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Kennah

(14,256 posts)
Thu Jan 21, 2016, 12:13 AM Jan 2016

Thrills from an autistic

Wife and I have 3 kids: 6 year old boy, 10 year old girl, 14 year old boy. Both boys are autistic.

Oldest is uber-smart. His challenges are organization and socialization. Whatever he ends up doing, he'll find a niche where his weirdness is appreciated and do very well.

Youngest worries me. More stereotypical autistic. Sweet and loving, but communication is very challenging. Just in the past couple of months, I was thrilled that he was pooping in the toilet, on his own, and without any prompting. Now I almost take it for granted that he's doing it.

Last week, when I picked him up from school, he said, "Hello friend Dad."

I WAS THRILLED!

It's from a line in the movie "Home" where Oh says, "Hello friend Kyle."

Normally, he just repeats things he hears. Lines from movies, songs, sometimes even from the books I read to him. Sometimes there is even some context to what he says.

This was very different. He understood the phrase enough to be able to use it appropriately in the situation, and correctly substitute Dad for Kyle.

It made my day, and I'm still thinking about it with a smile days later.

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Thrills from an autistic (Original Post) Kennah Jan 2016 OP
That's wonderful to hear, Kennah, elleng Jan 2016 #1
Makes me smile, too, Kennah. WillowTree Jan 2016 #2
I read a book called "Son Rise" about an autistic kid AnotherDreamWeaver Jan 2016 #3
he's in there lost in the noise but he hears you. I remember reading roguevalley Jan 2016 #4
That's just awesome! ebayfool Jan 2016 #5
So happy for you and your family Kennah. lovemydog Jan 2016 #6

WillowTree

(5,325 posts)
2. Makes me smile, too, Kennah.
Thu Jan 21, 2016, 12:43 AM
Jan 2016

We have a little boy on the spectrum in our family, too, and I know that those "little" triumphs are gigantic! I'm so happy for you.

AnotherDreamWeaver

(2,850 posts)
3. I read a book called "Son Rise" about an autistic kid
Thu Jan 21, 2016, 01:31 AM
Jan 2016

Don't recall the fathers name, but you may find it interesting. He would come home from work and show his son a cookie, then put it out of sight. The day he put it under a newspaper and his son got up to get the cookie was a big day for him.

Best wishes to your family.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
4. he's in there lost in the noise but he hears you. I remember reading
Thu Jan 21, 2016, 02:42 AM
Jan 2016

about older autistic kids who 'came back' from it and all of them said keep talking and looking for them. They hear you and they are swimming your way. Sounds like a breakthrough. I am so happy for you and your family.

ebayfool

(3,411 posts)
5. That's just awesome!
Thu Jan 21, 2016, 03:00 AM
Jan 2016

We've been there with my 7 yr old autistic grandson, and I remember well the thrill of those milestones! When the echolalia gives way to real communication, small bits at first, it is ... just amazing!

I just read your post to his mama and it made her happy.

Know there are others paddling the same river that are smiling and cheering for you and your boy right now!

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