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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:09 PM May 2015

NY. poor kids whose parents couldn't afford $10 sat in dark auditorium during carnival day

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No party for the poor.

PS 120 in Flushing held a carnival for its students on Thursday, but kids whose parents did not pay $10 were forced to sit in the auditorium while their classmates had a blast.

Close to 900 kids went to the Queens schoolyard affair, with pre-K-to-fifth-grade classes taking turns, each spending 45 minutes outside. The kids enjoyed inflatable slides, a bouncing room and a twirly teacup ride. They devoured popcorn and flavored ices. DJs blasted party tunes.

But more than 100 disappointed kids were herded into the darkened auditorium to just sit or watch an old Disney movie while aides supervised — the music, shouts and laughter outside still audible.
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Kids whose parents weren’t able to pay the $10 admissions fee sit out the carnival in the school’s auditorium.

The must-pay rule excluded some of the poorest kids at the elementary, where most parents are Chinese immigrant families crammed into apartments and “struggling to keep their heads above water,” staffers said.

“It’s breaking my heart that there are kids inside,” one teacher said.
The teacher hugged a 7-year-old girl who was “crying hysterically.”

http://nypost.com/2015/05/24/no-pay-no-play-kids-who-cant-pay-10-fee-banned-from-school-carnival/
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NY. poor kids whose parents couldn't afford $10 sat in dark auditorium during carnival day (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA May 2015 OP
Stupid school administrators. aikoaiko May 2015 #1
Breaks my heart. bluesbassman May 2015 #2
I usually ask my kids' teachers if I can pay extra to cover more kids. cyberswede May 2015 #3
Our kids used to pay for other kids out of their own money. NaturalHigh May 2015 #8
I'm in horse country nj JustAnotherGen May 2015 #14
Yes, I've set up "scholarships" for kids to go to summer programs, etc. Jackpine Radical May 2015 #57
A hundred kids, so it would be a thousand to cover them all. MADem May 2015 #94
The worst part is that they had a $2K-3K PROFIT on this event. They didn't need to prevent pnwmom May 2015 #78
Capitalism, left to its own devices, has a tendency to commodify anything and everything, in this KingCharlemagne May 2015 #83
There's nothing to tell us whether or not some parents did pay for other kids dflprincess May 2015 #119
Local schools should have a gofundme plan Politicalboi May 2015 #4
why mercuryblues May 2015 #70
whoever made that decision should be fired immediately. williesgirl May 2015 #5
the principal Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #7
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2015 #10
Agree 100%. I hope that parents are complaining to the school board now. yardwork May 2015 #53
It makes my blood boil. frogmarch May 2015 #6
$10 for 45 minutes at the carnival, with popcorn and trinket toys? No Vested Interest May 2015 #9
someone made a lotta dough on this racket, elehhhhna May 2015 #75
The school made a cool profit of $2-3,000. Now that's some 'out of the box' KingCharlemagne May 2015 #92
At a PUBLIC, taxpayer funded school? Rubbing their noses in it, so they could hear the fun? n/t freshwest May 2015 #11
We share a brain sometimes JustAnotherGen May 2015 #17
Yeah, I think we do. And good luck on the council run. But take care of your health, too. n/t freshwest May 2015 #33
I think I'm going to do it JustAnotherGen May 2015 #122
This is from the right wing tabloid NY Post oberliner May 2015 #12
I look at it differently JustAnotherGen May 2015 #16
I get where you are coming from oberliner May 2015 #28
That's a fair point JustAnotherGen May 2015 #117
Over 100 children out of less than 900 -that's No Vested Interest May 2015 #13
Then let the kids stay home. Dawson Leery May 2015 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author guyton May 2015 #24
Stay home?! How about "ALL KIDS ATTEND FOR FREE"? WinkyDink May 2015 #40
If they were showing a movie, it would need to be dark oberliner May 2015 #76
My daughters went to Catholic school K-12 SickOfTheOnePct May 2015 #18
USA! USA! USA! \sarcasm\ - nt KingCharlemagne May 2015 #19
HOW THE FUCK DOES THIS HAPPEN? tabasco May 2015 #20
Who got paid? Iggo May 2015 #21
Hate to say it this way, but Thespian2 May 2015 #22
Sad, but I find myself thinking "at least there were 100 kids who missed out." At Ed Suspicious May 2015 #29
"excruciatingly stupid bitch..." oberliner May 2015 #79
Pardon me. Thespian2 May 2015 #103
There is not a single other news outlet who has done any reporting on this oberliner May 2015 #105
Whoever made this decision should be dealt with.. mountain grammy May 2015 #23
We would never have let that happen. madfloridian May 2015 #25
Cruelty knows no limits. nt valerief May 2015 #26
"My mom doesn't care about me" LittleBlue May 2015 #27
Please note that the teacher is not named oberliner May 2015 #30
The school is named, the principal is named, and so is the head of the parents' association pnwmom May 2015 #38
None of the teachers are named oberliner May 2015 #45
The principal, Joan Monroe, was clearly named. She chose not to give an interview, pnwmom May 2015 #47
You wrote that the teachers were named oberliner May 2015 #52
Yes, that's why I changed it. And I realize that the NYPost is a right wing paper, but that doesn't pnwmom May 2015 #54
It's possible oberliner May 2015 #58
Any teacher could be risking his job, or at least positive evaluations, if he or she went on record pnwmom May 2015 #60
That's definitely not true oberliner May 2015 #62
And illegal retaliation never happens? Yeah, right. Teachers have a good reason to be cautious pnwmom May 2015 #72
OK oberliner May 2015 #74
I agree that I would like to see more reports about this situation. It is never enough pnwmom May 2015 #77
I am not dismissing it out of hand oberliner May 2015 #81
ROFL jeff47 May 2015 #84
Are you familiar with the NY state teacher's union? oberliner May 2015 #89
Are you familiar with jobs? jeff47 May 2015 #91
So I guess you are not familiar with the NY state teacher's union oberliner May 2015 #95
No, I am. They are not all-powerful. jeff47 May 2015 #97
Anti-union? oberliner May 2015 #99
There is only one fact to know, and it is indisputable: FEES WERE CHARGED BY A PUBLIC SCHOOL. WinkyDink May 2015 #43
Is that unusual? oberliner May 2015 #48
There were 'accomodations made' here . . . in a darkened auditorium. Are you disputing that KingCharlemagne May 2015 #50
The article is from the right-wing tabloid, NY Post oberliner May 2015 #56
I got you. Didn't mean to snark at you unduly. I do think this story, if true in most of KingCharlemagne May 2015 #59
I agree with you oberliner May 2015 #64
It is very unusual, I hope, for the "accommodation" not to consist of a PTA or other slush fund pnwmom May 2015 #87
There is no evidence that the event earned thousands of dollars in profit oberliner May 2015 #90
There most certainly IS evidence that the event earned thousands of dollars of profit pnwmom May 2015 #109
That's not evidence oberliner May 2015 #110
Have you ever been on a jury? Much of what gets entered into evidence is testimony. pnwmom May 2015 #111
OK fair enough oberliner May 2015 #112
Yes, it would be better to have more information. pnwmom May 2015 #113
I just wish there was a non-NY Post story on this oberliner May 2015 #114
I know. So far, the only other story is Daily Mail, and they just repeat the NYPost story. n/t pnwmom May 2015 #115
In California we cannot force students to pay for participation. onecaliberal May 2015 #68
I wonder what the policy is in other states oberliner May 2015 #71
I really have no idea. Parents need to contact ACLU and file suit. onecaliberal May 2015 #82
My children go to public school and justamama83 May 2015 #125
I might be inclined to agree, if I hadn't had to deal with something similar myself Scootaloo May 2015 #63
That really sucks oberliner May 2015 #66
I just googled to see if I could find other sources inanna May 2015 #86
The Daily Mail and Fox News just link back to the NY Post story oberliner May 2015 #101
Here's the giant, gaping hole in your argument jeff47 May 2015 #88
The NY Post tries to paint liberals as hypocrites oberliner May 2015 #104
I don't think it is a liberal hypocrisy story... Springslips May 2015 #134
The NY Post is the Rightwing media - It's Rupert Murdoch. oberliner May 2015 #135
I was a teacher. I'd have given that kid a tenner before a hug. J/S. WinkyDink May 2015 #41
This is shameful! DawgHouse May 2015 #31
I would think the conservative readers of the NY Post would support this bluestateguy May 2015 #32
If they want to do something like this that's not in the budget, then the PTSA should raise pnwmom May 2015 #34
Shameful. Disgraceful. Public schools shouldn't charge for such things (I don't CARE what other WinkyDink May 2015 #35
Some are more equal than others..... PufPuf23 May 2015 #36
I can't believe they didn't try to find a helpful philanthropist Omaha Steve May 2015 #37
The worst part? They had MORE than enough money to pay for it -- they made a large PROFIT! pnwmom May 2015 #39
Thus, the core problem with depending on noblesse oblige. It's not....dependable. WinkyDink May 2015 #46
The school collected $9,000 for this event and coldn't sqeeze these kids in? rug May 2015 #42
They made a profit of several thousand dollars. Sickening. n/t pnwmom May 2015 #44
Economic segregation by any name is still discrimination. procon May 2015 #49
How do you know they were barred from attending? oberliner May 2015 #108
This is insane, inhuman. What a horrible thing to do to kids. Jackpine Radical May 2015 #51
I swear to Christ, this sounds like something out of Dickens... First Speaker May 2015 #55
No, this is more out of Lenin (as in 'Capitalists will sell us the KingCharlemagne May 2015 #61
What kind of adults imagined this was OK? sufrommich May 2015 #65
I read these things, and I can't breathe for a minute. ScreamingMeemie May 2015 #67
Perfect description. nt sufrommich May 2015 #69
We did fund raisers for these type of events, and MerryBlooms May 2015 #73
Bad headline, the auditorium was dark because they were watching a movie Warpy May 2015 #80
Yes, it is a stupid headline. I don't know where they get some raccoon May 2015 #123
It probably wasn't the writer Warpy May 2015 #132
bingo questionseverything May 2015 #129
Looks like they were seeing a cartoon of some sort. alphafemale May 2015 #85
Beyond the principal's heartlessness, did you see what else she did? procon May 2015 #93
There is no evidence provided for any of this oberliner May 2015 #100
Awww, FUCK! I've been a public school teacher for almost 40 years, and ... 11 Bravo May 2015 #96
Such needless cruelty -- to kids. Arugula Latte May 2015 #98
At my daughter's school.... Adrahil May 2015 #102
What if they get too many or too few sponsors? oberliner May 2015 #106
Here's how it works.... Adrahil May 2015 #116
Cool oberliner May 2015 #118
At my sons' former elementary school, the PTA paid the way for the poor kids FSogol May 2015 #128
Indoctrinate them at an early age that they're worthless if they're poor Novara May 2015 #107
How is that even legal? roody May 2015 #120
fuck - this is just all kinds of wrong. Goddamn the MBA douchebags who would do this to kids. whereisjustice May 2015 #121
What is wrong with people? Pooka Fey May 2015 #124
Breaks my heart vankuria May 2015 #126
i do not fucking believe barbtries May 2015 #127
the Bureaus are mighty & inflexible in the age of Zero Tolerance. nt Eleanors38 May 2015 #130
It's good that schools institute policies to ostracize children of low income families Orrex May 2015 #131
Well, they're "takers not makers". Tierra_y_Libertad May 2015 #133

bluesbassman

(19,370 posts)
2. Breaks my heart.
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:14 PM
May 2015

Guess they're starting them young at PS 120, getting them used to life in these United States of the Haves and the Have Nots.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
3. I usually ask my kids' teachers if I can pay extra to cover more kids.
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:17 PM
May 2015

Too bad nobody thought of that at this school.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
8. Our kids used to pay for other kids out of their own money.
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:38 PM
May 2015

Of course they also came to us to see how much we had. One way or another, the kids and parents always managed to make it so everyone got to participate.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
57. Yes, I've set up "scholarships" for kids to go to summer programs, etc.
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:40 PM
May 2015

Just contacted the people in charge & asked them to use the $$ for kids who couldn't go. It made me feel good to do it.

People who say you can't buy happiness are wrong; in fact, it's easy. Just put some money to a really good cause and see how you feel as a result.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
94. A hundred kids, so it would be a thousand to cover them all.
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:49 PM
May 2015

I think the school--a frigging PUBLIC school--should have held car washes and bake sales, passed the hat at a talent show, done what they had to do, even soliciting donations from local businesses to put their name as fair "sponsors" on signs around the fair grounds, and raised the money for ALL the children to go--not excluded a hundred kids.

Even a poor kid can grab a bucket and a sponge and wash a car--there's no reason that they had to make this a "parent write a check" exercise. The school should have raised the money as a group, for the group--not singled out the poor kids.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
78. The worst part is that they had a $2K-3K PROFIT on this event. They didn't need to prevent
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:25 PM
May 2015

a single child from attending due to cost.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
83. Capitalism, left to its own devices, has a tendency to commodify anything and everything, in this
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:30 PM
May 2015

case, children as 'profit centers.'

dflprincess

(28,075 posts)
119. There's nothing to tell us whether or not some parents did pay for other kids
Sun May 24, 2015, 10:51 PM
May 2015

It does sound like the school is in an area where are a lot of families are struggling. It may have been a stretch for some of the parents just to cover their own kids. I'm not ready to make any judgments about people who couldn't afford to pay more.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
70. why
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:09 PM
May 2015

why should our schools have a gofundme? seriously? just why.

The rides were already paid for. They rides are rented per hour, not per rider. Why not allow the kids that could not afford it to participate?

The school did this just to be mean. point blank mean.

Response to williesgirl (Reply #5)

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
9. $10 for 45 minutes at the carnival, with popcorn and trinket toys?
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:40 PM
May 2015

That charge is way too high - not a good value.

A reasonable charge should have been negotiated that would include all the children.
The Parents' Association sponsored the event? What does that sponsorship mean? Did they pay anything, or did someone get a cut or was a crony profiting?

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
75. someone made a lotta dough on this racket,
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:22 PM
May 2015

9k to rent 2 bounce things, a teacup ride, and give out popcorn & ices?

Someone made 7 grand in one day and managed to treat the most insecure.kids like.shit.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
92. The school made a cool profit of $2-3,000. Now that's some 'out of the box'
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:48 PM
May 2015

creative funding right there!

in case it's necessary.

JustAnotherGen

(31,811 posts)
17. We share a brain sometimes
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:58 PM
May 2015

And yet we march toward a "privatized" for profit school system like lemmings. I don't even have kids and I would flip a shut if I found out something lie this happened in our town.

Shame on these people!

JustAnotherGen

(31,811 posts)
122. I think I'm going to do it
Mon May 25, 2015, 06:32 AM
May 2015

I was at a Memorial Day gathering last night down the street and the deli owner who did the right thing (reference to the white history month sign deli owner post in AA group - look that up) - he would support me. A few other folks from across the aisle did too.

Because we Bagel Bombed him - and I worked it up! If someone does the right thing - we have to give them business. I don't like litter - especially in the sand box in one our parks - especially when it's liquor bottles and cigarettes . . .

I don't get permits - I get 31 people to go out with me on a Friday morning and clean it up.

Social Media is awesome for small town activism!

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
12. This is from the right wing tabloid NY Post
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:48 PM
May 2015

The paper has a very anti-public school agenda.

There may be more to the story than what they are presenting here.

JustAnotherGen

(31,811 posts)
16. I look at it differently
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:49 PM
May 2015

I attended grade and jr high school in Western NY. Rural - but only 20 minutes from the Rochester city line. We had a "Field Day" at the end of the year. Funded by the tax payers/citizens of the community.

My dad served on the school board at a time when some folks didn't want it anymore. He fought that and won - because it's more about "community" and celebrating a good year.

This was the "field day" of the early 80's - and it shows me what a privatized school system looks like.

Everything a la carte.
Affluent kids get more.
Less affluent get less.

How will that translate to LEARNING?

This is precisely what that awful Rhee(sp?) woman is aiming for.

This is what a privatized "non public good" school system looks like.

I'm a UU - our intentions were not always the best in our work to establish a public education system - but the concept is still good. Good for the public good.

What happened here was evil. It's those little things that cut little peoples' hearts.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
28. I get where you are coming from
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:45 PM
May 2015

I am just saying that the NY Post has an agenda and good reporting is not their hallmark.

There may be some inaccuracies in this story (which has mostly quotes from unnamed people) - and there might be some facts that were left out.

I would not have raised these issues if it was not the NY Post as the source (and I believe every other article on the subject points back to the same NY Post story).

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
13. Over 100 children out of less than 900 -that's
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:10 PM
May 2015

over 11% that were not permitted to attend.
Way too high for an in-school function.

Dawson Leery

(19,348 posts)
15. Then let the kids stay home.
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:42 PM
May 2015

I am not surprised at all to see the Principal made the choice to keep them in dark room.

From experience, public school administrators are worth less than pile of horse manure.

Response to Dawson Leery (Reply #15)

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
76. If they were showing a movie, it would need to be dark
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:23 PM
May 2015

Typical NY Post headline trying to make "dark auditorium" into something sinister when clearly the lights were off so that a film could be shown.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
18. My daughters went to Catholic school K-12
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:05 PM
May 2015

and some months, it was a struggle to pay the tuition...we qualified for tuition assistance, but felt that so long as we could still pay ourselves, we didn't want to take from someone that needed it more.

The policy there was that everyone participates; if there was a fee involved, all the parents had to do was the sign & return the permission slip, and not send the money. That was the signal that they couldn't afford it. The school always made up the difference, and many parents contributed extra to help minimize the school's expense.

There is no reason why this school couldn't have a similar policy. I haven't read the article yet, but if it was sponsored by the PTA, I sure as hell hope it wasn't being used as a fundraiser.

 

tabasco

(22,974 posts)
20. HOW THE FUCK DOES THIS HAPPEN?
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:13 PM
May 2015

Heads should roll over this shit. Until people are held accountable, nothing will change.

Thespian2

(2,741 posts)
22. Hate to say it this way, but
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:18 PM
May 2015

what was this excruciatingly stupid bitch thinking?

We never treated kids this way in my entire career...especially not for a shitty fund-raiser...I can't imagine how those kids who were left out felt...

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
29. Sad, but I find myself thinking "at least there were 100 kids who missed out." At
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:45 PM
May 2015

least they were able to not be the one or two lone poors who have to face an entire school alone after the embarrassing debacle. The whole thing is shitty. My kids are constantly bringing home slips that require pay to play at school functions. When I was a kid, it just wasn't like that. We're usually able to come up with the money, and there is usually a mention that if money is an issue, they have means to give aid to the poors who can't afford it.

Kids shouldn't have to face this crap and kids parents shouldn't have to feel like their kids are missing out because the parents aren't able to provide.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
79. "excruciatingly stupid bitch..."
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:25 PM
May 2015

You are speaking of this principal this way based on a single article from the right-wing tabloid, NY Post. An article peppered with off-the-record comments from unnamed staffers and teachers and not a single statement from anyone on the administration.

This is the NY Post. Google them if you aren't familiar with where they are coming from.

Thespian2

(2,741 posts)
103. Pardon me.
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:29 PM
May 2015

You assume I do not know the NY Post...I don't need to Google them...Google the story and find the other news outlets carrying the story...

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
105. There is not a single other news outlet who has done any reporting on this
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:32 PM
May 2015

They all just link back to the same NY Post article.

mountain grammy

(26,619 posts)
23. Whoever made this decision should be dealt with..
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:34 PM
May 2015

my choice would be to fire that person who, obviously, has no sensitivity or empathy.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
25. We would never have let that happen.
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:40 PM
May 2015

When I taught, everyone got to take part in everything. Resources at the school were pooled..from PTA to teachers to aides to principals. Everyone got to take part.

That was a rule.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
27. "My mom doesn't care about me"
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:44 PM
May 2015
The teacher hugged a 7-year-old girl who was “crying hysterically.”

“She was the only one from her class who couldn’t go, so she was very upset,” the teacher said.

The girl told others, “My mom doesn’t care about me.” But the teacher said parents possibly did not see or understand the flier that went home or didn’t have a $10 to spare.


Poor kid
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
30. Please note that the teacher is not named
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:48 PM
May 2015

In fact, none of the teachers who are supposedly quoted in this story are named. The piece is populated with unnamed staffers and unnamed teachers (and unnamed students).

I bring this up because the source is the NY Post, a notorious right-wing rag that regularly bashes public schools.

There might be more to this story than what is presented here.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
38. The school is named, the principal is named, and so is the head of the parents' association
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:10 PM
May 2015

who decided to put this stupid event on

Maybe you didn't read far enough.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
45. None of the teachers are named
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:17 PM
May 2015

The quotes in the article are:

staffers said, one teacher said, the teacher said, the girl told others, one child asked, a staffer said, another teacher, etc.

The only person quoted who is actually named is Frank Chow, who is identified as "president of the parents association that sponsored the carnival" (not a teacher).

The principal is named, but not quoted. "Monroe did not return calls and an e-mail from The Post."

So we have nothing from the principal. Incidentally, I wouldn't return a call or an email from the NY Post either as it is a right-wing tabloid.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
47. The principal, Joan Monroe, was clearly named. She chose not to give an interview,
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:20 PM
May 2015

so she chose to let the facts as described here stand. Did you see the roster where they listed whether a payment had been made or not?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
52. You wrote that the teachers were named
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:36 PM
May 2015

You wrote that I if I re-read the article, I would see that. Do you now concede that you were mistaken?

The principal is named, but not quoted. We don't know that the principal chose not to give an interview. The principal may not have gotten the call or the email. We don't actually know what kind of attempt was made to contact her. We don't know anything from the principal's point of view.

To clarify my point, this article is peppered with anonymous quotes from unnamed staffers and teachers. This, coupled with the fact that the author is from the NY Post which is a right-wing rag with a clear agenda, should give readers some pause.

Maybe it was an optional event that some parents didn't want their kids to attend. Maybe some kids would rather stay inside and watch movies. Who knows?

Show me a few on the record statements from teachers who were present. Show me an interview with some parents whose children did not attend the carnival. Show me a statement from someone in the school administration about the event. These are things that a real reporter who was interested in the truth and not promoting an agenda would attempt to provide.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
54. Yes, that's why I changed it. And I realize that the NYPost is a right wing paper, but that doesn't
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:40 PM
May 2015

mean it NEVER gets anything right.

For example, the right-wing media got the Justina Pelletier case right, while the left wing media almost completely dropped the ball.

And as for teachers not willing to go on record criticizing their principal, that doesn't surprise me at all. No teacher was willing to fall on his or her sword on this issue. I don't blame them.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
58. It's possible
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:42 PM
May 2015

I am just saying that I want more information.

I'd like another reporter or two to do some digging into this and get some on the record statements from teachers, administrators, parents, etc.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
60. Any teacher could be risking his job, or at least positive evaluations, if he or she went on record
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:44 PM
May 2015

criticizing the principal.

There was a statement by the head of the parents association. Does that not count?

Frank Chow, president of the parents association that sponsored the carnival, said Monroe insisted that kids whose parents didn’t pay could not partake.

“She was saying it’s not fair to the parents who paid,” Chow said. “You can’t argue much, I guess. The school is under her.”

The carnival cost about $6,200, including fees to a carnival company, Send in the Clowns, and reaped a $2,000 to $3,000 profit, he added.

“I wish we just charged parents the cost, not to make extra,” Chow said.
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
62. That's definitely not true
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:58 PM
May 2015

It would be illegal for the principal to take any action against them for making such a statement.

I certainly think Frank Chow's statement ought to at the very least be balanced against a statement from someone in the administration - if not the principal than one of the two assistant principals.

I would mention that the website indicates that Mr. Chow is one of two co-presidents of the parents association, so reaching out to the other would probably be valuable.

Again, just basic things that a reporter who wanted to get the full story would do.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
72. And illegal retaliation never happens? Yeah, right. Teachers have a good reason to be cautious
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:15 PM
May 2015

An angry principal could have many subtle and unsubtle ways of making their lives miserable.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
74. OK
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:21 PM
May 2015

Look, all I am saying is that I think that some more reporting could be done and that I view the NY Post with suspicion.

Every day or two the NY Post seems to have an article bashing one public school or another. That is a very clear agenda with this right wing tabloid. Public schools are run inefficiently by liberals who do all these awful things. That is their angle consistently.

Right now this NY Post writer is the only source for this story. Let any other reporter from any other news outlet, blog, or what have you do a little digging into this. That's all I am asking for.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
77. I agree that I would like to see more reports about this situation. It is never enough
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:24 PM
May 2015

to have just one report and to take it at face value.

So we're on the same page regarding that. I'm just not willing to dismiss it out of hand, especially with the parents' association head being willing to go on record, and the photo of the register of payments.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
81. I am not dismissing it out of hand
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:27 PM
May 2015

Please note my initial comment was:

There might be more to this story than what is presented here.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
84. ROFL
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:30 PM
May 2015

Yeah, every boss always obeys every law to the letter. It is utterly impossible to fire someone for a legal reason, when you're actually firing them for an illegal reason. That glass-ceiling thing that is 100% illegal happens just because every single woman doesn't want to be the boss.



I certainly think Frank Chow's statement ought to at the very least be balanced against a statement from someone in the administration - if not the principal than one of the two assistant principals.

Well, the principal now knows she fucked up, and if any of her subordinates talk about it, they get fired for making the principal look bad.
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
89. Are you familiar with the NY state teacher's union?
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:38 PM
May 2015

They are very good at taking care of the members and making sure a teacher is not fired illegally.

In fact, it is generally believed that it is very difficult to fire a teacher in NY state even with just cause.

The assistant principals, incidentally, are not hired or fired by the principal, so their jobs would similarly not be jeopardized by whatever statement they would make.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
91. Are you familiar with jobs?
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:43 PM
May 2015

See, the boss doesn't have to put down "Fired for making me look bad to a reporter" in the official paperwork.

Instead, you start giving the teacher bad reviews. And start fucking with the teacher's ability to do their job - move their classroom around, don't give them what they need to do their job, and so on. Then those teacher's students would do poorly on standardized tests, and you can fire them for being an "under-performing" teacher.

It won't be quick, and most likely will actually be the teacher "asked not to come back next year", but it has the same effect.

The assistant principals, incidentally, are not hired or fired by the principal, so their jobs would similarly not be jeopardized by whatever statement they would make.



Yeah, the principal can't do anything at all to them. Why, they'll all just have to sit around singing about puppies and kittens!!
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
95. So I guess you are not familiar with the NY state teacher's union
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:51 PM
May 2015

If a school administrator did what you described, the teacher would report that to their union representative immediately. Public school teachers have a lot of rights to substantive and procedural due process, above and beyond what state and federal statutes provide. The teacher could request (and would have to be granted) a hearing and then could file a Notice of Defense. The teacher could also file a suit against the school district as well.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
97. No, I am. They are not all-powerful.
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:57 PM
May 2015
Public school teachers have a lot of rights to substantive and procedural due process, above and beyond what state and federal statutes provide.

Next time, don't skip over the "it won't be quick" part. It's kinda important.

There's a process. It can be easily navigated to "fire" a teacher for a reason that should be illegal. It's a matter of lining up the appropriate paperwork to back up a legal reason for firing. And when you think screwing over the kids is just fine (as this principal apparently does, otherwise there'd be no story), it's pretty easy. You set the teacher up to fail, and then punish them for failing.

The teacher could also file a suit against the school district as well.

Because lawsuits are so cheap you can file one when you're unemployed.

Your insistence that unions are all-powerful makes me think wonder why you're working an anti-union rant into this story.
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
99. Anti-union?
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:10 PM
May 2015

What the heck are you talking about? The union is what protects teachers from the sort of behavior you are describing. I wish that all workers had the sort of protections that the teacher's union provides.

Anyway, the point is - I think an on the record comment from someone would be helpful in this story. That's all I wanted to say really.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
48. Is that unusual?
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:22 PM
May 2015

I went to public school and my parents had to pay fees for field trips and the like. Of course, if any family couldn't pay then there would be accommodations made. It's not clear what exactly happened in this case for those students since there is no statement from the principal or the school district (i.e. no actual reporting).

Anyway, I know there are different rules in different states, but I don't think charging fees to cover the costs of extra trips or activities is that unusual as long as there is a mechanism in place to provide financial aid to those who need it.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
50. There were 'accomodations made' here . . . in a darkened auditorium. Are you disputing that
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:29 PM
May 2015

this incident took place as described in the article?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
56. The article is from the right-wing tabloid, NY Post
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:40 PM
May 2015

With that in mind, I start off with my BS meter on.

As I mentioned, there are no on-the-record quotes from teachers or staffers. It's all unnamed people. There is nothing from the principal or any administrator. No on the record quotes from any parents.

I definitely feel like I need more information here.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
59. I got you. Didn't mean to snark at you unduly. I do think this story, if true in most of
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:43 PM
May 2015

its particulars, makes a fitting counterpoint to Memorial Day, at least insofar as its meaning was originally construed. How many of those dead soldiers died to support the cause of humilitating poor children?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
64. I agree with you
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:02 PM
May 2015

If these children were in fact humiliated in the manner described, then that is pretty awful.

However, I would like to see some actual reporting done to see if there is more to this story than what the NY Post is presenting here.

They seem to have an anti-public school article at the ready just about every day or two.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
87. It is very unusual, I hope, for the "accommodation" not to consist of a PTA or other slush fund
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:35 PM
May 2015

that pays for the fees of kids on free school lunch or who otherwise can't afford it.

And this event earned thousands of dollars in PROFIT. They didn't need any of the dollars from the excluded children to still make this profit.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
90. There is no evidence that the event earned thousands of dollars in profit
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:40 PM
May 2015

Again, the article provides no evidence to support that claim.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
109. There most certainly IS evidence that the event earned thousands of dollars of profit
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:40 PM
May 2015

The head of the parents' association that sponsored the event gave this information to the reporter.

So this is EVIDENCE. It is not, in and of itself, PROOF, but it is evidence. Personal testimony on the part of people directly involved is part of the collection of "evidence" in any trial.

Now, maybe this man is a liar. Or maybe he was falsely quoted. But at this point it is the only evidence we have.

Frank Chow, president of the parents association that sponsored the carnival, said Monroe insisted that kids whose parents didn’t pay could not partake.

“She was saying it’s not fair to the parents who paid,” Chow said. “You can’t argue much, I guess. The school is under her.”

The carnival cost about $6,200, including fees to a carnival company, Send in the Clowns, and reaped a $2,000 to $3,000 profit, he added.

“I wish we just charged parents the cost, not to make extra,” Chow said.
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
110. That's not evidence
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:45 PM
May 2015

That is just a claim. Evidence would be a document or something indicating that the event earned a profit. I wonder if the event was meant to be a fundraiser of some kind.

I would also again point out that Frank Chow is not in fact the president of the parents association according to the school website.

Edit to add: Luz Rodgers is identified as PA President and Mr. Chow is identified as Co-President (though oddly, Luz Rodgers is just listed as President, not Co-President).

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
111. Have you ever been on a jury? Much of what gets entered into evidence is testimony.
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:55 PM
May 2015

Of course this isn't a trial, so the PTA guy wasn't sworn in, but what he said, by any measure, is still evidence. And it's undisputed evidence since the principal chose not to comment.

And whether he is co-President or President is really beside the point. He went on record, as opposed to everyone else there. And he is in the position to know what he was talking about.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
112. OK fair enough
Sun May 24, 2015, 10:00 PM
May 2015

I did look around the school's website a bit more closely and they have had other events during the school year that served as fund raisers to pay for air conditioners in several of the classrooms that don't have them. It's certainly possible that this carnival was identified as a fundraiser with profits going to something along those lines.

Again, I just would like to see some agenda-free reporting with more details on exactly what happened here.

For example a parent who is angry that their child was not allowed to take part in the carnival over the $10 fee. I would imagine that there must be one such person that someone could talk to.

Also, some comment from someone in the administration to at least explain what was going on.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
113. Yes, it would be better to have more information.
Sun May 24, 2015, 10:12 PM
May 2015

But if Mr Chow is telling the truth, then they had plenty of money to pay for this, and they could have allowed all kids to attend without even cutting into their profit. It seems punitive that they didn't.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
114. I just wish there was a non-NY Post story on this
Sun May 24, 2015, 10:30 PM
May 2015

I hope someone takes the time to do some more reporting on this story.

Apparently, it is tomorrow's NY Post front page.

onecaliberal

(32,826 posts)
68. In California we cannot force students to pay for participation.
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:06 PM
May 2015

All students must be allowed to participate at the districts expense. There are parents who can afford to that make donations. This policy came about from several rounds of litigation.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
71. I wonder what the policy is in other states
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:12 PM
May 2015

How many states adhere to that California model, do you know?

onecaliberal

(32,826 posts)
82. I really have no idea. Parents need to contact ACLU and file suit.
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:28 PM
May 2015

That's how we got the policy we have. There are parents who make "donations" if they wish, but funds are set aside yearly for any and all students to participate.

justamama83

(87 posts)
125. My children go to public school and
Mon May 25, 2015, 10:51 AM
May 2015

there are fees for a lot of things......field trips, dances, snacks on 1/2 days to name a few. However, we have a very active PTO and they do help those who cannot pay.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
63. I might be inclined to agree, if I hadn't had to deal with something similar myself
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:00 PM
May 2015

Years and years ago, granted. Morningside elementary in Mobile, AL. The two fifth-grade classes were planning a joint trip to some sort of summer camp thing for a schoolweek. swimming, canoeing, sports, all sorts of fun stuff. We got to practice with bows in PE, we had a dude from the environmental center come in to teach about sustainable camping, and we even took a one-day trip to Murphy High school to use their pool for safety swimming!

And then the permission slips were handed out. And they required a $20 fee.

My parents were flat broke, they couldn't spare $20 for an end-of-the-year camp jamboree thing.

So the last week of that school year, i got to sit in class with the five other students who couldn't go, and we did busy work.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
66. That really sucks
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:05 PM
May 2015

I know that when I was in public school there were events that required a fee. It was always made clear that students who did not have the ability to pay the fee would have it covered. Obviously, it's not like that in every school district.

With the story in the OP, I just want more information. It doesn't seem like a whole lot of real reporting was done. I'd like to see some on the record comments and at least something from the administration side.

It's quite possible that the whole thing is true exactly as the NY Post describes, but the NY Post is pretty notorious for crappy agenda-driven articles.

inanna

(3,547 posts)
86. I just googled to see if I could find other sources
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:34 PM
May 2015

the only ones covering this (so far) are The Daily Mail, Fox News and the NY Post.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
101. The Daily Mail and Fox News just link back to the NY Post story
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:28 PM
May 2015

There is not a single source other than the NY Post.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
88. Here's the giant, gaping hole in your argument
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:37 PM
May 2015
I bring this up because the source is the NY Post, a notorious right-wing rag that regularly bashes public schools.

There might be more to this story than what is presented here.

Here's the giant, gaping hole in your argument: This story is exactly what conservatives wants to happen.

If you pay, you get to have fun. If you are poor, "well, at least we showed a movie!!". As a result, this story is doing the exact opposite of the political motivation you are claiming.

Yes, it makes public schools look bad, but it also makes the conservative mantra, "No freeloaders!!", look much worse.
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
104. The NY Post tries to paint liberals as hypocrites
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:30 PM
May 2015

"See, they say they care about the poor - but look at what the liberals running NYC schools do - they force children who can't pay $10 to sit in a darkened auditorium!"

That's what they are going for here. Liberal hypocrisy on display!

Springslips

(533 posts)
134. I don't think it is a liberal hypocrisy story...
Mon May 25, 2015, 03:20 PM
May 2015

If so they'd walk into " school needs more money" trap. If this s propaganda it could, and would blw up in their face.

I think this is a human interest story. Plain and simple. We'll see if Rightwing media runs with it.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
135. The NY Post is the Rightwing media - It's Rupert Murdoch.
Mon May 25, 2015, 05:39 PM
May 2015

It's definitely not a "human interest" story

This is the NY Post - they are agenda driven. Their agenda is to bash liberals.

This hits their two points:

1. Liberals are hypocrites (they claim to care about the poor, but really don't)

2. Public schools are awful (an article of this type is generated by the Post a few times a week at least)

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
32. I would think the conservative readers of the NY Post would support this
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:56 PM
May 2015

No free lunch!

No handouts!

If you can't afford it then you just have to go without!

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
34. If they want to do something like this that's not in the budget, then the PTSA should raise
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:08 PM
May 2015

enough money so that all children can attend for free.

Otherwise, skip the whole thing.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
35. Shameful. Disgraceful. Public schools shouldn't charge for such things (I don't CARE what other
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:09 PM
May 2015

public schools do, re: charging families; it's ALL unfair.).

PufPuf23

(8,767 posts)
36. Some are more equal than others.....
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:09 PM
May 2015

Is Orwell's Animal Farm still a common read in our schools?

I can see how some would want it banned because is too close a hint at true reality.

Poor innocent poor kids.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
39. The worst part? They had MORE than enough money to pay for it -- they made a large PROFIT!
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:12 PM
May 2015

They could have used some of that "profit" to pay for the costs of the kids who couldn't afford it

"The carnival cost about $6,200, including fees to a carnival company, Send in the Clowns, and reaped a $2,000 to $3,000 profit, he added."

procon

(15,805 posts)
49. Economic segregation by any name is still discrimination.
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:24 PM
May 2015

My heart breaks for those children who were barred from attending. I'm utterly disgusted at school officials who allowed this injustice to occur when there were so many other options available to make sure a fun event included ALL the kids.

Shame on the school and all the adults, the managers, teachers and the parents who let this happen.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
108. How do you know they were barred from attending?
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:39 PM
May 2015

Maybe some kids didn't want to be outside and would rather just hang out and watch a movie so they told their parents not to bother to pay the ten bucks. Maybe some of the parents didn't want their kid participating in a carnival with junk food and bouncy castles so they did not give permission nor pay the fee. There needs to be some actual reporting done here. I would like to see one teacher or one parent interviewed. I would also like to hear from the principal or anyone in the administration. I think the NY Post reporter has an agenda and did not make a good faith effort to get the whole story.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
51. This is insane, inhuman. What a horrible thing to do to kids.
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:35 PM
May 2015

Nothing like getting the point across early that certain people aren't welcome in polite society.

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
55. I swear to Christ, this sounds like something out of Dickens...
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:40 PM
May 2015

...this country is getting more unrecognizable every day...

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
61. No, this is more out of Lenin (as in 'Capitalists will sell us the
Sun May 24, 2015, 07:46 PM
May 2015

rope with which to hang them'). The school made a profit off this tawdry affair. Q.E.D.

MerryBlooms

(11,767 posts)
73. We did fund raisers for these type of events, and
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:19 PM
May 2015

the only kids who weren't at the parties were either absent that day or their parents denied permission.

To have these children split apart because of finances is inexcusable. The district should not be allowing this to happen.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
80. Bad headline, the auditorium was dark because they were watching a movie
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:27 PM
May 2015

Yes, it might have been better had the carnival been set up elsewhere or the movie shown in a classroom the farthest away they could get, but I guess nobody fucking thought of it.

They obviously didn't think ten bucks was a little steep for poor kids, either.

I wonder which bonehead decided this should be during class time instead of on a weekend when kids whose families couldn't afford it could have stayed completely away.

raccoon

(31,110 posts)
123. Yes, it is a stupid headline. I don't know where they get some
Mon May 25, 2015, 06:33 AM
May 2015

of the dingbat writers they get nowadays. You'd think with the job
market as bad as it is they could get better writers.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
132. It probably wasn't the writer
Mon May 25, 2015, 03:13 PM
May 2015

It was a dingbat editor who wanted to sensationalize it to sell a paper.

That happens a lot.

questionseverything

(9,651 posts)
129. bingo
Mon May 25, 2015, 02:48 PM
May 2015

you said,

I wonder which bonehead decided this should be during class time instead of on a weekend when kids whose families couldn't afford it could have stayed completely away.

/////////////////////////////////

schools are constantly doing fund raisers in my district but they are not done during school,excluding the students who can't pay (who are oddly the students the fundraisers are suppose to benefit)

//////////////////

activities during school are "everyone attends", fundraisers after school ( that poor kids may not be able to attend) are to collect money so during school "everyone attends"

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
85. Looks like they were seeing a cartoon of some sort.
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:31 PM
May 2015

Not that bad of an alternative.

I do object to these type things needing a fee attached.

There can be ways to sponsor these things without needing fees.

But there are also parents that object to their kids participating in these these events for whatever lame brain reason and you are going to need an alternate event anyway.

procon

(15,805 posts)
93. Beyond the principal's heartlessness, did you see what else she did?
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:49 PM
May 2015

From the linked article:


Principal Joan Monroe tacked up a list of the number of students per class: “How many attending, Paid,” and “How many not attending, Not paid.”

On Thursday morning, Monroe used the school loudspeaker to remind teachers to send in a list of kids who did not pay.

While teachers were handed a bag of little stuffed animals to give kids who paid for the carnival...

Frank Chow, president of the parents association that sponsored the carnival, said Monroe insisted that kids whose parents didn’t pay could not partake.


The carnival cost about $6,200, including fees to a carnival company, Send in the Clowns, and reaped a $2,000 to $3,000 profit, he added. “I wish we just charged parents the cost, not to make extra,” Chow said. The profit is earmarked for the pre-K, kindergarten and fifth-grade moving-up parties, he said.
PS 120 families also have paid annual PA dues of $15 per family. That money will be spent on window air-conditioning units, Chow said.

-----

So this principle targeted the poorest children for public humiliation, money-shaming the kids who couldn't afford to pay, then she profited off the kids who did pay, and also fined all the kid's families personally for extra money supposedly for the maintenance costs of a publicly owned building that is paid for by the taxpayers.

Where's the investigation???


 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
100. There is no evidence provided for any of this
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:27 PM
May 2015

"On Thursday morning, Monroe used the school loudspeaker to remind teachers to send in a list of kids who did not pay." - according to whom?

Please remember that this story is in the NY Post - a far right-wing tabloid known for dodgy reporting and sensationalistic articles, usually targeting liberals.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
96. Awww, FUCK! I've been a public school teacher for almost 40 years, and ...
Sun May 24, 2015, 08:55 PM
May 2015

as God is my witness I would have walked in that principal's office and asked, "Are you out of your fucking mind?"

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
102. At my daughter's school....
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:29 PM
May 2015

when they have an activity or field trip that costs money, they have an option on the permission slip for you to sponsor another child that cannot afford the activity. I always sponsor 2 additional kids, just in case. I hate to see kids left out like that.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
106. What if they get too many or too few sponsors?
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:34 PM
May 2015

If there aren't enough parents who agree to sponsor additional kids to cover all the kids who cannot afford the activity, what happens?

On the flip side, if there are more kids sponsored than kids who need to be covered, what happens to the extra money? Do the parents who paid the extra amount all get a percentage back?

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
116. Here's how it works....
Sun May 24, 2015, 10:39 PM
May 2015

AFAIK, they've never come up short. I always write a note to say if they come up short, contact me. Hasn't happened yet. Extra funds are put in an account for the next event.

FSogol

(45,476 posts)
128. At my sons' former elementary school, the PTA paid the way for the poor kids
Mon May 25, 2015, 01:02 PM
May 2015

and no one would be any wiser. We always dumped money into that fund.

Novara

(5,840 posts)
107. Indoctrinate them at an early age that they're worthless if they're poor
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:36 PM
May 2015

Hey, it's the American Way. Poor people don't count.

vankuria

(904 posts)
126. Breaks my heart
Mon May 25, 2015, 11:11 AM
May 2015

You'd think the school could've had a fundraiser or something to raise money for the kids who couldn't afford it. I hope someone gave them hell for this and it never happens again.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
127. i do not fucking believe
Mon May 25, 2015, 12:45 PM
May 2015

how mean this country has become. just plain fucking mean and cruel and disgusting. i'm just about over it.

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
131. It's good that schools institute policies to ostracize children of low income families
Mon May 25, 2015, 02:57 PM
May 2015

Better to acclimate them to the ridicule and scorn to which they'll be subjected their entire lives.

I hope that they included a stern lecture to explain to these children that they're poor because they've made bad life decisions and because they don't work hard enough.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
133. Well, they're "takers not makers".
Mon May 25, 2015, 03:17 PM
May 2015

If they weren't so lazy and shiftless they'd have made an effort of pulling themselves up by their bootstraps by picking wealthy parents.

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