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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Wed May 27, 2015, 11:09 PM May 2015

the Bates family is cable tv's new Duggars and they are just as toxic

Many fans of Bringing up Bates believe the Bates family is “better” than the Duggars; Kelly Bates genuinely seems to love her 19 children, Gil Bates actively parents (and can also paint glow-in-the-dark eagles at impressive speeds), minimally talented country-singing son Lawson is more sociable and fun than any Duggar boy, and Erin Paine nee Bates is compelling to watch as she shares everything in her life from makeup tutorials to her struggles with fertility.

But lurking behind the admittedly gorgeous family are the same ugly beliefs that drove the Duggars to keep their child-molesting son hidden from authorities for over a year and in the same house as the sisters he molested for many more. Alongside Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar, Gil and Kelly Bates share a devotion to God, an affection for TV money, and a strict adherence to the ATI (Advanced Training Institute International) homeschooling curriculum.

It’s not a secret that the Duggars follow the ATI curriculum, an educational program that tells young women to cover up their bodies lest they “defraud” the horny men around them, and an educational program that blames victims of sexual assault. But the Bates family ties to ATI run deeper and present a troubling dynamic in the Duggar molestation scandal: regardless of whether or not Gil Bates knew of Josh Duggar’s actions—an open secret in their shared tight-knit religious community—Gil Bates himself is a driving force in ATI, peddling an actively harmful and scientifically inaccurate curriculum to young men and women, and doing so while making significant amounts of money charming viewers with his family’s full-frontal hugs and exclusive breeding announcements in People.

Bates, a 50-year-old tree trimmer from Lake City, TN, currently sits on the board of the Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP), the parent group of ATI:

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the Bates family is cable tv's new Duggars and they are just as toxic (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA May 2015 OP
I am sure there are plenty of replacements. I do not participate in any of these shows. gordianot May 2015 #1
Advanced Training Institute International this curriculum IMO is sexual abuse. Kalidurga May 2015 #2

gordianot

(15,233 posts)
1. I am sure there are plenty of replacements. I do not participate in any of these shows.
Wed May 27, 2015, 11:23 PM
May 2015

Real life is challenge enough without fake hillbillies making duck calls, watching the wealthy self destruct, or real hillbillies engage in careless sex and trying to deal with the consequences.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
2. Advanced Training Institute International this curriculum IMO is sexual abuse.
Thu May 28, 2015, 12:27 AM
May 2015

It should be illegal. It sure as hell wouldn't fly in a public school, why should it be okay for home schooled children who are prisoners in their own homes?

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