - it was selfish of me. Why don't humans deserve the same right to go, when they know their condition is terminal or their pain unrelenting and un-treatable? There are safeguards in place to ensure their competency and that they haven't been influenced against their wishes. Their body - their right. My dad, to spare all of us from what he feared was a terminal illness and all it would involve, felt he had to use a gun.
The unanimous ruling, by establishing that the sanctity of life also includes the passage into death, extends constitutional rights into a new realm. The courts have used the 1982 Charter of Rights to establish gay marriage and to strike down a federal abortion law. The new ruling will change the way some Canadians are permitted to die.
In a brief, powerful opening paragraph, the court explained why it was creating a new constitutional right to autonomy over ones death in some circumstances: Those who are severely and irremediably suffering, whether physically or psychologically, may be condemned to a life of severe and intolerable suffering by the governments absolute ban on assisted dying. A person facing this prospect has two options: she can take her own life prematurely, often by violent or dangerous means, or she can suffer until she dies from natural causes. The choice is cruel.
***********
Lee Carter, holding a pink bouquet of daisies in honour of her mothers favourite colour, said in an interview after the ruling that Canadians now have a choice to die with dignity in our own country, surrounded by friends and family.
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/supreme-court-rules-on-doctor-assisted-suicide/article22828437/
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Aw, c'mon.
asking if you believe the suffering - for anyone or anything - should be able to be ended in a compassionate, humane manner, especially for human beings who have every right to choose their own way to go.
That was low.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)They refused to cover her chemo because she was terminally ill and chemo would only prolong, not save, her life. They would have made the same decision whether or not physician-assisted suicide was an option.
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)is not able to perform it themself. They "are" mentally capable, either by presence of mind or a living will. If a person is on life support and has no living will it is a choice to be made by family or, absent a family, a family a judge or physician. But that is not considered suicide. It's because the life is not viable or the person is brain dead and a decision is made to let the person pass away. They are "not" commiting suicide.
su·i·cide
ˈso͞oəˌsīd/
noun
1.
the action of killing oneself intentionally.
"he committed suicide at the age of forty"
synonyms:self-destruction, taking one's own life, killing oneself, self-murder
"was it suicide or murder?"
n2doc
(47,953 posts)There will be no sympathy for him. RIP for the women he killed.
Donald Ian Rankin
(13,598 posts)The valid direct parallel is between this guy's actions and the opponents of physician-assisted suicide (like yourself), not its opponents.
Like you, he decided that he had the right to decide for someone else whether their life should go on or whether they should die.
No-one is suggesting that life with a painful, disabling mental condition is always not worth living. However, some people feel that, *for them*, it isn't. Trying to use this to justify taking that choice away from them and making it yourself is utterly shameful.
Is comparing you to him fair? No, of course not, it's an exaggeration for effect. But it's a lot more reasonable than your post.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)And acted on it.
Way false equivalence.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)Springslips
(533 posts)Not understood by the OP but he actually share thinking with the murderer. For he and the murderer want to be the judge on whether someone elses life is worth living or not, instead of the person living that life.
The murderer decides his daughter's life is not worth living through the pain so kills her, not caring if the daughter wants to live it.
The OP want to decided that someone life is worth living through the pain, not caring if the individual doesn't want to live it.
It's the same control freakness. It just inside out of each other, but not opposite.
We are for individual choice, the murderer and OP are for forcing their belief on people.
The OP argument boomeranges on himself.
Oneironaut
(5,491 posts)The point of physician-assisted suicide is to speed death up when it is going to happen anyways. Using someone murdering their family as similar to physician-assisted suicide is silly.