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Now, as Fat People crosses the vaunted 3 million views threshold, Arbour is being fired from a movie job because her director is outraged over the video he calls cruel and lame.
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I was supposed to get together with her this week for what she called a choreo party to watch my favorite dance scenes and talk ideas, says Mills, the director of 2014s Guidance. And then a crazy thing happened on Saturday I saw something on the Internet that made me never want to see her again.
Its a body-positive teen dance movie set in a retirement home, Mills says of the plot. Its about a 16-year-old girl who dreams of being a cheerleader, but she is constantly bullied for being fat. She learns that she doesnt have to change anything about herself to be awesome because she already is.
According to the filmmaker, Arbours video really hit home. Im gay. I was bullied a lot as a kid, he reasons. I am no stranger to ridicule and loneliness.
Good.
More at link: http://zap2it.com/2015/09/dear-fat-people-comedian-fired/
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)I'm average weight but stuttered some when I was young. (went away for some reason). Kids (and people) can be quite cruel.
My point being, there are evil, nasty, mean individuals that are able to put on the "Nice face".
I'll take the over-weight nice person any day.
Siwsan
(26,251 posts)And, she's not. Jenna is hilarious.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Contrary1
(12,629 posts)"Humor to convince fat people that they should lose weight?" Not even close. Can't believe this woman, or anyone else, thinks she is funny.
http://www.downvids.net/dear-fat-people-667227.html
geardaddy
(24,926 posts)ToxMarz
(2,162 posts)ejbr
(5,856 posts)lib87
(535 posts)*takes breath* HAHAHAHAHA!
See ya in the unemployment line!
Reter
(2,188 posts)She's got such an amazing personality and is beautiful and funny as well. She should not be fired for saying something a little mean, and this is coming from a fat guy (me).
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Now I'm certain she could be exactly what's considered "beautiful" at the moment and to me she'd be as ugly as dog shit because of the meanness that lives in her heart.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)It's an absolutely appropriate response for a project which is specifically about this: My film celebrates being different. It celebrates not fitting in. I want to arm teen girls of all sizes with confidence. People like Nicole Arbour strip this confidence away.
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)RufusTFirefly
(8,812 posts)Make no mistake: He's a terrible lout.
I condemn the vast majority of what he says.
But to zero in on his weight is hypocritical.
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NNadir
(33,475 posts)...I couldn't care less.
She's not particularly amusing because it's not very witty.
However, I will say, that my doctor frequently advises me not to be fat, and when I can, I do what I can. He doesn't say things that are particularly different than what this "comedian" says, although he certainly isn't trying to be obnoxious about it.
I don't consider being fat to be something I couldn't manage better if I invested the time, but right now, I don't have the time.
I wasn't fat when I had the time for lots of exercise and other good stuff, but, well, life happens.
It is true that we fat people have a higher incidence of diabetes, of stroke, of cancer, of heart disease, etc, etc. I wish, in fact, that I were doing a better job on my health.
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Skittles
(153,113 posts)mobility is just plain good for you......take a five minute walk any time you can - squeeze it in - it WILL make you feel better
mhatrw
(10,786 posts)meow2u3
(24,759 posts)Kicking people while they're down is not humor, and that includes fat-shaming. Humor is supposed to involve kicking those on their high horse.