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White House tantrum (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA May 2015 OP
My kids NEVER did that (I wish 8^) nt jonno99 May 2015 #1
Oh, mine either............fingers crossed behind my back leftofcool May 2015 #3
Actually, I did home daycare for 18 years, and my kids never did that. tblue37 May 2015 #22
Notice that they are all laughing their asses off! leftofcool May 2015 #2
And PBO is saying brer cat May 2015 #4
LOL.. the look on his and Michelle's faces are priceless! Cha May 2015 #10
I was thinking gratuitous May 2015 #12
You know, the hand gesture seems to agree with that. "See what I put up with?" n/t freshwest May 2015 #17
Totes! Cha May 2015 #24
LOL - That poor kid will never live this down. procon May 2015 #5
Yep - that pic is going on the high-school graduation picture board! nt jonno99 May 2015 #9
If I and my brother did that ... amb123 May 2015 #6
LOL! Reminds me of my baby shower. All the women were from Mexico. One (a university professor) freshwest May 2015 #7
I survived public tantrums with my nephews. so embarrassing Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #13
I think the embarrassment depends on location. In one state, the kid threw a tantrum over something. freshwest May 2015 #15
candy at the cash register would set them off. as I recall some stores created candy free lanes Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #18
Oh, every time I go to a grocery store, a kid is tratrumming over candy. Ads and sugar, oh no! n/t freshwest May 2015 #19
LOL! I just had this image of a university professor at your baby shower--throwing tblue37 May 2015 #21
Well, it was an example of a baby tantrum. All the women tried to tell me what to expect! It really freshwest May 2015 #23
Come on Mr President - you are good with children. Think of something to do. jwirr May 2015 #8
He's doing it. Giving them space to gain self control. morningfog May 2015 #14
LOL jwirr May 2015 #16
Thanks Obama! Mahalo LinLA Cha May 2015 #11
Heh heh heh--I thought this was going to be about his frustration with TTP critics. nt tblue37 May 2015 #20
Ive seen that before. Its not a tantrum. Its just that fresh. aikoaiko May 2015 #25
lol Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #26
Strike the pose for Ted Cruz. kairos12 May 2015 #27

tblue37

(65,333 posts)
22. Actually, I did home daycare for 18 years, and my kids never did that.
Sun May 24, 2015, 01:29 AM
May 2015

Well, once--sort of.

I raised or helped raise 37 kids (my 2 and 35 others) over those 18 years, and the only "tantrum" I ever had to deal with was an 8-year-old boy who was amped up after having had his asthma treatment, so when he started bouncing off the walls and I went to sit him on the couch to calm down, he started struggling, kicking, and flailing his arms. He ended up kicking me hard in the shin. He wasn't trying to kick me, but that's what happened.

But he wasn't normally like that at all. It's just that sometimes his ventilator treatment would get him too hyper, and this time he really lost control of himself.

procon

(15,805 posts)
5. LOL - That poor kid will never live this down.
Sat May 23, 2015, 02:29 PM
May 2015

Don't you know her parents are going to remind her of her day of national shame every time she acts out. They will drag out that photo for every family gathering, and use it in the future to warn off prospective suitors who might wonder what awaits them with their darling daughter.

amb123

(1,581 posts)
6. If I and my brother did that ...
Sat May 23, 2015, 02:31 PM
May 2015

Our mom would have said, "I don't know whose kids they are. They're not mine."

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
7. LOL! Reminds me of my baby shower. All the women were from Mexico. One (a university professor)
Sat May 23, 2015, 04:50 PM
May 2015
threw herself down on the floor just like that, legs flailing as well, screaming shrilly (in Spanish, of course) and my eyes nearly bugged out. I just gaped!

Because MY little one wasn't going to be that way...

Or so I thought, I was so naive.

A couple of years later kid didn't want to leave the Pottery Barn no matter how I reasoned it out.

I had to hoist said darling over my shoulder and kept walking, as reasoning did no good. I had the advantage, but those legs were flailing, and fists were pounding my back, and there was THE SCREAMING. Which I fully accepted and acted as if NOTHING WAS HAPPENING.

Having gently vanquished said public tantrum, nothing more was said and we drove home. And forgot about it until now.

So that childhood event was exactly as predicted...

EDIT to add:

That was near the end of the pregnancy. The baby shower at work was managed by the black ladies at my job. They bought me all kinds of things that I had no idea what they were for.

One lady said, 'She has no idea about having babies.' They decided to take special care of me and even followed me to the bathroom to make sure I didn't go into labor by myself. Yes, I had NO IDEA what I was getting into.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
15. I think the embarrassment depends on location. In one state, the kid threw a tantrum over something.
Sat May 23, 2015, 11:13 PM
May 2015

I had an inability to pay for some shiny piece of junk and no matter how I tried to explain, the tantrum continued. People were looking at me as if to say:

'What are you doing to that kid?'


In my home state, when same kid played the same routine for the same reason with the same response from me, KIDS walked up and said to my little angel:

'What are you doing talking like that to her? She's your MOM.'


Public reception makes a lot of difference. Although I had a sister-in-law who said:

'Children are born to shame you in public.'

Sorry you were embarrassed. In one situation I was embarrassed, in the other, pleasantly relieved.

Still, except for the first instance, I was really stressed. I should have mentioned that I had some of the neighborhood kids with me on the trip to Pottery Barn.

They followed right behind us pushing the cart and rolling their eyes at the antics. They gave me some emotional support.

Oh, kid is very nice now, though...

 

Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
18. candy at the cash register would set them off. as I recall some stores created candy free lanes
Sat May 23, 2015, 11:37 PM
May 2015

To help parents out

tblue37

(65,333 posts)
21. LOL! I just had this image of a university professor at your baby shower--throwing
Sun May 24, 2015, 01:22 AM
May 2015

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"herself down on the floor . . . legs flailing as well, screaming shrilly (in Spanish, of course).

I teach college, and I have seen some arguments in meetings--but I never saw any professors throwing a tantrum like that! I wish I could have seen it.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
23. Well, it was an example of a baby tantrum. All the women tried to tell me what to expect! It really
Sun May 24, 2015, 02:00 AM
May 2015

was hilarious. The emphasis was on children doing... well, things that adults don't do, you know. I grew up in a very staid family and was the last child after a long gap with elderly folks.

My friend was a university professor in Mexico, but as things came unwound there, her husband who had an MBA and her folks who were univeristy educated, were without work and came here to get whatever they could get.

She was one of ten children who their parents worked hard to put through college, but when the jobs are gone, that's it, gotta keep going. But they never complained about coming here doing menial work and sent most of their money back home.

They lived very frugally and were generous and a lot of fun. I miss them, they finally moved home again. Oh, and she was very young and lovely, too.

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