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Tommy_Carcetti

(43,157 posts)
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 10:40 AM Oct 2016

My 3-second interaction with Hillary Clinton, and why I said everything that I needed to say to her.

If you only had literally a couple of seconds to speak with someone important who you've long respected, what would you say?

I had to think about that question a few weeks ago when I watched Hillary Clinton meticulously work the line at a rally where I attended.

It's not the first time I've asked myself that question. It's not even the first time I asked myself that question about someone with the last name of Clinton.

A few months ago, I met former President Bill Clinton at a rally for Hillary. Well, technically I shook his hand, but that constitutes a meeting in my book. The still frame screen capture of our handshake from the news footage confirms this. President Clinton was the president in my formative years, and I've long been fascinated by his life story, so needless to say, it was a huge thrill to shake his hand. I believe I said something to the effect of, "Thank you for being my president," but honestly, I can't say for sure. The adrenaline rush I got from the encounter sort of clouded my memory.

I had a little bit more time to plan things out with Hillary. Unlike with Bill--where I had arrived long before the doors opened to guarantee I'd have a front and center spot for his speech--I was way back in the line to get into the Hillary rally. When I finally entered the venue, it was packed 3,000 strong, with more in an overflow venue. I was about 20 feet behind the stage and figured I wouldn't be shaking anyone's hand this time. Which was fine--I honestly just wanted to see her speak.

But as more people came in, the closer and closer I was pushed towards the stage. And by the time Hillary was done with her speech (which was great, by the way), I was only about 5 feet from the rope line between the crowd and the stage.

As I waited patiently to see whether Hillary would make her way to my side, it gave me some time to think about what I could possible say to her with full knowledge that dozens of other people were waiting for that same interaction.

And at some point, it dawned on me--I thought of my two elementary school aged daughters. They're too young to understand the intricacies of partisan politics, but when they heard that there could be a "girl president", they couldn't help contain their excitement. They knew that there had never been a female president before, but that there could be one in the near future. So their preference this election was unanimous, needless to say.

So as her detail finally moved in front of me and I saw her face to face, I reached out my hand and told her, "Hillary, my daughters are so excited about you!"

And she smiled her huge Hillary smile as she shook my hand and said, "Oh that's great!"

And that was it. She moved onto the next person in the throng, and I retreated from the line with glee. I don't think there was anything else I could have said or done that would have made the moment any better.

While meeting someone who will likely be our next president is undeniably a thrill, that's only part of it. I met someone who will be remembered forever in the history books as our first woman president. And that's a huge and momentous occasion. And for my little three-second interaction where I let this historical figure know the importance of what she's doing for my own girls....there's no other way I would have wanted to plan it.

And yes, my girls were super-excited when I told them I talked about them to the next "girl president", and that she knows who they are.

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My 3-second interaction with Hillary Clinton, and why I said everything that I needed to say to her. (Original Post) Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2016 OP
Her election will be a huge step forward for this country. CurtEastPoint Oct 2016 #1
Back in 1995 jehop61 Oct 2016 #2
She's been in the public eye for so long and especially this past year.... Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2016 #3
I have met her three times. boston bean Oct 2016 #4
I think you chose the perfect thing to say to her. JNelson6563 Oct 2016 #5
+100 ailsagirl Oct 2016 #14
"excited about out"? What does that mean? Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2016 #6
Typo. Fixed. nt Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2016 #8
I met her in early 1992. TygrBright Oct 2016 #7
If she's involved with something or someone, she'll set her calendar back DFW Oct 2016 #11
Good point. Bill can work a hall. Hillary can work a room. n/t TygrBright Oct 2016 #12
Including the Senate floor DFW Oct 2016 #13
Thank you! Patiod Oct 2016 #17
Bravo, lark Oct 2016 #9
Early voting started here in Texas at 7am today. christx30 Oct 2016 #10
That's FANTASTIC, Tommy! calimary Oct 2016 #15
Very cool and perceptive! nt Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2016 #16

jehop61

(1,735 posts)
2. Back in 1995
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 11:00 AM
Oct 2016

I attended a dinner where she was guest speaker. After the event she stood and people were expected to come up and shake hands. I looked and saw no one walked up to her so I decided to approach her. I apologized to her for all the nasty things the press and republicans were saying about her and assured her all Americans were not like that. I also Thanked her for coming to our event. So proud I actually talked one one to the next President! She was charming and surprisingly shorter than I expected. A nice person.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,157 posts)
3. She's been in the public eye for so long and especially this past year....
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 11:20 AM
Oct 2016

....that at the moment it didn't even seem to phase me when she was right in front of me.

Only afterwards does it really begin to sink in, and it's a really cool feeling.

I don't mean to play the zero-sum game (ie: us good, them bad), but it really is different than what you see here:

boston bean

(36,220 posts)
4. I have met her three times.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 11:35 AM
Oct 2016

First time in 2008 we actually had a conversation for about 2 mins.

I met her at her book signing where I introduced my mother to her. And she said it always made her so happy to see mother and daughters at her events. I told her to run and pointed at her and she smiled wide and said ok!! Felt like i knew for sure she was really running a year before anyone else.

Met her last September in New Hampshire at the kick off for women for hillary. I shook her hand and told her thank you for doing this for us.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
5. I think you chose the perfect thing to say to her.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 12:01 PM
Oct 2016

Spot on, well done and congratulations for getting to meet our soon-to-be Madam President!

Julie

TygrBright

(20,755 posts)
7. I met her in early 1992.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 12:20 PM
Oct 2016

Before Bill was even the nominee. And I was a fervent Tom Harkin supporter, with NO time for the DLC.

She and Ira Magaziner made a "policy tour," swinging through the Midwest and meeting with both Party and non-Party affiliated advocacy groups working on the specific issues of un/employment, welfare reform policy, and health care reform.

I attended one of the non-Party meetings as representative of Jobs Now Coalition. There were 3-4 of us from the Coalition board, and (IIRC) about 30-50 other advocacy/activist group representatives. It was a very mixed audience in terms of receptivity- the welfare rights people were seriously looking to ambush the whole DLC platform, for one thing. But I sat next to the state director for the Children's Defense Fund, whom I knew pretty well at the time, and I was surprised at how excited and receptive she was- she told me "Just listen. Bill may be in the DLC pocket, but Hillary is her own woman. You might be surprised."

I wasn't terribly surprised with the presentation- it was mostly Magaziner, and you could see that although it wasn't a one-to-one correspondence with the DLC playbook, it was definitely positioned to bridge between that and an actual progressive agenda. Hillary spoke specifically to the health care reform portion, and the child poverty portion.

When the presentation was done, though, there was a "moderated discussion," where attendees were allowed to ask specific questions, and here's what DID surprise me:

The discussion very quickly morphed from attendees asking questions of Magaziner and Clinton, to Clinton in particular asking LOTS of follow-up questions of the attendees, and listening and taking notes on the answers. And asking for clarification. And asking her aide to note particular resources, and peoples' names and contact information, to provide more information, either from her (in response to questions she admitted she couldn't respond in much detail to in that setting), or from them, FOR her.

Minnesota, at the time, had a lot of State-based pilot programs for children's health via Medicaid supplemental assistance, and a lot of HMO and PPO models that were fairly new at the time. She had chapter and verse on several of those programs and wanted a lot of information on how they were working for the people whose representatives were attending that meeting- the welfare rights people and healthcare reform folks in particular.

The meeting ran over time, of course.

And when one of my fellow Board members from the Jobs Now Coalition described the pilot wage-subsidy program we'd gotten funded through the state to transition laid-off and unemployed workers back into various small-employer newly-created jobs, she and Magaziner both asked for more information on that. So we stayed after the meeting, and I had a chance to shake her hand.

She thanked US for the work we were doing for unemployed people in Minnesota.

I didn't hear a single campaign pitch for Bill- and I was expecting to. But... nada. They said it was a policy tour, not a campaign stop, and that's how they ran it.

I was impressed as hell with her.

So, I'm not surprised by this campaign. Not a bit.

I'm THRILLED she's going to be my President.

appreciatively,
Bright

DFW

(54,325 posts)
11. If she's involved with something or someone, she'll set her calendar back
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 01:17 PM
Oct 2016

When my dad was president of the Gridiron Club, and she was in Pakistan at the time, she made up for not being there by inviting my parents over to the White House (my dad's office was a five minute walk away) to have a 5 minute chat with them. They hit is off famously, and when her aide reminded her that the 5 minutes were up, she said she was having a great time with these people (i.e. my parents), and that she was taking more time with them. The five minutes stretched to half an hour.

I had no such luck the couple of times I have chatted with her, but Jim Hamilton, the Watergate lawyer who she tapped to vet her VP list of possibles, told me to contact a certain person on her transition team as I would be under serious consideration as potential ambassador to Germany, the Netherlands, Switzerland or Sweden (I speak all languages of those countries except Rhäto-Romansch), and, except for Germany, we seldom send an ambassador who speaks the language well. I was flattered, but there are two major drawbacks: 1.) I'd have to quit my day job and take a big cut in pay, and 2.) My wife would cut off my arms, legs, and probably a few other essentials, if I told her we would have to move to Berlin, Stockholm, Den Haag or Bern.

One thing for which she seldom gets credit is the fact that she is GREAT in small settings. She does not spellbind a crowd like Bill does, and probably never will. But one on one? Warm, smart, funny, aware, and a very quick wit. Not only that, but she likes getting her picture taken with my daughters!


DFW

(54,325 posts)
13. Including the Senate floor
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 01:26 PM
Oct 2016

She was expert at crossing the aisle when she was in the Senate and keeping the lines of communication open. One Republican Senator was quoted on the record as saying how much flak he was getting about this when he visited his home state. Everybody was waiting to hear about how much he hated Hillary, and he had to admit to them that she was a great person, and easier to work with than many of the other "libbruls (in English, that's "Democrats&quot in the Senate.

Patiod

(11,816 posts)
17. Thank you!
Tue Oct 25, 2016, 11:29 AM
Oct 2016

I suspect there are still those here who have trouble seeing beyond the Hillary Clinton that the Right Wing has constructed, and any peek we can get into the "real" Hillary is of great help.

All the people I know from my local party who have met her have said the same thing you did - that she's a very real person and actually cares.

In a way, I think her lack of "cool" or charm has hurt her, but it's probably one of her better qualities. (Not everyone can be Barack - both cool/charming AND caring/thoughtful).

christx30

(6,241 posts)
10. Early voting started here in Texas at 7am today.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 12:55 PM
Oct 2016

I cast my vote for Hillary Clinton at 7:45am.
The only thing I regret is that I couldn't have taken my daughter with me to the polling place (she was in school) to watch. She loves Hillary. Goes on and on (thanks to my mom) how Trump doesn't like women and doesn't think they're good enough.
I'll be biting my nails for the next 14 days.

calimary

(81,179 posts)
15. That's FANTASTIC, Tommy!
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 02:03 PM
Oct 2016

For both you AND your girls!

I wish I'd made a note of the male politician who was on one of the MSNBC morning shows awhile back, who was talking about his little girl. They were at the breakfast table one morning, and she had one of those plastic kiddie placemats - like the ones that have the map of the US, the map of the world, various dinosaurs, birds, boats and cars, all that stuff. My kids had those. There's also one of the Presidents. My kids had that one, too!

But this fellow on the panel was talking about his daughter, and how she had that "Meet the Presidents" placemat. And he recounted how she looked up at him that morning and asked - "Daddy, why aren't there any girls on there?" And he said that REALLY hit him, hard, and made him think. And he confessed to a whole new appreciation of the importance of THIS election, with THIS candidate, and what THIS candidate MEANS to ALL of America, including a whole new horizon opening up for his daughter - and all our daughters (and sons - my husband always reminds me not to leave our sons out, because this new era of female leadership WILL help them, too)!

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