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Siwsan

(26,239 posts)
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:05 AM Jan 2016

My 2016 is starting out in the best way - a new baby in the family!!

My nephew and his wife welcomed their first child, at 5:26, this morning. Lila arrived weighing 7 pounds, on the dot, and 20 inches long. I can attest that she has strong lungs, too, as I heard her in the background of the phone call from my nephew.

As some of you may remember, my 2015 was full of losses. My sister, who would have been a Grandmother, today, died in January. My mother died in February and my aunt, in September. I was almost afraid to answer the phone, for most of the year.

Now we have this new, much anticipated baby girl. And, since I will be the substitute for my sister, I've been given the hybrid title of Grand-Auntie.

I have yet to stop smiling and intend to pop the cork on something bubbly, to toast our newest family member.

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My 2016 is starting out in the best way - a new baby in the family!! (Original Post) Siwsan Jan 2016 OP
Congratulation. eom whitefordmd Jan 2016 #1
Congrats! Our grandson is just 14 months old, & believe me peacebird Jan 2016 #2
Glad you have it right -- grand aunt indeed! happynewyear Jan 2016 #8
Congrats! And enjoy! n/t fredamae Jan 2016 #3
Congratulations, Siwsan. polly7 Jan 2016 #4
Her Mom made me PROMISE not to spoil her. So I will treasure her to pieces, instead Siwsan Jan 2016 #6
Awww .... she's a lucky little grand niece. polly7 Jan 2016 #7
Oh, how wonderful! Congratulations! MerryBlooms Jan 2016 #5
We want pictures now!!!!!!!!!! leftofcool Jan 2016 #9
I am anxiously awaiting for my first photo and will definitely share it! Siwsan Jan 2016 #14
Congratulations. I hope this wonderful beginning means that this year Arkansas Granny Jan 2016 #10
Congratulations, Grand-Auntie! mnhtnbb Jan 2016 #11
Congratulations!!! That IS a great way to start this new year ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2016 #12
Lovely - regeneration malaise Jan 2016 #13
Ahhhh.. Sweet! wendylaroux Jan 2016 #15
That is absolutely the very best way to start the new year. Hortensis Jan 2016 #16
Way to ring in a new year! brer cat Jan 2016 #17
Congratulations! It sounds like things are turning around. jalan48 Jan 2016 #18
How wonderful!!!!!!! etherealtruth Jan 2016 #19
well, I can wish you no better New Year's gift, Siwsan! CTyankee Jan 2016 #20
Congrats madokie Jan 2016 #21
K&R! Omaha Steve Jan 2016 #22
What a wonderful gift for you. I wish you nothing but happiness in 2016! nt Fla Dem Jan 2016 #23
What a miracle! frazzled Jan 2016 #24
Congratulations, Siwsan! femmocrat Jan 2016 #25
Such good news! Phentex Jan 2016 #26
CONGRATULATIONS! elleng Jan 2016 #27
I wish I could say in words how I feel for your loss. It happened to me too. But this is new life roguevalley Jan 2016 #28
Congratulations! cal04 Jan 2016 #29
Congrats nadinbrzezinski Jan 2016 #30
How precious! Even in our darkest hours, the circle of life continues. nt ladyVet Jan 2016 #31
My great-aunts were exactly like beloved grandmothers to me. I'm so glad pnwmom Jan 2016 #32

happynewyear

(1,724 posts)
8. Glad you have it right -- grand aunt indeed!
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:33 AM
Jan 2016

So many refer to themselves as a great aunt/uncles and there is no such animal to be found. There is a great grand aunt/uncle however!

Glad you are up on such things and congrats to the OP!



polly7

(20,582 posts)
4. Congratulations, Siwsan.
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:16 AM
Jan 2016

What a wonderful way to bring in the new year! Lila, what a beautiful name .... I think maybe she's going to be just a tad spoiled by Grand-Auntie?

Siwsan

(26,239 posts)
6. Her Mom made me PROMISE not to spoil her. So I will treasure her to pieces, instead
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:22 AM
Jan 2016

My niece is very much an "earth mother" type - Vegan, natural fabrics, very responsible. She's even using cloth diapers! I figure there is nothing more natural than cuddles for a baby and wisdom for a child, and I will give her those in abundance.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
7. Awww .... she's a lucky little grand niece.
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:31 AM
Jan 2016

It sounds like she's in a very healthy, happy environment. There can never be too many cuddles or opportunities for wisdom .. what a great role you'll be playing. So much fun!

Siwsan

(26,239 posts)
14. I am anxiously awaiting for my first photo and will definitely share it!
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:48 AM
Jan 2016

It was a pretty long labor. He called me at 2, yesterday, and she was dilated to about a 3. Lila arrived at 5:26 so Mom and Dad are pretty exhausted! The wait for my first glimpse of Lila is sheer torture!

mnhtnbb

(31,366 posts)
11. Congratulations, Grand-Auntie!
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:39 AM
Jan 2016

Time for a better year--and this is a great start for you and your family.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
12. Congratulations!!! That IS a great way to start this new year ...
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:44 AM
Jan 2016

And, I am hoping that the rest of the year, just gets better and better, for your, yours and all of the DU family!

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
16. That is absolutely the very best way to start the new year.
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 09:55 AM
Jan 2016

I'm very happy for you, Grand-Auntie. Lila means joy that will just keep coming.

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
20. well, I can wish you no better New Year's gift, Siwsan!
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 10:36 AM
Jan 2016

and Lila is such a lovely name...I'm sure she is just as lovely as her name...

At the same time, I offer condolences for your losses...there are those years where you think the losses will never stop...

congrats to you and your family on the wonderful new addition!

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
24. What a miracle!
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 11:50 AM
Jan 2016

A new girl is added to the family! And on New Year's Day, no less. I'm sure your sister, mother, and aunt are beaming on you all from somewhere out there in the universe .

Being a grand aunt is wonderful! I have four grandnieces, and the pleasures of seeing each one of them, so different and unique, grow and learn are phenomenal. It's the only good reason I know for the existence of Facebook and digital video and Skype! Getting to see them in person every once in a while (one of mine is far away in another country) is even more of a pleasure.

Enjoy this bright new start to a new and more hopeful year.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
25. Congratulations, Siwsan!
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 02:51 PM
Jan 2016

We were blessed with a new grandchild in 2015, too. They bring us so much joy.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
28. I wish I could say in words how I feel for your loss. It happened to me too. But this is new life
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 04:01 PM
Jan 2016

and you are the path to the memories of everyone that baby would have loved themselves had they lived. Live long and prosper. I am happy as hell for you.

pnwmom

(108,950 posts)
32. My great-aunts were exactly like beloved grandmothers to me. I'm so glad
Sat Jan 2, 2016, 07:34 PM
Jan 2016

you and Lila will have this experience to share.

Congrats, Grand-Auntie!

(P.S. Grand-aunt is a traditional synonym for Great-aunt. But it will be uniquely special in your case.)

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