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Stargazer99

(2,584 posts)
Fri Sep 18, 2015, 07:09 PM Sep 2015

this is one reason I take umburage with fundamentist

I wondered why the mother of Baby Doe was so acquiescent in her child's death. One of the fundy's principles is that women be subservient to their husbands/males. If you have ever been beaten down enough emotionally as a female child you would understand how women do not fight back the abuse boyfriends and stepfathers give to children not of their own DNA. That in itself shows anyone with common sense that ideal of women not being taught that they are as worthwhile and capable as any male contributes to the mother not stopping the abuse. It is hard for people who have not experienced abuse of that nature to understand what I am talking about.....but that is no excuse for a culture to tolerate religious cruelty and/or cultural stupidity.

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this is one reason I take umburage with fundamentist (Original Post) Stargazer99 Sep 2015 OP
You might consider editing your title. MineralMan Sep 2015 #1
I knew uals would say that pinboy3niner Sep 2015 #2
Is there any evidence Ms. Yertle Sep 2015 #3
what you post is a reality but it still comes down to cultural stpidity and the religion aspect just Stargazer99 Sep 2015 #4
to absolve a religious concept which contributes to the problem is not looking at reality in the fac Stargazer99 Sep 2015 #5

Ms. Yertle

(466 posts)
3. Is there any evidence
Fri Sep 18, 2015, 07:45 PM
Sep 2015

that this was "fundy" related?

I have seen a whole lot of cases where religion has nothing to do with child abuse by a mom's new boyfriend. The fact is that the new guy rarely has much interest in the last guy's kid. And usually, the mom is willfully blind to what goes on, because of her need for a guy in her life. And it has nothing to do with religion.

Stargazer99

(2,584 posts)
4. what you post is a reality but it still comes down to cultural stpidity and the religion aspect just
Fri Sep 18, 2015, 09:51 PM
Sep 2015

part of the problem. If there was a healthy society women would not tolerate the child abuse...what you talk about illustrates the sickness in our society. The need for male attention despite the cost means something went very wrong in that woman's upbringing and it is usually abandonment by the father

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