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CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:31 PM Oct 2015

Oh, shit. It's started AGAIN. Today on Facebook "Like if you say Merry Christmas."

We haven't even gotten thru the Columbus Day controversy (which I agree with) and now we are in the Halloween controversy. Why is anybody looking for the Merry Christmas controversy so early?

I am tempted to ditch Facebook entirely (I've blocked several people). But otherwise I wouldn't see pics of my grandkids...but I have rid myself with more than a few "offenders."

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Oh, shit. It's started AGAIN. Today on Facebook "Like if you say Merry Christmas." (Original Post) CTyankee Oct 2015 OP
None of my fb friends are 'offenders,' yank. elleng Oct 2015 #1
Oy. Here we go again! CTyankee Oct 2015 #8
Are people still really going on about this? smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #2
I am just amazed that I see this AGAIN. I can't tell you how many people I've blocked on Facebook CTyankee Oct 2015 #13
You can block that kind of post without blocking the person Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Oct 2015 #17
I know. I do that all the time now. And I'll do it with this one, too...pretty soon I won't CTyankee Oct 2015 #20
I would just think that they would be tired of this juvenile crap by now. smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #18
People with juvenile mentalities hifiguy Oct 2015 #24
I guess it's the annual "Airing of the Grievances". smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #25
Festivus is MY kind of holiday. hifiguy Oct 2015 #26
That's good! So next time you hear someone whine about people who say "Happy Holidays" you smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #31
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2015 #41
Exactly. Annoying adults behaving like children. mountain grammy Oct 2015 #67
Outrage is everywhere yeoman6987 Oct 2015 #28
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Looking forward to another year oswaldactedalone Oct 2015 #3
damned straight. It's a goddamn war out there... CTyankee Oct 2015 #14
My "holiday" greeting is Sherman A1 Oct 2015 #4
And Happy Cracker Jacks back atcha! ananda Oct 2015 #27
Thank You Kindly Sherman A1 Oct 2015 #34
I take no offense if someone says Merry Christmas, Happy Hannuka, Feliz Navidad, Joyous Kwanzaa peacebird Oct 2015 #5
That is a wise response and I agree entirely! Thanks! CTyankee Oct 2015 #9
I'm the same. cwydro Oct 2015 #21
Don't forget Festivus... smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #22
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...+1 840high Oct 2015 #38
In October? Mariana Oct 2015 #57
What is the Halloween controversy? I haven't heard that one. patricia92243 Oct 2015 #6
something about witches some xians don't like. It's like pagan stuff. CTyankee Oct 2015 #12
Yes Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Oct 2015 #19
OK. well, that's cool. .. CTyankee Oct 2015 #23
I feel the same way with winter solstice.... Merry Christmas! yeoman6987 Oct 2015 #30
Halloween is coming... MrScorpio Oct 2015 #47
We have "trunk or treat" at my church. phylny Oct 2015 #50
The most hilarious aspect to me... displacedtexan Oct 2015 #7
Don't do what I did. I responded to a keep Christ in Christmas post NightWatcher Oct 2015 #10
Tell them the truth. hifiguy Oct 2015 #29
I signed up for facebook once. 36 hours later I deleted my account. Binkie The Clown Oct 2015 #11
yep, who the hell cares. I say Merry Christmas to my christian friends and happy holidays CTyankee Oct 2015 #16
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Also, another point about "Happy Holidays"... smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #56
Especially Given. . . ProfessorGAC Oct 2015 #60
I've never been on FB, But my new fiancee is a Facebook junkie Populist_Prole Oct 2015 #61
Annoying isn't it? Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Oct 2015 #15
Santa Claus is now on the city council.........now its political. Historic NY Oct 2015 #32
Just respond back with an indignant "ALL holidays matter" tandot Oct 2015 #33
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Yep. GoCubsGo Oct 2015 #46
I've tried. Some have given me dirty looks. I have had to distance myself from one "friend" CTyankee Oct 2015 #55
I replied to a friend who is into this stuff as such: BarbaRosa Oct 2015 #37
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My town has an annual "Testicle Festival" ThoughtCriminal Oct 2015 #43
Any link? Reter Oct 2015 #44
I just say "Merry Fucking Ho-Hos!" hobbit709 Oct 2015 #45
may I ask something Skittles Oct 2015 #48
Two years ago I gave my FB list a severe hair cut! oldandhappy Oct 2015 #49
some FB friends don't knowingly offend...they "Like" stuff and then it appears on my Facebook CTyankee Oct 2015 #51
You should ask them if they refuse to say the days of the week deutsey Oct 2015 #52
good one, deutsey! CTyankee Oct 2015 #53
I have always said Happy Holidays. Javaman Oct 2015 #54
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I'm very happy to wish people a Merry Christmas Mariana Oct 2015 #58
With all due respect, I've never heard anyone in 40 years say it "eight or 12 weeks ahead of time" Reter Oct 2015 #66
Not yet. Mariana Oct 2015 #68
I say it, on Christmas. Lancero Oct 2015 #59
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Has the war started up again ALREADY? JNelson6563 Oct 2015 #64
I was once a bit put off by a sign in a store that said "Happy Holiday". Snobblevitch Oct 2015 #65

elleng

(130,665 posts)
1. None of my fb friends are 'offenders,' yank.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:36 PM
Oct 2015

Just lucky, I guess!

Was in Hallmark store today for birthday card, and 1/3 of the store is for Christmas! When I noted this, an employee said it's related to weather, when it starts to change, so do the displays.

Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Chanukah, Merry Christmas!!!

HECK with Halloween, which is the beginning of the END!!!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
2. Are people still really going on about this?
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:39 PM
Oct 2015

I don't go on social media, but here in Boston people don't really seem to have a problem w/ "Happy Holidays" and in NYC you ALWAYS said "Happy Holidays" unless you knew for sure what specific holiday someone celebrated.

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
13. I am just amazed that I see this AGAIN. I can't tell you how many people I've blocked on Facebook
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:10 PM
Oct 2015

because of repub talking points about stuff that were so obnoxious I had to rid them from my life.

Now this. And the person who posted is a nice friend.

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(107,665 posts)
17. You can block that kind of post without blocking the person
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:14 PM
Oct 2015

Click on the upper right hand corner. One of the options is "I don't want to see this".

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
20. I know. I do that all the time now. And I'll do it with this one, too...pretty soon I won't
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:16 PM
Oct 2015

allow anyone on my facebook page

except my grandkids...

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
18. I would just think that they would be tired of this juvenile crap by now.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:15 PM
Oct 2015

Why do they make an issue of it every single year? People are going to do what they do. All their whining isn't going to change anything and it just creates a lot of ugliness around the season. I guess some people aren't happy unless they are outraged about something.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
31. That's good! So next time you hear someone whine about people who say "Happy Holidays" you
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:27 PM
Oct 2015

can demonstrate the Festivus holiday tradition of "Feats of Strength" and kick their arse into next January!

Response to smirkymonkey (Reply #31)

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
28. Outrage is everywhere
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:24 PM
Oct 2015

We are a country in constant outrage. And that is daily with one thing after another. It does not discriminate.

Response to smirkymonkey (Reply #2)

oswaldactedalone

(3,489 posts)
3. Looking forward to another year
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:39 PM
Oct 2015

of skirmishes fighting the War on Christmas. Santa gonna find out what stand your ground means when he tries to enter my house.

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
5. I take no offense if someone says Merry Christmas, Happy Hannuka, Feliz Navidad, Joyous Kwanzaa
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:43 PM
Oct 2015

peace be with you, joy to the world, happy yule, whatever... I always smile and return the greeting.

I assume they mean well.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
21. I'm the same.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:17 PM
Oct 2015

And if they say "God bless" or "have a blessed day," I smile as well.

Life is too short to take offense at people trying to be nice.

Response to peacebird (Reply #5)

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
57. In October?
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 12:01 PM
Oct 2015

These fools are going on about this as if they expect people to be saying "Merry Christmas" to them NOW.

phylny

(8,366 posts)
50. We have "trunk or treat" at my church.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 07:41 AM
Oct 2015

Being in a rural area, there's no opportunity for the kids to go door to door, so we dress up, open our trunks filled with candy, and have the kids come to us.

One person I know was going "on and on" about the "war on Christmas" and I said, "Talk to me when December 25th isn't a national holiday."

And a comment upthread is true, coming from NY, we *always* said "Happy Holidays" if we didn't know what a person celebrates. If we did, we'd wish a "Happy Hanukkah" or "Merry Christmas" and for some, it was just "Happy New Year."

displacedtexan

(15,696 posts)
7. The most hilarious aspect to me...
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:46 PM
Oct 2015

... is the fact that these faux Christians have no idea that "holiday" means "holy day."

Morons.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
10. Don't do what I did. I responded to a keep Christ in Christmas post
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:49 PM
Oct 2015

By replying "Jesus Christ, we're doing this again."

I deleted a few minutes later

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
29. Tell them the truth.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:26 PM
Oct 2015

The early xtians co-opted the ancient mid-winter Roman festival Saturnalia for their own purposes.

Xmas is just a Roman festival of eating, drinking and gluttony to celebrate the return of the celestial orb, with a different name.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
11. I signed up for facebook once. 36 hours later I deleted my account.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 07:54 PM
Oct 2015

And for the record, as an atheist, I say "Merry Christmas" to people all through the season. I make it an enjoyable secular holiday for myself, my family members, and my friends. As far as I'm concerned, Easter is about the bunnies and eggs, and Christmas is about Santa, family, and warming up an otherwise cold and dreary winter season.

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
16. yep, who the hell cares. I say Merry Christmas to my christian friends and happy holidays
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:12 PM
Oct 2015

to others when I don't really know their affiliation. I've never been "corrected."

Response to CTyankee (Reply #16)

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
56. Also, another point about "Happy Holidays"...
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 10:08 AM
Oct 2015

I always thought it encompassed Christmas Eve, Christmas AND New Year's Eve and New Year's Day, so even if you are a Christian, you shouldn't be offended because people are really wishing you a happy holiday season.

ProfessorGAC

(64,801 posts)
60. Especially Given. . .
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 12:12 PM
Oct 2015

. . .that New Year's Day is a Holy Day in catholicism. So, technically one should be wishing that as a happy day too, and nobody should take offense.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
61. I've never been on FB, But my new fiancee is a Facebook junkie
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 12:17 PM
Oct 2015

She's a wonderful woman but it seems she forms so many of her views on FB. The "wall" she shows me is but a massive cavalcade of mostly RW crap. Almost like a clearing house of RW email forward type messages, corny as all get-out inspiration bits of wisdom, Flag-waving USA! USA! USA! memes, and the usual boycott exhortations for firms that don't say merry x-mass instead of happy holidays. Snopes would have a field day with this shit.

I say all this because she's not conservative, or even political at all. It all comes from the FB crap; and so I hear a steady stream of vulgar patriotism, military and law-enforcement worship, and curiously, a dislike of anything French. I told her the French were instrumental in helping the fledgling US win the revolutionary war: She said "Bite me".

FB just seems like 'Reader's Digest' overlayed on AOL internet.

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(107,665 posts)
15. Annoying isn't it?
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:11 PM
Oct 2015

I told a high school classmate of mine who posted that to look in our yearbook from forty years ago. Happy Holidays was on the sign of one of the area merchants.

It's sad how gullible some people are.

tandot

(6,671 posts)
33. Just respond back with an indignant "ALL holidays matter"
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:29 PM
Oct 2015

maybe just post something pointing out that you don't like that they discriminate against other holidays

not something I came up with ... someone posted it here.

Response to tandot (Reply #33)

GoCubsGo

(32,069 posts)
46. Yep.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 11:18 PM
Oct 2015

I usually reply, "And, a Happy Festivus for the rest of us." I don't get why it is so difficult for some people to understand that not everyone is a Christian, and therefore, not everyone celebrates THEIR religious holidays.

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
55. I've tried. Some have given me dirty looks. I have had to distance myself from one "friend"
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 08:59 AM
Oct 2015

already. I won't ditch her entirely but just steer clear...she's a bit difficult...

BarbaRosa

(2,684 posts)
37. I replied to a friend who is into this stuff as such:
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 08:43 PM
Oct 2015

Here's my routine, Happy Halloween, Happy Holidays. Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and then through the rest of them as they happen, with as many Happy Birthdays as needed.
He thought that was a good plan.

Response to CTyankee (Original post)

ThoughtCriminal

(14,046 posts)
43. My town has an annual "Testicle Festival"
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 10:04 PM
Oct 2015

I'm not sure what the proper greeting is and I'm afraid to get pulled into the debate.

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
49. Two years ago I gave my FB list a severe hair cut!
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 12:15 AM
Oct 2015

Keep your family, ditch anyone who does not nourish you!

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
51. some FB friends don't knowingly offend...they "Like" stuff and then it appears on my Facebook
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 08:29 AM
Oct 2015

pages. I'm getting tired of going through and clicking where I can delete any posts about whatever subject that I have no interest in. It's the price I pay for seeing my grandkids and good friends I don't want to lose touch with.

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
52. You should ask them if they refuse to say the days of the week
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 08:42 AM
Oct 2015

They're all named in reverence of pagan gods and goddesses.

The Sun's day, the Moon's day, Tiw's day, Woden's day, etc.

Javaman

(62,493 posts)
54. I have always said Happy Holidays.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 08:57 AM
Oct 2015

not just because I'm an atheist, but it's the polite thing to do. xtains don't hold a monopoly on the month of December.

Response to Javaman (Reply #54)

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
58. I'm very happy to wish people a Merry Christmas
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 12:08 PM
Oct 2015

when it's actually close to Christmas, say, after the 20th of December. I'm not going to do it for six or eight or twelve weeks ahead of time. That's ridiculous. These people are complaining in October? Give me a break.

 

Reter

(2,188 posts)
66. With all due respect, I've never heard anyone in 40 years say it "eight or 12 weeks ahead of time"
Sun Oct 18, 2015, 10:27 PM
Oct 2015

I've heard a few say it 5 or 6 weeks before Christmas, but late September or October? Never.

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
68. Not yet.
Sun Oct 18, 2015, 10:44 PM
Oct 2015

Just wait a few years. Remember, these people are complaining now, they aren't waiting until late November or December to start in about it.

Lancero

(3,002 posts)
59. I say it, on Christmas.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 12:09 PM
Oct 2015

It's appropriate on that day - Well, using it on Christmas Eve is fine to - but if you use it any other time then that, you're an idiot.

Response to CTyankee (Original post)

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
64. Has the war started up again ALREADY?
Sat Oct 17, 2015, 12:46 PM
Oct 2015

I had better gear up and send out the clarion call to all the Happy Holidays foot soldiers!

Thanks for the heads up!

Julie

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
65. I was once a bit put off by a sign in a store that said "Happy Holiday".
Sat Oct 17, 2015, 03:16 PM
Oct 2015

It was last July and was referencing the Independence Day weekend. By the handwriting on the dry erase board at the Aldi store, it was written by an ignorant young female.

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