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yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:08 AM Oct 2016

Are we going to lose the ability to use the word "grope" in polite conversation?

I hate when perfectly useful words acquire a nasty meaning and can no longer be appropriately used without some sophomoric idiot smirking.

Case in point: A "pussy" used to be a perfectly appropriate word for a kitty.

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yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
2. Not a lot but it does sometimes. "Groping in the dark" for example.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:14 AM
Oct 2016

I am quite serious about this. It is a pet peeve of mine when perfectly good words acquire such nasty meanings they can no longer be used.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
6. I was groping in the dark Saturday night
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:23 AM
Oct 2016

The power went out and I didn't remember where any of my flashlights were. So I was wandering all over the house, groping in the dark, trying to find a light.

Of course, the "iffy" part was that I had just gotten out of the shower and was wandering around completely nude.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
12. At least the power stayed on until I finished my shower!
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:51 AM
Oct 2016

Nothing worse than losing power in the middle and not having enough water pressure left to rinse the soap off - that has happened before. Being on my own well can have it's disadvantages.

Hugin

(33,120 posts)
9. I am groping for an answer to your question.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:36 AM
Oct 2016

At least it's still in the spell check.

It'll probably be consigned to that vast dustbin of disused vocabulary. Along with "uvula".

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
13. Can you not manage to say "pussy cat?" Really?
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 11:56 AM
Oct 2016

That word should have been eliminated long ago, as it is not a recent acknowledgment of just how demeaning to women its use is.

And, I am a bit confused as to the context of using "grope" in daily conversation and thus why this is such a loss...

Agnosticsherbet

(11,619 posts)
14. I am groping on the dark for an answer.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:27 PM
Oct 2016

My best guess, is that any one with a pussy cat or a pussy willow will jump as if goosed when grope is spoken aloud.

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