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Wife and I have 3 kids: 6 year old boy, 10 year old girl, 14 year old boy. Both boys are autistic.
Oldest is uber-smart. His challenges are organization and socialization. Whatever he ends up doing, he'll find a niche where his weirdness is appreciated and do very well.
Youngest worries me. More stereotypical autistic. Sweet and loving, but communication is very challenging. Just in the past couple of months, I was thrilled that he was pooping in the toilet, on his own, and without any prompting. Now I almost take it for granted that he's doing it.
Last week, when I picked him up from school, he said, "Hello friend Dad."
I WAS THRILLED!
It's from a line in the movie "Home" where Oh says, "Hello friend Kyle."
Normally, he just repeats things he hears. Lines from movies, songs, sometimes even from the books I read to him. Sometimes there is even some context to what he says.
This was very different. He understood the phrase enough to be able to use it appropriately in the situation, and correctly substitute Dad for Kyle.
It made my day, and I'm still thinking about it with a smile days later.
elleng
(130,865 posts)and will think about it and smile many times in the future!
WillowTree
(5,325 posts)We have a little boy on the spectrum in our family, too, and I know that those "little" triumphs are gigantic! I'm so happy for you.
AnotherDreamWeaver
(2,850 posts)Don't recall the fathers name, but you may find it interesting. He would come home from work and show his son a cookie, then put it out of sight. The day he put it under a newspaper and his son got up to get the cookie was a big day for him.
Best wishes to your family.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)about older autistic kids who 'came back' from it and all of them said keep talking and looking for them. They hear you and they are swimming your way. Sounds like a breakthrough. I am so happy for you and your family.
ebayfool
(3,411 posts)We've been there with my 7 yr old autistic grandson, and I remember well the thrill of those milestones! When the echolalia gives way to real communication, small bits at first, it is ... just amazing!
I just read your post to his mama and it made her happy.
Know there are others paddling the same river that are smiling and cheering for you and your boy right now!
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I know you treasure those wonderful moments.