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Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:17 PM Oct 2015

Idaho mom upset after fellow diners send a note about her child's "new thing" (he's into yelling)

BOISE - A Nampa mom is upset after she says she received a nasty note from her fellow diners accusing her 10-month-old son of "ruining" their dinner with his yelling.

Katie Leach admits that her son's "new thing" is yelling.

"He will yell when I tell him no, when he's super excited and happy or just for no reason at all," Leach wrote on a Facebook post to KTVB. "I'm doing my best to teach him indoor voice and to not yell back at me when telling him no etc, But he is only 10 (almost 11 months) and LEARNING."

Leach says she and her family where dining at Texas Roadhouse in Nampa when her son began to yell off and on. "We all tried quieting him down which a majority of the time he did but he also was so excited to be around all the commotion," said Leach. "He was not yelling to be mean or because he was mad, it was purely from excitement and being happy."

http://www.wcnc.com/story/news/weird/2015/10/05/diners-accuse-family-of-ruining-their-dinner-deliver-nasty-note/73404394/


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Idaho mom upset after fellow diners send a note about her child's "new thing" (he's into yelling) (Original Post) Miles Archer Oct 2015 OP
Maybe taking a 10 month old to a public restaurant isn't the best idea? Erich Bloodaxe BSN Oct 2015 #1
My mother gave me a good piece of advice Marrah_G Oct 2015 #12
Your mom is a smart woman. hifiguy Oct 2015 #13
This child has issues that probably won't get jaysunb Oct 2015 #2
Parents who lack the human fortitude to face the consequences of raising a kid Android3.14 Oct 2015 #3
I cannot stand the high pitched screams that kids let out. Boudica the Lyoness Oct 2015 #4
The overstimulation wasn't good for the poor kid either. nt procon Oct 2015 #5
I agree with the Diners Travis_0004 Oct 2015 #6
screaming children should be taken out ibegurpard Oct 2015 #7
Slow news day in Charlotte... ScreamingMeemie Oct 2015 #8
It's called take-out. lindysalsagal Oct 2015 #9
How about not being an ass and keeping your child out of restaurants during this phase? Marrah_G Oct 2015 #10
Get over yourself Mom Bonx Oct 2015 #11
Do that learning part at home please. No need for strangers to endure the lessons Person 2713 Oct 2015 #14
The Texas Roadhouse closest to us is so loud already Contrary1 Oct 2015 #15
I HATE screaming children in restaurants. I wear hearing aids and it's painful. Shrike47 Oct 2015 #16
Yes selfish and so self centered they are clueless to those around their precious Person 2713 Oct 2015 #19
Kid has almost no chance. His mother is still a pouting infant. nt alphafemale Oct 2015 #17
I can forgive a few outbursts but constant yelling? Skittles Oct 2015 #18

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
1. Maybe taking a 10 month old to a public restaurant isn't the best idea?
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:20 PM
Oct 2015

All the 'commotion' isn't really conducive to keeping such a small child quiet.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
12. My mother gave me a good piece of advice
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:39 PM
Oct 2015

"Never bring your children to a restaurant that they are not old enough to behave in comfortably."

This translates to: Bring your kids to age appropriate places and then both you and they can enjoy yourselves together instead of spending the whole time struggling to make them behave.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
13. Your mom is a smart woman.
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:41 PM
Oct 2015

There's no excuse for disrupting the meals of a restaurant full of people. None.

jaysunb

(11,856 posts)
2. This child has issues that probably won't get
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:26 PM
Oct 2015

diagnosed for awhile. Not excusing the rude diner, but I've seen this movie before.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
3. Parents who lack the human fortitude to face the consequences of raising a kid
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:27 PM
Oct 2015

Your kid misbehaves in a restaurant, then you fricken' leave (with the kid).

Your kid misbehaves in the grocery store, then you fricken' leave.

Your kid misbehaves in church, then you fricken' leave.

Ignore the promises, ignore the screams, ignore that little animal until you get him or her away from the human beings.

"new thing" - What a crock of bullshit. The parents should get themselves sterilized.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
4. I cannot stand the high pitched screams that kids let out.
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:27 PM
Oct 2015

Take the screamers outside and let them sit in the car and learn whatever their new trick is there.

I always took my babies outside when they started to create a disturbance.

BTW; from the story;

Leach says about halfway through her dinner two customers, "Caucasian women in their late 50s or early 60s," slammed a disapproving note down on Leach's table. The women then sat back down at their table behind Leach's.

Why did they mention race? Weird.
 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
6. I agree with the Diners
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:30 PM
Oct 2015

Perhaps the toddler is not ready to go out. If the kid was yelling they should have taken him outside until he calms down.

ibegurpard

(16,685 posts)
7. screaming children should be taken out
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:33 PM
Oct 2015

And away from other people. If they are incapable they should be with a babysitter. Having said that Texas Roadhouse is hardly a quiet highbrow establishment. You can't have a conversation in one...they are noisy without screaming children.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
10. How about not being an ass and keeping your child out of restaurants during this phase?
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:36 PM
Oct 2015

These parents were not the victims, the other patrons were.

Contrary1

(12,629 posts)
15. The Texas Roadhouse closest to us is so loud already
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 07:57 PM
Oct 2015

we probably wouldn't even notice a screaming child. The acoustics in their restaurants are the worst.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
16. I HATE screaming children in restaurants. I wear hearing aids and it's painful.
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 08:03 PM
Oct 2015

They should stay home if their child can't behave in public. Nobody has the right to ruin experiences for everybody else. They are incredibly self-centered and selfish.

This subject gets me going...

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
19. Yes selfish and so self centered they are clueless to those around their precious
Mon Oct 5, 2015, 08:14 PM
Oct 2015

I had to leave a cart full of groceries one time
did I want to come back and have to shop all over again ? No but my son was at that age and it was not stopping and I was aware it was too disruptive to stay

Honor student now I might proudly add

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