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sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
Thu Sep 17, 2015, 04:45 PM Sep 2015

Husband won't let soccer star play

Iranian Women's Soccer Captain Will Miss Asian Cup After Husband Takes Passport

In late-breaking "abridgment of basic human rights" news, Iranian women's soccer captain Niloufar Ardalan will not be present at the Asian Cup, as her husband has decided to invoke his legal, husbandly right to withhold her passport.

Per the Associated Press' Jon Gambrell, Ardalan's husband, sports journalist Mahdi Toutounchi, has taken the 30-year-old midfielder's passport to ensure she will be home for their son's first day of school, according to reports from Iranian news website Fararu.com.

Seems legit.

And the great (read: terrible) thing is that there is no real legal recourse for Ardalan. Toutounchi didn't just put her documents on a high shelf out of reach. He's acting within the given legal parameters of Iranian law, which posits that a man can deny his wife the ability to travel beyond the country's borders if he chooses.
http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2567741-iranian-womens-soccer-captain-will-miss-asian-cup-after-husband-takes-passport?utm_source=cnn.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=editorial
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Husband won't let soccer star play (Original Post) sarisataka Sep 2015 OP
I just read that a few minutes ago... Glassunion Sep 2015 #1
horrible Liberal_in_LA Sep 2015 #2
Is there a reason he can't be home for his son's first day of school? eissa Sep 2015 #3
How idiotic A Little Weird Sep 2015 #4
I can't imagine what it must be like to live with a grown child that has tantrums and your passport. Rex Sep 2015 #5
Ugh. hifiguy Sep 2015 #6
Misogyny 101. Dont call me Shirley Sep 2015 #7
Disgusting! I think that if I was a woman in one of those countries, smirkymonkey Sep 2015 #8
I'd say she should divorce him but it's almost impossible riderinthestorm Sep 2015 #9

eissa

(4,238 posts)
3. Is there a reason he can't be home for his son's first day of school?
Thu Sep 17, 2015, 04:50 PM
Sep 2015

Or does his penis prevent him from doing that?

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
4. How idiotic
Thu Sep 17, 2015, 06:02 PM
Sep 2015

I can't imagine living in those conditions. If the fundies could have their way, the US will go in that direction.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
5. I can't imagine what it must be like to live with a grown child that has tantrums and your passport.
Thu Sep 17, 2015, 06:03 PM
Sep 2015

That must be horrible.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
8. Disgusting! I think that if I was a woman in one of those countries,
Thu Sep 17, 2015, 07:43 PM
Sep 2015

I would have committed suicide a long time ago. They have absolutely no agency, no self-determination whatsoever.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
9. I'd say she should divorce him but it's almost impossible
Thu Sep 17, 2015, 07:56 PM
Sep 2015
Although Iranian religious law frowns on divorce, a man is allowed to claim the privilege without needing to show cause, provided he pays his ex-wife compensation. A woman, however, can only sue for divorce if she can prove that her husband is sterile or mad, or if he agrees to let her out of their marriage contract. In the last case, the compensation becomes the bargaining chip: the man will sometimes give his wife her freedom if he doesn't have to pay.


http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/divorce-iranian-style/



Can you imagine being forced to stay in that marriage after this?!

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