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Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
Sat May 12, 2012, 07:47 PM May 2012

Need prayers, positive thoughts for my sister - 3rd cancer diagnosis in 18 months

Started with breast cancer 15 years ago. She had surgery, chemo, and was cancer free until November, 2010 when it returned to the other breast. Surgery, radiation, chemo, all was well and then it showed up in a lymph node in her neck. Now it is in the myelin at the base of her brain and possibly on her spine. She is undergoing more radiation and chemo and we are all in a state of shock and fear.

We don't have a prognosis, yet, but any prayers and/or positive thoughts are much appreciated. She's an amazing woman who raised 3 equally amazing kids. This is my only sister and I dread the thought of growing old without her around to keep me sane.

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Need prayers, positive thoughts for my sister - 3rd cancer diagnosis in 18 months (Original Post) Siwsan May 2012 OP
My thoughts and prayers are with you cal04 May 2012 #1
All good thoughts coming her way Sheepshank May 2012 #2
Sorry to hear that your sister has been hit with this multiple times Cairycat May 2012 #3
Thank you so much Siwsan May 2012 #4
I'll be praying. n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2012 #5
you got it. demtenjeep May 2012 #6
Thoughts and prayers for you both! polichick May 2012 #7
Thoughts are with you and your sis ProfessionalLeftist May 2012 #8
Vibes to your sister. applegrove May 2012 #9
I'll be praying for your sister! ProgressoDem May 2012 #10
() Jack Rabbit May 2012 #11
My prayers for your sister and your family. emilyg May 2012 #12
May it turn out okay for you and your sister. Cancer sucks FailureToCommunicate May 2012 #13
My very best wishes for all of you in this very difficult time. bluerum May 2012 #14
Sending good vibes malaise May 2012 #15
You got it, positive healing thoughts going her way. nt Raine May 2012 #16
Sending strength and freedom from fear yellerpup May 2012 #17
Cancer sucks! My prayers and good healing vibes to both of you. crunch60 May 2012 #18
I pray the lord is with you and your family. southernyankeebelle May 2012 #19
All love is with you and your sister, Siwsan. patrice May 2012 #20
Prayers and positive thoughts and wishes for your sister. MarianJack May 2012 #21
We have a great cancer group here...... Uben May 2012 #22
I absolutely will check out this group. Siwsan May 2012 #26
Please check them out. mwdem May 2012 #41
I'll pray daily. Please let us know DevonRex May 2012 #23
I will let my wonderful friends at DU know how things are going. Siwsan May 2012 #28
Prayers are going out polmaven May 2012 #24
I lost my only brother just a few weeks ago. Brain cancer. stevedeshazer May 2012 #25
thoughts and prayers coming your way! one_voice May 2012 #27
(((GOOD VIBES))) Odin2005 May 2012 #29
I'm good at prayer. Paka May 2012 #30
Thoughts and prayers for your sister Chorophyll May 2012 #31
You bet. Only the best of thoughts for you and your sister. ScreamingMeemie May 2012 #32
Your sister and all of your family are in my thoughts and prayers n/t Irishonly May 2012 #33
Very much in my thoughts and prayers. Both of you. humblebum May 2012 #34
Prayers to you and your clan Siwsan. Swede May 2012 #35
Sending good vibes snacker May 2012 #36
Prayers are with you and your family goclark May 2012 #37
Positive thoughts and prayers. mmonk May 2012 #38
Thoughts and prayers are with you..... Swede Atlanta May 2012 #39
Positive thoughts and prayers coming your way. n/t slipslidingaway May 2012 #40
Good thoughts and KT2000 May 2012 #42
You got it. donheld May 2012 #43
... Mnemosyne May 2012 #44
Positive thoughts... CoffeeCat May 2012 #45
A prayer to St. Peregrine for your sister. n/t deacon May 2012 #46

Cairycat

(1,706 posts)
3. Sorry to hear that your sister has been hit with this multiple times
Sat May 12, 2012, 07:58 PM
May 2012

Prayers coming that treatments help and it can be stopped. I can't imagine how rough it would be to hear those words, "You have cancer" again would be. Wishing strength and stamina for her. And difficult for you too, to be worried for your only sister - good thoughts coming for you, and your nephews/nieces. Lots of prayers for all of you from this 1-year breast cancer survivor.

Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
4. Thank you so much
Sat May 12, 2012, 08:04 PM
May 2012

Here I am, single, childless and healthy as a horse, eat and drink what I want and pay little attention to health issues, because I never have any. She's always been so health conscious following all the guidelines and recommendations, and bam. Life is just so unfair.

I will keep you in my thoughts, too.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,012 posts)
13. May it turn out okay for you and your sister. Cancer sucks
Sat May 12, 2012, 08:38 PM
May 2012

and comes to even those who did nothing "wrong"

As someone who went thru this with a younger brother, I send prayers for your sister for strength,
and to you for courage.

Uben

(7,719 posts)
22. We have a great cancer group here......
Sat May 12, 2012, 09:01 PM
May 2012
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1146

I know your fear. I have lived it. My wife was diagnosed in 2002 with breast cancer. She had a bi-lateral mastectomy, clear margins, no rads, no chemo. We had ten great years before it returned last December. Come join us at the cancer group. People there have gone and some are going through this right now. Maybe we can help you through this difficult period and you can talk to folks familiar with treatments and drugs through their own experiences. They helped me through, and continue to lend support. You'll like it.

Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
26. I absolutely will check out this group.
Sat May 12, 2012, 09:12 PM
May 2012

My father died from brain cancer, after my sister's first diagnosis. It never gets easier to deal with, so the support will be a blessing.

mwdem

(4,031 posts)
41. Please check them out.
Sat May 12, 2012, 10:25 PM
May 2012

Me-breast cancer 6 yrs ago. Mast., chemo. Next year uterine cancer with hysterectomy. I'm still here. Chime in with our cancer forum.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
23. I'll pray daily. Please let us know
Sat May 12, 2012, 09:09 PM
May 2012

how things are going. I'll pray for you and her children, as well. Is she married?

Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
28. I will let my wonderful friends at DU know how things are going.
Sat May 12, 2012, 09:17 PM
May 2012

My sister has a wonderful, totallly supportive husband. I talked to him today, and the worry in his voice was so painful to hear.

Paka

(2,760 posts)
30. I'm good at prayer.
Sat May 12, 2012, 09:36 PM
May 2012

I learned it very young some seven decades ago and I put it to a lot of use over the years. I'll send some your way.

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
45. Positive thoughts...
Sun May 13, 2012, 03:20 AM
May 2012

...and loads of healing light going out to you and your sister. I am so sorry that your sister is dealing with cancer. She beat it before, do she can beat it again!

You are a great sister, and I'm sure that your love for her is giving her strength right now.

Please kept us posted and know that we care and are thinking of you and your sister!

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