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Danmel

(4,907 posts)
Tue Dec 27, 2016, 10:40 PM Dec 2016

We lost a dear family friend today

This horrible year will not give it up. I just found out that our dear family friend died today. She was my mother's roommate at Brooklyn Jewish Hospital in 1956 when she gave birth to her daughter and my mom had my brother. No one wanted to room with her because she was African American. My mom thought that was ridiculous and offensive and roomed with her. They remained friends. For the last 60 years she remembered every birthday, every Anniversary, every holiday with a card to my parents, brother and me. She found Purim cards!! When my mom passed away in 1999, she came to her funeral and continued to send cards to my dad and to us. She was a kind, thoughtful and strong woman and I am heartbroken to learn of her passing.

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We lost a dear family friend today (Original Post) Danmel Dec 2016 OP
My condolances, Danmel. Lars39 Dec 2016 #1
my deepest sympathies, danmel. what a blessing and treasure she was. niyad Dec 2016 #2
So sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Dec 2016 #3
K&R! Omaha Steve Dec 2016 #4
I'm so sorry Danmel. montana_hazeleyes Dec 2016 #5
I am so sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester Dec 2016 #6
I'm so sorry. BigDemVoter Dec 2016 #7
Between your mom and your friend KT2000 Dec 2016 #8
As a Mexican, who's lives are inexorably tied to the dead Xipe Totec Dec 2016 #9
I'm sorry for your loss mountain grammy Dec 2016 #10
8( spanone Dec 2016 #11
Very sad. I think you could rightly say you lost a family member. fleabiscuit Dec 2016 #12
That beautiful friendship lives on through your telling and remembrance Maru Kitteh Dec 2016 #13
So sorry. Duppers Dec 2016 #14
So sorry to hear of your loss. smirkymonkey Dec 2016 #15

niyad

(113,066 posts)
2. my deepest sympathies, danmel. what a blessing and treasure she was.
Tue Dec 27, 2016, 10:49 PM
Dec 2016

may she be at peace, and may her loved ones be comforted,

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
8. Between your mom and your friend
Tue Dec 27, 2016, 11:30 PM
Dec 2016

they created something precious for all to see. Sorry for your loss.

Xipe Totec

(43,888 posts)
9. As a Mexican, who's lives are inexorably tied to the dead
Tue Dec 27, 2016, 11:34 PM
Dec 2016

And as a Mason, who reckons death as an inevitable part of life,

I grieve for your loss but celebrate the inevitable passage of your friend.

Where she has gone, we must all inevitably follow.

In the immortal words of Shakespeare, to

"death, the undiscovered country from which no traveler returns"

fleabiscuit

(4,542 posts)
12. Very sad. I think you could rightly say you lost a family member.
Wed Dec 28, 2016, 12:25 AM
Dec 2016

Sending comforting thoughts in your direction.

Maru Kitteh

(28,314 posts)
13. That beautiful friendship lives on through your telling and remembrance
Wed Dec 28, 2016, 12:29 AM
Dec 2016

Thank you for sharing it with us.




This year is a complete ass.




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